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This people no they rest?
There is government inflicted hunger in Nigeria

ikennamadu1:
This man think say naa small children him dey address.

Fergie001
Mynd44

Nigerians na children na lol... So these men cook and dish out anything they like for us to eat.

And we keep eating that's why we are so docile and have continued to allow few men ruin the entire country belonging to over 250 million people.

Please we have more important issues in Nigeria and the world. Than looking and fighting over wrapper and coverall.

Enddy50ty:
13 years old girl...?? My gracious goodness, what in the hell is the world becoming?

A 13 year old child is comfortable following men around, Failed parenting.

She wanted all the sweet things of life at 13 forgetting there are consequences and she could be used and manipulated by evil men.

Despicable!!!

wman:
Freedom of speech indeed.

What a country America is.

Freedom of speech included mocking a man that was killed in cold blood and making him a point to clown about.

Is this your definition of freedom of speech?

If not for Trump a lot of these people defaming him and supporting Democrats would have been forced into gay by now.

Your daughters would come back home from school and start telling you daddy and mommy with tears in their eyes, please I want to be a boy and your sons I want to be a girl.

A world with no values and morals.

Lol..,. Them never see anything. They were ravaging and colonizing other countries.
These people are coming back to the great Britain

DoctorStanley:
Fake!
The girl go just dey think, this man na mumu
Xx

sometimes I wonder the kind of men or children women date.

If I am a lady and my guy does this shi-it I will just leave him and find a more responsible man. Because this is the height of irresponsibility.

If you must tattoo a name tattoo your MAMA NAME.

Jughead29:
Why is tax such the biggest picture of this Government?

Truly, the devil came but to steal and destroy.

You cant be taxing your citizens at the same time remove subsidy... It's total wickedness

lol.... All this tax this and tax that is just for the pocket of few people. They will spend it with no mercy on their children and generations to come.

Enough private jet flights for them. What a pity!

RevenuesBoost:
How do people do this gentle parenting thing?🤦
Because honestly, I haven’t even started and I’m already raising my voice!🙆

I’ve had to stop Baby Light so many times from unintentionally hurting her cat.
Sometimes I’m screaming for the cat’s safety, other times, for my daughter’s.

Wherever you find Baby Light and Kitty together, just know that some rough play is about to begin.
They’re inseparable—even when I try to keep them apart.
But Light can get a bit too rough, and I often find myself yelling—not out of anger, but from panic.
I have a fearless daughter who sees loud noises as music.
Sounds that should startle most kids? Baby Light hears them and starts dancing, smiling wide like it's a celebration.

Some people say I share stories about my family for attention.
That made me laugh.
The truth? I use Nairaland as an archive.
I've even recovered lost images from it before.

I still wonder why some people are so quick to judge and downgrade others.
But I guess that's how they are.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpbafVmjSSA

Nice one, I believe she is still a toddler and still has a long way to go, Because there is no man without fear. Bravery is not the absence of fear, but it is the courage you create in the midst of fear.

But, it's very important that you take your time to teach her to know the difference between friendly and unfriendly. Otherwise, the street will teach her.

If she goes around grabbing every animal like that, she will get bitten. Don't forget that some animals are cruel and can kill even adults, not to talk about a child.

So train her to understand these dangers and keep her safe.

tosyne2much:
These people think everybody is an illiterate

The whole thing was nothing but exaggerations that even GWR would laugh at their joke

The first time I heard she would be cooking 250 bags of rice, I said to myself, "how on earth is that posible?"

They later changed the narrative that it's a small sized bag and not the one we are familiar with

Even the 20,000 people they said they would be feeding is a joke.. Do these people know what it means to cook a feed that would feed 2k people let alone 20,000 people

GWR is not stupid that you will just be quoting figures that defile physics. This time around, Banci no go get any award from GWR

I heard the pot collapsed.

I was talking about load and weight in my first comment. You can't cook 20 bags of rice in one pot with that type of pot material and design. The center of the pot has no support and that's where bulk of the load is concentrated.

pacino26:
Will they be going to wherever Mary is or they will stand before a sculpted image usually painted blue made from dangote or bua Cement?

That's if this news is true o!

If they are serious about oat taking, they should start with water, then proceed to the nearest diety in their home towns. E de plenty for Anambra State

na weytin?

Must you tell everyone that the image is made of cement and not the origin one?

This is not issue-based write up! This is how soludo kept attacking and throwing unguided utterances at the Senator and got his wife shivering and running from pillar to post.

Zocalite:
Jesus Christ is God

So why should someone say his creator failed him

No need of adding "if you trust him entirely"

you can't serve two masters.
So you have to trust him entirely, this means you can't have an Otomokpo and Jesus Christ at the same time.

Sonnobax15:

Hehehe...

Oya just imagine the rubbish that came out from a supposed university

Now one would be wondering why our universities keep on dishing out half baked graduates into our society every blessed year . Whereas the system that produced them is nothing to write home about

they were more interested in banning students from drinking alcohol.

Is this one a university, glorified secondary school or an Islamic school where alcohol is prohibited?

HeatSeeker:
Both will neutralize your otumokpo! Avoid am o! Or else your juju no go work again.

Jesus Christ is the only one that won't and can not fail you if you trust him entirely.

lordm:
Ogbono please,

Okro is overrated and less nutritional

tell me more, cos I see people carry okro on their head like it's the best in nutrition.

OnyeAghaJesus:
You sound emotional with less knowledge of fertility issues.
Vasectomy is a healthy family planning method that shifts responsibility to man.

why not cut off yours?

What are you still waiting for? Your knowledge of fertility is a waste if you don't get a vasectomy.

Justseyii:
The Dilemma
Dear Amy & T.J.,

I’m 45 years old, divorced, and a father of two. After my first marriage, I decided I was done having children and got a vasectomy.

Four years ago, I remarried. I told my wife about the vasectomy when we were dating, and she accepted it then. But now, she’s asking if I would consider reversing it so we can have a child together.

I love her deeply, but I’m conflicted. Should I go through another surgery and try to start over with kids at this stage in life? Or should I stand by my original decision?

Signed,
Dad Can’t Decide

T.J.’s Take:
This is tough. Maybe you didn’t picture yourself getting married again, let alone wanting more kids. Yet here you are, with a woman you love, facing a question that goes straight to the core of family, identity, and legacy.

But let’s not dodge the real question: Do you actually want more children?

Because if you don’t, no surgery, no pressure, no persuasion should change that. Parenthood is lifelong, exhausting, and deeply demanding. If your heart isn’t in it, saying “yes” just to please your spouse could backfire.

At the same time, if love and your wife’s longing are nudging you toward a “maybe,” then it’s worth considering — with eyes wide open.

Amy’s Take:
Here’s the thing: you already answered this once when you got the vasectomy. You said, “I’m done having kids.”

Now you’re hesitating — which tells me this isn’t about biology as much as it is about love. You don’t want to disappoint your wife.

But honesty matters more than compromise here. If you go into this resentful, or half-hearted, you’re setting yourselves — and possibly a child — up for pain.

And let’s be practical: reversal surgery doesn’t guarantee results. You may need IVF, artificial insemination, or other interventions. That means more money, more stress, and more emotional highs and lows. This is not a casual decision.

The Bigger Picture
Relationships thrive on honesty. Your wife married you knowing you’d already closed the door on children. So if she’s asking you to reopen it, she also has to be prepared for you to say no.

On the other hand, people evolve. Love can change the way we see family and legacy. Maybe hearing how deeply this matters to her makes you rethink what’s possible.

Final Word from Amy & T.J.
Before making any decisions:

Be brutally honest with yourself. Do you want kids again — yes or no?
Talk openly with your wife. She deserves clarity, not guesswork.
Acknowledge the risks. This isn’t just about surgery; it’s about years of parenting ahead.
If your answer is no, say it with love, not guilt. If your answer is yes, embrace it fully, knowing the road might be harder than expected.
What matters most is that you and your wife face this as partners — with respect, compassion, and honesty.

Because kids or no kids, the foundation of your marriage is what will carry you forward.

https://studentvillage.com.ng/forums/topic/i-had-a-vasectomy-now-my-new-wife-wants-kids-what-should-i-do/

if this cock and bull story is true, then you are the most unwise man I have ever seen.

Are you God? What's the guarantee that the kids you have already will live to see next year?

Did you create the balls you destroyed?

spontan:
That pot cannot contain any more than 20 bags of rice. Stop the Caps!!!

Except it was used more than once. But not possible at a stretch.

she does not know what she is saying.

20000 kg is 20 ton.
Does she know what's 20 Tons of weight?

How on earth can that pot contain 200 bags of rice ? 50 k.g per bag multiplied by 200 bags thats around 10 tons of weight.

What's the weight and strength of the material of that pot to be able to withstand 20 Tons of weight or load?

Make she cook her rice Jor and feed hungry Nigerians and leave the weight thing.

fuckingAyaya:
Nigerian government watching Nigerians prioritizing "jollof rice" instead of seeking for good governance

that's what the government has fostered on the people.

Keep them hungry and they will lose their sanity lol...

Hunger they, them go to chop free jellof rice nothing more.

keemsleek:
Yes, you are right but it's time people separate single mothers. The widows are there, women whose marriages did them wrong are there, the kind of ones you just talked about are there. The poster you replied to is right too. A single girl who has perfected her act of not giving birth by abortion or a coded runs girl who is single is worse than a single mother. So there are still good single mothers and good single women. We pray we don't fall into the hands of the worst of the two women.

Oga stop defending nonsense so people don't see you as a clown.

Why are you bring widows and married women here for? A married women single mothers? A widow is a widow, not a single mother.

motymop:
That is the type of defeatism he is preaching to you as a black. Telling you that your home country can never be good, that is because you are looking at the west as the standard.

Think about the effects it can have on you..you will start looking at yourself as inferior.

comprehension is the real issue here.
You did not comprehend what I wrote.

motymop:
according charlie kirk...black commits all the violent crime in america even though they are 13% of the populations

what an irony...He got shot by his fellow white man

All his quotes about black people

Blacks are violent

If I see a Black pilot, I’m going to be like, boy, I hope he’s qualified.

Happening all the time in urban America, prowling Blacks go around for fun to go target white people, that’s a fact. It’s happening more and more...

If I’m dealing with somebody in customer service who’s a moronic Black woman, I wonder is she there because of her excellence, or is she there because of affirmative action?

Kirk said that over 150 years Africans are yet to get anything right but kept blaming the whiteman. There is sense in what he said.

RIP to him.

Rashduct4luv:
Islam is not a religion of equality but of Justice – Shaykh Uthaymeen

There are some people who speak of equality instead of justice, and this is a mistake. We should not say equality, because equality implies no differentiation between the two. Because of this unjust call for equality, they ask, “What is the difference between male and female?” So they have made men similar to women. The communists said, “What difference is there between the ruler and the subject? No one has any authority over anyone else.” Not even the father over his son?! So they said the father has no authority over his son and so on.Instead, if we say justice, which means giving each one what he or she is entitled, this misunderstanding no longer applies, and the word used is correct. Allah does not say in the Qur’an that He enjoins equality. He said (interpretation of the meaning):

“Verily, Allah enjoins Al‘Adl (i.e. justice)” (Qur’an, 16:90)

“And that when you judge between men, you judge with justice.” (Qur’an, 4:58)

Those who say that Islam is the religion of equality are lying against Islam.Rather Islam is the religion of justice, which means treating equally those who are equal and differentiating between those who are different. No one who knows the religion of Islam would say that it is the religion of equality. Rather what shows you that this principle is false is the fact that most of what is mentioned in the Qur’an denies equality, as in the following verses: “Say: Are those who know equal to those who know not?” (Qur’an, 39:9)

“Say: Is the blind equal to the one who sees? Or darkness equal to light?” (Qur’an, 13:16)

“Not equal among you are those who spent and fought before the conquering (of Makkah, with those among you who did so later.” (Qur’an, 57:10)

“Not equal are those of the believers who sit (at home), except those who are disabled (by injury or are blind or lame), and those who strive hard and fight in the Cause of Allah with their wealth and their lives.” (Qur’an, 4:95)

Not one single letter in the Qur’an enjoins equality, rather it enjoins justice. You will also find that the word justice is acceptable to people, for I feel that if I am better than this man in terms of knowledge, or wealth, or piety, or in doing good, I would not like for him to be equal to me.Everyone knows that it is unacceptable if we say that the male is equal to the female.

– Sheikh Ibn Uthaymeen, Sharh Al-Aqeedah Al-Wasitah, 1/180-181

https://abdurrahman.org/2011/08/18/islam-is-not-a-religion-of-equality-but-of-justice

Lol you are a very funny person! Do you believe in these things you wrote?

How many victims of Islamic terrorism got justice?
Lol.... Justice, do you know what's justice at all?

csamii:
Shot on the back. Cowards!

couldn't return fire, at least fought back while dying. For it is honourable to fight back while dying at least die with somebody.

Instead of returning fire they ran and got shot on the back.

To all our policemen doing their lawful duty may God protect you. Don't run die try or die with that criminal.

As for those of you using the badge to commit illegalities against the people and innocent civilians you should be protecting across the world you will die untimely.

Oooh.... What a pity a country so blessed but corrupt men who steal power and force themselves on the masses with the backing of a failed Judicial system. No accountability and transparency, nobody asking why and over 270 million people are just docile and behave like all is well.

SPITS!!!
SHAME!!!

Ordinarily we should be celebrating for this, but this money will finally find its way into the personal account of certain individuals, no trace and no accountability.