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Spread the message. Shocking fact about our women too...

Thanks. You said big amount of money. Like? Although, I'm planning to visit few banks next week but just want to hear people's opinion.

izaray:
There is nothing to be scared about dear. The only sad news about it all, is the poor profit u will generate from the cash....Its usually not encouraging at all, except with a big amount of money.

Guys, I need your comment/opinion about fixing money in the bank for few months. I plan to do this but I'm a bit scared. .

This is 21st century. Wake up. Everybody wants better life regardless being a male or female. A girl whose parent suffered hard to train in school will pray for a better husband for her. If you are a guy, have something working for you to a good extent before chasing ladies upandan. You are educated. Stop putting all the blame on government. Use your brain. Start small.

You will overlook the experience someday. A time is coming that you just have to lend people money but you must be more cautious.

Oyindidi:
After what I experienced in 2008, I don't lend money. Even if it is #100.

I do give family freely too but there are times it has to be on "borrow level".

Oyindidi:
I can give family without thinking twice. I always feel he is a scam. He is staying with his mom with his wife and kids

I have experienced such senerio many times from families and friends but have also realised that one should never borrow out money one can't afford to lose. Come with your stories, I have ready-made answers for you. . Either I give you and forget about it or I don't.

Oyindidi:
My neighbor knocked at my door on Saturday evening. I answered the door thinking he wanted to collect matches or some minor thing as we all mind our business.

His wife is sick and I'm aware of it. I visited on Saturday morning to see how she's doing and even gave them honey.

He came and started telling me history and that he want to take her to the clinic bla bla and that he need some money.... I felt pity for him and instantly transferred some money to his account, I thought it was urgent. I even advised he take her to the clinic cos it was serious. To my greatest surprise he didn't do that. Yesterday morning he told me, he is taking her to a Church that it's spiritual. As I'm typing this, they are still at home and it done on me that he's a cooperate begger that always wait for alert. I feel very bad cos I gave him more than the amount he asked for. My neighbor succeeded in scamming me but I've vowed never to give him a dime again.
I just dey vex

ULSHERLAN:
Same here

I was interested in the topic only to click and find out that

IamKashyBaby:


I was quite interested about ur thread so i clicked it & i was like....

"Uhu..aha..oooh yeaaah! That's right "

Let me help you guys lol

Signs That You Are Actually His Side Chick

October 02, 2017

For some years now guys having side chick has been on the increase. There are movies, songs and even books about being the other woman. With this you think men would stick to one girl and make it known if they have someone already. Instead they have advanced and grown clever in concealing their side chick from their girlfriend or wife. You get to see men with beautiful and accomplished partners straying. With the rise in the main chick side chick drama you'll think every woman has learnt the act of protecting her territory, but there are many ladies that are ignorant in relationships with married, engaged men this is because the little detail that should have been taken serious is ignored. I see you're in relationship, but with the current situation you are beginning to doubt your man's loyalty, his attention is always divided when he is with you. Hold up a second are you thinking what I'm thinking? Is it possible you're not what you think you are to him? But his side chick?

Here are few signs that he is actually in a relationship with someone else.


He Disrespects You in Public.

If he talks down to you in public or gets unnecessarily angry over something you did before his friends, and begin to raise his voice at you without a second thought that you are in public this is a definite red flag- what you have to know is a man who loves you and sees you as his number one girl will never ill treat you before his friends or family, but will rather wait until you are both alone.


Frequent Unanswered Calls

If he is fond of ignoring your calls, rejecting them, and end up not returning your calls or maybe send a text after some while explaining how busy he was at the time you called, and repeats this from time to time if this is not a sign that you are his side chick then i don't know what else is. Probably because he was spending time with his main chick.


He Prefers to Stay Indoor When You are Together

If your man always insist on you both staying indoor whenever you go to visit him, but he gets to talk about some fun places he visited with his friends in your absence or you get to see pictures posted online this is a major indicator. There is a difference between a guy that is an indoor person and one who is trying to act like a home boy whenever you are around.


He Refuse to Show Affection in Public

When he finally go against his "no hang out" principle and decides to take you out he doesn't touch you in public, and when you grab his hand he pulls away, never shows you off to his family and friends this could be a sign that you are his side chick -his action gives him plenty room to lie to his main chick about you if she mistakenly bumps into him.


If Your Name is Saved on his Phone in a Funny Way

If you have his name saved on your phone with the sweetest word and all you get when you finally check to see what he saved yours with is some funny word probably related to how you met, or what you do for a living or maybe just your name attached with funny words. That is a give away sign.


He is Eager to End Your Conversation on Phone

When you speak to your man on phone and he speaks to you in a formal way without addressing you directly or with your name, and he runs off and hangs up on you from no where before your conversation ends from time to time this is probably because the main chick is in the territory. And you are the side chick, this darling! Is a definite red flag.


He Grows Distance And Want You Gone After Sex

As couples get comfortable with each other they tend to spend more time at each other's place after sex. However if he grows distant, and avoids you like a plague after sex or makes sure you don't stay over at his place this is a sign girl.


Loss of Communication

There is a serious problem if your man goes mute, disappears or even breaks communication with you for no good reason and shows up after some while. If you are the person always calling, and he calls once in a blue moon. This is a major indicator that you are his side chick.


If You are the Only one always Posting His Pictures

If all you do is post his pictures on Facebook, Instagram, and he has never posted any of your picture, but rather post that of a particular lady, and when you ask him he comes up with the "she is my cousin" or "she is my childhood friend" defence, and has never asked for a selfie with you, if he doesn't have a picture of you but you see pictures of other girls. Chances are he has another life.


He Gets Unserious Whenever You Try To Talk About Your
Future

If he has never included you in his future plans, and even when you start to talk about building a future together he ignores you or comes up with a huge to do list like that of Cinderalla before settling down, it is because he wants you only as his side chick. Be careful if he has never used the word "we" when he finally gets to talk about the future.

He's not depressed or tired of life.

I can relate to what the OP is saying. It has many advantages.

This particular comedian should watch what he jokes about. Getting too much of him. Bye.

Lol...comparing Ronaldo's fame with Beyonce's who pulls crowd at once in a year or two event. I wouldn't want to miss it either which doesn't mean she's more popular.

@Admin, this is not proper for front page.

hmm

With the way these football players are being highly-priced, I'm forced to believe there is conspiracy somewhere. Well, maybe not.

An elderly person will know better sir.

BETlordnowpsych:
hmm.. Heard of it but never tried it. How do I make it locally?

Seek medical attention plus agbo (local herbs)

Nice one Wizkid. I'm not expecting anything lesser. There are lots of YouTube channels making thousands of dollars every month. It is high Nigerians embrace video marketing.

Okay, check your Skype.

Nice tips. Do share more if you can.

Failed to pick momentum in Nigeria, not in places where they are appreciated.

martineverest:
don't forget ppl still use the projects mentioned by op..... They all failed to pick momentum

That is your opinion. I use both to promote my business.

martineverest:
both of them are dead

There are many people using Google+ and hangout.

Youtube is still a good way to make money. Better now for original content creator. Their latest policy is your channel must have had Real 10K views before your videos can be monetized. In my own case, I research for best keywords to use, create videos, do all types of seo for traffic. Yes, my videos are ranking on youtube and google. Best strategy for earning is creating more and more videos.