₦airaland Forum

Many people needlessly subject themselves to pressure. For instance, when I inquired about the relationship status of a girl's friend whom I'm interested in, the girl responded that as long as the friend is not married, I can pursue her. However, I explained that I am not willing to engage in a competition because life is already stressful as it is. Why would I want to compete for the affection of someone who is already in a relationship when there are single girls available?

The only stress I need is money stress.

jeromestarks:
You be mumu. What are you doing on dating app at your age? Are you stupid or what?

Instead of you to identify a beautiful girl where you live and ask her out, you're following dating app like an idiot.

I will not be like you. I will ask this tall girl in my street out today inshallahu.

The best way to meet a girl is to meet her in person, that's where she will respect you. If not small girl when just finish WAEC go they use you catch trips.

iInjureHerYansh:
After a thorough walk-through I have come to conclude that 98% of your serious girlfriends are on codedruns and tinder. The same girls that plays hard to get for you on the streets. The same girls rejecting you and acting Saint. Same girls that will even tell a guy to wait till marriage before sexing.
Omo
Fear woman o but fear naija girls first before the rest 😂

Those girls dey charge sha. I saw one on her profile it says 950k for her to spend the weekend with a man. Omo men are suffering o😂

If men are not desperate, you will get the coochie for free. The same woman charging men 950k, they give one guy for free. Every woman has a guy she fancies.

Klass99:
Interestingly, this is my ideal type of marriage. I am not crazy about the gum body type of marriage we seem to prefer and cherish in Nigeria.

The two shall become one, does not mean we will be attached to the hip like siamese twins abeg. Personally I will thrive in any of these scenarios - separate bedrooms, separate houses and long distance marriage, where we both reside in the same country.

Emotional being or not, I like the reality of my space and my individual life even when married. A good marriage in my opinion is two adults (who are well adjusted and responsible) taking care of each other physically, emotionally, sexually and financially..........without choking themselves or being overly needy and trying to make their spouse a second saviour after Christ.

Why do you think dating relationships are sweeter and more enjoyable than marriage? One reason is the fact that, we are not in each other's faces or space 24/7 like marriage entails.

Two things I can deduce from your writeup
1. You aren't married
2. You are below 25

You aren't matured yet to understand.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Young Couples are meant to be closer to each other.

I think so, after years of marriage then they can afford to be apart.

advanceDNA:
Its the sweetest type of relationship if u both can navigate it well and build discipline... sex doesnt get boring easily and u miss each other which will make cherish every moment when u see....
....sadly it can also be an adultery infested relationship with a couple of doses of paternity fraud if u are not sexualy disciplined

Abuja boys aka gigolo men

The prevailing attitude in this country seems to prioritize self-interest above all else. It may be difficult to find individuals who genuinely care about you outside of your immediate family or close friends, as people tend to prioritize their own benefits over others. If something doesn't benefit them, they may be less likely to invest time or resources in it.

Fear women, she kept it in her mind for 4 years.

Caramia2020:
Efcc attention is needed in Egbo Uhurie community, Ughelli South L.GA, Delta State, where the owner of Estacy hotel along Ekrope road, Hon. Majimite in conjunction with Mr Ibru Egbe the former President General of the community is forcing people to vote for PDP n as they are voting they are snapping them. They are saying PDP most win the polling unit. Please send this message across. Polling unit 10-20-07-14

the time una they waste to post for twitter. There was number dropped on who you should call.

Finesse247:
I am on ground in South West, Nigeria. I will be voting tomorrow. Canvassers and party loyalist have been at the houses of various politicians for cash disbursement. I can authoritatibely tell you that there is no/limited cash for vote buying.
I asked potential voters, and they said they may not come out to vote is they will not be given cash. Therefore, low turnout of voters may be recorded.

I was at a restaurant, politician driver said they were taken thought the back of the bank to come get cash when people where struggling for cash at the bank.

Today, my colleague and I went for a condolence visit when a lady receive a call from her cousin, probably contesting asking for funds to pay for the transport of a number of youths to come vote tomorrow.

Upset700:
This issue was actually asked by a close friend.
A friend of mine is in a relationship with her supposed best friend.she says he is everything she always wanted from a guy.he ticks all boxes.
But.....he is broke.
He just graduated and is waiting to serve.
The thing now is while he is waiting or even before graduating,he never had that hustling spirit like her.
He relies on family for everything.right now he stays in his family house...
When asked how what his future goals where,he said he didn't want to be pressured.
That he understands the need for money but doesn't see it as his happiness.
He seems very comfortable with where he is.
He is certain when he is done serving,he will get a job which we all know is on probability.
What she is asking is.. should she still stick around since he is just broke but still an amazing person or move on cus he screams lazy?

Is he book smart (studied a good course and has a good grade), he is probably not street smart. If he is book-smart then she should stick with him.

It's ultimately up to individuals to decide how they spend their money, but generally speaking, there are many better ways to use money than buying multiple expensive phones. Prioritizing things like saving for emergencies, paying off debts, and investing in education or skills development can provide more long-term benefits than temporary material possessions. Additionally, being mindful of one's spending habits and setting a budget can help prevent financial struggles and promote financial stability.

fortunateme:
Autopsy first before any speculation.
Arrest the bus driver, and the nurse and the school teacher in duty on the said date.
But who really is the owner of this school?
Modified;
I suspect violent rape, or gang violence just like the substance given to that boy then.

No family deserve such pain. Rip Whitney.

The potential consequences for the bus driver and nurse, who may be from less privileged backgrounds, should not be assumed or attributed to the actions of the wealthy athlete. It's important to avoid making assumptions about people based on their socio-economic status or family background, and instead focus on a fair investigation based on evidence. The athlete's parents should work with the school during the investigation process, and it's important for all parents to be aware of their children's behavior and seek help if needed. Denying or ignoring concerning behaviors is not helpful and may lead to negative consequences.

Jennyclay:
I don't know why Nigerian men are so criminally minded .

You claim there is no job opportunity in Nigeria, you sold all your properties just to travel to the so called Land of opportunity only for you to get yourself involved in fraudulent activities. .

Nawa for Nigerians o!

Nigerians (male and female) are criminally minded.

The reason why boys do yahoo. To make money.

Beremx:
If terrorists can have the new naira notes supplied to them, I don't see why Tinubu doesn't have his own supplied long ago.
And they say the new notes are to curb vote buying by Tinubu. Because of the scarcity of notes, vote buying will happen. Nigerians will gladly collect the money because it's scarce.
Who's fooling who?

Exactly, the scarcity of the note is to avoid bribery during this coming election. After the election there will be surplus of notes.
We should be patient, CBN governor is doing Peter Obi a favour.

Don't marry liability, una go they marry fine face and hourglass shape.

Nigeria is hard not everyone will be wealthy, Go for a woman who can support you financially. Life isn't the way it was anymore, but No, you allow those lazy ladies guilt trip you that you have to take care of all the bills as a man.

You will end up being under so much pressure thereby leading to stress and early death. And the woman you slave yourselves will move on probably after 2 years or less.

Everybody wants what is best for them, nobody loves you more than you do. Therefore, don't let anyone decide what's best for you.

This life dog chop dog, mugu fall guy man wak

Oyindamolah:
God will come from heaven to give it to him, abi?

The way religious people think it irks me. I just shake my head. They are so brainwashed.

Men act too desperate for sex the reason why women are using it against us. If men can control their urges just a little bit, the table will turn.

Ginaz:
I blame that girl for coming back to you, now you're feeling too big for yourself.

That's how ladies feel to big when the get lots of approach from guys in your younger years. At point everybody has to feel big jore.

brightmorningst:
Imagine, you coming to school with few food stuffs,this guys will enter your room and try eating with you but if you refuse they turn you to enemy,seclude you from among themselves,form gang and start discussing rubbish about you.
The thing is if my food finish,I no fit beg I get Shame. I be very shy person.

Dey don tag me already.

Can people just stop getting angry if an unknown person refuses to give you thing.
I'm actually not stingy at all,I just dey manage myself.

Ignore them, back in the days when I was in school. People tag me as stingy but I wasn't, I just learnt how to manage myself. Lots of students will blow all their money on clothes and in the middle of the semester they are already looking for those to join for breakfast, lunch and dinner.

They always love the bad boys.

frozen70:
I love what you said because you and I understands your guys plans

The big question now is, will he be able to cope with her incase she wants to be the Boss, remember she is highly placed than him

What if she is so stingy that he can't have access to her money which is the motivating factor in this case

Lastly, let him not complain that she is not obedient and submissive

Lol, he better not complain, that's the sacrifice he has to pay. Nothing is free anywhere.

OneCandleAway:
Na wa fir you.

Anthony no nak her, though I know she wanted the relationship but he wasn't moved by her dad's money. I was even thinking he'll play along to help out for his retirement from boxing. She also wanted that MMA guy isreal adesanya but that one no send her.

Mr Eazy has money ooo. He's doing well for himself so isn't collecting her money. He likes temi a lot, might have a few flings but doesn't joke with temi.

You can cheat on a broke girl and still get away with it because she depends on you for the lifestyle she wants, but you see these rich kids the day you cheat they are going back to their father's house. Is hard to find a celebrity who wouldn't cheat especially the male, women practically throw themselves on these men.

frozen70:
He is going in for her because of her foreign status not for love sake
So let him decide what he wants

Life is a transaction sis, he wants money, and she needs a man. If she were in her late twenties with that American status she wouldn't marry just any man.

tiptoe1:
I just they picture as the woman go look in the next 5years and my guy go they him 30's looking good like a fine wine. Chai

Life is all about sacrifices bro. Nothing good come easy.

JoyousFurnitire:
How una dey get this connect 😩

Omon nah networking, your kind of circles matters.

ezenwaez:
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I wasn't paid the last month, even after sending my details I didn't hear from them.

If you see a man that's is a thief is easy to detect as compared to women. A woman can look like an angel but she is capable of killing someone. Never judge a woman by her look.


Beauty isn't synonymous with Goodheart.

Nwodosis:
Women are more caring in a relationship than when they are being married, for them to pick up thier caring attitudes which are dormant in marriage, they need a rivalry, either as a side chick or a second wife.

This is what I told a friend, that his girlfriend doesn't take him seriously because she can predict his moves. When she sees that if she sees that you can move on easily, it will put on her toes. She will be the one trying to impress you.

NickD:
Lol I know the feeling. Had same mentality...oil and gas or nothing but it didn't stop me from applying to other fields. Was teaching from 2011 to 2020 while running all my PG programs..as soon as I concluded my Ph.D landed my first oil and gas job in 2020, after a year I landed my 2nd role in the industry.

People shouldn't limit themselves, start with whatever you have while hoping for a better tomorrow. Opportunity meets preparedness.

I'm done with my master's, no zeal for PhD in Nigeria. I rather find a scholarship abroad.

bonnyhope:
As a young engineering graduate, all your hope will be on Oil and gas work, I had the same feeling then, but I didn't allow it to get into my head, I took teaching job at a start and later got the engineering job.

It was 1 or 0.