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sassysure:
I love this!
Also add, relocate to UK and marry your bros wife along with him before u marry a new wife


Mtcheew.
If his brother isn't in UK nd he gets a 6 figure paying job there, won't he relocate?

Can't he start off in other developed country first, give the wife the opportunity to discover herself then move to UK not as squatter but somebody who has already stayed in abroad too and knows her way around.

U know your wife has an inferiority complex issue and u don't want to help her out instead want to uproot and throw her into toxic surrounding that will worsen her state and u call yourself a Dr?

U don't know anything about human management.

Help that woman build her confidence by keeping the two ladies poles apart.
If your bros wife is as good as u painted her, why has she not reached out to your wife peacefully and amicably by putting herself in your wife's shoe.

I think u are in love with her background not her personality. And u seem like the type who can easily betray his wife for a little penny else I don't know why u want to go and squat with your brother and family with your own family.
Drs stay in Nigeria and write professional exams, apply for jobs and move when they get one and move into their own house, u want to free load
Awof dey run belle

Agbaya! It's so obvious this topic hits close to home for you Go and reconcile with your sister in law instead of wallowing in your pathetic display of idiocy.. even your own husband knows you're suffering from inferiority complex . Lol!

sassysure:
Exam ke?

He don't know that one.
He only want to go and live with his brothers wife under the same roof.

He didn't even praise his brother or his own wife but his brothers wife. What am i saying?
He said his wife has an inferiority complex
Awon werey
Dr ni Dr ko

Hahahhahahahaha! Na so e pain you reach?
OP, e be like say your wife don arrive

Mrperfecto:
I have 3 wonderful children 9,2, 5 months. My first daughter is from my previous relationship. I recently changed her school to an expensive one 50k more than her old school. My son still attending the old school which is a good school with expensive fees too. My wife is not happy and accused me of loving my daughter more than her kids. I love my children equally and told her I don’t see the point of changing his school Now , he is only 2 in primary one and has promised to change him to the new school when he is in primary one. She has been acting funny and treats my daughter like her worst enemy , which I reported the matter to her mother. She supported my wife and said I should change his school for peace to reign, I was shocked I taught she would talk to my wife and makes her understanding instead she sided her. Anyways I still stick to my decision of not changing his school and my wife is still mad. Is it worth it to move him school ? I hope I’m not wrong with my decision ?

This right here is a MAJOR sign that your wife has mental issues and will potentially abuse your daughter in your absence!

I mean what right thinking human would treat a little kid as their "worst enemy" for a decision her father made? Smh.

rain21:
[s]I didn't interpret anything,it was exactly what you wrote that I read.you compliment your brother's wife,do you also compliment your own wife? Your wife has insecurities and you are making matters worse for her by trying to make her squat in her rival's home when she's comfortable here. If you were to be in her shoes, how would you feel?
Relocate, get a job and send for her later.it's simple[/s]

Absolute bullshiit!

So in the midst of an important issue here it's his wife's childish sentiments that should take precedence? What useless rivalry is she doing with someone who doesn't send her? Someone who she just developed some silly inferiority complex towards because the lady is abroad or something.. Or are we not reading the same thread?

This is why important decisions should never be left to women, they ruin promising lives with their unstable emotions. Smh.

As for you nlPoster, you are simply dumb! Please dont ruin this lovely thread with your senseless-ness

Uisce:
Speak for yourself, you got married for selfish reasons ( your previous thread ). You want society to see you as a married woman by fire by force but madam, no be by force to stay married if it's not working na. Na you know.

For your mind now you think say you get sense
Somebody posted her opinion and you went digging through previous threads to find ammunition to insult her. Smh. Is it because she posts all her stuff on one account? Unlike idi0ts like you who create anoymous accounts to complain on how your ugly wives have emasculated you at home fvck the fvck off!

computergeek:
I know you're smarter than this and you just want to troll, but there are actually people who have made watching Adesua's womb a full-time job.


In saner climes, people can get married and decide not to have kids until after 10 years. They'll focus on their careers or travel the world to live life first. Here in Africa, and of course, in Naija the shithole, after one year of marriage and there's no child, you become a laughing stock.


She actually said indirectly once that she miscarried, and jobless frustrated souls are adding to her pain.

This silly statement of yours has rendered your entire post useless.

First of all, it is so ridiculous that you would use the cultureless lifestyle of the West as a yardstick for how Africans should live their own lives - this is inferiority complex at its finest!

Secondly, no fertile and mentally stable couple is happy to wait 10 whole years before child bearing irrespective of their race - and to think you are a woman saying this is just what woman do you know gets married and doesn't desire the fruit of the womb? Smh

abescom:
You and your kind should learn not to comment on issues on nairaland if you have nothing tangible to say on the issue.

Many people who come here ( and I have had to at some point ) do so because they need help and want to get it without revealing their identity. The fact that you don't need such at the moment doesn't mean others are petty.

And he adding the money and work aspect is quite justifiable. He obviously is trying to make people see work isn't an excuse.

And if you give someone as much as he has said he gave and you still get called names because you help someone in genuine need you surely will be angry too.

Let's stop pulling others down because you have a way of belief that's different from theirs.

Lmao! You dey mind am

Mstick is a well known yabaleft escapee with severe daddy issues who hides under the cloak of "feminism", spending hours ranting in the family section like a mad dog!

She only regurgitated that stupiid post in a desperate attempt at garnering 'likes' ... funniest part is the simpleton actually thought her usual cohorts will join the bandwagon to hurl insults at OP.. but unfortunately only ended up exposing how idiotic and frustrated she is right on the front page.. smh

So as old as you are, you cannot make a decision for yourself? jumping from one so called "pastor" to the other for them to chose your spouse for you. Smh.

If you like, marry her because 'x' amount of pastors said so - but please whatever you see there, abeg suffer am in peace - not that a year from now you will come and disturb us with a thread called "I married her because my pastor told me to, now I regret"

Psalme91:
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

And you kept opening your legs to be impregnated by their son in a pathetic attempt to prove them wrong right? You could've stopped at two but now you've got a house filled with 4-5 innocent children who will grow up knowing they are not valued because they are girls.

I know you are upset right now but shame on you, your silly husband and his useless family members.

LIVINGICON:
Keep living in a Fool's paradise.
I don talk finish

Like I said, Nigeria is full of backward apes... and you must be one of them

LIVINGICON:
What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.

What useless lineage? Are we in the 18th century or what. So, you'll sink into depression if you have a girl child right? Agbaya!

Btw, your last statement is highly laughable! So boys automatically guarantee happiness right? Go ask my uncle who has four sons - all of whom their mother turned against him after spending millions raising and sending them abroad. Likewise I know others with daughters who are living in peace and contentment. Be careful how you talk before God punish you there.

This is absolutely ridiculous!

People still care about the gender of a baby in this day and age? This is why Nigeria will never progress - full of backward apes with silly mindsets

Just remember, Bobrisky is also a "male child"

LegendHero:
How do you know he is not happy?

Why can’t you guys stop all these kind of hateful tradition. Davido married an Igbo and everyone is happy but Peter married Lola and you guys hate him for marrying a Yoruba.

Let’s be blunt, you all talk in this manner coz she’s Yoruba and not because you truly care about how they both feel.

Whose discussing tribe here? Abeg fvck off my mentions with your tribalistic foolishness

LegendHero:
They are both Psquare. No one can rule for life, they are both living on past glory now just like Dbanj, Tuface, etc.

Peter already moved on with Lola, no amount of hate from people like you will change the fact.

Peter might have 'moved on' with that over ripe yellow paw paw old cargo, but trust me, that man is NOT happy - which is evident by his constant display of childish behaviour on social media

Brazenbabe:
So I am married? Hehehehe
I thought I was the typical single frustrated E-feminist.
Una no go kill me for this Nairaland

You're just too dumb for my liking.. Where in my comments have I ever said you were single? Gtfoh!

RisenPhoenix:
Intelligent responses are for intelligent people. Even in the Bible women are acknowledged as having no reasonable thing to say. Why else would they be banned from speaking in church?

Don't mind the boring sexually frustrated git! Truth is Brazenbabe actually spends hours ranting on Nairaland because she unfortunately found herself in a long distance marriage where her husband went abroad thus abandoning her to a life of loneliness and sexual frustration.

I pity those who take her rants seriously - constantly repeating the same redundant lines that all e-feminists regurgitate when their little brains cannot conjur up a reasonable response.

Don't waste your time bro.

Of course, it's the same old tired hags ranting on this thread. Mstick (with serious daddy issues), fountainofyouth (the immature teenage runs girl) and of course my favourite lonely, frustrated and overweight CHoccolaTE.

Everyday men vs women .. Una no dey taya?

You can't further your studies bro - with a 3rd class, you gotta do your degree over. Apply for an undergraduate degree abroad and take it from there.

cococandy:
I’m sorry . Does having children reduce a woman’s ability to keep her vagina and pubic area clean?

After the healing process(which varies in everyone) , all sexual relations can resume like before.

Not if it STINKS! - which is why OP's husband has categorically refused to lick her rotten BOREHOLE

Hadampson:
Do you know him personally

Everything I stated is what the agbaya told me himself in a different thread.

EgunMogaji2:
Trust me I am enjoying “my” Nigeria. Many of us returnees are indeed enjoying “our” Nigeria.

Good luck on your immigration plans. The world is an oyster.

Speak for yourself alone and not the thousands of returnees who are dying to return abroad.

rinzaugustine:
How about your children ?Are they planning to relocate or are you going to start a life of bachelorhood at retirement age

His children are in the custody of his 3x divorced wives who also collected his properties and funds in divorce court.. and that's why he had no choice but to return to Nigeria.

Moral of the story: never take the advice of anyone dumb enough to get married and divorced 3 times to three different women.. dude is on Nairaland preaching because he can no longer return to the states where he lost everything! OP has serious issues that he hasn't come to terms with yet. @EgunMogaji2 am I lying?