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U both are not compatible
His quiet nature woke continue to frustrate u
That may be his makeup
U need a more lively guy as it were

Amaraokafor:
Calm down.
I'm naturally a sociable person, he is not. He has no friends and don't hang out.Because of his introverted attitude, I'd like to say I now find loud places irritating and it's OK. I love the change BUT, I also want us(as lovers) to have our moments, doesn't matter where, how cheap and how unexclusive. When I try to instigate such, he seems cool but when it's time to take such actions he just doesn't bring himself to do it. Again Oga, no be person wet you see you go go out with? Even when I volunteer to see him, he just gives excuses.I have sat down to think where the problem is coming from and still I don't seem to understand.

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Abee79:
You see, I used to have a 'bestie' like that too - 17 years ago. We're both married now, with kids. Now I see that I was just being immature, and toying with her emotions. I regret not taking her seriously enough to make her my wife

Why do u regret? Aren't you happy with your wife?

Did anyone get the airtime?

IamSINZ:
Thanks sir! I really hope to keep myself until marriage as the Bible prescribes


#TeamNoSexTillMarriage

It's hard for guys o

Know of someone who got the appointment letter

damosky12:
Remove that first part of hanging out with her. If he didn't see the future of both of them together in the first place, then the hanging out with her to know her is useless.
You see a lady you like for marriage, you tell her, you start courting. If you see something you don't like? you withdraw. You are convinced you wanna marry her? you get official. Simple.

You still not getting my problem

How would u just be convinced you want to marry a woman just like that@ you seeing big picture

Like I said earlier, not everyone sees a picture or a vision or hear the voice of God loud. as you said Except maybe by hanging out with her to know her better while you are studying her and praying more about her of which u said he should remove the "hanging out"

So how would it work?
I am trying to be practical with it n relating it to real life on how u Wld just hv d big picture that she is your wife just like that from the beginning

cruchenutii:
Oya na Fumisko , No problem. Court and Marry right ?

Do you have a Nice looking boobs & Ass to compliment it?

Can you cook Egusi, Nkwobi, Banga and a nice delicious Isi Ewu to go along?

No need of knowing about you or studying your attitude. Just come and lets marry straight jare ! No need to date!

I don't even know banga soup
Hope u love me like that still

enilove:
Your church is right. That must be a godly church that can lead you to the strait gate and the narrow way.

Don't follow what the people of the world are doing.
No amount of dating can make you to understand your partner. The bible makes us to understand that:

The heart is deceitful above all things , and desperately wicked: who can know it?

Dating is an idea from the devil.
It makes you to fall into fornication.
It makes you want to choose for yourself instead of allowing God to choose for you.
It make you to end up marrying the wrong person, most of the time.
If you decided to leave , it is either you are hurt or the other get hurt.
Most time it leads to pregnancy b4 marriage.

It was God that chose wife for Issac. They did not date , still love was between them

Genesis 24:67 KJV
And Isaac brought her into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death .


All you need is pray and God will choose for you the right parner at the appropriate time.

Remember if you marry you cannot divorce except on the ground of adultery.

God knows the best partner for you.

But I thought that was the culture then?
Remember Mary was Bethrothed (pls abeg correct the spelling) with Joseph for a while
This shows that culture had evolved just as society evolves

Another issue is that it's not usually clearly pointed out that this is your wife or husband....not everybody has that gift or hears directly in prayers like that.
So how can when tell?

KunleSteel:
As Christians, what will you be doing while dating that you can't do as just friends?

So how would the girl have that security that you are for her?
I mean if you end up calling Amaka, kemi, Doris etc your friends at the same with her What gives her the security that she has something more than friendship with u and that you are planing a future of courtship with her??

Seun:
fumisko, what is the difference between dating and courting directly?

Dating should be the boyfriend and girlfriend
Courtship is fiance/fiancée.....
Some churches, and maybe mine are against dating, they believe you should pick a partner and court for few months n get married.
So does that make dating sinful?? Like illegal or more like the way of the world?

ifex370:
Yes.. By all means... Because of satanic doctrines and belief's... The devil has projected a hypocrisy about the act of dating.. It was never so from the beginning

It was supposed to be a God given blessed period of everybody's life..
God given period how?? Please I didn't really get that. Kindly expatiate

This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Abeg share wetin u think with me. The thing don tire me

IamSINZ:
No.


#TeamVirgin

Lol....are you sure you are ?

This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Check out my view on the above matter at
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

Abe share wetin u think with me. The thing don tire me

Should Christians Really Engage in Dating
This has always been a burdensome issue on my mind and I have always wondered if it is really ok or not.

So please I would like you to help me out here. Do you think it's ideal and OK for Christians to engage in dating or do you feel Christians should court directly and then marry??

Check out my view on the above matter at
http://diaryofalovergirl..com

Please feel free to share your views too

Hmmm
This is serious
I understand you love her but please don't ever be with a woman you are not sure of. Try telling her that you guys should hold on a bit on the marriage so you get to know each other a bit more....then see her reaction
If she flares up...be careful u may b dealing with a woman who gets wild while angry
Seems u are a bit old too maybe that's why you are rushing....it would be sad to Marry late and wrong ooo at the same time.
Be with a woman who treasures you too
How does she look at you wen u r together (let's even assume all couples fight)
Can you tell if she sees you as a blessing in her life??
Some women just want to bear "Mrs" o that's all...once d are getting old
Please watch well n pray about it all

Leshyne:
I feel, am committed but better stop than enduring torture for ever on earth.
I doubt her love cause we quarrel over unnecessary issues

How old is she?
Is she abouve thirty?
U guys are rushing the marriage thing
Why don't u guys try to be friends
Let her jist u about her life and all
Was she ever sexually abused or something
Does she really love u?
Even you doubt her love for u.
It is true a man must love a woman more for marriage but also u need a bit of her love too for her to treat you right??
Don't make a mistake you would regret because of rush

The absence of openness in relationships has resulted in so much issues in our world today. Amongst celebrities, actors and even pastors unfortunately and that is
"Why you should embrace this thing called "transparency" with both hands"
Can you tell that lady you are toasting that see I am a good man in so so and so area but I am prone to womanizing or can you as a lady tell him that...
http://diaryofalovergirl.com.ng

The absence of openness in relationships has resulted in so much issues in our world today. Amongst celebrities, actors and even pastors unfortunately and that is
"Why you should embrace this thing called "transparency" with both hands"
Can you tell that lady you are toasting that see I am a good man in so so and so area but I am prone to womanizing or can you as a lady tell him that...
http://diaryofalovergirl.com.ng

The absence of openness in relationships has resulted in so much issues in our world today. Amongst celebrities, actors and even pastors unfortunately and that is
Why you should embrace this thing called "transparency" with both hands
Can you tell that lady you are toasting that see I am a good man in so so and so area but I am prone to womanizing or can you as a lady tell him that...
www.diaryofalovergirl.com.ng

The absence of openness in relationships has resulted in so much issues in our world today. Amongst celebrities, actors and even pastors unfortunately and that is
"Why you should embrace this thing called "transparency" with both hands"
Can you tell that lady you are toasting that see I am a good man in so so and so area but I am prone to womanizing or can you as a lady tell him that...
www.diaryofalovergirl.com.ng

The absence of openness in relationships has resulted in so much issues in our world today. Amongst celebrities, actors and even pastors unfortunately and that is
"Why you should embrace this thing called "transparency" with both hands"
Can you tell that lady you are toasting that see I am a good man in so so and so area but I am prone to womanizing or can you as a lady tell him that...
www.diaryofalovergirl.com.ng

I for one get irritated by a guy who just throws himself at me when he is in love. Those pest type that would call 7times a day intially wen d r trying to toast me....it can come off as annoying if it's too much for a girl who hasn't even started liking u.
You need skills to check up on her at least once or twice and just nice words were u try to build friendship at least till you know she is feeling you and receptive to you which may happen in few days from the time your mind started running for her.

So ofcourse when you stopped giving her excess attention...she started missing it...which is normal with female beings (this thing is plain psychology). If you venture return and give her attention in a full blown manner, she would act the same way again (this happens usually with ladies with emotional issues)
If you really want to deal with her...my guess is to have a sweet call with her mayb today...call her sweet names e.g. Dearie and all and ask how work was. Don't tell her you love her or anything of such nature. Then shun her, mayb for the next five days or 7days. She would be overmissing u sef and would have called u to vex that you didn't bother to ask after her after the last time you called. "It's like a rubber band effect...".
You should deal with her the way she dealt with you in this manner till you are satisfied and have won her over. She would be the one craving for your consistency by this time.
Love sometimes for people with "issues" has to be played as a "game". Calculated game.

http://diaryofalovergirl..com

Where you a first class graduate??

What makes a woman feel loved?

The last post on "Six Ways to Keep Your Man Soaring With Love and Admiration" sparked a great outcry amongst the female readers of this blog who were so much in a hurry to ask that I also share on what makes a woman feel loved.

I shared the discussion on Reddit and also received an 80% down-vote by women as they felt the demands were way too much. I however received a 100% up-vote by men...lol.
So today's post is going to be on the little things that makes a woman feel loved, be it your fiancée or wife or even mother.

Some men do woefully at making women happy because they feel women are so complicated...lol. They will rather go ahead to do "the very big things" to their spouse and still get frustrated when there appear to be no result. It is therefore important for men to understand that it is "little things" that touches a woman's heart and makes her feel loved. Yet those little things seem so hard for men to do and I wonder why.

A woman is created to be a bit more petty and emotional than men. So you shouldn't be surprised when the absence of some little things mean a great deal to a woman. So below are the six (6) little things that make a woman feel loved.

Sensitivity
Every woman wants to be understood. Of-course men and women are different so it may be a little bit difficult for a woman to be understood. But understanding the brain wiring of your spouse would help a man a great deal in making her feel loved.
I would try to get a bit practical here. A spouse that has been working all Saturday to cook, keep the house clean and wash clothes etc. from 8am to 8pm nonstop without getting even a "well-done " from you or even a "what can I do to assist", even if you don't really mean it, may feel really unhappy with your actions and probably put up a little charade by 9pm when you have even forgotten or may not have even realized that you have done something wrong.

Further, a man who doses off always at those "amazing moments" when his spouse is ready to....
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

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This really makes sense

majekdom2:
200K and above minus field allowances.

Thanks

Please what's eunisell pay package for their graduate trainees?? Anyone with information on it before I travel down all the way from the north??

Here are six basic ways to keep your man soaring hot with love and admiration.
Ladies...it's better to get it right than to keep loving a man in the same way you would naturally feel loved. Remember he was created different from you and way more masculine...so something different would have to work for him...read...get enlightened and stop getting it wrong continuously
N.B In addition, please and please never be with a man you know you can't respect I beg you..so here we go
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

Here are six basic ways to keep your man soaring hot with love and admiration.
Ladies...it's better to get it right than to keep loving a man in the same way you would naturally feel loved. Remember he was created different from you and way more masculine...so something different would have to work for him...read...get enlightened and stop getting it wrong continuously
N.B In addition, please and please never be with a man you know you can't respect I beg you..so here we go
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng

Here are six basic ways to keep your man soaring hot with love and admiration.
Ladies...it's better to get it right than to keep loving a man in the same way you would naturally feel loved. Remember he was created different from you and way more masculine...so something different would have to work for him...read...get enlightened and stop getting it wrong continuously
N.B In addition, please and please never be with a man you know you can't respect I beg you..so here we go
http://diaryofalovergirl..com.ng