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I avoid religious men and women, they are cunny and stingy.

That's why I break up with new gf, her behaviour scares me. This one fit stab me if an issues comes up.

tjcoded:
Available 40 - 46

28k each

Hello are these shoes still available

DeeScan:
So what's the fuss about??


Send me her num ..


Sound like you're the one overreacting and over thinking the situation..

If she says she won't tell, who cares as long as she ain't bugging me ..

I'm telling you bro, and that's what I realize.
She was someone I wanted to take serious, I don't know how old you are but I don reach age to marry.

DeeScan:
If she tells you .. would it stop you from giving her the monthly or weekly allowance she gets from you ??

Lol, I don't give her money. She has her own money, reason I started dating her. But e be like say the miss independent they enter her head. That's I just want they enjoy myself since I'm not putting anything in the relationship.

Pinkyposh:
Good you guys should continue to satisfy yourself till any one is tired

Yeah, I was complaining at first. It now seems like I was nagging. (Lol)

Mammangaddafi:
Omo una Dey suffer for south o

I'm telling you, I cook oo. These restaurants owners are cashing out.

malaria:
She did not actually buy it then. So she would not know the cost . So ask her how she got the car

She bought it.

Cutehector:
na serious see finish be that. Thank God its just girlfriend status she is in and not wife.

That was what I told her, it is a big disrespect but she brush it off. Marry this one for house, you can't talk am. Brothers make your own money.

Pinkyposh:
It means she is not your girlfriend

Yes, I told her I'm dating myself. But I will just play along after all I ain't spending in the relationship. Anytime she comes around we lash.

ucbenjamin696:
There could be several reasons why your girlfriend might not want to disclose the cost of her new car. Here are some possibilities:

1....... Personal finance privacy: She might consider her financial information private and not want to share it with anyone, including you.
2........ Fear of judgment: She might worry that you'll judge her for spending too much or too little on the car.
3. ......Financial insecurity: She might be struggling financially and doesn't want to discuss the cost due to feelings of anxiety or shame.
4. .........Independent spirit: She might want to maintain her financial independence and not feel obligated to share details with anyone.
5. ......Something to hide: Unfortunately, there's also a possibility she might be hiding something, like financial troubles or debt.

How to approach this situation:

1.❌ Respect her boundaries: Avoid pressuring her to reveal the cost.
2. ❌Open conversation: Have a calm, non-judgmental conversation, expressing your curiosity and interest in her new car.
3. ❌Reassure her: Let her know you're coming from a place of care and concern, not judgment.
4. ❌Avoid assumptions: Don't assume the worst or jump to conclusions.

Example conversation starters:

- "Hey, congrats on the new car! I'm curious, how did you find the buying process?"
- "I'm excited for you! Is there a reason you'd rather not share the cost?"
- "I'm here to support you. Is everything okay financially?"

Pay attention to her response and body language. If she still seems uncomfortable, drop the subject.

It is 1 and 4. I just ask casually, but her reply shocked me. I will only play along until I get someone better.

She is an independent woman which I admire but she has this manly behaviour.

I want to ask a question, your gf recently bought a car and you ask her what is the cost and she says "I can't say".

I see it as disrespect, buying a car isn't much of a secret that you will hide it from your man.

What's your input on this issues.

Mammangaddafi:
Omo see N1,200 food. Tinubu why?

Those two pieces of fish cost 2000 in the south.

Bazztadewu:
Then allow him run mad. He no see pori,local weed smoke,na colos and ice he dey take.pls let him be abeg

Some family members go give you unnecessary stress. Look at his poster running from pillar to post, time he would have spent on something more useful.

When you talk to them non go hear word.

Please I want to ask a simple question, how much should be in ones account for proof of funds. (Express Entry)

You will be surprised how she treats her kids. These parents won't let their kids lift a pencil from the ground.

OriOko88:
Do they force u to attend?

Once them see say their members non too they drop them go invite new blood make e come ginger members.

We know the story, because they make the workers believe it is just Lord's work but those when they share the money know the Koko.

Anguldi:
Hmmmm, Most fair complexion pretty ladies have ogbanje issues oOoOO 💯. They are highest in collecting deliverance

With their anger issues.

Creamypie:
Pastor for Nigeria or africa na hustlers. Now church na everyday service. Mondays for counseling, Tuesday for demon expelling Wednesday for fruit of womb,, Thursday for marriage semina . Friday to Sunday na usual service all raise to power collection

Every public holiday they must take advantage and hold a program. Church is just a business.

They date them but still marry the slim ones.

These thick women become shapeless after giving birth to the first two kids. Slim women are the best; their shape comes out after giving birth.

One striking observation about the Yoruba people is their strong sense of support for their own. When Lagosians discuss Lagos, they exude a sense of pride that makes it seem like the best city in the world. They have a unique way of persuading others that their city is superior, their food is the best (Ijebu garri - I don't like it though because it taste salty).
Nowadays, even musicians attempt to imitate the Yoruba accent and singing style in Afrobeats just to be accepted in the Lagos market.

This is a quality that all communities should embrace: standing by your own, whether it's your tribe, religion, or family. Refrain from joining others in criticizing those who are close to you. I used to vent to a friend about my brother's behaviour, but this friend always spoke highly of his brother—until I met him and realized he was even worse. It taught me a great lesson.

The rich folks never sell themselves out if they are benefitting from each other.

When younger men pursue relationships with older women, these women may assume they are attractive enough to capture the attention of younger guys. Ladies, they may perceive you as a sugar mummy.

condensedmilk:
Normally na immigrants dey always fight against other immigrants in a foreign land.

This is a black man o!

Abeggi, non be the same thing they happen here for Naija when men they reserve spots for their relations.

[quote author=Ayanfet post=131362665][/quote]Grateful this is like an uncle who has access to his nephew's inheritance worth 50 million. The uncle gives him 50,000 monthly and thinks he's the messiah, unknown to him that he is worth much more.

ValNwachi75:
This is what happens when a government is daft. The guys are not willing to put in a deep thought into providing lasting solutions. What they know is only to throw some crumbs at the problem, and then run off and be screaming that they've done something mighty. That's why you're hearing palliative here and there.

Let me tell the government this! I think that parents of these students will rather have decent jobs where they can earn and pay for your wards, than relying on government loans to pay their school fees because they don't have jobs. The government should think about this and work towards finding a more sustainable solution.

Here's one example of how they can think;

80% of government vehicle purchases will be outsourced to local car manufacturers/assembling companies. In exchange, the govt will task these companies to create 10,000 to 20,000 jobs monthly both directly and indirectly. Same will be done in all our consumption of crude oil by-products. All these items will be purchased locally and the suppliers will be tasked with creating sustainable jobs.

Exactly, throwing little crumbs all around, what is 20,000 ?

BreconHills:
What kind of plan is that? Where will they be employed? If I attend Uni in Kafanchan I must be employed in Kafanchan and my employer must make allowances for my study time. Government will start pressuring private sector ba? Do you know what the current unemployment rate is?

We already have NYSC.

Government has been shrinking money supply
through high interest rates. It hasn't worked and the
reason is that a significant connection between USD rates and domestic inflation. Until USD falls prices will remain high.

This is a simplification but your idea is no idea at all.

Just thinking aloud. All they do is share money. It will come to point when all we have is money no goods and no services.

APCNig:
If your state government had done that, all of your indigenes will not be slaving in Lagos

You have turned it into a tribal war. I'm from one of the minority tribes. Our problem is language and religion. The politicians do not want us to be united because if we are, it's a big problem. They don't see tribes when they are sharing the national treasury among themselves. You see a politician criticizing a particular party; as soon as it sees no headway, he switches to the next party while you and I are fighting ourselves.

The only help the government can render is giving out money, these are things that causes inflation. Why don't we devise a plan where students can be employed and they should be paid for service rendered and get work experience?

Anguldi:
She should thank her God it's not a Hausa man's car stand
Wey you go see like 20 idle boys waiting for customers and learning trade.
The beating wey she for collect ehhhhhh, she dey learn work for madness. Poorly and I'll mannered grown adult from child hood.

Churchill and Kpokpogri dodge bullet oOoOO

You don see am, some of these beautiful women got some very horrible characters you won't know till you get close to them.

Sometimes wonder why a beautiful girl hasn't gotten a man yet till you come close in person.

Rhayne:
O ma se o! Greed, poor economy and peer pressure keep making young people do rubbish to get money.

The truth the only way to be wealthy in Nigeria is through crime, you can't be wealthy legit.

Raxxye:
All this useless Tinubu's APC government does to Nigerians is impose more tax burdens so that Tinubu, his wife, his son and their cronies would have enough to loot!

Do you know that the government is charging 19,000 Naira for each pos terminal registration with the CAC? Multiply that amount by the number of pos terminals in use in Nigeria!

He is not concerned about the hardship and hunger in the land; he is out to tax Nigerians even for the air they breathe!

They aren't doing it to curb a crime, though it will help. They have seen there a lot of POS and they have done a mental calculation of how much they could make if they make all POS agents register with CAC.