Confusedwomsn:


Thank you so much.

You can't just pick up your phone and think because this is s faceless forum you'll insult and abuse someone that did nothing wrong to you.
did I offend or insult you?
You said my life is miserable but why add to my misery, why.
Youve called me all sorts but I kept mute and you continued.
What did I do to you?
Say it.
I've forgiven you but my prayer for stands until you ask God for forgiveness.

Who you be?

NEWSFLASH: you are not God. So shove your "forgiveness" where the sun doesn't shine!

deleSayo:




Sorry madam, God is not wicked and he will not grant your evil prayers.

You dey mind am

Ybaby:


You that called the father of your son "very slow"
You see how painful words are - even from faceless people talkless of from your wife.
You say you know your worth but do you know your husband's worth
When we say stop insulting him - you say it is not easy I am trying my best

Can you see how @freecocoahubby words is hitting right through you and you donot even know his first name.

You have narccissitic tendencies that is someone who does evil but does not see they do evil

I have told @freecocoahubby to stop giving you a taste of your own medicine.

Stop manipulating your husband and expecting him to leave his will and follow yours.

You've spoken well .. but no I won't stop telling her the truth! She's a fake "Christian", a manipulative biitch who uses religion as a weapon! I'm glad she exposed her true colours

andyanders:


Woman, just hold on to urself as this is a public forum. Take the advise that can heal ur wound and pick up ur life. Don't expect everyone to side u. Don't 'cus of this develope BP. I wish u good health and pray u pull 2ru this.

Let her develop BP na.

In fact, OP whats your email address? Let me send you my picture so you can take it to Amadioha to pray for my downfall because I told you the unfiltered truth . Idioot!

Confusedwomsn:


Let God be the judge.
Even if if this forum is s faceless forum, do you know what your words can do.
Did I offend you or insult you in any way, did I.
Say all you want but trust me, I serve s living God that never fails.
He will y judge accordingly. Thank you

Shut the fvck up!

You are no Christian and there's nothing godly about you.

What Christian woman results to curses the minute they feel offended? It's your type that maltreat and even kill housemaids and then lift up holy hands in church on Sunday. Audio sister mary. Oponu!

This is why you've been cursed with the miserable marriage you found yourself in

Confusedwomsn:


[s]Is this all?
You all believe it's fun to cyber bully someone, you know you can express your opinion about me without insulting me.
Did I offend you or do you know me or whst.

As you've caused me to shed tears this Sunday, so will tears be your portion all your life and happiness will be far from your life until your death. Thank you [/s]

Lmaoo!

Chai, you really are a very confused, dumb idioot. Who da hell do you think you are? You really think God will answer your stupid prayers or what.. the same you that verbally abuses your husband whom you committed FORNICATION with and trapped into marriage with a baby?

Make una see drama here o. Your curse holds no water dear and will backfire on you hundred folds.. you that is already living in tears and misery sef

Mizwisdom:


You're not giving to a Pastor, you're giving it to God.

Mizfoolishness strikes again
Dumber than a pile of rocks!

crackkhaus:

I also wonder if you didn't read through her posts and updates to see exactly what is going on.

The man she's married to does not care about her or her respect, he is not looking for it. For a man to tell his wife to go ahead and sleep with other men if she wants to, then nothing she does/says gets to him. He even earns more than her, yet is not interested in contributing to their home.
Nigga is just there fulfilling all righteousness, I saw it from the first post but nightingale who has been living with him is still busy singing hymns hoping for a miracle.

There are only three things available in a woman's arsenal to keep a man under her thumb - the sex she gives him, the respect she has for him, or the children she birthed for him.
A man who doesn't care about having sex with a woman or being respected by her, has become immune to her manipulations & blackmail. Your friend here has lost both of these things - she can't use sex to hold him ransom because he doesn't care if she sleeps with other men. And he doesn't need her respect hence he is okay with not providing even though he can, and doesn't mind her doing whatever she wants and likes.

The only thing left is the kid which she said he dotes on. Remember, the only reason he even married her in the first place is because of that same kid (pregnancy), something which he was manipulated into in the name of testing womb efficiency.

So yes, she has the blame, there's no sugar-coating it.
The man is simply not seeing her at all, I'm sure she's dead to him already. The only thing he seems to care about is the child and remaining with him trying to manipulate/force the love and affection out of him, simply means she has still not learnt her lesson from the beginning.

Facts.

Theres something clearly repulsive about OP and that's why a man who was once her "friend" suddenly doesn't give 2 fvcks about her existence.

UjuJoan2:


You want to have another baby in the middle or all that mess? I don't get it.

You are not really staying because of the child, are you? You are staying because you don't want to be divorced single mother. You don't want be ashamed and disgraced. You need him to make you a whole woman, accepted by the society.

So if he is that important to you, to the point that you will rather die in the marriage, then stop talking back to him and suck it up. Stop disturbing him and stop expecting affections and love. Stop believing he will change . . . . Stop being greedy!

I only feel for that child, and the one I know you will somehow manipulate him in to having again.

I'm glad it's a woman that's saying this. OP is a greedy, manipulative cunnt!

Confusedwomsn:
I now truly believe I'm being manipulated and abused emotionally.
We had s deep talk about separating and all of s sudden money that I always quarrel and fight for food suddenly pooped out and he even got fuel willingly. I bet you if I'm open to sex he will but in the next two weeks he will turn back to tormenting me.
This is s true life story..

I was asked why he is still with me.

He doesn't love me and does not want to lose my love. He knows I love deeply and I'm all about building our home with my being and he is scared of that.
I'm not falling for it anymore, today I've realized my worth.

I never trapped or deceived any one with pregnancy, I'm not desperate to be married and my biggest mistake was loving this man.
I fell in love with my best friend, shared my darkest fears and secrets with him, I've been s loyal wife and mother and served with my sweat.
I'm not perfect but I'm gold, I know my worth..i refuse to be manipulated again .

Thank you for your words, I appreciate.

Which worth? I don't think you are worth much tbh and that's why you found yourself in a toxic situation.

You're already damaged goods and no man will marry you after you divorce this your "friend".. you know why? because:
1. Your attitude stinks.
2. You are so dumb and insecure that you brought an innocent soul into this world with a man you were not in a relationship with, just to prove something to yourself
3. You come with extra baggage (yes this kid you bore for your "friend" is extra baggage for any quality bachelor out there).

So, instead of disturbing us on Nairaland, why not get up and leave the marriage since you don't "need" him. You rude, uncouth thing! Now that you've proven to your pathetic self that you can have a child, take your child and leave!

Beautyaddy:



buhahahahahaha!!!

We all already know her with her chronic hypocrite denial self

Lmaoo!! So she's well known for her idiocy? no wonder

Mizfoolishness below:

No wonder all her posts on this thread have referred to power or solar energy. She don suffer taya

Mizwisdom:


O.D.E

Olosho. Olodo.

Mizwisdom:



Not my complaint, asking for a friend. The things you complain of are available in cities, change your location. Ask anybody enough light, I have no reason to lie on behalf of PHCN

Asking for a friend indeed. Mizfoolishness

Akposy:
Cococandy, Mariangeles, iomoge, petyprinces, pocohantas and others who have been insulted on this thread.... I now know how it feels

I posted one of my Ewa agoyin pics in one cooking Facebook group like that.... The insults I've been getting no be here....some said it's shit, some said I stole the pics...some said the food is nonsense....some said I blended onions as beans ....the insults are breaking my weak heart. 90% of the insults came from the ladies
I feel like going offline
Below is the pics i posted. What exactly is wrong with the meal....I need genuine response

Why is your beans looking purple?

Mizwisdom:




Are you living in a Village?

You that live in the city, what has been your experience with EKEDC?

Confusedwomsn:
I'm not in evil person, yes I have s bsd attitude but I'm not evil.
I was 23yesrs and he was 3o when we got married but somehow everybody See Me as s manipulative human being that trapped him, you can judge me and call me liar but GOD is my judge.
You think if I did not love him I'll open my legs for him.
I'm not perfect but I've suffered with sweat and blood to build this home

Well...

Oluneutral:



For a while now, I've been seeing how you usually talk down on women. Your perception of women is so so demeaning, maybe it has to do with the circle of women you roll with or the experience you once have with any of them. I don't know. I'm just not comfortable with such generalisation.

Please, try and change the circle of females you surround yourself with and discover that not all women fit your generalised perception of them.

Honestly, there are good women, though, they may not be as many as expected but try to be specific while describing them, remember, not all men are angels too.

Thanks.

Likewise, I've also seen numerous posts of yours demeaning men and referring to men as "emotionally weak". Therefore, I suggest you change the circle of males you surround yourself with as you were clearly raised by weaklings.

Note: I advised OP accordingly. His wife is nothing but a lazy leech and this applies to the MAJORITY of Nigerian women who feel entitled to a man's hard earned money.

She's wasteful because she doesn't have to work for that money.
Tell your lazy wife to get a JOB and then she can spend her own money anyhow

Nigerian wives are as useless as can be.

Money = husband provides
Chores = househelps to do it.

Lazy, entitled, irresponsible things!

Mstick:
Anybody with a brain knows that thread was created to massage the ego of Nigerian men.

Nigerian men like to praise themselves and make it look like women from other continents are falling over themselves to date them but believe me it's 100% false.

Black men are just the worst honestly, you see them opening threads upon threads insulting and humiliating black women but you would NEVER see men from other races do that. Are their women perfect? NO! but they respect and protect them anyway.

The reason why most of this black men go after white women is because of the standard the white men set for their own women, they built a country and environment where there women can thrive meanwhile our own men are still here debating if we're allowed to serve them garri with one meat.

You this miserable git! You sure have a lot of time on your hands for someone who claims to have lost a child recently

You hatred for men will be the end of you.