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Dear Nairalanders,

Please a quick one, someone asked me to message on Whatsapp - saw the person on Facebook not too long my WhatsApp and Facebook was blocked and suspended please anyone with Facebook email where I can report my ordeal, I have tried using Google to search for that the closest emall I could get was press@fb.com and records@fb.com but I am not convinced that is the support email or customer email anyone with useful information should please help

Thank you for your attention

Yes of course my first degree should be a better qualifications however I have not practiced but I don't think that would be a problem

budaatum:
If there is, would you qualify to be hired?

Remember you "didn't think practicing that was interesting to me".

Is there position for Water Resources Engineer in Nigeria?

budaatum:
That is not what I said!

Please read the post again to understand what I wrote, or ask questions so it can be explained to you!

You said it all, opportunities are not here in Nigeria but abroad, perhaps I can rexonsider if I have the opportunity to work abroad exactly what I noted first

budaatum:
Really!?

A friend of mine drove a friend to Liverpool this morning to go buy an Audi TT. His friend is a digital security expert for a water resource company. We both laughed sadly that Nigeria does not even have pipes not to take of securing it with technology.

It's like you don't like the opportunities available to you!

Although I am graduate with honors in Water Resources Engineering I didn't think practicing that was interesting to me, so, when I was opportuned to learn Safety under Dorman Long Engineering with an Umbrella Organization being OSHA, I found it quite interesting and told myself it's something I like to do, the culture, the drill, the professionalism in thinking about Safety in every work force made my curiousity even more, I know Standards about Safety is considerably represented abroad I picked UK because I have been, I even have a daughter though we have not been in contact since 2021 when we did a video call- I would be happy to connect and not be seen as a dead beat.

I am sorry for loosing your farmland and resources, obviously I am sure that land employed some village women

I am happy your house was not bulldoze,still using your professional advise would help me

budaatum:
I was subsistent. 10 acres of oranges, palm, cocoa and kola nut trees. Cassava, maize, and bitterleaf which was my commercial. Kabiyesi sent caterpillar and bulldozed like 100 hectares of farm land. Now, only my house of 2 rooms stands right there in the middle of all this land that was the basket of the Orolu Kingdom like the Nile was to Egypt. Now women eating my palm oil are murdered and school fees are requiring alternative sourcing. The stupidity pains me too much!

I got a call last night. Person on the phone said, "10 years ago I told you I wanted to travel out of Nigeria, and you asked me if I've ever been outside Nigeria, and I said no. So you drove us to Seme Border and we walked across into the Republic of Benin, and you said, "now you've travelled out of Nigeria". "Every journey must start with a first step or one would go no where", you said, and we went to a beach on Badagry Road where you sat and read and drank Guinness for hours while I played with sand", the person on the phone told me on a call from Canada.

If I "had my way" I'd fly like superwoman and batwoman and spiderwoman and the Angel Gabriella too.

Please explain to me how you have exercised the interest that you say you have.

Akwa Ibom State, I find myself flickering here and there, loads of opportunities but the one thing to be my favourite is where I am finding hard choosing

However I have this interest to practice as a Safety Professional if I have my way I would like to do the Nebosh certification and apply to work in the UK if that sounds tenable

Oh I am sorry for your land been grabbed, are you subsistent farmer or commercial?

budaatum:
I said Gemini, but perhaps should have said Google AI.

Freeze! You need to be able to research stuff, and the internet makes that easy!

So tell, why would you not be able to .......?

Note how I left out the end of that sentence. It's because, in my mind it's not only "fashion and designing and tailor" I'm hearing you are not able to, but everything, including cybersecurity!

Palm fruits, you say. I grew that, and planted lots of bitterleaf between, but kabiyesi has appropriated my land.

What state are you in?

Palm fruits,

I must be real open to you, I doubt I would be able to learn fashion and designing that is becoming a tailor

I don't have Gemini but I would look it up.

I think what I learn is a COUNTERFEIT but what is innert in me is pure gold unfortunately I don't think I know my strength this is why I need you to be my mentor

budaatum:
Why would you not be able to learn fashion and design?

Do you perhaps subscribe to casualobserver's theory that one can't learn what one sets one's heart to?

Do a Gemini search for "learning cybersecurity" and tell me which of the steps you have already taken.

What do you farm?

At the moment I am farming, meagerly though

Where I am fashion and designing but I know I may not be able to do that.

As for the skills I would be happy to learn cyber security

At the moment my challenge is a laptop and knowing where to learn this, though, I live in the village (rural area)

budaatum:
What do you currently do?

What skills are easily learnt where you are?

Which skills can you learn with minimum expense?

You really need to access your self to know your Strengths and Weaknesses and Opportunities and Threats.

Please send a mail to the address I posted

Akinzola:
I have some old records, let's deal

That's why I am asking for your mentorship to be very honest with you I can't think of a skill I have apart from being skilled at communicating and driving

What skills do you suggest I learn?

budaatum:
You really should be acquiring skills to be skillful for yourself, and not "if". And you should start from skills you already have that you can build on.

So tell, what skills do you currently have and what skills do you intend to acquire.

And no, I do not have "CD's from the 70/80's", as I've converted all I had to MP3s and given the CDs away.

Thank you for your honest input, yes, I am willing to be skillful if you can be my mentor to talk me through certain skills that you know aligns with your project...

By the way do you have CD's from the 70/80's?

There is a client willing to purchase them I just posted the mail sent in my feed

budaatum:
Job, no. Work that I want done, maybe. But you'd need to show you have the skills to do the work.

For instance, I have a proposed project to introduce chess in a school in Lagos. Not being there, I'd need chess sets bought and taken to the school by someone who can teach or facilitate the teaching of chess. Certain skills are required to do this work, but you have not shown you have them so you are not being considered.

What you must understand is that no one gives you a job because you need a job. You will be provided work by a person who needs a job done only if you have shown competence to do what they want done.

And that is the reason that you should acquire skills, which I would willingly assist you with if you show seriousness, for which anything Olumba Olumba would be the opposite, note.

budaatum:
Job, no. Work that I want done, maybe. But you'd need to show you have the skills to do the work.

For instance, I have a proposed project to introduce chess in a school in Lagos. Not being there, I'd need chess sets bought and taken to the school by someone who can teach or facilitate the teaching of chess. Certain skills are required to do this work, but you have not shown you have them so you are not being considered.

What you must understand is that no one gives you a job because you need a job. You will be provided work by a person who needs a job done only if you have shown competence to do what they want done.

And that is the reason that you should acquire skills, which I would willingly assist you with if you show seriousness, for which anything Olumba Olumba would be the opposite, note.

Thank you for your honest input, yes, I am willing to be skillful if you can be my mentor to talk me through certain skills that you know aligns with your project...

By the way do you have CD's from the 70/80's?

There is a client willing to purchase them I just posted the mail sent in my feed

budaatum:
Job, no. Work that I want done, maybe. But you'd need to show you have the skills to do the work.

For instance, I have a proposed project to introduce chess in a school in Lagos. Not being there, I'd need chess sets bought and taken to the school by someone who can teach or facilitate the teaching of chess. Certain skills are required to do this work, but you have not shown you have them so you are not being considered.

What you must understand is that no one gives you a job because you need a job. You will be provided work by a person who needs a job done only if you have shown competence to do what they want done.

And that is the reason that you should acquire skills, which I would willingly assist you with if you show seriousness, for which anything Olumba Olumba would be the opposite, note.

Dear Nairaland,

I hope you have the time to read the post as given by the employer if interested send a mail to tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com

Honestly it is high time we approach this matter nail on, nobody who suffered poverty growing up should raise a child unless you find a partner who is better off financially this is not gold digging it is having foresight what if my only mistake is not being financially stable but better in other areas like being faithful and loyal and even willing to work if I get the push to, so,ladies for the good of your unborn children find yourself a financially stable man the same goes to the man but when you are there ask him or her to lead you up the ladder that wouldn't be gold digging rather planning for a better future

So, if you are a lady ready for marriage, first thing first let's both be financially stable,to avoid endangering our offspring yet unborn

EmmyMaestro:

https://www.tiktok.com/video/7644665555949194516?_r=1&_t=ZS-96r8nFuCczp

Dear Recruitment Team,

I am applying for the Health Safety and Environment Officerc
These are my Experience;-

- Hotel Manager – 2 years: I led day-to-day operations for a busy hotel, including staff supervision, customer care, health and safety compliance, and conflict resolution. This gave me strong experience in supporting people, maintaining high hygiene standards, and working 12-hour shifts under pressure.


-Marketing and Communication: I created advertising flyers and promoted the business for wider coverage, showing I can follow instructions, communicate clearly, and work independently.


-Physical and Mental Fitness: I am OSHA-trained, able to assist with manual handling, personal care, and overnight shifts. I treat all people with dignity and respect.

I'm eager to kickstart my career with any reputable conglomerate. I'd be drawn to the industries commitment to Innovation, Sustainability, and Excellence.

With academic projects and internships, I've built skills in Safety to accompany any relevant role. I'm excited to apply these skills, learn, and contribute to your organizations growth.

I have drafted my CV with this cover letter below. I am available to discuss further how I best fit this position.

Thank you for considering my application. This opportunity would change my life and allow me to serve your conglomerate with dedication.

Kind regards,




PS: Attached is my CV






Abak, Akwa Ibom State, Nigeria | tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com |

PROFESSIONAL SUMMARY
Dedicated and hardworking professional with 2+ years managing hotel operations, staff, and customer service. OSHA-trained with strong focus on health, safety, and dignity in care. Seeking Healthcare Assistant role in UK with Certificate of Sponsorship. Available to relocate immediately. Physically fit for 12-hour shifts and manual handling.

KEY SKILLS
Personal Care and Dignity in Support
Health and Safety Compliance (OSHA Trained)
Staff Supervision and Team Leadership
Customer Service and Conflict Resolution
Record Keeping and Confidentiality
Fluent English – Written and Spoken

WORK EXPERIENCE
Hotel Manager |, Akwa Ibom | 2022 – 2024
Led daily operations for 15-room hotel, supervising 6 staff members
Enforced hygiene, fire safety, and health standards for guests and staff
Designed advertising flyers and promoted hotel, increasing occupancy by 30 percent
Resolved customer complaints with empathy, ensuring repeat business
Handled cash, stock, and shift scheduling during day and night periods

EDUCATION AND TRAINING
B.Eng Water Resources Engineering |Federal University of Technology, Owerri| 2009
OSHA General Industry Safety Certificate | 2017

REFERENCES
Available upon request

I would be so glad if I see the help

dawnomike:
The Brotherhood is on da way... Help cometh!!!

So very true but about my previous request shall you be willing to grant if you could - I mean job?

budaatum:
I agree too. We just need to sing it proudly and eventually sing both.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Y2KH1fGZyA?si=UtCX0L8Ra8BeLugd


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gyRwYxlhfMs?si=fa8k6EtWJoXq1uEx

Peace of the Father,

Right now I have no where to go to but seek help from my members in Brotherhood of the Cross and Star I have no job and the only thing I have is a degree and certifications in safety I am willing to make my life better if I can have a job and a good coach to direct me further,please I don't want to grow old like this, I am 40years old living in the village

Contact me with: tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com

Perfect Peace!

I have the potential to learn and fit into your terms and conditions if the situations are right..
Plus I have worked as a Safety Officer I want to reflect this in whichever position you give me - hope I answered correctly

budaatum:
Freeze, there are lots of people out there who need jobs, and some think better than some.

It's after all your brain and mind that I'd be hiring so why would I recommend yours?

https://www.nairaland.com/4363094/what-happens-when-youre-dead/5#124374685

Thank you Leader Olumba Olumba Obu

Single,
40+
Available for a woman abroad because the FUTURE OF OUR CHILDREN should be paramount

I am not proud I am ready to look after the home while I get on my feet(jo)

Trust me you shall be loved till eternity if you take me out of this hole called a country, the reason I am resorting to this is because of the usual- we all know relationship must be funded, I do not blame any woman who seeks financial stability it is important not for you but your children yet unborn or if you help me get a good job I'd really appreciate

Please forgive me if this is asking too much

Dear Beautiful People,

I am typing this because this is urgent, at 40year old I can't lie to myself, I need assistance not in a bad way, by that, I mean, assist me to assist us- I am searching for a lady in the diaspora because hopefully would like to live and work abroad...I am 40years old never married searching for whom God touches her heart after all it is recorded that he who finds a wife hath found a good thing and obtaineth favor from the Lord, I am athletic do not smoke or take alcohol so you can be assured of my time, if you do this God know I will love you to the end of time.

To contact me you can send email to tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com

Again I am male, 40, hail from Akwa Ibom State and resident in Akwa Ibom State

I am ready for you to teach me to be employable I am not adamant to be taught- I am teachable!

budaatum:
Freeze, you need to do what will make you employable, and believe me when I say you have done its opposite where I am concerned.

I mean, just last week I hired someone frim here to go buy stuff for ma. They'd shown themselves capable and reliable, so they got paid very well.

Ok would you be kind to do what you believe is right to do

budaatum:
Freeze, there are lots of people out there who need jobs, and some think better than some.

It's after all your brain and mind that I'd be hiring so why would I recommend yours?

https://www.nairaland.com/4363094/what-happens-when-youre-dead/5#124374685

I honestly need a job it's been tough on my side, depending on what I deal on is not enough could you please recommend me if you have the capabilities

budaatum:
This is like asking if I am a bot, lol.

Seun specifically created Nairaland so we can chitchat with one another, so please be welcome.

Buda are you a spirit, was a few minutes reading about you, can we have a chitchat?

budaatum:
buda does not respond to pms. They can be emailed at gmail.

I would marry you but I need a job to be able to take responsibility

Lovelink1991:
There is a saying that women are nothing without men, it is true.

A lady of 39 years has cried out for help that she need a man to marry her that she is get old.

Watch and see her story of what led to her being single.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4CLKB8L0I8?si=nCgxhGO5EcMo_l2F

Dear Ladies,
Unbehalf of any or whoever caused the agreement never to raise the bar for a man I am apologizing...My Spiritual knowledge teaches woman are the foundations for materialistic wealth,so, I am seeking that woman not to give me money but help me land that dream job, I shall remain forever grateful..I graduated with honors in Water Resources Engineering also have some certifications as a Safety Officer I don't want this depression to force suicide because lately been considering to end it, but I fear what the Creator would say, if as a man you are touched please do not hesitate...I shall be hoping with faith that somebody here is touched,you can reach me via tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com

God bless!

Thank you for this, I am going celibacy for 8,months or so can we talk

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *23rd January 2026*

Topic: The Truth About Emotional Purity

Scripture:
"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." - Proverbs 4:23

*THE PURE WORD*

Emotional purity—reserving deep emotional intimacy for appropriate relationships—is as important as physical purity. Sharing your heart inappropriately creates bonds that can be as difficult to break as physical ones.

Emotional affairs often precede physical ones. You start sharing intimate details of your life, problems, dreams, and feelings with someone other than your spouse (or before marriage, with someone you're not committed to). This creates emotional bonding that leads naturally toward physical intimacy.

For single people, emotional purity means maintaining appropriate emotional distance in casual relationships, not sharing your deepest self with every person you date, and recognizing that emotional intimacy should grow alongside commitment level.

For married people, emotional purity means reserving your deepest emotional intimacy for your spouse, maintaining appropriate boundaries in opposite-sex friendships, and not seeking emotional connection with others that you should be seeking from your spouse.

Signs of emotional impurity include: thinking constantly about someone, arranging to see them, sharing things with them you don't share with appropriate people, comparing them favorably to your spouse or other relationships, and hiding the relationship from others.

Emotional purity requires wisdom about appropriate emotional boundaries in different types of relationships. Not everyone deserves access to your deepest thoughts and feelings. Reserve that access for people in committed, appropriate relationships.

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

I hope this is not going against standards- This is me looking for survival,there can't be any other way but soliciting for contracted marriage with a lady that is abroad all our possession will carry our approval I shall not earn without letting you in the know just need the best for me and my family( I promise you loyalty)....I am from Akwa Ibom State and I am 5'11 you can reach me with this email: tyf4eva4eternally@gmail.com