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the reason is not farfetched,you cant compare a europe made engine to an american made one,

why are nigerians always so quick to use the word fraud? or 419?,has our land become that bad no one trust any one again?as far i can see in this case the seller is only guilty of breach of contract ,what happened were beyound his control(am not supporting him)but just stating a fact,lets always look at the facts before we start judging based on emotions,i can understand the pain the buyer is going through in the sense of the delay but then we can all see that its not the poor guy fault for goodness sake,its like someone suing a airline for cancelled flights due to bad weather,there are certain things that are out of our control in this life,someone says he wants to present a car as a gift to the mother,GOD forbid what if you meet with an accident and something happens to you,will you sue fate?lets learn to be reasonable please,there are still honest business people in nigeria and contary to populuar belief nigeria is not the worst country on earth,haba!!!make una take am easy.for the car dealers cant you try another way of supplying these cars to customers without collecting intial deposits though i know it could be risky but then its better than the stress you would go through when someone money is with you,just my two pence

A GOOD WOMAN WILL ALWAYS BE A GOODWOMAN REGARDLESS OF THE LOCATION AND A BAD WOMAN WILL ALWAYS BE A BAD WOMAN REGARDLESS OF THE LOCATION SAME GOES FOR MEN, SO WHAT ARE WE TALKING ABOUT HERE?

Thank you jare my people make we dey talk true at times,you know some of my friends who claim to love their wives and all thatyou need to see how they beat their wives,cheat on them,lie to them,no form loyality to them at all,love my ass,marriage is all about respecting your wife,love no concern me there at all,i repect my vows to her and thats enough for me

Does one have to be in love with his wife to have a happy marriage?i wonder about this thing everyday because truth be said in my case i was never in love with my wife when i married her,she was pregrant and right from childhood i had sworn never to have a child outside wedlock so i married her and i belive i did the right thing i didnt care what anyone said then,there are certain things that are important in marriage than the so called love,i belive in honour and responsilibity,to me those are the ingreidents that survives a marriage,i may not love my wife passionately today but i make myself a trustworthy husband to her,anyone out there in my type of situation?lets be honest here

Have you observed lately the way china is rising economically,according to world econmoic report china is now officially the second largest economy in the world, second only to america,today if china coughs it can affect the whole world and china has been able to achieve this feat mainly through its undervalued currency which makes its product cheaper in the world market,europe is losing it,do you the steps you have to go to just to open a business in europe?not to talk of their cutrate taxes,so tell me why china will not rise?but i belive china will never be the world leader cause of their system of goverment but africa should be carefull cause china is looking for places to dominate and africa may come in handy,they are already collecting business from nigerians in nigeria,enticing our politicans with so called donor money,getting ready to build large plazas to push our people out of business and trust our government,they will always fall for this,may GOD help us o

to add to what i said before,look the world is coming to an endamerican and europe have all abandoned GOD,do you know why america is so blessed,'because this is was a nation founded on GOD,but today what is happening?those nations that were formerly look down upon by the western world are now rising up and ruling the world market,check out china,today america is owing china money,today america is heavily in indebted,look at recent market crash that almost brought europe to its knees but look at india today they are growing rapidly

i have been following this thread with interest,as someone who has lived in both sides of the world,that is i hold a passport of a european country and my fatherland nigeria,let me add my piece.there is this saying,east or west there is no place like home,i dont think there is any nigerian who was born and bred in nigeria that would not miss home after some time outside of it,it happens to everyone and not only nigerians so i wonder why nigerians are making it such a big issue?americans based in the middle east miss home,the europeans based in nigeria miss their home so this is a natural thing,that is why i always travel home everytime,its only our kids who were born and bred here that may not feel the feelings of home but even then whenever i take them to nigeria thay always want to go again when we get here talkless of us who were born in nigeria.there are many people i tell whenever i get to naija that ol boy abroad is not easy o,do you know what they tell me?heeeen if abroad is not easy why are you still living there?abeg go away jo,some even call me jealous that i dont want them to come abroad .on this i blame the wester press,they show their cities on the televison claiming to be the best so tell me why wont people want to travel there,even the elite in nigeria always like travelling abroad for holidays,are there no places in naija for this come on!!!ts only when some peeps in nigeria have travelled out they now know that it is not that easy,and one thing that makes peeps wanna travell out is the skin tone,even right from the airport you see the immgration officers saying,kai i love this ur skin colour o,we know peeps who are based outside nigeria by their skin colour and those who only travell there for a month or so,can u imagine that?in europe the weather makes ur skin colour change,it doesnt have to do with money or anthing

please guys in holland,germany or beligum,please can u help with the directions to a good used car markets in any of the countries i just mentioned,a market where i can buy and ship it to naija if possible the same day and head back to my base,i would be so glad if anyone can please help me out in this regard,i want to buy a good car and i am on a budget of 5,000 euros with extra 1,000 euros for the shipping,anixously awaiting your replies,GOD BLESS.

@mi 2002 my brother you have to start from somewhere just as others here has rightly pointed out to you,i understand its because you are new thats why you were talking like that,u need those jobs you call menial to start,infact many peeps have used those "menial" jobs to help their families back home,some have built houses through those jobs,some have even built up capital through those kind of jobs to start their own succesfful business today(am a living example)in europe there is diginty in labour,the police respect a cleaner on the street than a drug seller anyday,in nigeria a cleaner earns next to nothing,construction workers the same thing,but here a cleaner earns average of 1,000 euros or more depending on the country and number of hours now calculate the exchange rate of 1000 euros to naira ,remove that naija mentality of looking down on certain jobs because here those jobs pay my brother and remember these things are only going to be temporay if you plan yourself well,minmise your spendings,and before you know it you would be doing what you want and living the life bro,all the best

@2010 how u doing now?from your posts above i can see you are aready going through some things,do u wanna quit?if you quit now you will quit everyday of your life,BE A MAN AND FACE LIFE,this is it,as a new comer u will be bound to go through some wahala but just have faith and keep moving on,my slogan always is this "if you catch hell dont hold it,if you are passing thru hell dont stop,you go ahead you go ahead,life is full of phases,ypu are going through one now,guy if i tell you what i went through when i frist got to europe but i thank GOD today,i came to the whiteman,s land to get job today i have a whiteman working for me,na life be that for you!!take care and one love always

@2010 honestly i dont know why i feel this way for you but since you posted your story i have been following it,let me give you the folloowing frank advise first thank GOD you are now in norway,yes this is the place you have always been talking about,you can see there is no money on trees or on the streets to be picked,having said that let me tell you this and put it at the back of your mind always because it worked for me when i first got to europe,remove ALL thoughts of failure from your heart,you are now in a battlefield,i am sure you have folks looking up to you in nigeria dont dissapoint them,in europe you can easily get discoraged or distracted,you have to build a steel into you, remember after the battle comes victory,norway is one of the richest country in europe,look for the right people to network with, not negative people or criminals,i can see you are intelligent put it to use,right now u still have a valid visa,go to the employment offices ask questions,ask questions from the people luckily for you most norwegians speak english,try to learn the language also,be postiveminded at all times and most of all be prayerfull because i know GOD can never fail,ask questions and always belive this FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION!NEVER TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER,open your eyes very well you are no longer in nigeria,this is a developed world where things are done differently,go out of your way to be friendly and humble to people especially to the natives over there,trust me before you know it you will get a job contract and people will be wondering which juju you used,i wish you well

i just read somewnere that tiger woods and his wife have finally gone their seperate ways,is this true?dont wanna belive o

@mi 2010 i wish you all the best,remember the lord in all that you do,you will make it

@tamita, glad to be of help

@angelo5uk, answer is no!you need to have a polish passport to enable you work in other european countries though with your polish permit you can move about in the sheghen zone

@poster for papers spain is your best bet,and you be better be fast about it because europe is putting serious pressure on spain to toughen their immigration laws and they will soon do that,spain is the only country in europe that lagalised almost a million illegal iimmgrants in 2005 in one swoop(675,000 to be exact),honestly they gave hope to a lot of friends i know who were without papers for donkey years in other european countries.though right now the economy of spain is not doing so well but i belive it will pick up soon,in spain they have this law called "arrago social"that is if you can prove you have been in living in the country for 3 years,you would be legalised,and one thing i noticed in spain is that most of the guys there didnt have to marry oyinbo to get their papers,forget about the aduro camp in spain because 90% of nigerians who got their paoers there never went through aduro so dont even go there so as not to spoil your chances thank GOD you have a visa to norway,with that you can enter spain easily,forget about the big cities in spain for now,go the rural areas(which are modern by the way)here you can get easily get more information from many of the immgrant offices there,goodluck!!!

@poster you dont need to be scared or confused,forget about norway aduro camp,those guys will Bleep you up,you could try swiss as some peeps advised here but the truth is that europe is beginging to discourage immigration and as such they are making tougher laws everyday,if i may ask what are you doing presently in nigeria?cant you start a little business or something?or you are only interested in traveling out?look around you am sure you can find something,the lord can bless you wherever you are,just have faith,i know a friend who made millons in niamey in niger one of the poorest places in the world,he went into clothes business there,so my brother its not always a matter of location but how hardworking you are and the grace of GOD,mr a could come to europe and say its hard while mr b can come and make it in the same europe,thats life for you,i remember when i first came here i really suffered but through the grace of GOD today i am doing ok,so do a soul search and discover what you really want,life is full of risks so its risky not to take risks but please take risks that are legal,GOD BLESS YOU

@poster let me give you my honest advice,as a nigerian your chances of being granted an asylum in norway is almost zero,you know why?norway offically lists nigeria as a safe country,your story would be listened to and at the end of the day you will be given a letter for you to leave the country,this whole process takes a maximum time of six months,that is from the the time you apply for asslyum till the time they reply,during this time you would be given an asylum seekercard with a validity of six month(mind you this card entitles you to nothing in norway or europe,it is just to identfy you as an asylum seeker).
Your only way is if you are lucky to get a citizen there to marry(but this again my brother is difficult)but then like i always say life is a game of chances,but all in all it is very difficult to get asylum as a nigerian,the only slight possibillity and i say slight is for you to claim you are gay,look for another guy,(damn!i shouldnt be saying this here)tell them you want to get married as gays in nigeria but nigeria laws are against gay marriage.

@poster congrats on getting your us passport,congrats!!!!

never put down or talk down about your brothers or sisters to your spouse,it will always backfire,i see some peeps always making this mistake

guy trust me when u travel to other eoropean countries you will agree with me,spain beats most of those countries hands down

right from cadiz bro to barcelona,check out the following cities la manga,benidorm,sevila,valencia,gandia,malaga the list is endless,spain is damn too beautfull

as one who has visited most countries in europe,i make bold to say that SPAIN IS THE MOST BEAUTFULL COUNTRY IN EUROPE,meeeeeeeeen spain too fine i beg,though they are far from being the richest country in europe though

@poster agar i find your story hard to belive cos in norway english is their second language so for you to to say u lost your way cos u couldnt speak their language, hmmmm