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thisisone area i dont like about us,b4 travelling out of nigeria most of us cant wait to taste oyinbofood,on getting here we start complaining,look my friend if you really cant do without naija food then i sugguest you take the next flight out of america,abi dem hold you,rubbish

hey people,just wondering,who do you thinke is always happier on the weddind day,i am 100 per cent sure it is the womenfolks,afterall a married woman tag comes with a lot of respect.
what do you think?

send me your account number,i can help with a little amount,all the best mate

Yes,all of us based abroad should read especially those of us living in europe,usa and canada.
Guys our relations back home can sometimes paint a fales picture of things back home,that they are suffering and all that,now some may be true but in most cases some are outright lies.
I decided to travel home a week back and discovered many tjhings,i know things are not really that good in naija but it is not as terrible as hell as some peple will make you belive.
My brothers advised vme against starting a family in europe but to my greatest amazment when i got home i discovered all my far juniors have 2 to 3 children of theirs, i met so many children coming to me and calling me uncle,even one of my brothers that was really against my getting married in europe has 4 kids of his own the youngest being 3 years,GOD!i felt so stupid and used,all my years in europe they drummed into me not to start a family yet because of them
when i look at my age now,i shed tears,how could i have been so stupid?
please guys abroad be wise o

@biina,na wa for you o,how can you advise him to marry maria as a second wife what kind of bad advise is that?look poster dont ever think along that line o,you will only worsen your situation,polygamy is very very very bad,dont put your hand into it o
what i will advise you to do is this,it is a great pity that you do not love your life,i dont blame for you that,but your wife loves you as you said,that is a starting point,now put her into a test anything you can think of and find out if she really loves you,2,go to nigeria and pretend to maria that you were being deported,look rough,watch her reaction,do this b4 you give her that hefty sum
Do all this things i have outlined and i bet you will settle with the one that is meant for you.all the best

i just want to ask a question,must one travel out of naija b4 one can make it?i know things are not moving well in naija but is it that enough reason for people to risk their lives,bradon you said it yourself that europe is nothing so why are you still hellbent on going out of the country.
look let me tell you the truth nowhere in the world do you pick money on the streets.

Haba irano take it easy on the poster,at least he has been honest enough to do the right thing,many people i know are not that honest with theirselves.
Collins i must commend for the steps you have chosen to take,dont mind the likes of irano who behave like hoiler than thou.
Having said that are you even sure that maria waited for you all those years without sleeping with a man?listen most women can be very deceptive at times,i am very sure she too has not been faithfull,no be naija babe!i sabi dem wellwell.abeg face your marriage with your wife .