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I did not come here to insinuate that what was fishy is cheating. I for one have perished that thought at first thinking. We all know here that unfaithfulness is what actually leads to cheating if not well handled. This is the issue we have been battling for 6 years now, haba! How much can a man take? To make more known, I reported the issue the next day to her dad, he told me he'll call her, but instead he decided to come 4 days later to see her in person to talk to her, but a day before, I had already arrange cash to bail her out, I can recall her kneeling down in front of me crying and thanking me for rescuing her, to the extent of sending me a txt saying she never thought I'll bail her out on the very last day of deadline, that she will never let me down by stopping to ask for loan, blv me you, a day after the father came to talk to her, I overheard her talking to the same segun requesting for a larger amount of loan this time around. My system just ran down that I had to go out for a drink and just be myself.



I think your wife is being blackmailed and both her sister and Segun are in the know of what the core issue is. Do due diligence to find out what is roiling beneath the surface. The loan topic is just the cosmetic cover page and blackmailers always increase their bars so long as the victim draws breath. That's why she can't account for your investments and have to keep borrowing to prolong doomsday.
Just a thought though.

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naetocm:
So GLO sent me this message earlier today..
A bit skeptical bout recharging tho..you never know with this network people, they might just come and thief d airtime

Nah, they will just give you a percentage of it for any recharge. If you recharge #100, you will get #400 of the bonus. But mind you, the call billing is so crazy you will feel like you recharged #50

Still waiting to see the female collection

@JLarin, please if it is within you, forgive her and meet with her. Let her see you in person and state her case. Maybe you both can salvage what's left of your relationship or maybe find closure.
It's hard loving a confused woman, but don't let it end so badly. The least you can do is help her clear the cobwebs from her brain so she doesn't continue sabotaging her love life, even if it won't be with you.

Chai
Bringing this online and actually specifying his medical condition was a fat mistake. It really will not help even if you thought it would.
My dear, you have to accept that your relationship with him might have ended. Sorry dear.

I still can't sleep after watching it. That was a phone that was smashed in her head,possibly hers. Totally mind numbing.

You sef. See heavy duty wey u carry enter trig point. You have collected you phone. Let it go. Or meet her up in person and tidy her f'up. No point slandering her on NL. She may have valued your phone to be enough compensation for her services to you

After reading through your topics and posts, this is what I can say: Baba God, please deliver your daughters from depression, regrets, STDs and untimely death which us the make up of the OP.
Thank you for saving the runaway wife and providing for her and the innocent children.
Pls strengthen the new iyawo for what must still come.

Your wife is obviously suffering from Bipolar disorder. Don't wait for her cooperation before you make arrangements and bundle her to a psychologist. Bipolar patients only get worse. She should be placed on medication ASAP because she's a danger to everyone around her and herself.

lowkey0147:
my dear, i only have one word for you "KOLEWERK"
you are looking for a guy around 29yrs upward, that means ur sister is going into her thirties and you are looking for an unfortunate fellow to come and buy ur family's product that is already outdated, let her sit in ur father's parlour... I say again "KOLEWERK"

That's mean. He has explained her fiance passed on. How then can you then categorise her getting hitched as a misfortune in the making? Bro, that's so mean!!
Would you still say the same thing if she was related to you? Isn't she still a human deserving of love, is being single a death sentence for you?
This shaming of single women thing should truly stop. There are a thousand and more reasons why ladies are still single even into their 30s 40s. That's doesn't make them none entities or societal rejects. Everyone have a different destiny and you don't know their story.
Men get married late as well, do you find d female folks shaming them? Look around you and see how marriages are turning out lately. Why should they rush in and become another figure on the statistics just so they can avoid being condemned by small/closed minded folks?
#humanitycheck #loveothersasyourself

Boy!! That Macaulay guy is just handsome.

Since when did eggs enter the class of fruits? Pls explain to me, because ayam not understanding.

Roseey0:
Lwkmd
Turning garri stick
Pestle

Guy you wikid

I don't know if she's truly this silly or just acting it. If she's acting, then she's good at it.
All I know is, she should be thankful she's not my sibling. I would have flogged sense into her thick skull.
In any case, she may just be a troll.

You are not speaking her love language.
There are basically five love languages and number 3 is Acts of Service. This is what you have been communicating to her, but that is essentially YOUR love language, NOT hers. You feel by helping her with acts of service here and there, she will understand you are being romantic. So while she may appreciate the effort, that's not her button and so,she feels you are not romantic.
Try to read Gary Chapman's Love Languages book for better insight because I can't type it all and my fingers are sore already.
Good luck.

Na wa for some women!!
If I were you, shame would not allow me to open a thread like this.
You were warned,no, begged by all and sundry not to make the colossal mistake of marrying that man. But a proverb says "the death that will kill a dog will first make it impervious to the stench of feaces".
You chose your lot, bear it with suffering and smiling grace. As for intimacy gadgets, if you are so hard up, I believe you have turning garri stick or pestle in you kitchen. Use them and stop regaling Nairaland with details of the results of your deliberate indiscretions.
Kai!!! I even feel shame on your behalf.
To thy tents, O Nlanders.

curiousmind11:
Nigerians abuse everything. Sad, sad, sad!!

This is just one of various random cases I have encountered. There is always the good, ugly,bad and rotten side to everyone. It takes grace to rise above.
Do have a pleasant day ahead.

curiousmind11:
Sadly, most married women do this. They will tell you every damn bad thing about their hubby/marriage only to get sympathy. If you conduct independent verification you discover it is greed and desire to keep up with the Jones that drives them. I had 2 of them until I discovered the truth.

It is sad. Such people kill the giving spirit in a person. One time I was crossing an express road and beside me was a blind woman with a little girl as her guide. On attempting to cross, the little girl joined us, but there comes a reckless driver speeding towards us and before we could turn back, the blind lady,who was yet to step out with us, has pulled her girl back out of the road. I was shocked, she just took the girl's hand and disappeared into a crowd.
Since that day, if u claim to be blind, I must be looking at your eyeballs to see it before I dole out my money.

Lols.
She's merely scoping for loose cash to flex with and buy such itinerary that she and her husband has to forfeit due to the harsh recession. Her hubby covers the domestic expenses. So you, OP, are merely her freebie depot.

Anyone who has a shih tsu or Lhasa apso pup with can give to me for a small token. I just want a companion to care for

Madam is testing your limit to see how far she can go. Stamp your foot down now that it's still early. Tell her you won't tolerate that nonsense next time and mean it.
If you allow her to get away with this behaviour, you will soon become her full time houseboy and ATM machine. Next time she tries that stunt, don't bother eating her food for a week, let her cook and eat alone or stay hungry to make her silly point. Eat out and ignore her. If that doesn't tighten the nuts in her head, stop dropping food money.
Hian!! Imagine starving the man of the house unto agaracha levels? For what? After being the only one hustling and providing, you will come home to cook for her(a housewife) on top to show what a good man you are? Who married who? Keep saying you are weak and you will soon find yourself as a victim of domestic abuse.
It's all in your hands to step up. Na only talk I fit talk from here.

. Case in point:

Seven hells!! Yet these people say I should give up the garri and salt I have been reduced to manage as food to prove change starts with me abi? Hypocrisy of unmeasurable order!!

I can't believe I read the article. This beats all kinds of national embarrassment.

ifyalways:
No. Was sold for that price 3 weeks ago (2 liters or big Eva bottle) but I learnt it's now sold for btw 500-800 depending on location.

Palm oil is #1200-#1300 currently. That's what I got as at last weekend. It is well

ellacute45:
Okay

Enjoy.