₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
1. She would not have kicked the man out of her own house if she had been just as successful in Nigeria, why?

The man would have been equally successful in Nigeria, how?

3. The story does not say specifically how the woman was supposedly carried away by what you claim she had seen in the US as the narrative mentions that her life was still centered around her children all day long— she ran the business with her first two daughters it seems. So, you would need to explain your own addition to the story so I can understand where you are coming from. What power does US give women?

I don't have the energy on unnecessary argument. No matter what I say you will be defensive.

But I said what I said.

Kobojunkie:
Are you insinuating that if both had instead remained in Nigeria, and the wife had turned out just as successful, the man would not have equally found a reason to snuff her life out even then?

Even if she was successful, she wouldn't have done what she did, the man would have equally be successful.

The woman was carried away by what she had seen in the US, the power US gave to women.

He would have settled in Nigeria, when the kids are done with their first degree send abroad for their masters. While you and your won't remain in Nigeria, but you could go for vacation.

Amotolongbo:
It is due to low self yansh esteem 😔

Many of these fashions and make ups done by women are to rate higher up above our peers (not solely to attract men). Women are always afraid of rejection and oppression in a circle, hence the need to find a way to boost the self esteem.

In fact, women fashions are done because of women (and not because of men) cos woman normally would like to look and dress better than her mates and command envy from other girls and the attention from men

They compete against each other a lot.

izonborn098:
First marriage is not for two strict people, one has to fall mugu or better still overlook and accept many things.
A graduate is more advance and have some white man mentality because they are educated and can read whatever both online and offline while am uneducated woman has am africa mentality which she knows the man is the head of the house, she can accept many of his mistakes just as u forgive ur children of their mistakes but am educated wife take everything serious because of pride and entitle mentality there by competing with her husband.
You can take advantage of ur uneducated wife in so many occasions compared to the educated one.
If u have an uneducated women who is business minded and has understanding then just open business for her and have a happy family e.g orhobo and igbo women are very good examples, while an educated working woman will some times prefer her work more than the marriage all because she want to be dependent.
Op their are more but just

That's why I like Urhobo women, they aren't all that beautiful because they don't really have time for that but when it comes to been hardworking and respectful I give it to them. No forming.

$100 and $200, while the real yahoo boys are working freely on the street because they have settled the "ogas at the top"

pascal558:
Better that way I cos you see that oyibo land, him get one demon when dey am when fit corrupt the incorruptible. And make sure your children are grown and rooted in African ways before they move out.. planning same for my kids too but wifey and I Na visit only for us and this will be after first degree too like you mentioned... Cos I nor want be papa bobrisky 🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm telling you brother.

pascal558:
Na there your eye go clear when you move your wife and kids abroad and you stay here... It will be a case of what you ordered VS what you got.

Wife go dey here, nah only children them go send after first degree.

doggedfighter:
as he left the marital home he rained insults on his wife, claiming she looks like an 80-years old woman hence why he cannot service her well in bed.


What's this nonsense?


The man I am seeing up there, is he even young ?

Hasn't he been seeing her before marriage and making love to her ?

Suddenly she looks 80 ?

Why's the man the one complaining about the servicing ?

... and they said men isn't the prize. lol, it depends on who is talking.

Women love men who put them on their toes,
love to have fun, not some nice guy.

You don't have to be rich to win a girls heart, just be a sweet bad boy .

myyansh68:
Women don suffer.
As a rich Woman, date above your class. Don't try to be with a man, that's below you with pity in ur just because of love. You will never be appreciated no matter what.



It will be worst if she's the provider.

You need money to win a woman's heart just be a bad boy. I heard the guy is an ex-convict.

Jewessgratitud3:
Guys, marriage is not chere wereh. Be financially prepared when planning a wedding and stop making the woman feel bad at the end of the day like she caused your downfall.

You are the one who went for her hand in marriage so you should be very ready on all levels to go through with it and provide all that is required in the list and for the ceremony. This why I said some time ago that a guy earning 100k can not get married and many came for me. You will end up borrowing at one point or the other.


Why he's ignoring the lady in the new marriage now is what I don't get. Dem force am? Biko kwa. Make una dey hold enough before talking about marriage and wedding ceremony.

From the post is obvious he got married to young girl who has nothing doing at the moment.

Baba I know someone who earned 80k when he got married, the lady was a working-class lady they collaborated. Everything worked fine , they had some business together before they eventually travel out of the country with their cute kids.

Men stop putting yourself under unnecessary pressure on yourself trying to be a man, men's life matter. Get yourself a working-class woman. You guys don't know the benefit of having a woman that has something doing, not everyone will be rich.

ednut1:
Stop putting yaself under pressure. No manual to life in Nigeria

We should remember KFC founder, consistency is the key. There is no time line to success.

OtuologyProf:
This is my problem with you guys. You sound like hook up is one special tag when the average girl is into one hook up or the other. Are they different from campus ladies and your normal neighbor.
Even if I pay only your T fare, you are into hook up

Baba, I rest my case.

advanceDNA:
U are just speaking fallacy....mayb na u dey dey fvck prostitutés.......all these marriwd women and single ladies cheating about no be men dey fvck them?? U just assume every one fvcks prostitutés..... dey play

I have never done that, but hookup business thrive wella courtesy men. Make una they try control una sexual urges. Who wants to have sex everyday?

advanceDNA:
Na format.....no sexually active lady stay away from sex for 6 months.... ex and toasters full corner

lol, if a girl finds where to quench her sexual all the time means guys suppose to get free sex at least twice in a week from different girls, but still nah okpo men they carry every day.

abeggi, men need to do better.

izonborn098:
Why do men rape everyday including their fellow males? i did not say women don't have konji'
I told u women has high konji than men and enjoy sex more than men'' but because of shame (control) they can't always make the move unlike men who always go for what they want'
How many woman has ever toast u' apart from giving u greenlight' but men don't give greenlight rather they go for it'
Before majority of woman ask sex from u when konji worry them' it means she don have confidence in u.
Can't u get simple explaination

baba just leave that guy.

advanceDNA:
No mumu ur self....Dem no get any self control.......they just pretend alot

A woman can deprive herself from having sex with you for 6 months. You will be surprise when you guys eventually start having sex, nah you go run.

izonborn098:
Women has high konji but they get self control''
The same way some men see some women and their dick rise' is the same way women also see some men and their temperature dey rise'
Why men is paying for sex is that they don't have patience when the urge comes unlike women who control theirselves'
Women enjoy sex more than men.

Exactly, what I posted in a group on Fb. If we can control ours, we wouldn't pay for sex anymore.

DyingFetus:
This is how you get into a big mess when you take a bold step and report the lecturer

Some few years from now you're either going to be stuck in uni and haven't graduated or you've graduated and then you're assassinated by unknown gun men or under mysterious circumstances


Run your race alone after all you came into this world alone


Let your gf do wetin day her mind

Leave am, nah school your parents send you go.. If you like go form hero, better guy go show later on in her life and she go move on.

grandstar:
If this is true, then it is sad. It's obvious Tonto Dike had some legitimate reasons for dumping him

The broom that swept the first wife has swept the new wife too.

As long as the character flaws that ended the first marriage still exist, no marriage of his would b3 successful.

The only reason why his wives can leave is because they are financially independent. Many women, especially those unable to survive without the man's largesse, stick around, perpetually miserable.

Obviously, the women were the ones footing most of his bills, that is the reason they can pull out. No matter how toxic a man is it is difficult for a woman to leave a man if she depends on him financially. We thought Tonto was crazy, I can see her pain when people refuse to believe her.

SalamRushdie:
I have never seen any man with that very tiny small chain on his neck that's not a chronic womanizer, you see that particular chain any man that will use his hand to buy it na womanizer

Exactly what I said earlier, people like this guy them they get doings when e enter their head. You see that cheating e non go stop am.

Calitoscassius:
Yes, you listened to the women around you right? how many of them? 10? 20? 50? 1? 3? There are more than 10 million women in your area and you have listened to all of their conversations?

Conversation on social media, forget it.

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You see number two, all Nigerians got it. And the women is a on a higher level.

Calitoscassius:
How did you arrive at this ridiculously dumb conclusion?

lol, if you call it dumb then you aren't observant. I have listened to different women's conversations.

What a woman says she wants is different from what attracts her. Unfortunately what seems to attract them is the beginning of their problem.

RomanGreen:
Some people may think you sound harsh and insensitive but this post is exactly my opinion, these women do not know what they deserve, I'm pretty sure a nice guy came around but she rejected him on the grounds of wanting bad boy vibes. The moment I read the word scuffle, I knew something was off. Why on earth will a sane woman struggle or have a scuffle with a man as if she's equal to the man? Sensible ladies run away the moment a man goes physical, then again I'm forced to ask what could have provoked the man to go physical, we all know these women have sharp mouths they can't control. It's just sad

We are in a society where you are penalized for going physical with someone but not using your words. Women are good with words they know the right words to say that will hit you so hard and men love going physical with no time to trade words.

Learn not to argue with women, make your point and walk away.

We have good guys but they see them as less dominant, weak men. They want hard men, that would put them on their toes, guys that go to clubs, love to have fun, especially those in their early to late twenties.

Confused gender, they want good guy with a bad boy vibes since that doesn't exist they end up going for bad boys.

jconsulting:
This one has allowed devil to use him, if your wife provokes you to the extreme just leave the house and camp with your side chick......

I lie?

not at all bro, this life nah brain brain. When I was dating just one woman nah so I go they monitor her upandan. As I get them plenty, anytime Nkechi make me vex I call Daisy if Daisy miss yarn I call Abies, no time.

EKONGKING:
South South people don't come online and brag daily like the IGBOS .

Look at my village where Iam coming , your post .
have you seen any south south person post such nonsense .
https://www.nairaland.com/7784893/im-based-lagos-where-go

You people and chest beating are legendary like 5 and 6 .

una too they argue, lets come together and see how we can make money.

If you think what people may say before you take decision, you are only hindering yourself. Tomorrow e go enter yanky, e go get one Nigerian wife. Few years e go build one filling station for naija, e go turn odogwu. They there they zuzu

bdon123:
I personally know over 15.I am an oil gas worker too

Guess the young folks sees a better prospect but the older ones aren't.

AdamuKD:
You are a sharp guy. I tuale for you
Even the wife I marry with my hard earned money oh, anytime I want go there, I go appease her make she feel desired and wanted . If not, the sex won't be inspiring. Every woman is wired like that

Brother ignore her, she go play come your side. You can work on women psych.

Brother, this is a life lesson. Business is business, never do more (in any aspect) than is expected of you. If you do instead of being appreciated you will be taken advantage of.

This is Nigeria, everybody they street (irrespective of profession). The slogan is "Mugu fall, guy man wak"