Dear OP, am happy with your stance of no sex before marriage. Since he is your fiance you should be free to discuss anything with him at this stage. I understand your fears perfectly. Even though you are not being intimate, in the course of your relationship you should have at least seen him turned on once or a few times. Guys can get aroused when they are with someone they are attracted to. There was a similar scenario a few years back similar to yours, where the lady thought the guy was being holy. In fact the wedding date had been fixed with cards sent out. The bride to be's aunt felt it was too awkward that she hadn't seen him get an 'erection' once despite the fact that she sleeps there. She was advised to take a drastic step in walking around in her undies and going to hold on to the guy. It was that point the guy confessed he had been impotent since secondary school and he didn't discuss with anyone. The wedding was called off. My dear feel free to discuss with him that doesn't take away your holiness.

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My advice is for you to pray fervently to God on the matter! It could swing both ways as the pastor can either be right or wrong! There are many instances of fake prophecies and there are true ones as well. I remember that it was prophesied that my aunt will die when she was 18 but she is now 39 years old!

As a child of God, when you pray to God He will give you the answer which can come in any form ranging from speaking to your heart, revealing to you in form of dream or other varied ways. It could also be as simple as having great peace of mind on the decision to marry your fiance.

Also note that God has the capacity to change destinies. Remember the story of Jabez. There have also been instances, whereby God reveals the same answer directly to two or three family members and/or friends. I have personal experiences in this regard.

I wouldn't want you to risk losing your happiness or make a wrong decision. God will definitely reveal His mind to you on the matter if you seek his face. You can also fast. From personal experiences i always have revelations when i fast and/or pray fervently on any matter. It is well with you! Cheers

No harmattan for ikoyi o! na combo of fan and AC i on together sef

Eminentsam: I began to develop feelings for her when i noticed her in my church and i started considering her for marriage but on approachin and drawing closer to her i discovered she is abt 2 yrs older than me but stil looks very young like d same age or even younger than me and i hav proposed to her already pls advice me bc i realy like her and am an only son.

Age is nothing but a number. Understanding and maturity is key for both parties. There are so may relationships in which the lady is older and things are going on smoothly. I was shocked to discover recently that my aunty who had been married for over 30 years is 5 years older than her husband. no one can tell from the outside. it was my mum (her sister) who mentioned this to me recently when we were discussing this issue of age difference!

The winner is Miss Cross river, first runner up is Miss Rivers

Yeah, you can. Some multinationals especially oil firms pay as much as that to experienced hires. However, it is advisable that you send your CVs and get positive results (interview and suitable job offers) before re-locating to avoid any regrets.

I wish you God's guidance in your decision.

Jonathan are u still there? When will peace return to Jos? So many killings and maiming of innocent citizens! O God please heal our Land!

May her soul rest in peace. Amen

My name is Adekemi Adebambo. I studied Agricultural Economics from the premier university of Ibadan