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IF YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP; LISTEN VERY
WELL TO THESE 10 POINTS.
1. You wake up early morning but you cant send
even a goodmorning message to your lover trust
me you are just pretending there is no love
between each other.
2. You are in the same country you can take a
week without hearing the voice of the so called
lover.. my dear there is no love between two of
you.
3. Your lover sends you a message but you read
without replying, instead of hurting his/her feeling
be open and tell him/her that you dont love her/
him anymore.
4. You organise to meet but everytime you are
saying you are busy.. why dont you tell him/her
the truth that you dont love her/him.
5. When you meet you cant even give him/her a
hug why do you pretend that you in love.
6. Your phone is always busy whenever your lover
calls.. why dont you tell him/her the truth that
you dont love her/him.
7. You cant spare time for your lover but you
spare time for other people.. why dont you be
open to him/her that you dont love her/him.
8. You've been dating for years without knowing if
it's leading to marriage or not, tell him/her the
truth and stop wasting someone's time
9. Feelings are so painful if you dont love that
person.. stop playing with his/her feelings.. be
open and say you dont love her/him.
10. Your lover's heart is not a doll to be played
with.. be open and tell him/her that you dont love
him/her anymore
Love is a beautiful thing!.
Have a blessed new month!..

what does this says to you ladies on facebook and nairaland?

bongolistik:
In as much as body nobi firewood and we know that nature has designed it in such a way that men naturally gets attracted to the opposite sex, but you will agree with me that too much of everything is truly bad.

When a guy lacks self control whenever he sees a girl and start reasoning with his joystick all the time instead of his brain, then you know that it has indeed gotten out of hand and such guys should retrace their steps and mental reasoning unless they remain woman wrapper and keep on chasing things under the skirt throughout their lifetime instead of using most of their times to achieving other great things in live.

It is sad to know that many guys out there belong to such categories and the female folks have taken advantage of that to remain arrogant and fill themselves with so much ego, meanwhile many of them are just bimbos.

If you are woman sick that you don't always control yourself at the sight of pretty girls or anything lady, you need some cool mental therapy.

I do tell people that between man and woman attractions, that it all has to do with your mind on the part of guys and nothing much, you can be in company of bevies without shaking all the time or having to reason with your joystick, it is just a mind thing and nothing special.

Here are the 5 things guys should endeavor to stop doing mostly in front of girls that over raises the girls self esteem and always placing them where most of them don't even belong.

1. Stop being idle and get busy- An idle mind is truly a devils workshop, if you are always busy, you will notice that most times you won't have much time for the ladies and they will not move you all the time. But when you are less busy, you always think of them and whenever a beautiful girl passes, you gaze helplessly and always feel like getting under her, and sometimes in your idleness you start self-servicing.

2. Stop giving them so much attention - girls generally are attention seekers, and the more you give it to them they more shakara they do. Give girls much attention at your own peril. Girls are no higher being, they are equal creatures as you, nothing much special, even the 2 minute satisfaction you get when you lay them doesn't worth breaking your head over girls... I always laugh at guys that fight after ladies and will never stop laughing. I haven't seen any girl in this world that is not my wife that I will fight my fellow guys because of, moreso when there are many fishes in the river.

3. The rich dude should stop spoiling them with money- It is funny at times how this guys spend money on girls, not because they truly love the girls but just because they want to have them at their beck and call on their bed anytime they need to satisfy themselves sexually. You don't even need to buy a girl a million Naira worth of smartphone before you can lay her, then why spend the money carelessly on one unloyal babe out there that is only loyal because of your full pocket and when you have millions of people out there that genuinely need the money for at least their upkeep. Instead of me to spend millions on girl because I just want to get under, I rather dash the money out to some helpless folks out there, I think by so doing, I will be much more than satisfied.

4. The students one should stop doing all the assignments for their female counterpart - For Gods sake, both the guys and girls are in school for the same purpose, and I am not saying that you should not assist them atimes when the need truly arise, but a situation where you do all the assignment for the babes and sometimes you haven't even done yours, just because you want to please her...I laughs at you, because whether you do for them or not, the lecturer will still give them good grades after using them and you that is the good Samaritan will come out with poor grades. Not only that, you are not encouraging them in any way by so doing.

5. the working class guys with authority, Stop giving more preference in employing more ladies because of your personal interest of getting under - For another God's sake, guys are smarter and will even contribute more to the development of your company than the female bimbo you just employed to be looking at her face anytime she comes to work.

Well I have said my own o, any one wey wan hear should hear and if you no wan hear, it is still left for you, you have your choice

you have spoken well,may your dayz be long

CRY has 3 letters so does JOY
LIFE has 4 letters so does DEAD
RICH has 4 letters so does POOR
FAIL has 4 letters so does PASS
HATE has 4 letters so does LOVE
BIBLE has 5 letters so does QURAN
LYING has 5 letters so does
TRUTH
BELOW has 5 letters so does
ABOVE
ANGER has 5 letters so does HAPPY
RIGHT has 5 letters so does
WRONG
CHURCH has 6 letters so does
MOSQUE
FAILURE has 7 letters so does SUCCESS
ENEMIES has 7
letters so does FRIENDS
NEGATIVE has 8 letters so does
POSITIVE
KNOWLEDGE has 9 so does
IGNORANCE please are they all by
coincidence....?
we should choose wisely cos it
means life is like a double
edged sword

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Rapmoney:
Be patient while you read this...

If you are a young and ambitious dude still struggling to get to the top, this write-up will save you the stress and pains of the so-called love we have been deceived about for long!

If you still think that there's what is called 'true love' or 'love without money or resources', then you must be living in a fool's paradise!!! (Quote me if you like!)

The truth of the matter is that what people in the past enjoyed as 'true love' no longer exist. Then it was possible for a man and a woman to fall in love based on personal qualities or characters without materialism attached to it! Those were the good old days! Our society has changed and any one who still lives in the past is not better than the village idiot!!!

I have heard people saying often times that love or relationship is not all about money! To me, that's the highest level of trash and rubbish! If you are a young man with ambition, still striving and toiling to make it, you better forget about love and concentrate full-time...I mean 100% on your dreams and life.
It is so frustrating to see some struggling dudes killing themselves over love issues! What a life! Why spend the meagre salary you earn after working for 30 days like a donkey on a girl? She tells you she needs a phone, you struggle to buy it! She says she needs money for hair, you struggle to give her! She tells you she needs to get a nice bag or pair of shoes she saw at a boutique, you struggle to give her! Be rest assured that you will continue to struggle endlessly in your life if you don't desist from such shameful and wasteful act! If you want to know the extent to which materialism has eaten into this so-called love, watch even the younger girls of today! Even those that are below 21 or 22 will quickly run away from you if you can't be giving her upkeep money, money for hair and phone, etc The mature ones? If you don't live comfortably well, sorry, you are on your own!!! Except for those village girls that are not exposed...but seriously, not in the cities of Nigeria.

Before you criticize me on the fact that these women need to live a comfortable life by hanging out with only comfortable dudes, read the topic again! It is surely the same reason why I said young struggling men should forget about love and focus on their lives!!! When you are comfortable, you can have the resources to sustain your relationship because no matter how a woman 'loves' you, the 'love' must surely die if there's no finance to sustain it!

Adams Oshiomole (not handsome) just got married to pretty Lara Forte! Do you think she didn't see all the tall handsome dudes with six-packs before tying the knot with the governor?

Goodevening everyone!

nice write up,i wish every guy could understand.

life is kind of mysterious. some ladies are married and still other men that they are committing adultery together while there some ladies that good and decent yet they have a man to themselves. what a life!

PunkyBrewster:
It makes no sense because they'd have to date 1st before getting married. If I'm not bothered by them dating then I certainly won't be bothered by them tying the knot. It's just an ex after all. Who cares?

I'd congratulate them.

but don't u think you seein them later on may make you start behaving funny.

If your best friend marries your ex, what’ll you
do?

Sweetmarriage:
A Woman Sent This To Us...

'papalette, a puzzled man said "my wife wears all sexy dresses at home and mainly see through nighties but wont let me touch her most times. she's always saying her job tire her out. it's not like i'm not busy too but i create time for her yet she wont reciprocate". he's confused, like, why does she let him see if he cant touch her? is there something wrong?

https://www.facebook.com/pages/Nigerian-Papalette/312263085651212

re u sure she's ur wife?

bisous:
I most certainly do not agree,why stay with a cantankerous woman?

abi now,presently there is this lady that i like so much and she also said she likes me but she told me she is not ready for now that when it time she will tell me but its given me serious concern

pls,just to know your view about this write-up because for me i think when it take too long for a girl to give in for a guy,won't the guy get weary?


Honestly, the most difficult girls
are the ones that
are worth it. They may be hard to
put up with, but
they're the girls that'll put up a
fight for you and
they'll keep fighting until they
win. They may be
argumentative, but they're the
girls that'll get over
things because they can't stay
mad at you for any
longer than 5 minutes. They may
be stubborn, but
they're the girls who wouldn't
give up on you no
matter how bad the situation is.
They may be
emotional, but they're the girls
who will always be
straight up with how they feel no
matter how brutal
it may be. They may be crazy, but
they're the girls
who stand up for you and have
your back through
thick and thin. They may be
insecure, but they're
the girls who have enough
confidence to know no girl
can love you better than they can.
They may be
hard to understand, but they're
the girls that'll try
to help you understand why they
love you so much.

Now, for your evaluation, rate each statement on
a scale from 1 (strongly disagree) to 7 (strongly
agree):
1. I do not evaluate myself as a person based on
my performance, but unconditionally accept
myself as a worthwhile human being.
2. I cannot accept the fact that I am not as
smart as others.
3. I do not evaluate others based on the good or
bad things they do, but unconditionally accept
them as worthwhile human beings.
4. I do not think I should evaluate my worth as a
human being based on my performance.
5. I do not evaluate others based on the way they
look, but I unconditionally accept them as
worthwhile human beings.
6. I know I am not as smart as others, but I
accept myself, and feel good about myself just
the way I am.
7. Even if life is unfair, I can accept it just the
way it is.
8. I cannot accept the fact that I am less
attractive than others.
9. Even if the others have negative personality
traits, I can accept them the way they are.
10. I cannot accept my negative personality
traits.
11. It is normal to evaluate others based on the
way they look.
12. I do not think I should evaluate others as
worthwhile or worthless human beings based on
the good or bad things they do.
13. I do not think I should evaluate myself as a
person based on the good or bad things that I do.
14. I know I have some negative personality
traits, but I accept myself just the way I am.
15. I cannot accept people who have negative
personality traits.
16. I do not rate life as good/fair or bad/unfair,
but unconditionally accept it just the way it is.
To score yourself:
Turn your scores around for items 2, 8, 10, and
15 (7=1, 1=7, etc.).
Items 1-8 reflect philosophical self-
acceptance.
Items 9-16 measure psychological self-
acceptance.
Your scores on both scales can range from 8
to 56; the higher you are, the more self-
accepting and accepting of others you are.
A score of 44 on each scale (a 5.5 rating per
item) indicates that you’re within the average
of David et al.’s sample in self- and other-
acceptance. Based on the relationships with
other measures from the study, furthermore,
people higher in the UAQ have less emotional
distress and have fewer of the types of
thoughts that trigger depression. Interestingly,
self-esteem scores were negatively related to
the UAQ, meaning that people who are low in
the tendency to make judgments also don’t
judge their own selves.
Because self-esteem reflects the tendency to
judge your self-worth, you’ll be happier, then, if
you don’t engage in extensive self-scrutiny about
whether to “like” yourself or not. This doesn’t
mean you go about life without evaluating what
you do, but it does mean that you’ll be happier if
you don’t stop to judge yourself (or others) at
every turn.
All of this begs the question of what to do when
you encounter people who judge you. To the best
of your ability, you need to bat off their
judgmental stares, questions, and comments.
When you're in a similar position, instead of
reacting to others by saying that you “like” or
“don’t like” their ideas, rephrase your response to
indicate. whether the idea is useful or not.
In keeping with the idea of acceptance and self-
acceptance, recognize that people who are
constantly judging you are probably judging
themselves as well. They may have a history of
having been overly judged by parents or others,
and it’s difficult for them to see the world any
other way. Once you understand where they’re
coming from, not only will you be able to avoid
undue self-criticism by internalizing their
reactions, but you’ll also be more empathic to
them.
We can probably never completely avoid judging
ourselves and others and, in the process, forming
negative impressions. The more sensitive you are
to this tendency in yourself, though, the better you
can feel and more positive your impact will be on
others.

SIX TYPES OF PEOPLE I REALISED IN 9ja BANK
1 - The Pen Borrowers: They re always in the bank,
common pen they won't have.
These pple are very dangerous, once u
borrow them d pen, u may find it difficult 2 identify
dem, At a bank in Nigeria, once
someone tells u "may I have ur pen?" Believe me,
that's d last time u will see that pen (except if u're
lucky).
2 - The "I dey ur Back" Team: Immediately dey
enter d bank, even b4 taking d slip (withdrawal or
deposit) all they do is to know the last person and
u hear dem saying, I'm at your back. If care is nt
taken, abt 8 pple can tell u "I dey ur back" then at
d end of d day,
they cause confusion (na me dey hin back, I don
tell am I was here b4 u blah
blah blah)
3 - The No protocol team: This kind of pple don't
obey d 1st come, 1st served slogan! They're
mouthed in d bank! Immediately they come in, they
just
walk up 2 d cashier or manager, he asks
them 2sit down & within 5 mins they've
completed there transactions while u
still dey there looking like mumu 4 queue. (Daris
Godu oooo)
4 - The Bank Door rejectees: These pple
will always av a problem with d bank
door, then u see them removing their belts, car
keys, mobile phones etc and
yet d machine keeps shouting "pls go back" My
bros next time come 2 bank naked! Biko, he go
allow u in... # LOL!
5 - The slip wasters: These kind of pple can waste
slip 4Nigeria! To fill the withdrawal slip or deposit
slip na JAMB
questions,u c dem cancelling, tearing,
squeezing & take another one. To write
common 3780 Naira in words na gobe. Even d so
called undergraduates are
found wanting in this scenario......................
...........CHAI!!!
6 - The pple from Another Planet: These
pple usually behave like them no dey dis world
since 2 yrs! They will always b asking 4 today's
date, even after telling
them d correct date, they will ask some1 else
again. I tire 4 dis pple oooooo...
PLS WHICH NUMBER U FALL IN D ABOVE

mikeson12:
ISLAM

pls,I don't undastand wat u mean by d Islam u wrote

Funny but true.
** Vice President -North.
** Senate President -North
** Speaker House of Reps - North.
** PDP National Chairman - North.
** Head of Service - North.
** INEC Chairman - North.
** Inspector General of Police - North.
** Chief Justice of federation - North.
** President Court of Appeal - North.
** EFCC Chairman - North.
** President Federal high court - North.
** National Security Adviser - North.
** Chief of Defense Staff - North.
** Controller, Customs Service - North. ** Defence
Minister- North. ** Education Minister- North. MD
Port Authority- North. MD NDIC - North
** Controller Prison Services - North.
** Richest man in Africa - North.
** 85% of Petroleum Marketers in Nigeria -
Northerners.
** 80% of Oil Block Owners in Nigeria -
Northerners.
** 99% of beggars in Nigeria - Northerners
** Boko Haram - North.
Yet, the Poorest states in Nigeria and
Educationally
backward areas in Nigeria are in the North.
Now, ask yourself, what is the problem of the
Northerners?

DaizyJims:
Husbands will be scarce by 2018. Let them continue forming. We'll see who laughs last. Rubbish!!

one million likes for u. u ve spoken my mind. may ur days be long. even presently dey ve started runnin after men.

Those words are not english at all. If u re educated at all,you won't be posting this kind of stuff here.

herringbone: maybe they have not been to benue state nigeria...the thing cheap like salt for there ooo

u don't even need to pay a dime there.

tosyne2much: I will tell her to cast her burden upon the Lord and stop asking for recharge card

If she says u re d one God sent?

cole19: i wil reply her wit....

heya, cnt go out here on banana island once is late, and ma bodyguard is sick. and wud hav even manage go out wit de helicopter to get u de airtym,but ma dad tuk it out to visit adenuga. m sory baby. maybe next time

Laughing!!!

valmunich: Simply ask her to borrow from the network provider

If dey tell her she is not eligible for borrowing nko?

I am sorry baby, I did nt
make it 2day because my iphone
had a problem and my ipad
ba3 is dead, my sister is wit
my samsung galaxy note 3.
Am just alone @ home since my parents traveled 2
Germany. I could av skyped
wit u but I miss placed my
apple laptop power pack so I
av 2 hit S.A 2moro 2 get a
new one. I also wanted 2 go 2 d mall dis nite buh my
auntie went out wit my
bugatti and my elder brother
went out wit d range rover.
My highlander had a little
problem, d tyre of d Honda Element is flat and I hate
driving d lexus jeep @ nite.
So I tried calling d driver to
come and pick me wit my
mums ferrari but no credit...
Can u plz send me MTN card let me call him?

Nothing in life is worth fighting for. Your best clothes is someone's rag, your account balance is someone's church offering, your fiance'
was someone's Ex.

Every single prostitute you see in a hotel or on the street at night was at some point in time a virgin. So what
is the squabble all about?

Life is too small to feel big or better than anybody. We're all naked to death says Steve Jobs. Nothing can save us from it. I hate to see people who Brag about wealth,beauty,
intelligence, level of education, fame and material possessions.

There's nothing you've achieved in life that no one else has never gotten. There's only one thing that is worth bragging which is "LIFE IN GOD ALMIGHTY". SO BE GOOD TO YOUR FELLOW MAN
AND ALWAYS MAKE FRIENDS. Always remember that the people you trample upon on your way up a ladder will be the same u'll pass on your way down, so cause no problem for others because if you do, they'll become your very problem one day.

Finally, even banana stems will one day become dried leaves. Pls don't be selfish, pass on to friends as we're all in one way or the other, guilty.If one day you feel like crying, call me. I don't promise to make you laugh but i can cry with you.If one day you want to run away don't be
afraid to call me. I promise to be there running beside you.But if one day you call me & there's no answer, come to me, perhaps
i need you.We all need one another to make life good.God bless!

The main reason is that during sex,men re d most active while women re passive making men getting old dan women

lofty900: you better submit your resignation letter and do the chores. your wife is the bread winner.

Do u mean the husband should be the one to resign?

joywendy: This isn't a problem per se,it's not compulsory one has to resign for the other. The love of both the father and mother is very necessary for a child, what will it take for the two of them to cut down their work schedule to cater for the children? Isn't it the children they are working so hard for?

Pls,how do they cut down their schedules?

Help me sort out this PROBLEM:In a family where the husband earns #150,000 every month, and the wife earns #1million‬ every month and both of them work in d same company, and the kids are lacking parental care and love. who among them should resign to take care of the kids?

Why re ppl sayin its lie? The result of the study is atleast 95% accurate but do u know the shortcomin? Nigeria wasn't included in the study. So,its does not applies to nigeria. Simple

We re paying heavily for electricity dat we re not using,we re paying tax but not enjoyin d benefits of citizenship. Now,network provider. I tire for naija o.

Pls,dont fool urself here. Paying 1k or 1million will not change anytin. The network provider re just bin corrupt as our leaders re bin corrupt. They re just tryin all possible means to extort us. Unlimited ko,limited ni. Abeg login out.

These people are just taking us for fool. They are playing games. If can read through the lines,its very obvious.