₦airaland Forum

Nwodosis:
He is underpaying and owing workers, yet he keeps a mistress!

All these stingy men nah women they chop their money.

Ogene001:
Consolations is allowed, after much much, a court case is waiting for Tinubu. Despite running away to avoid being served, another Court ruled that he should be served through APC. That's the Koko at this juncture not your leaked audio and your personal feelings towards opponents

He didn't say anything wrong on the leaked tape, "religious war" isn't as bad as people make it look.

Tinubu has done far worse, compare to leak tape

I know of a Hausa guy who studied Fine and Applied Art and has been teaching fine art since he graduated. He just got a job as a head ICT in an agency in Abuja. Southerners are the ones selling job slots, the Hausa are just empowering their people. I was at EFCC office in PH, and 65 per cent of the staff there are Hausa, young guys with flashy cars. The security guy there drives a Camry 2.2.

Make southerners dey play.

Drealman20:
The Nigerian government has made it worse by not investigating how recruitment is being done in most public organisations... The same set of Nigerians that God miraculously gave a Job after so many struggles will be the same person to be selling Job slots in govt agency to other fellow Nigerians. I saw a guy post on nairaland about anyone interested in Junior Cadres of NDLEA.. He is apparently a staff in the agency and he want to sell other peoples slot for money... This means people who are competent will be denied of the job and they will sell it to incompetent ones..

I had to message him on whatsapp and this guy told me I will have to pay 500k . 500k for a Waec applicant, so how much will BSc pay? Maybe 1m to 1.5m. Who are these people selling govt jobs to the citizens? Are we supposed to pay for government jobs before we can be employed again...

I had to screenshot his message before he started deleting bcox I told him that he is doing wrong.. Nigerians, what is wrong with us? Why can't we do thing as it should be done? Why do we like taking advantage of people's situations..?

This is the nairalander below




This is to notify most of you applying for govt job, please just forget it.. It is not that you are not qualified, your fellow Nigerians have connided to sell your job to the people that can offer money.... Both senior and junior staffs are in these wicked act.

See screenshot below

If he had offered to help you get the job, you wouldn't be here rather be in church giving testimony to God. Brother, just they play.

Be successful in anything you do, and watch women fight for your attention. Some guys are so successful that ladies see it as a privilege to sleep with these guys and tell everybody who cares to hear that they have slept with that particular person.

God1000:
Please report her to the police if she doesn't refund your money, don't go and confront her oo

Instead of him reporting to the police so she pays for damages. He they Facebook they exchange words until he says something implicative.

Sometimes we just cause problem for ourselves.

MrBrownJay1:
at her age, thats the only type of comfortable man she will attract anyway? who is she fooling?!

Exactly my thought.

Evestar200:
younger women think they are too young for marriage and need to explore the world before marriage 😏😏

Except one is rich, leave young women alone.

zed7:
Marrying a girl below 28 these days is a risk. People are becoming less mature.

In the past, a 22 year old girl was very mature, these days you see women in their 30's behaving like kids. I cringe when I see some whatsapp status of people over 30. Same applies to men.

Every generation is less mature than the last.

Exactly what I told a friend, but he said younger women I preferrable. I shake my head, them never show am shege

Young girls nowadays all they think about is having a boyfriend. No other plans in life.

Lilsameey:
Nah advert dem dey do.

He non know say nah client them they find. Society has designed it that women aren't supposed to approach men in this part of the world, so they do things to attract men.

dapsoneh:
Na the money oga

this guy can sugar mummy part wella

IyaTola:
Please don't mind my English just pay attention to the content.

A family friend called me and asked if I'll be interested in civil defense work, I told her yes why wouldn't I? She sent me a number to call the man he'll put me through the process.

I was excited, I called the man who spoke to me calmly, he asked me to send my details to him which include my name, age, height, qualifications and all, i did that without instantly i was sooo fast while typing I'm sure even flash will be trilled at the speed.

The next day he sent a civil defense form to me to fill and scan to his mail, i did that and called him to inform him, he then acknowledge that he has seen it and told me he has forwarded my form to their H.R. I should await their call, i was soo happy immediately i dropped the call i started googling salary of a degree holder of the civil defense officer, saw 151k in my mind i was like their Father i don arrive, i go soon buy Benz.

The H.R called me and told me they've contacted my school to ask if i graduated from their school and they told them yes. He then asked for my c.v and told me to wait for my appointment letter.

Early Thursday morning omo see appointment letter for my mail o!! with my name written in capital letter... I called him to notify him of the new development, he congratulated me and told me i will have to pay the sum of 85k for my 2 weeks training in Kano and the payment must be made before noon but i shouldn't worry the money will be returned after my training but u have to pay early so as not to loose the job. I went ahead to borrow the money from a friend and headed to the bank to make payment i already got inside the bank before calling him to send the acct number im to sent the money, that was how the civil defense H.R sent me Yayah Suleman's acct number, i started asking my self why would federal government send me a private account number to pay for training? called the guy and said o boy u almost fooled me sha, the guy laugh and said u got me nice one and dropped the call...

There are lot of scammers out there who will try to scam you all in the name of giving you employment abeg be careful.

This country Nigeria, every person is potential scammers.

1Sharon:
Answer the question pls. Why would the husband say that.

He knows how to run his mouth, but doesn't like to be told shut up. Una just be hypocrites.

I'm not saying the man is right, my bone of contention is no one can choose to stay in Nigeria because he wants to abuse his wife.

1Sharon:
Did you read the OP's account? Why would the husband say; "this is Nigeria, not America and he could break my head and nothing was going to happen" if that wasn't part of his agenda on keeping her in Nigeria"?

He knows how to be verbally abusive but doesn't like to be told shut up. Nonsense.

It is the husband playing the victim.

Can you hear yourself, a man will stay in Nigeria because he wants to keep his wife in Nigeria. The world is not centred around women, there are more important things.

1Sharon:
Her "father's house" is all the way in America.

The reason why he doesn't want to move with his wife over there is because he knows they would treat his fuckup. He would be held accountable.

Both of them are just as rude and deserve each other.

Na which woman you dey cope with before? Yeye.

A man will choose to be in Nigeria because he wants to maltreat his wife like it is the most important in life. He is probably making more money in Nigeria. Will you leave your company in Nigeria to go work in Walmart or as a caregiver in another's man land. Not every body wants to become an employee.

Yes, if it was most Nigerian women una for they play the victim. Look at a woman that wants her marriage to work she doesn't care if she was right or wrong she just wants peace.

Mrdealer4all:
I'm 40. Currently jobless, single, no kids, no career, no degree, and depressed. Why do I feel like I totally failed in life and that there's no hope for me?

You can make millions before you turn 42, with a beautiful young wife and kids. Anything is possible bro. Like someone said, get a skill leave certificate. Skill pays higher than a certificate, though it takes time to develop.

Wifey123:
Thank you for responding. I really just don’t want a failed marriage. Is there any way to fix this so it wouldn’t happen again? He gets angry and says terrible things but usually he calms down later. I mostly say nothing when that happens but I was tired of the argument just was happening over nothing. He’s never hit me before.

Nigerian women come and learn, if it was our country women she would have packed her things to her father's house and start making the man look like a villain to ever want to listen to her.

God knows I wouldn't be able to cope with a Nigerian woman.

Romanoff:
Doxycycline isn't a drug to be used in pregnancy.

The colours of the discharge shows she has an infection.

Please, take her to a proper hospital.

Una still dey born up to 5 children with the way this country dey go, una get mind o.

Exactly my thought, funny he can't take her to the hospital till he receives the next month's salary. Some people just put themselves in unnecessary problems, some things can be avoided.

advanceDNA:
Its not ur father's company....so two things was bound to happen at one point.. you leave the job or the job leave you ....the latter only came sooner....

That is a harsh reality bro. There is only job security if it is a :
1. a multinational company
2. A government job

You see banks and all these one-man businesses, anything can happen any day.

GiwaMoore1:
You need to know that it's not about money always

To Nigerians everything is about money.

Nia69:
Pastor or businessman. 😂😂

All these so-called pastors are all business men.

Obidon1:
End time pastor

People still believe in pastors. Everybody in this country is in survival mode. The difference is some people just know how to package themselves. Men in suits are the real criminals.

One of the reason I don't date students, You must have finish NYSC as well. Nah those old men when they find young meat, they find 100 level girls

Something about men with money, they are very bold and blunt. Even after telling you he doesn't have money, you still go
nowhere because you know that as soon as you leave someone else is waiting to replace you.

Brothers in all you do make money

LilMissFavvy:
If she is not the type of woman you would like to marry, then why are you still wasting her time/emotions? This lady might even be above 30yrs, but still allows men waste her time? You told her you will be coming back to find a wife, yet she is still glued to you. So she cannot ask herself if she isn't good enough for a wife, then end the friendship? She has a low self-esteem. You need to help her out, by ending that closeness, why should you be calling her daily if you don't want her?

Tell her you have found a wife then end the friendship or at least reduce how you call each other. I am wondering what she really did wrong that disqualifies her to be your wife. Or If she hasn't changed for the better. You made her lose a marital opportunity in the past, allow her to be focused at this time of her life.

You will be surprised, some guys are asking for her hands in marriage but she still glues to this ex, that is ruining her life from the onset and he is still coming back to ruin it once more.

OP leave her alone, she probably thinks you guys still have a chance

Don't do anything based on trust in Nigeria. Everybody they street for this country.

Nonam:
If you are a person that often travel, lodge, or visit hotels, you will understand what I am talking about.

If you see what these Nigerian girls do in hotels. If you see how these girls troops into and out of various hotels. If you see the many different men and many various guys forking these girls for material reasons, you will never want to get married to any Nigerian girl.

If you see them outside and inside hotels, you will wonder which guy in his right sense will want to marry. You will feel no sensible guy in his right mind will marry our current Nigerian girls.

The previous day, a young girl was asking me for directions to a place she doesn't know around 9:30 pm to meet a guy she barely knows.

TMTR:
Gbam!!!

I wish I can like your comment multiple times,
the only stress we should be having is how to make more money than we made the previous day

I like that

This statement Damn.

Klass99:
Lmao🤣, okay. What a deduction and assumption.

You have your idea of marriage and I have mine, there is no rule book that says we must all follow the same path, set patterns or man made traditional rules of marriage.

Each couple is allowed to tweak and redefine their marriage as it best suits them. No one should be projecting their beliefs or practices on others. EOD!

I do not intend to force my opinion on you, but as you age, your outlook on life may shift.