₦airaland Forum

Safiaaa:
This is not to bash Nigerian Men at all. This is just an observation and I have every right to my opinion. I'm also not generalizing, talking about the majority.

Now I've observed something about most Nigerian men that I don't seem to understand. It baffles me and it's very distasteful. I've honestly come to the conclusion that you guys indirectly know what you want but cover it with deceit. I know every effing person has heard this phrase ' All Nigerian women bring to the table is pussy and nothing else, they're useless', but indirectly that's exactly what they want.

You see, a lot of Nigerian men have inflated fragile egos. They run after things that stroke their manhood, which is fine. The problem is that most of them are in denial. When a woman has nothing to offer but her pussy, she's dependent on you in every other aspect, especially financially. And as we all know most men find security and confidence in their pocket size. So when a woman depends on a man for her finances, it's almost like she's stroking his ego and confidence at the same time. He likes that superior/ dominant feeling. It's what most Nigerian men crave for. That financial dominance is a safety ego ground that they can always run back to.

On the other hand, when a woman is financially independent got her life together and doing well for herself, what do Nigerian men do? Run the opposite direction. Why? Intimidation. Insecurity. Fear of feeling inferior. Calling her all sorts of names. A woman who is independent will not NEED to beg you for money or ask you for anything. So in that case, they're not feeling as ' manly' as they would like. It burns them internally. Jealousy, envy and lies will begin to fall into the picture. If you don't agree with that you're on a long thing.

So Nigerian men, stop being in denial. If you want a woman who only offers her pussy and frequent emotional availability here and there, just be honest with yourself. A financially independent woman is not for the emotionally weak minded. Indirectly, most of you want a woman who is financially dependent on you. You want that financial dominance, that superiority. My problem is that when she's offering that pussy to you, don't complain. Accept it like a ' man' and take on the financial responsibility. If not, change your class of women. Financially independent women should not intimidate you or scare you away. Go for the women who will compete with you in finances. The ball is in your hands, take responsibility for your damn actions, and stop acting confused all the time.

Dassal.

obviously, u written a very nice piece for many consumption.
My question is, should a woman disrespect her man because she is financially independent? I love and respect woman who can think for themselves in many front.

Many of the so called financially independent ones feel they can think for the man, speak for him even when the man can clearly do all d stated above.
For him, I respect them when they compliment me positively.

bolinxman:
Kanu should research the historical background of his so called Biafra,he will just waste the life of his gullible followers and nothing will happen. Their hatred towards Buhari has beclouded their sense reasoning . Kanu has elevated himself to an emperor status,they now worship him.

sometimes you people think like fools. Do u think u know what happen in d civil war batter than KANU?

bayelsaowei:
the truth is supporters of one nigeria are either enjoying from a politicians table , never experienced such injustice or just plain stupid..

I have Smart friends who could not get through the final interview because of this rubbish..Smart Niger deltans for that matter..

My bro, this is what we are seeing everyday in d south oh. Am sure one day the ijaws and other ethnic groups in the south shall be free from injustice n oppression.

I guess my people are wrong on this issue. for me KANU is one of the wisest man we currently have in Nigeria.


I think, we the izons can make our position clear rather than insulting the Igbo's for fighting a good course to free themselves from oppression.
the agitation of Biafra by the Igbo's is an indirect way of freeing other ethnic groups from perpetual internal slavery from the north.

any ijaw lady who is ready for serious relationship 08123414347 contact me.

why are people so concern about the activities of Biafra?

I hate the unjust structures of Nigeria benefiting some part leaving the other sides behind.

In any event of war or break out, I will follow Biafra instead of Nigeria even though am not from the east.
A minute freedom is far better than a fake unity force on us cos of our resources.

The question is, how did we enter this self enslavement?

when u see a man with integrity u will know without being told, buhari lacks integrity

The political show is getting interesting all of a sudden.
Now we wait for the fools to come and say or dispute what madam has said about oga at the top.

buhari only borrowed integrity from GEJ and return it to him after the election.
so unfortunate we have bihari has our president.

Papiikush:
Your mama no get her own house?
Her son is married make she commot from him house go stay for her own apartment. Wives hate it when their mother-inlaw is always around

But wives love it when her own mother and families are always around d man?
We leave in a generation where there is no more respect for the older once.
ladies are so pathetic, when they want ur love and ur ring, ur mum become their best of friend after that everything will now go wrong.
Is not fair.

NgeneUkwenu:
May God Punish Jonathan!

Has God punished you for all the sins and wrongs u done to urself and other people? Beside has He punished bihari for all that he has done wrong from been head of state n civilian president.
Fear God. All Of us has sinned and has fall short of grace of God.

the situation is very dicey my bro.

I feel u cos am in d same road too.

To talk is free, so let him continue d trash he is bring from his mouth .

May be comes 2019 dia will be another Nigeria DAT will allow bahuri to return as president.

TEMINIKANSOSO:
Pls, how can i last more than a minute! After series of pre-intimacy once i try to penetrates, the sperm just comes within one minutes. I am fedup! I am not even enjoying it, not to talk of my girlfriend!

Do it d natural way. eat food dat help prevent quick explosion.

food such as carrot, boiled egg,pie,

google other foods to pervent it
it very painful sa

Let us not deceive ourselves cos there was no phone call between the two leaders. beside this a news that was not carried by fox and ccn.

how can a whole trump spoke to buhari without CNN or fox carrying the news on there headline

cstr75:
There is no such news on CNN or Fox. And they meticulously report on whoever the president is calling at any point in time as a matter of foreign policy.
I don't rate your foreign affairs minister or your crappy NTA with any atom of regard.

U Make my day. I had to check fox to see there is any news like buhari presumed conversation but low and behold, dia was nothing like that.

we can't depend on children television station like NTA for important foreign news like d current drama.

mimzy:
diaris love in sharing

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she told me she ws married to Jesus I has to tell her that am married to virgin mary.

na she dey pm me on Facebook even wen I no get her time.

juhan:
one share. You're owing me 10litres fuel

So, is now litres of fuel in exchange of service rendered abi?

is alright, since fuel has become d most expensive thing we have around na.

Anti-terriosim or anti corruption? Is US Missing words or just a statement that is coming out from them.

I don't belv it.

nedu2000:
Ah yes, the blackmailers have arrived
NUPENG/PENGASSAN
Oya go on strike let us suffer a bit more.

1000 likes for ur statement. All I want right is for nigerians to continue in their suffering.

A sturborn fly always follows the corpse to d grave.


8 more yrs of agony won't be bad for a people who can't learn from history.

OrlandoOwoh:
Read line by line, word by word before you make your comment. I won't say more than that.

pls u need some careful examination of what u posted before u come back here n start speaking grammar of read line by line .

thank.

OrlandoOwoh:
Buhari will definitely deal with them.

On the United States, ever since the 9/11 attack have you ever heard of any other Islamic terrorist attack in the country?

u forgot d Boston, new york time sqoure etc attack in usa. pls fine other story to tell me.

since after 9/11 USA has been attacked in several cities even though they were not major attack like the 9/11.

walexbiz:
You think you have made sense with this senseless post, just wait and see how Buhari will handle this menace created by some faceless group. If Buhari didn't compromise with the boko haram and the shiite groups then you think he will compromise on his stand with the criminal posture the militants are showing. By the time he takes strong military actions even the international community will not hear your voice... A word is good enough for the wise

When u see people like u talk one will want to wonder whether Buhari is God to be feared.
There is a popular saying that says, silence is d best answer to fools, like u claiming buhari this buhari that.
WIth all the military might of America, they have not been able to defeat terrorism around world. but has foolish as ur brain could carry, u decide to mention what buhari did 80s to this techonological era of war fare.

pls go n seat down and fines urself something to do.

we will take buhari war against BH serious when d chibok school girls are found.

Chuksemi:
I dislike this militants. Why would they suddenly rear their ugly heads, now that easy money has stopped flowing.

I thought they were fighting for a better Niger Delta and I supported them. But once amnesty came and they started getting a portion of the national cake, they pocketed it and forgot about their hometown. Oil spillage and polluted land and water remained their forte. Those of them that were opportuned to get the ''national cake'' built massive structures and F*cked the struggle.

Their own son was there for 6 years. I thought Niger Delta would be like London now, or atleast, Singapore. I am dissapointed.

North has its being turn Paris, London, Beijing etc since their sons and daughters has being ruling this country from time IMO river?

the answer is no.
IF GEj has focus his attention in developing his own region, u will be d first sentimental person to come for his head.

There is something fishy on what sanusi said about d former president.


I don't trusth sanusin cos he can say anything to discredit d former president GEJ

All I can tell this so called herdsmen is that here in my land we did not submit all d guns during d amenesty declaration to d federal govt. so if they like may dem come with ak47 they won't leave to tell the story.

wish the orhobo's Ijaw's and others tribe unite this issue and deal with this herdsmen once and for all.

in the words of spetercus wife " kill them all"

When I heard buhari sent army generals to go to the south to fetch out pipeline vandales, I knew it was not becos of pipeline vandales that he sent them there.

He knew if he did not send the nigerian army to the south south dia will be enuf gun in the hands of the Southerners to kill his Fulani herdmens, so he decided to sent d army all in the name of pipeline vandales.

one thing am sure of is that Igbo are good for taken the pond of flash if they makeup their mind to face these idiots called buhari brothers.

Ask Onitsha people how they usually deal with dis set of animals

buhari a confuse kindergarten president.

Lies from d devils workshop. d police and army are sustain by lying to Nigerians on dia activities with d herdmen .

keep up d lying spirit cos one day monkey will go market n will not smell home again.

fiizznation:
People have to be careful. If you think you are dealing with the average Nigeria fulani/fulfude group then you people should better wake up. I'm a Fulani man and I know what I'm talking about. These herdsmen carrying out all these atrocities are dangerous herdsmen from other Africa countries e.g chad, Niger, Sierra Leone, Gambia, guinea, Senegal, Mali etc. Normally they rarely attack any community until they are attacked first and they don't understand anything called fair play. They have a very wide network that cuts across the entire African continent.

My problem with the hypocritical Nigeria media houses is they hardly report any killings of these herdsmen by the local community, but the herdsmen reprisal attacks are always reported. To me this is insensitivity. We all know how innocent Nigeria herdsmen are killed everyday by the locals, but nobody wants to talk about that. The agatu people killed many innocent Fulani herdsmen before the herdsmen reprisal attacks, but how many media houses reported that? All we were hearing was Fulani ransacked agatu community.

People should be careful, if you think these herdsmen don't get to hear news about how their fellow brothers are killed and their cattle rustle, then we are not serious about solving this crisis

U need to grow up and have some quality sense cos u lack gud sense of judging event.

u just demonstrated ur Fulani bias mind to other reasonable people to see.

stupidity is what u people re known for.

Una days are numbered in d south south, cos we will kill any body on sight.