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dankorode:
oya continue the story, so wetin cause Abdul dead?

Thanks for making me laugh hard this night..
Seems you have stopped Wailing..
That's a good one Kid..

Where are the male and female gang if a man should not cheat...
Instead of this christian ODe Dem to cheat and get killed, why not ignore your YeYe religion and marry enough wives and enjoy different women..
Clowns..

emmaodet:
You are right bro, it all depends on what we want.
For me, i will rather channel that energy to something else.
I have banged some ladies to the extent their laps started shaking, some crying and saying gibberish, some crying and begging me never to leave them, some whispering and holding their head but after all that, what did i get back? some dumped my ass while others cheated.
Funny enough, one cheated with not just a good guy but a guy worse than me on bed. She told me he was a virgin and she was his first lay. The guy was so bad on bed he couldn't sustain 2 minutes and when i enquired more for the reason why she cheated? i was not there when she needed me most, the guy was the caring type and always there for her.
Can you imagine that bro, can you just imagine that? not even a guy better than me sexually for God sake.
Even if i was not there for her then as she wanted, was she there for me too? if am to be looking at what ladies will be doing for me and not what i will do, will i have a meaningful relationship? she wasn't perfect yet i endured her own why nt mine?
It is better a man goes into a relationship with a mindset of knowing he can lose his girl anytime, that way he will invest with caution and only do what he can afford to lose, hence no need for over banging or pressuring yourself to make her happy

You are spot on ..
Personally my Dick game is tight.. but I can never take any enhancement drugs or go an inch extra to satisfy a woman in bed..

Naija girls, if you like Bleep for 2 mins or duck for 2 hours.. she go still cheat...

See the news on FP of late, A market chairman in Delta State died on top his young lover, and it was stated that he took enhancement drugs sef.. d man wn satisfy em babe and ended up loosing his life.. funny enough, the girl go shaperly move on and bang other dicks as e dey hot..

Lostchild:
Last month I acknowledge the neglect of an elderly mama that got me so worried that I thought about sharing this my opinion on nairaland why women are so self-centered and some husband are even giving in to their wife selfishness. I say this because I have seen this selfish act repeat itself many times, again and again and I feel I compel to spit this out of my heavy heart toward this bad attitude of women.

1. During 2014/2015 I saw a business manager who's mother previously suffers health issues and the woman has to be in wheel chair suffering in pains. Her son who is a top manager had to take his suffering mother to live with him and his wife because the woman need help outside her self. The wife of this man told her husband that she cannot be in the same house with her mother inlaw. She told her husband that it is either the man get rid of his mother or she will leave the marriage. She gave the man an option, it is either the hubby choose between his mother or she, herself. This man became very confuse because he love his wife at the same times he dearly love his belove mother who was in a wheel chair suffering. This manager became frustrated and started seeking God intervention to save his mother and marriage

2. I know of a white man from California who lost his birth mother when he was a toddler. His barren pathernal aunty became the one that raised him to adult-hood and sent him to the university. This man did not know any other mother apart from his aunt who gave him life. At age 70 plus the woman began to suffers stroke and needed help from her son as she was not able to live alone because of her body paralises. The man took his mom to live with him and that was the beginings of his marital woes. The wife of this white man, said she cannot stand her mother inlaw to live with them. Things escalated to the point where they ended up in court and finally got divorced. The mother lived with her son for another four years before she passed away. According to the man, she call his ex wife "a devil" and was happy that he finally choose his lovely mother over his selfish ex wife.

3. I know of a woman who lost her sight (blindness) of which she cannot live without the help of her children. The problem is that all her children are married adult with their own family. The strangiest thing is that, this woman has sons but none of their wives is willing to make such sacrifice to help their mother inlaw. A blind woman without the help of her children, she will not survive. The good thing is that it was one of her son in law was the one that accept his mother inlaw to live with them. He embrace this woman like his own mother and cared for her like his own mother.

4. Due to health problems, my own mother lived with my sister and her husband but she cannot near the wives of my brother's. The husband of all my sisters, they embrace my mother like their own, they cared for her greatly but my own mother could not receive any sympathy from my sisters inlaw. There is more to my mother story, but I will just stop here.

From what my late mother experienced, I have taken a vow never to allow any of my brother's wife or any sister in laws into my circle.


THE MESSAGE

Imagine you as a husband, your wife will claim that she love you but yet she cannot extend little of that love to your family members

She cannot embrace your family because it is just about she and her own family. She will want you to embrace her own family and she will see yours as pain in her ass. She will feel threaten when her husband sent money or show love and care to his own family and not hers.

That which women claim they feel for their hubby is nothing but self

FINAL WORDS

This may be my last thread in bashing women as I just have to voice out and express my disdain over this evil character of women. I always see that women live for today and not for tommorow, they forget that they will grow old someday and need help in their old age.

REMEMBER: Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you

100% Facts...
A shame that it is what modern Feminist wannabes women are now..
Wahala for man wey em wife dey control.. cos he would live in misery and regrets..

Biglittlelois:
Op is 100% correct on the fact that Nigerian men destroyed the country and we are where we are today, but he is very wrong on passing the blame of whoring and prostitution to men, the ratio of decent ladies to indecent ones is 60:40, the reason why people think the indecent ones are everywhere is because they are loud and show off their glits and glamour with the help of social media, these sets of ladies were not forced, they chose the fastest way to make money, it is a choice, they refuse to toil with their hands and work smart, do you want to say we dont have women suffering or finding things hard for them yet refused to sell their body? They abound everywhere in our society, pls nobody should be blamed for a person or a gender's choice of living, after all, there are also male prostitutes who are discreet about their way of life cos of shame, they were not forced at gunpoint.

This is so unprecedented..
How can a lady on nairaland be so Sound intellectually, rational, objective, tactful, resourceful, commonsensical, logical, unbiased, articulated and concise to a point...
I am shocked and flabbergasted to see a sensible comment from a known female moniker not a fake one..
Much Respect and thumbs up from me..

truthsayer009:
Senior Advocate of Women's Rights of Nairaland (SAWRN)

Immediately i read the topic, something just told me you would be in the comments section and lo and behold, speak of the devil

Don't mind that demented fellow..
We made a woman HOR speaker .. Patricia Etteh and she paid us back with Looting 628 Million then just to renovate her residence, I am talking about when dollar was below 100 naira in exchange..
We gave Diezani Allison a chance, she nearly killed us with Looting..
We gave Stella Oduah a chance, she bought 6 armoured cars running to billions for her protection alone..
The list are endless..
Women are worst horrible leaders..
Nonsense and feminism..

Trashy and Nonsensical SIMPathetic write up from a confused fellow...
Una women na OLOSHO since time immemorial ..

Saddestmann:
I thank God say she no even put in trouble cause she just aborted for someone and came to my house claiming feeling dizzy and stomach ache, and me running up and down buying food and drugs as nice boyfriend until the person she aborted for called while she was asleep and I picked and that one burst the bubbles, as soon as I confront my girl she slapped me that why am I picking her calls..

Why did you pick her call??
Go back and apologise as a REAL man.. give her a huge amount of money to plead for your shortcomings too..
Be a REAL man..

Saddestmann:
How I walked into fire with my two eyes widely opened is beyond my imagination after all I can see where the courtship is going and I kept introducing her to my people thinking she will see how serious I am with her but that’s not the case my girl choosed to be a call girl after giving her all I can give her and trust me I invested so much in this crazy bumpy relationship

Pls whatever you do on nairaland don't visit that Red pill thread .. just be a REAL man as you are and keep on Begging and spending on her.. if she cheats, forgive her, it is your fault.. women are angels that can do no harm, if she apologize for her wrong, accept her back and spend heavily on her too..
Hope you are also training one of her siblings in school or business, that is the best way to win a woman's heart and make her loyal..
My guy continue worshipping her, you are a Real man and that is how real men does..
See, just send her a huge money today and see some changes in her immediately..

Pls continue begging her oo
Infact, withdraw alloney in your account and send to her and o make her happy.. that is how REAL men do..
And also start training her siblings in school too..
Just keep on spending and begging her, she will change her mind one day..

Women would Stain your white.
The future is OLOSHO...

The shitty and Ojoro English team would loose and wail all over the social media..
God forbid Harry Maguire to lift a trophy let alone Euros and also Saka, good forbid him doing so for dumping Nigeria..
It is coming to ROME not HOME..

Messi must loose and wail like never before..
Brazil for the trophy...

The slowpoke should be jailed for life..

Anyway Sha, before he comes back form jail, his GF has become a baby mama for another guy then..
Clown..

Wolexzy11:
I knew the reason why you don't wanna breakup with is she kind of beauty if not u should have breakup since

She is beautiful, has a big soft yansh
Or.. because he has invested so much in her financially and don't want it to be a waste..
I just pity the stupid OP..
Premium larger tears awaits him.

prekumohtim:
That is not your wife. You can see fire with your eyes and you are asking if you can jump enter .Quotinue!!
Think about the future; if you are broke tomorrow your kids will suffer

If he is broke tomorrow the kids would not suffer.. she would provide for the kids and abandon him..
Women only unadulterated love and sacrifice is for their own children they gave birth to..

xynerise:
I can't marry who is still in school especially a fresher..

Don't judge me biko

I can't even date them talk much of marrying them..
There is nothing good about dating a student..
Anyone that went to UNI especially a classy Federal Uni in Nigeria would understand the dynamics of Nigerian girls.. unless he is too dull and never observant..
This girls bare it all while in Tertiary institution..

NwaAmaikpe:





You are in a relationship, but it is a parasitic one and no one needs a parasite as a life-partner except a masochist who loves to shed premium tears.

You see her as your potential wife but she sees you as her meal ticket and will milk you till your balls go dry.
Sadly, your type will not stop despite all the signs because you need her validation as you can't help loving her but loving you is a chore to her.

I can bet on my scrotum that the same girl is using that data to have video sex with some other dude.

Now your question is if you should still marry her despite the red flags on the gate and bold writings on the wall.
I think you should, so that other people can use you as a reference.

Your last paragraph ...
LMFAO

Ekomatrix1:
I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.

she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.

Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?  

Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness  but no improvement .

what should i do?

Pls sell all your properties to make her happy..
Never demand for accountability from her, that is how REAL men do..
And also, sponsor her totally in school and her other siblings..
Ride on..
You are doing well..

Juliusmomoh:
Am confuse about it... Must we have joint account?

Only a foolish man would do so...

Only have a joint account with your wife is she is earning higher than you. .
Women would support it cos most times their men earn more than them but you would never see any woman that earns way more than her husband accept such..


The earlier men realise to be self centered is the best, the better for them..

Jokkarm2:
if this is what you classify as trying , bros you really need to leave aba and come to city like lagos and see. in fact, after seeing things in lagos, you will run back and give the man a slap

Well for your info, I just left Lagos last week for an engagement and I am presently in UYO..
So you think that anyone that talks in support of the governor is automatically confined to the state and doesn't step out to other states.. gosh.. what a mindset. .

TruthHurts1:
Why is it my fault that Mama Onochie cannot close her ugly, wrinkled, shapeless thighs?
I have not forgotten about you, NL Onukwu. Have you eaten today or was Mama Onochie the veteran Puna vendor too busy to cook for her family?

Oh Mr. Wailer..
I have eaten Otu Nne GI...
But she no wash am well..
Pls wail more for me..

@king0G
@borntowinxx
And other monikers of yours..

(Normally I wouldn't write to you but let me just do it just as my mind told me)


I have followed this thread since it's first day of creation by glycolysis till now, I have seen your numerous battles with martinez39s and co, and I tell you this below..



Psychologically you want to be accepted in to the fold as one of us..
But that can't be possible if you are always at loggerheads or bickering the two founding members of the nairaland Redpill community which is Ubunja and Martinez39s..
I know that we Men have ego" and can hardly apologise most times.. so if you can't apologise to them, just stop arguing and insulting them, then choose your words properly whilst posting cos "Ashawo like" glorifying sentences would get you been called out..
I observed that you do have some real life experiences and do post some nice stuffs in the thread sometimes..
So, do align properly and gain acceptance..

My one cent to you ..
Cheers..

Martinez39s
Ubunja's
Skepticus
Sozinn
Ichidodo
Aomine
Bloodysperm
Caveadullam

And other esteemed members of the Redpill that I can't remember their moniker now..

Pls y'all should ignore any moniker here that throws unnecessary questions at you here, their reason for such is to create unnecessary arguments and hoping that you (mistakingly) contradict yourself..
Sometimes their tactics is in a question format like this .. "What do you think about ..... ? " And when you go ahead to give them an answer on it, they go about picking holes from your answers.
Some of them also their tactics is... They would see you sharing opinions with a brother eg Skepticus and Martinez39s, they would highlight one of them comments and give him a mention whilst arguing stupidly on the point the person they gave the mention raised.. they do it in other for you to respond to them and boom, unnecessary arguments would erupt with them..
Bottom line is, core Redpillers here should ignore stupid questions and mentions from SIMPs, trolls and Ashawo crew that are here..
Shout out to Heartofcity1 and Luminouz ..
They should be ignored

I hope he purpose of this post is not to compare it with that of shagari and the Nigeria PM..

Ojukwu and Gowon were millitary men and Ojukwu was Gowon's senior .. also was enlisted before him..


Whilst Shagari was a citizen smoking just behind his countries PM while the latter was doing a broadcast..

A useless OLOSHO Feminist..
Nonsense..

Easternblood:
You are spewing trash, cut him some slack. He is very slow Yes, but you must agree with me that ABA is way better than it used to be than previous administrations

Don't mind those assholes..
Most of them haven't been to Aba recently..
If they say how Aba was before OVI and how it is now, they would understand that the man is trying...

TruthHurts1:
I can feel this bastard running away like the born product of illegitimate sex that he is!

Cheap, weak and feeble minded Onukwu son of Onochie, the part time village drunkard and full time village okada!

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Bit your "Moda" was knacked by a village masquerade in the community council hall..
Hence your advent into the world



Cry me a River, Wailer..

TruthHurts1:
Finally we have something we can agree upon!

Nobody in my lineage, both male and female can disgrace themselves to the disgusting level of your borehole vagina, shameless street slut mother called Lauretta Onochie, a.k.a the Village Okada wey every A-boki don ride tire!!!

Have you ever considered going for a paternity (DNA) test? It is very advisable for your type.

In as much as Say na me "Na Ara Nne GI"..
I am not bothered kid..

Continue Wailing..

Guy pls Kill your "MODA" and use her parts as ritual to satisfy your Gf..
She is the air you breathe and so have to always make her happy...
Cheers as you take my advice ..

TruthHurts1:
Nne gi bu nkíta ausa

Two can play this game! Unlike the kinds of "games" your mother Lauretta Onochie used to play with her A-boki "customers" on that smelly and stained matress in your living room, while your "father" counted the 10 kobo coins that the customers gave to him!

Nobody in your lineage and upcoming generation can reach the level of Lauretta, both male and female..

Otu Nne GI na eshi ishi...
Nne GI bu Otu Nkapi..

Continue Wailing...
Jobless folks does it better .. so bring in more rants and Wailings..

TruthHurts1:
Not everyone is going to end up a failure and a fool at forty like you with grey hair!

At least, I should thank you for revealing that you are not a real Igbo man because a real Igbo man would never use the word "flat.hea.d" against a fellow Igbo man.

I identify as something older and more dignified than the British made contraption called Nigeria which only began to exist in 1914!

You can laugh to hide your tears just like you have been doing throughout your youth to your old age, but it still won't change the fact that you are a warped, bitter old fool and a failure.

Your entire useless existence should be made a cautionary tale for young people who want to avoid becoming failures in life so they won't end up like you.

...


Another endless Wailing from an IPOB minion..
I enjoyed the Rants thou. ..
Ara gbabuo gi nwa enwe..
Nkapi..
Oya Wail more..