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Dem no wn make Dilector lawyers see am oo..
This ejiofor is an attention seeking clown..

FutureIsFemale
Your attention is needed..

The loss against US was a close one..
Let them use the experience they garnered against the world number 1 team to overcome the French ladies...
All the best to D'Tigress

Not impressed..
This is too meagre..

RightToReject:
I wager you were one of the wannabe kind and wannabe libertarian people who, prior to now, do see any man, and vice versa, who abhors nonsense and does not pander to the whims and caprices of small-minded women as a violent/angry man - of course, I don't hold brief for hypocritically crass and opportunistic men. Servility is as bad as cruelty, say no to both of them.

The condoning of nonsense under any guise doesn't make one mature and isn't a sign of emotional intelligence. The bigger amount of nonsense one condones, the shorter their lifespan. Always come into equity with clean hands and expect and accept nothing less ethically.

Love wasn't one of the causes of your problem; instead, your erroneous understanding of it and application of it was the problem. So also her background as a product of single parentage wasn't automatically the cause of her flaws as you alleged, but her poor ethical leanings which she's the sole architect of, was, and probably made worse through your indulgence at the inception of your relationship with her.

I salute you articulate Grammarian..
Apt and concise ..

Belafonte:
If not that I'm trying to avoid a ban I would said you're an imbecïle.

If he was cheating why didn't she leave? Why become a monster in another man's house?

Now that she's acting like a loon, the man has decided he will have none of it instead of becoming a monster. That's what people with functional brains do, not coming on NL to disgrace their lineage with watery hypotheticals

Now this is Fatality...

AutoChick4U:
Its simply a reality that cannot change. Many will get it right while many wont

I salute your sincererity ma'am..

Frenzy01:
Why does everybody keep advising single men to avoid ladies raised by single mothers



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Pls don't mind them pls don't avoid single mums.. marry one of them and thank us later in this platform...

elay44:
Bro I only read stuff as a guest. this your post made me register on nairaland. I am in this same boat the, threats, jealousy, anger, no support financially,( I earn very well to take care of the family but it can be exhausting sometimes) etc. but we have Kids . I salute your courage bro. you need to be in this shoes to understand what this bro went through. you can comment and call names but you just can't understand. I feel you and I am very happy for you. thanks for speaking up and being an encouragement. a lot of men are going through shit all in the name of love. forget redplliers. we are not built to be violent, we geniuely care for people, that just how we are wired. but we are taken for granted and our nature taken for weakness.

I would never be in your shoes...
You are a Weakling and deserves all the illtreatments you are getting from your wife for being Weak.. don't do the needful.. just continue the marital Suffering.. after all you are a REAL man..

Tonnyray:
What would you do if she got pregnant?

I didn't relay a story about me...
Stick to the topic Kid..

MJBOLT:

this one na pure FMT she sef go do am if e happen,she no want make you see am as evil woman.

No mind the clown..
Em think say I be ADAMU

Pecoleee345:
So over last weekend....I called family meeting my mum,elder brother and I went to my wife parents house...her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.
I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eye straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My device to young men.
1.make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....there way of life etc
The mistake I made wasn't evaluating her background......we from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parent house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2.See forget love and looks......Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.
I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life....She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3.For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by there mother.
They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what there mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

I commend your boldness to leave...
Girls raised by Single mums should be added as a natural disaster and an epidemic that should be avoided..

Lol.. Mehnn SIMPs dey suffer Sha..
I dey the other day with one of my FWB dey knack for my Crib..
We just finish a round and was trying to catch our breathe.. na em one message enter for her WhatsApp na em she said aloud that she won't reply the message.. I asked her why?? You know say women like To gist especially when the sex is good..

Na em she begin dey yarn me Tori.. say d girl na her friend before she relocate.. say the girl get a finacee and also some side guys wey dey knack her, the fiancee is based in Abuja, unfortunately for the girl, one of the side guys got her pregnant and same month that she got pregnant for the side guy was when the fiancee wan come pay for her brideprice ..
Naso d babe come confuse oo.. cos she no know how to handle the issue and she don't even have money for abortion and guess what, the side guy no even get money to give her for the abortion and don't even care. So the babe now have to manufacture a lie to tell the fiancee, that she contacted a bad toilet infection after using a public restroom of late and she isn't feeling too ok, that she needs money for test, treatment etc..
Naso the Fiancee Send 20k .. naso she use the main guy money go remove Belle wey side guy give am.. (To everyone reading this, if your babe dn ever collect money to treat a so called infection, there is a high possibility that she collected money to an abortion for a foetus that she had for another dude.. )

I just laugh.. I remember TRP tenets and shake my head..
I pity any dude that is still ignorant of this female folks..
So back to the issue.. she said she now resents her friend for doing ABORTION.. that she would never do such, she rather have the baby.. bla bla bla.. (that one na lie.. who go born Pikin for man wey no gree commit or provide... ?? ) I said Hmmmmm.. for my mind I was .. (You sef go do the same thing) ..
She tried discouraging her friend from aborting it and stuff... But the friend insisted that it is the best option and from the things she said about the friend, what stopped her from pinning the pregnancy on the fiancee is cos the dude is not residing in same city with her and hasn't visited for over a month, so he cannot courier pregnancy to her nah.. lol..

Kai.. if to say Dem dey d same city.. she for me tell em fiancee say she dn take in for am.. naso d mugu go dey shine teeth, come dey arrange go buy baby things...
Lol.. men dn suffer Sha.
Truly many first borns doesn't belong to their fathers biologically..
Gents. Take The Redpill..

Bedtec:
And you're interfering with family matter so bury kids yourself no one will interfere

Children of hate and perdiction..
Have you walked your father with a Shaolin kick today??

Bedtec:
Start the burial with your kids

You are the one hating on your fathers..
So start with your father.. very simple

Parashooter:
Fools such as her can't be my ex..

https://www.nairaland.com/6304524/copulating-catholic-priest-johnpaul-chukwuma

Wow wow wow ..
Allahu Akbar..

Belafonte:
Look at this teenager. . Don't mistake emotion with passion.

You know absolutely nothing about life. Your words have exposed your ignorance

Honourable it is ok..
Off your Mic pls..

Bedtec:
Mechie onu ure gi.... Elders weh no get say no be to kick them away ?

Kid... Start the kicking from your father..

ThuGGeR147:
If you loose guard, you jam am & when you jam am, you carry am.... No price, No Pay.... Smh

Who is this clown??
Will you shut up..

Dem dn start this useless show to keep the stupid youths docile again for months while the country continue to be in ruins..
Oponu Dem..
Smh..

Bedtec:
Foolish ohanaeze ndi ara make thunder fire them

See as dis one dey abuse em elders.. smh

Igbo youths. Mannerless folks..
Ndi Nzuzu

Parashooter:
These guys that indulge in sex/sexual activities while claiming they have a calling does so with clear intents...

Oga OP,go & marry that girl because she is a trap you jumped to by yourself for yourself,no long story.

Check the pictures below & quote me if you want more evidences

My own na more gist I want, in respect to that screenshots.. guy gist me abeeg.. the babe na your Ex ??

You are a Fool..
When you goofed was when you used your own mouth to report your own excapades to your institution authorities..
Just like a Uni student that did malpractice and wasn't caught but reported himself to the Dean of Academics all in the name of feeling guilty and remorse.. because of your leaky mouth, she was expelled and you want to succeed, never..
Something you would have confessed one on one only to God and moved on..
You think say most of your popular pastors no get skeletons for their cuboard ??
Nothing beats Street OT..
Op you are daft, No pity for you...

ChiefSosa:
#38,000 in a month! Yet, they'll still pay tithes, offerings, etc How much money will then be left for them to take care of themselves and families? I never knew pastors were meant to collect salaries, I thought they were doing the Lord's work? Will Oyedepo be happy or quiet if he was getting #38K per month??
Or is Oyedepo a_PIMP?

Na religious love-vendor..
PastorPreneur..

Sergioaguero:
Groom disgraced bride and his best man for sleeping with his fianceé. He didn't expose them earlier on, but decided to disgrace them on the wedding day.

He eventually calld off the wedding with people begging him and fianceé crying and rolling on the floor.

Did the groom do the right thing?
On my opinion he should have forgiven her as no one is perfect.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQmRHqDH1pw

Forgive what
Ode..
Phool...
When you catch your wife when she is pinned down and been giving from the back, you can forgive her... Don't preach forgiveness for others here...
May UGM & Bandits plus Boko boys visit you for this warped thoughts..

Abba Kyari my fellow Alumni...
I trust him to arrest even Cubana in future if he indicted for any crime..
An astute officer..

aquasapphire:
Calm down what's her name? You stated her division already, some of this women needs some little discipline.just her name is okay i don't need her force number,let her also go to force headquarters in Abuja and answer i hate intimidation.give her name like joke you see what happens next

Gee, if you can help the OP it would be nice...
If it was an issue involving the Army, I would have told him to send me a PM..
This idiotic women that likes to abuse the little power they have needs to be taught a lesson..
I won't be surprised if the police women is an NCO.. A commissioned and pipped Officer won't be this Razz and Crass in her conduct..

Tmlivesport:
People here might not tell you the truth bro

Among all tenants why are you the one collecting the bills?


SOLUTION!!!
Go back and apologize to the woman, refund her money TO MAKE PEACE

I share same sentiment in the upper paragraph of your post not the lower one...

Personally, due to so many factors I can never be in his shoe bt the last thing I would ever do is to volunteer to do any task in any public or private space.. this is what you get...
Had it been the OP turned down the task of being the NEPA bill collector in his compound this issue won't arise.
It is either he is a busybody that likes such roles or he is a Weakling that can't say NO to such task, decline the appointment..
If he likes let him not Learn..

98% of women don't deserve power..
They should be subjugated and subdued by men, the society started going to the dogs immediately women started being part of the workforce...
A minor issue at the compound and this useless woman has started pulling strings for another to loose his job...
Dear men, marry women that you can RULE over not the one that controls you.. had it been that the stupid police woman's husband has the final day at home, when his fellow man complained to him on the issue with his wife, an order from him to the wife would stop her madness but No, he is a weak ass man..
A shame...
I stand with Buhari that Women belongs to the kitchen..

Lol....
Kei Wawa ne Wallahi...
Banza mutum...
Dan bakinci

siofra:
Number 25 looks like her legs go on forever.

That number 25 eeh....
Oh Fada Lawd....

Mosdii....
Pls come and do justice to this thread and to this gender always disgracing themselves and showing their OLOSHOism..