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Must u do every weekend?
Why won't u get tired
U guys should go to the movies
Hang out with mutual friends etc this weekend
So u can miss her body and the next one would be hot

itsJude:
u have earned my respect today i like sensible people, teacher and student will do it for me, the idea is already getting me mad with interest, na to find kinky school uniform buy from all those tailors, i will screenshot ur tips, long weekend will try as much as i can, thanks alot dear

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cbrass:
The capital answer is NO but you see the definition of love by some people these days is scary. Exactly this question u asked popped up in my mind in my last relationship which I just left some weeks ago. I was committed in various ways - money, time(even though am a programmer) , sacrifices with her doing nothing other than her just saying I Love u nw. But when I ask her about commitment she goes crazy on me and start the "you nag too much talk", so if we look at it again from your angle I can conclude that the love wasn't there or probably was there but somehow got lost in transit

True
So it's possible to love without commitment
But is it possible also to commit without lovin in a relationship?

cbrass:
yes but i just used that as an example of commitment .you can pretend to love someone but you can't pretend to be committed to them , commitment requires work,sacrifices,compromises etc.

Yea...as a lady if the guy buys me stuff and airtime etc why won't I beg to keep it coming.
Infact in my own case I am more wicked cus I Wld spend small of the money on u ...n would still not like u and you would think I love u

Jode:
Hmmmmm.... I suspected sha. Buh she always begs anytime I threaten to end our relationship

Marriage has no graduation. A lady or guy can pretend for years but not forever
You knew it would be over soon didnt u?

cbrass:
Do I love the maths I did while in school? No I was committed into passing them so I can graduate

I believe it is hard to offer commitment without love. Why would I want to commit to someone I have no attraction or liking for. Don't u know its love that would make you see your wife crying and you would feel it at the center of your heart...if u don't love her...nothing would make u want to tell her sorry....or ask for forgivenesss even if you not at fault....
Christ said love is d greatest...that's wat makes him forgive us wen we sin again and again
I think the issue is that we take love to be a feeling...
I see love as feeling +commitment+ tolerance etc

If I have no attraction for you or that thing deep inside that ( we call love).....I won't care..ask those my male friends that ask me out over and over again that I have no attraction for......my point is when I have no feeling for you....I cannot even think commitment
You are committed to, tolerant of, and devoted to someone u hv dt depth for.

You need to differentiate desire and true love or attraction and just when a girl is using you.
She can't truly love you and not want to call you or hear your voice or reach out to you.
This things are so easy to figure out. Once a guy isn't committed to calling and all that...I know he isn't that into me
No matter how much I love him I would just run away...it may not be easy
But I would hurt just once and for all
Rather than keep hurting over and over again
My summary is: she is just not into u

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Regret mail
I had good evidence

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Festusd:
Thanks. Please wat was ur top three traits

Memory span 100%
Attention control 100%
Attention duration. 100%
Processing consistency.

Got success mail like three four minutes after d game
Stage 3 remain

Festusd:
Please what are we to focus mainly on the test, I mean what trait do they actually want from us.

Just b ursef in the game
I think d r looking for memory
- how u learn from feedback
- how u act after error: if u make error in some of d games keep at it don't b discouraged...it's like some of d games monitor wat u do after errors
- if u to share extra money wit someone...share half ( that's wat I did) if u to collect bk collect half
That's fair ( so dt may show if u greedy or not)
Etc
Just b ursef for d game

Pls for d video posted, what risks did d mean??
Is it from the children swinging? Jumping into d water? Etc or risk as related to dove product??

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u must pick one o after d text. Don't come and be playing with all of them

Decide that it's the chic u toast n win that u Wld give yourself to. Why should chics be hunting u. Aren't u man enough to hunt a responsible girl that u Wld win over. U Wld value her more. Trust me and d suffering u did to get her Wld make u commit to her. I think dats ur issue..girls throw themselves at u and so u feeli u can have any girl anytime. Better leav those types and find quality girl u would win

dharamanil:
Brotherly that I am currently trying but the moment I go mute start building these walls all them illegal chicks begin to pester me... It's like they all serious @the same time and unserious @the same time.

Gradually you are becoming a player. I beg u deliberately stop before u Wld continue to be a player even at 35. That's how it starts. Why toast those girls when u need nothing from them. Decide to find one girl that u truly like and all that and feed her with all those emotions and all. When u feel like hitting on other girls, instead pick ur phone n call that same girl or hang out with her by that time. Love after the first phase of falling in love is a commmitment. If not how would u live for years in marriage with one lady? You need to deliberately work on it. Am saying so cus af met men at 33,35,39 who r still playing. D can't stay with one lady. The come close and withdraw and come close m withdraw...d r old but not emotionally mature...don't be one of them

dharamanil:
Hi guyz,

I am 25 years old and I have never been in a proper relationship before. Considering the age and some goals I have set for my self I find it troubling to be at that age and yet have no idea or understanding of how a proper dedicated relationship works. I am not the shy type when it comes to chiking I give u words sharply and burst ur bubbles real quick.

Most times I find myself liking and approaching any girl that I simply admire and come across and such attitude has landed me in a situation where I can not concentrate to develop a proper relationship....

So the guyz and chicks in the house what advice can u give to me

Note: I am not been proud, I just happened to be lonely in the midst of a happy crowd

Are you guys in the same place?
Try something new with her
Do u go to the movies? Go bowling
Or u guys hang out with your own friends n her own friends
I fink u should make her more of ur friend...than d dating
If she is a friend u wld share day to day stuff...Wat happend in traffic today, how a girl was toasting u...etc...it's Wat makes relationship work
Build d friendship

Am following and am waiting

nikkyharry:
Exactly t those were what I told him the very first time he ignored nd he said he was sorry nd cooked up reasons .

This is truly sad. I just pray u find the guy Dt wld love u d same way u seem to be capable of giving genuine love. And that u would love him back too. And then all this would just be a story of the past to ur future kids

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

You have now made your self as shit in his presence...by going so low to keep begging n asking why he is treating u like dt. From now on. U tell him from now hence forth that: I demand ur love care n attention full time n if u ain't giving me I ain't begging for it no more. I am self confident n I know Wat I want from my man. D pain of moving ahead maybe deep but it's better dan being continuously hurt o. U wld find a man Dt wld truly love u and treat u as his queen. Change dp.let him see u happy with another boo.U deserve nothing less. Even if u r 35 yrs now. Desperation is never a reason to settle for this emotional abuse u r going through. Better to get sperm donor have kids n b happy n fill ur life with ur profession

nikkyharry:
We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim

Babe I can relate. I had someone like that I used to like. All nice n all for one one two months...chat all through...calls n all...then he withdraws...n am confused:...does it mean he doesn't miss the time we shared and all that... Bottom line is I still can't explain it o.....but some men are immature and commitment phobic and some don't even know what is doing them. Try to fall in love with another man Abeg so u get ur attention off him. It's obvious u love him more than he loves u. And that's why there is this warning to ladies. Never ever love a man much more than he loves u. If not u r d one Dt wld b hurt. We are emotional beings...don't b deceived by his coming Bk n leaving...he is doing it Cus it isn't hurting him...infact he doesn't feel he is doing anything wrong. He loves u 30% u love him 70%
Run for your life or ur marriage wld b in shambles

Yes it was botcoin
I was to GH today
I did my GH order
Den immediatly did ph of d same amount
Loo and behold GH has not been matched
But d PH was matched so quick
It's my first time
Did not know I must GH completly before PHing again
I dint make use of the promo code
Am new Sha
Wld Whatsapp those numbers

starlite1:
I'm sure it was Bitcoin you phed.
Read, read and read. The update says, to participate in the Bitcoin promo, make sure you have your Bitcoin ready.

Is it that you want them to wait and match you after 1 wk so you cash out the next week since it's 15 days to cash out?
I phed in local currency and they 've not matched me yet, getting to d end of week one but i phed in Bitcoin for the promo and was matched same day.

matching is now done any day from 0- 30 days depending on.your luck. if it doesn't suit you, discontinue and stop spreading panic.

I pledged this morning. I was matched like 30 minutes after. It took me 2 weeks the first time to b marched when evrything was well. I checked nairaland to immediatly see if there is news on eminent crash. Loo and behold there is. So it may be true. Pls beware

xyoung:
Kindly Inbox me ur contacts then
No long tinz

Fear God bros

Mine : Single and looking too, a fair, beautiful, intelligent, educated, wt a gud sense of humor nd from a good home, some1 lyk me

Interesting .....so if the person that posses all that quality is dark....wahala go dey abi