Hi Dr.

I just found out that I am way past due to visit an OB\GYN while talking to my friends they found out that I had never been and said I had to. I am 22 never been, never even knew I was supposed to go because I wasn't raised that way (that is my mum and I don't actually sit down and discuss anything sexual over icecream or anything like that). I have known for two years now that I am to go see one but I am actually terrified of going.

My question is what are the consequences of me postponing a visit and is a visit to the gynecologist the big deal I am making it out to be?

Thanks

I don't care if he fell and his d**ck entered her, he is a freaking cheat. Once a cheater always a cheater, one of the things I can't stand in people. I don't know how I would react at that point in time but for me that relationship will definitely be over.

Why should she marry him and suffer abuse for another six years? abi which one, it is the same thing I keep telling my friend that I will say to the poster. Our life's most often are determined by the choices we made, I am really sorry to say this but one has to say it like it is sometimes.

Firstly, you chose to stay in a relationship in which your partner stepped out on you. For why?
You also chose to remain in an abusive relationship with this same cheater. I ask again why?
You chose to have not only one but two kids with this abusive cheater. WHY?
You chose to trust the abusive cheater with ownership of the business that you also toiled for. My sister why?

I am not trying to judge but I am just trying to point out the fact that you have made some ********* choices. Now will marrying this abusive cheater who legally owns the business of which half is rightfully yours, be a smart choice? My dear only God knows but I know that it is never too late to start over we all deserve better in life, so we should aim and strive for better.

With whatever choice you make I wish you the best.

I like the following shows:

The closer

Brothers and sisters

NCIS

Ugly Betty

and I recently got into Supernatural although it gives me the creeps sometimes I can't seem to stop

@ poster

If what you posted states everything truly and you have left no part out then I feel for you because for some reason the US is looked on as supreme (which I think is riduculous) and it might diminish your chances of being able to gain entry into other countries if you have been banned from the US.

Try to take a little of everybody's advice on how to proceed from here but don't go about it the brash way but the sensible way. It is either all this is just some misunderstanding by their hi-tech anti forgery gadgets or the US embasy has developed a full proof 419 operation (declaring lottery winners, taking their money, and then denying them access for some cooked up reason or another) in a country popularly know for its 419. When you think about it, it is somewhat genius, I hope this is not the case if not we don suffer

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Thank God for frozen foods, easily microwaveable, restaurants, take outs and delivery places. After spending your money on such for a while one would finally sit down and learn to cook. Abegi, there are so many other things to worry about in a partner than their inability to cook

I eat a lot of chinese food so I am pretty sure I have had some weird meat, I just can't tell you what they are. lol j/k My point is I wouldn't consciously try weird meat is all.