₦airaland Forum

Mobree:
Are the insults really necessary?

I didn't lie tho ..

Ardar:
God i hate it when people especially women use this word, it's so degrading.

Then go and die!

juiicii:
I married last year. My wife is a choleric just like myself.she is the type that will not tolerate mistakes from me, if i don't keep things in their position, then hell will let loose,she hardly 'respects' me, she behaves independently and when i threaten divorce, she will say i should do it fast, because of her attitude i hardly give her money, when she demands for money, i will ask her, what of your salary, she will tell me that its my responsibility to give her money for somethings irrespective of her personal earnings. Meanwhile she never brings any money on the table for the family upkeep, i foot the bills :rentage,food,nepa, etc. I stopped buying clothes, etc for her since she put up those attitudes that piss me off. Infact i just don't love her again, we argue a lot except i just lock myself up in one room which is my new method now. Pls experienced advice needed

Just imagine the sense of entitlement. So disgusting!

This mentality right here is what makes the average Nigerian woman a completely useless non-entity who is undeserving of love, loyalty or respect.

I dont blame them sha.. it's some of these lilly-livered beta simps we call 'men' in the society who have done a fantastic job in convincing foolish women that they deserve the world simply because of that putrid GUTTER in between their legs

Yet another useless, senseless and idiotic post created for the sole purpose of bashing men

"Men this, men that" una no dey tire? Go fvck and marry yourselves then since men are the cause of your miserable existence. Idi0ts!

Come o, @lavylilly.. aren't you the same LillyVal who got exposed in romance section for being a teenage pr0stitute runs girl? How come you've now turned counsellor of married men in the family section?

Wonders shall never end on this site.

Wtf! Are you a child bride? Did you go to school at all?

@A772, did you tell your fiance the full story of your family dynamic before you decided to get married? I suspect the reason he backed out is far beyond your father's reluctance. No man would willingly marry a secretive woman with serious family issues (which he indirectly finds out about because she didn't tell him from the get go).

Nigerian ladies please stop being secretive.. the purpose of courtship is to get to know each other (including your backgrounds) .. Always be honest about any dysfunction in your home.. trust me, it will save you a world of heartache in the future.

crackhaus:
Keep shut and don't try to be smart by half.
Everyone with basic education knows what the expression means.


But when you specified his sisters as the dogs with fangs in your comment, even a blind man could sense your intention.

So what are you trying to wriggle out of?

Lool.. she's implying dogs have "fangs".. I guess dogs are vampires now
@ImaIma1 you be oponu I swear.. Idi0t! Did you go to school at all?

[quote author=Fountainofyouth post=85044198][/quote]Did I just see you call mods? Lawd! You're so childish

Better make sure your records are clean, little girl, coz I'm about to scroll through your profile and flag up any nonsensical post you ever made...

Fountainofyouth:
How did I insult him bikonu? You have a problem seeing oo.

.. and you have a problem with comprehension

TonyeBarcanista:
She is entitled to her flawed opinion bro... Blame the wife that brought her family issue to public forum.

To be honest I blame these jobless housewives who litter nairaland with useless threads.. it's like they derive pleasure from watching bitter feminists ridicule their home, spouse and marriage - anyway, what's my own sef

Fountainofyouth:
Haa, wasn't he a boy before being a man? What is wrong in what I said? Is it because I joined the two together? Are you the husband? Nawa oo.

You talk a lot of trash and you're so fond of insulting people's husbands - which speaks volumes about where you are in life.

You're probably financially dependent on him and that's why you can't walk away - if you could leave easily you would've done so since and not come on nairaland for advice/opinions.

cococandy:
Obviously low on understanding too.

I was only commending those tho are trying to educate you. I wouldn’t attempt to , seeing as you’re obviously beyond redemption. Only trolls )such as the troll account you replied this to) and those whose full time job it is to prowl this forum looking for the woman hate of the day to endorse would think you are logical.


To think that you post disrespectful posts about women and think you deserve a debate on the issue. the entitlement of it. I wouldn’t blame you for it. Those who engage you and debate you like you’re speaking meaningfully are to blame.

Stay pained!

oyoolima:
[s]Oga you said you "took" the back of your hand and gave her a slap.

This hand must be made of iron to cause instant bleeding. Tomorrow you may "take" the front of your hand and now beat her proper.
No wonder the woman ran for her life.

Coming back at 2am is not ideal for someone that is married with a family.

I do not know what throwing hands means.
If she is shouting and you cannot take it shout hard too ,let your voice be louder so you both enjoy the madness together.

Or tell her you will not engage in conversation if she's screaming then lock yourself in the room till she's calm.

This apology you're giving now,if you had put this much effort into saying sorry for coming back this late,your hand would not have located her mouth.

Now the whole family knows you have twitchy hands.How will you now meet their eyes without shame. Budding wife beater is your new nickname.

Your marriage is still new,you both need to learn to resolve conflict in a less hostile manner.

A whole 33 year old man,5 years you used to senior your wife and you cannot manage your home.

Better go and watch war room.

*Your wife did well to invite outside forces since you slapped her hard enough to cause bleeding, it is also likely you would have slapped her again or even hit her if she had kept quiet about it(in your mind,you would start seeing it as the quickest way to keep her quiet),so my brother from now on, if something happens to her the whole world already have small insight into who dunnit.*

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Such a childish comment.. How old are you?

RisenPhoenix:
I don't put any personal value on a lady's civility. If she's civil, it's to her benefit not mine. And if she's uncouth, it's to her detriment not mine. Your write ups and way of thinking are nowhere near the category of those I would ever consider educative, thanks all the same.
Pass please.

I just love this comment. You put her in her place

Dupalmer:
She refused to rest when he was begging her to but suddenly rested when she got a slap. OK oo.

He should keep begging her until she comes around. I hear. Goddess wife.
A virtuous woman could have called her husband to a peaceful dialogie rather than rant with angry words. Believe me a peaceful 5mins counsel could have been mightier than 2hours nagging.

Thank you! I'm so sick of women's double standards and victim playing.

The woman kept following her husband up and down like a mad dog, shouting and insulting him - and he's expected to just sit there and keep silent like a veggie?

He is a human being and he reacted just like most people would... so annoyed that he was begging her sef, like she's some diety. Nonsense!

She was yelling me ,throwing hands and screaming at me . I ignored her and left the room to the living room but she followed me and I asked her to leave me alone but she kept going


Haba, you're a human being nau - the bolded shows provocation on her part and she clearly threw hands first!

OP, your wife deserved that slap tbh and I think you've begged her enough. Let her go if she wants..

LaaJiblik:
Leave that matter.
Plus KICC. Plus RCCG. All churches with Nigerian proprietors are the same.

Ququma just look for the nearest ‘oyinbo church’ and join.
You will hear gospel, sound teaching and preaching.

I dont know about all nigerian churches. I'm talking about my experience in cambridge.

sutelk:
Hello house, wake up, I want to share my testimony.
So I signed my tenancy and got the keys to my house today. And shhh... don't tell anybody this one; I also locked myself outside my house on my first day in the house. It cost me £50 to get back in and everyone I told the story says I was lucky cost it could have cost as much as £300. The locksmith didn't change the locks sha, he just slid a thick cardboard in between the door slid it up and used the cardboard to push back the lock and collected my 50 quid and I was like why didn't I think of this? come and see me pricing, the guy even said £70 if I pay with card, he only collected £50 because I paid cash. Anyway, lesson learnt, so in case u lock yourself outside one day just holla me, I will collect just £48 as a fellow nairalander.
Back to my testimony, so I've been in the UK 6 months now, came here really low on cash, as I had to apply for my visa twice following an error in my first Application.
I remember posting my challenge here and someone advised me to contact churches if they could help, I made some calls and God connected me with this family who didn't know me from Adam, they accommodated and fed me for the past 6 months taking just a token.
When I set out to look for a house about a month ago my budget was about £3000 for rent, deposit, and all those their charges. But I got my keys today spending just about £800 for rent and referencing for a 2 bedroom house in Cambridge, and man Cambridge is expensive.
I was favored and got a key worker housing, paying just 80% of the actual rent and reference fee, no deposit and no other charges.
You won't believe those referencing guys actually called my landlord in Naija, the guy first cut their call thinking they were yahoo yahoo.
To summarize my testimony, I now have my keys, not moved in yet, those guys to reconnect the gas are doing slow motion, they can't give me time they want to come, they just want me to sit at home all day waiting for them, like I don't have work, don't have their time yet, I'm still enjoying the egusi soup I am eating in my present home, I know indomie days are approaching no need to rush.
Somebody should collect offering.

Bros, i used to live in cambridge, its a lovely place. im in leicester now and no joy here - its cheap but too rowdy. just a piece of advice: if you dey find better church try KICC. No go redeem o drama full dat church (talking from experience)

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