What should a wife do if her husbands womanises and spends his little salary on girls outside only to live on the woman's salary? Divorce? Separation or Have a boyfriend?

In the first place, why should you continue to leave with some body who have no love for you?. if he love you he will not go after other ladies, he will not spend all his money outside only to come and depend on your salary. Divource is the option.

why the woman sef marry yeye man? na yeye woman dey meet yeye man

if he cnt stop or help it


i suggst u leave

@ FREE
SHE CAN'T LEAVE HER HUSBAND LIKE THAT FOR ANOTHER WOMAN TO COME AND FILL IN, WORK IT OUT WITH HIM. COMMUNICATE. THAT WHAT MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT

well he needs 2 get his act togother or she cn leave


she shoud be da only woman he flirts with

She should stat flirting too , An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind

JosBoy4Lif:

She should stat flirting too , An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind

2 wrongs does NOT make it right, so is that how you handle your relationship NA WA

No, that is just the bad advice that im dolling out

ok o if u say so

i have a friend whose husband is a known flirt to her and to both families (husband's and wife's). The wife has tried all she could to talk it out with the man and things are not working. not too long ago my friend found a guy she likes and someone who cares about her love life, in short they fell in love and have been seeing each other secretly. according to my friend, they kiss and romance but have not done the main thing and this seems to give my friend happiness cos now she bothers not whether her husband goes to girls and comes. The problem now is that the man's tradition forbids it and my friend is worried what will happen next and the husband is unrepentant, so what should she do?

@ Topic, u know ur hubby more any1 here, ther should be a way out as in just try 2 work it out some how(pray, discuss, wake him up in d middle of d nite wt ur cry letting him know how he hurt u) do everytin it takes 2 keep ur home bt dnt divorce cos its nt d solution.

always pray 4 him n dnt spend ur salary on him again, its suppose 2 be d other way round. of course u dnt do dat like u re trying 2 punish him (NO) just do dat with style wt time he would get d gist n start dropin money @ home.

n pls dnt have a boyfriend o, stay n pray 4 ur marriage 2 work & it would.

There are lots of reasons why men cheat on their wives though am not in support of it. Maybe the lady has changed in shape nd size and the husband does not like it or her attitude towards him has changed( maybe in terms of sexuality). Meanwhile, some men are born flirts though every man has a tendency to flirt. how u handle them goes a long way in curbing it. the best thing the woman can do is to first check her self both physically and in terms of behaviour. most importantly, PRAY FOR HIM cos a cheating partner is as bad as a hired assasine. Good luck.

It upsets me to hear stuff like maybe the woman has changed in size, who caused it? Sex and pregnancy does make some people add weight but the couple can work at checking this at the very early stage. Never forget that your woman can become better than that woman you admire with more benefit to you.

If he flirts, join him (or pretend to) if you can, men don't want their wives with someone else so let him know that what is good for the geese is good for the gander! If you can't, leave him. Don't remain under his roof while he brings in his adulterous scents and ask you to join the party as he orders you into bed. While you are away; if you love his soul, pray for him 'cause at the very end they'll kill him, ruin him or mar him with their deposit both physical and spiritual.

Love in marriage should be reciprocal, there's no use if you're simply tolerated in return.

GO A WATCH THAT NIGERIAN FILRM CALLED :WOMEN OF FAITH 1/2

don't wanna think bout it but i don't think i can handle it if ma man messes around.

will leave himand then, he can have as much fun as he wants.
not just cos of the shame or emotions involved but also, cos of u neva know with the all the kinds of diseases flying around these days.

talk to him, if he doesn't stop & u cn't cope live him alone

i just know dat some men are so smart that they can easily deny having anything to do with it i browsed through my husbands phone once nad some messages he sent through phone chatting, i did not even bother to ask him i dont know if what i did is right though he was asking the girl for her address and giving her his own . what do you think about that housemates

aisha, why would a man be asking for a womans address comon for heavens sake. just pray and go to bed and all will sort itself out. prayer wont sort these men out.

anytime a man is doing such a thing that is not morally accepted or against the vowed marriage system,i belive it is not ordary makings,some distracting spirit must be responsible,i will advice the victim to call his husband back,sit him down and try to discuss with,may if he is the changing type he will reason with you.but if he do not accpted your make up,i believ you call it a quit.

padlock his dick every morning with agadadogo before heading to work.

The woman should get a brain. That's what she needs to do. So he spends all his money and then she lets him spend her's. How stupid. She has already set the pace for the relationship.

Hmmm

pray to God because there is nothing God cannot do

skyone:

padlock his privates every morning with agadadogo before heading to work.

I can't laugh jare.

Dont give urself headache over any man ,they r simply not worth it.
Keep taking care of him and look for other ways to make urself happy (even if it means cheating).
But dont get caught sha.
And pls start saving for the future that is if u've not started already.
Cos anything can happen

easy dear,
flush his car key(s), ATM card(s), wrist watch,chain,glasses(if he wears one) and everything flushable down the toilet.
give him a strong bonning look after that and tell him his balls are next.
trust me he's gonna stop

my dear

There is nothing on earth you can do to a cheating husband except pray for him. Im talking from experience. The best you can do for him is to totally ignore him and be praying that he doesnt bring hiv home for you. You must be praying for yourself too becos you dont know the kind of women he goes out there to meet so that they dont start hoping you will die so that they can enter. If you dont ignore him you will end up having hypertention and if you develop health challenge the man wont be there to take care of you so you must be strong for yourself and children. A man that sleeps around is nothing but a killer so dont allow him to kill you be prayerful and always tell God that he should allow what will make him to sit up happen to him until then no amount of talks, tears and quarrel will change him, ta ja ba fori komi a mo ona ile olowo e. Lastly, do everything and i said everything that will make you happy even if it means having a male friend but dont commit adultery! Did i hear you say he leaves on you? baby gilr how can you be so gualble? Dont you know that such men are not to be trusted and rely on? They are simply igi da eye fo. You'd better start saving all you can for the raining season for the sake of your children if you have any yet. Take care of yourself and kids they are your reward. Dont divorce him becos he can still change but you must be firm. A word is sufficent for the wise

A husband that flirts around? I wont say much just leave him to God to deal with infact by the time God is through with his life you will be sorry for him. There is nothing you can do that will change him just divert the love you have for him elsewhere.

I'm a married man too, experiencing same thing. Maybe u buzz me on my yahoo adelanapaul147@yahoo.com

@ Poster

She should keep on praying and working on her marriage. Divorce shouldnt be an option because there is no guarranty that her new
partner/husband wont also be a flirt like the divorced one.

You must have seen the trait in him before marriage, you probably thought he will change. Too bad he didn't