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OP, your friend's advice is very wise. Ignore those saying otherwise. They are either kids or defensive. The men amondst will learn by experience. MOST ladies above 30 are wild, over-exposed, pretentious and hard to please. They know all the hotel owners and corner joints. They have been around. You really need money and more money to please them. Avoid especially those from dysfunctional homes, family or sibling responsibilities. A word is enough.

The fact that you are asking shows you know it is wrong. When in doubt, stay off. Who will attend your wedding to her? Family. She is family. Though a distant family member, you can only therefore chop, clean mouth,waka fast. You are lustful, not inlove.

It's like she read this thread. She is trying to change travel plans, so we can go naija separately .Na lie! I will play nice and romantic, she can't dodge this bullet nor the disaster awaiting her. All imported wives planning Naija trip with hubby , beware it could be you.

I appreciate all your responses, he who feels it knows it. I have vowed to punish her. Maybe organize a mock kidnap, then join with mask beat the hell out of her and correct her brain. Then appear like I just paid to ransome her. Maybe she will appreciate.

When I get to Nigeria for Xmas, depending on where she makes the first wrong statement, that will make her cup overflow. Hopefully at the airport. Cos her mouth is faster now. I am going to give this woman a beating of her life that I couldn't do in America. I have absorbed enough, she used to be nice and respectful till I brought her to the state as wife. I sure will get away with the brutality easy in Naija than this place. I will seize her greencard and return to the states quietly.

Is it ok for parents to buy intimacy gadgets for their kids? My friend just got a Beyonce sex doll for his 16 year old son for his birthday he said he knows teenagers hormones rage.. Actually the doll looks cute sexy. And I hear of vibrating hairbrush, toothbrush for same purpose for the girls.

You ladies all come here ,writing like better people,.....hmmmm. I maintain that you are all evil. Just one more evil men have to live with.

Your wife is EVIL, your situation was just to bring out her real character, more evil characters yet to be revealed.....when you get back on your feet, don't forget.....deal with her...I know you saw the handwriting on the wall but you went ahead and married her...we all do that, hoping they would change..women , devils in disguise

While watching the movie ...King Kong ,a little girl said something like .....the giant gorilla, king Kong belonged to the white lady offered to him as sacrifice.

No offense intended, fears of marrying from a family having an im.becile amongs the siblings. Chances of giving birth to one from such marriage. I the fear just me, or unjustified

No offense intended, fears of marrying from a family having an im.becile amongs the siblings. Chances of giving birth to one from such marriage. I the fear just me, or unjustified?

You break off other relationships to settle for one you thought was your best, she does the same...then suddenly you no longer understand each other, you quarrel easily, fight ,walk on egg shell to relate. I wonder if it's the curse and evil wishes of our both ex'es worrying us. Is it possible?

The Champ.......when the little boy was begging his dead dad to get up after he won a come back match to leave a better life for the son.

Many of them old and relentless, Jideonwo should have been castrated , then shot...isikhwene and osagiede castrated . So notorious and they did it with bragging .I used to wander why those cult guys left them alone

Pray and invoking the god of adeboye, the god of oyedepo etc.depending on the pastor they like most. Is it right?

If a girl you are about to marry told you that ...If they told her it was you she would marry , she would never have believed it and people now would not still believe its happening.
I have a lot of negative biased interpretations going on in my mind, but what do you guys think it really means........

Sleeping with a married woman is worse enough! majority of the guys i know , their married exes still wish for them, send messages chats etc. 2 married exes of mine still chat late at night with me, calls me, send messages, wishing for one more time with me, wishing it was me, saying they missed me…A young divorced ex of mine wants to spend time with me, 2 exes getting married soon wants me to come and have some before they tie the knot……I believe they call up other exes too not just me. why is this trend? I guess my own lady too might be calling up exes behind me….why is this? Is it 9ja babes things?

Some pathetic guy is marrying my most adventurous, wildest,daring suicide..... booty call. She is my best, i dont know if to be happy or sad.......I dont know if the second can fill in the void. Does anyone feel me?

most of the ladies like this have been sexually abused from early in life by relatives and neighbors, raped over and over, hence se x is no longer emotional, i dated a girl abused by her uncle she was just like that

I sit and take a deep look at my fiancee and wonder……a fact all females have a slutty stage in their life times, some earlier in life than others, some snap out of it as fast as they entered it while some go so deep and remain there for as long as…..For others it comes later in their life time. Its a stage they self inflict to and must pass through. I think of it like a swimming pool, length and depth…..or more like a demon possession.
Guys, which stage of her life would u prefer your lady did her slutty sentence?
some in the early teens, some while in tertiary school,, and worst some while in their matrimonial homes for flimsy reasons……i see this thing everywhere everyday…..

It is 99% self inflicted and please dont pity them.

One down , more will follow. Remember the South african miners. Imagine being run over by an okada, that would have been the 'man in black's' position. Familiarity breeds contempt and now death. Except you can outRUN a bullet: Stop when police orders stop!

True observation there, and I see the truth on point, but where wise ones like you sit and observe, a lot of kids even on top of mount Kilimanjaro wont see as far, but will make mumucious comments or derail the thread

Just go ahead and do it. But dont do the one you as little as exchange greetings with the husband, or a friend's wife , colleague of family's. Then the hole is just a hole and you wont be haunted

Aza Montana: do not blame all woman for your misfortunes. you are just a heartbroken fellow, you will bounce back

Very funny, my heart is solid graphite mind u, its you 'female', wrongly assumed smartness that irritates

Once a girl thinks she has you, she automatically feels she can always get a better guy, so she sneaks a peak into the other "better guy" gets stung , she then attempts to sneak back into your life like she didnt do nothing. Alas, we sharp guys know, and shut the thrash out. Its their greed and wanting to eat and still have the cake. Thats how the break up occurs.