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Thanks everyone for the advice. It has helped clear my head. Yes I know I'm not perfect. I have searched myself and even with my imperfections it hurts to see your husband come around 11 with your single neighbour or watch how he rushes to her house after work instead of coming home.
Tried many tym to get him to talk abt what is wrong to no avail. But I feel better with all this advice. Thanks everyone again

Thanks everyone for the candid advice. I appreciate it. To be honest I think I have become too relaxed. I will begin to work on myself especially in the area of financial independence. So I can stand on my own incase of anything.

He picks and drops the nurses at home and when I asked him why he said he was being humanitarian...to be honest. I've tried to get a job but it hasn't been easy. Just recently I had to threaten divorce before he rented a place for me to do business. He constantly puts me down and shouts at me. This has made my self esteem so low I don't even believe in myself anymore

Hello everyone. Thanks for ur advice. I was doing well in my business till I had to sell it off to relocate with him. We have bin married 4 yrs. This has been a recurring issue. I got pregnant twice so I cdnt get a job or business at the time. 2ndly he is also very stingy and I fend for myself. So I'm not that dependent on him. In a whole yr at most he may give me total will be 100k. The whole year of which I spend all and more on housekeeping. He is a doctor. There's repeated cheating or allegations of cheating which he denies all d time. I have recieved letters tellin me to warn him to stay off women severally.

Hello thanks alot for the advice. You see this isn't the first time this is happening. We moved to a new town 3yrs ago and I had 2 kids during that period so I cdnt work especially since we relocated bcoz of him. To be honest my self esteem became very low I gained weight after my 2 pregnancies and found that he was repeatedly sexting his nurses. I still didn't realise how bad things got till his boss called him and warned him publicly....let me summarize I have recieved threats to warn him to leave the other women as it were. My former single neighbour had a kid. He would send the kid to my flat for me to babysit while he goes out with her. Yes I took all that shit coz I had lost my self esteem. After a year the lady left and another came in the circle continues...I don't know what to,do...I've prayed, cried threatened divorce etc. I feel like a looser.

Hello, pls I need constructive advice. Recently my husband has become quite close with my single neighbour. I didn't really mind till I discovered when he comes home from work he goes straight to her apartment for some time before coming upstairs to our home, most times they come home together or he is outside gisting with her. The lady in question and I don't talk except for occasional hello but he seems to be very close with her now. This isn't the first time we have had issues with his extreme closeness with our single female neighbours.
When he comes home we hardly have any quality time as he is mostly in a bad mood and says he is tired from work. I have two small kids, I Dnt have a job. Pls advice what I shd do next. I don't want to confront her but it's taking a toll on our marriage which is already shaky due to repeated rumors of infidelity. A part of me wants to leave but sincerely I have nowhere to go as I am an orphan. But living everyday has become emotionally damaging.

Hello, pls I need constructive advice. Recently my husband has become quite close with my single neighbour. I didn't really mind till I discovered when he comes home from work he goes straight to her apartment for some time before coming upstairs to our home, most times they come home together or he is outside gisting with her. We don't talk except for occasional hello but he seems to be very close with her now. This isn't the first time we have had issues with his extreme closeness with our single female neighbours.
When he comes home we hardly have any quality time as he is mostly in a bad mood and says he is tired from work. I have two small kids, I Dnt have a job. Pls advice what I shd do next. I don't want to confront her but it's taki ng a toll on our marriage which is already shaky due to repeated rumors of infidelity.

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Hello, I'm relocating with my hubby and kids. I'm thinking of opening a boutique, a kiddies store or a photo studio. Pls advice on which may be more lucrative in uyo. I presently run a clothing store here but I'm about to put it up for sale.

Hello all, pls I'm newto this forum. I'm planning to relocate to uyo from jos because of unrest. Pls does anyone hv any idea of the life there - businesswise, rent and where to reside. Tnk u