I can't believe this Nigerian mentality of always victimising the woman.
Point is a woman was murdered. At this stage it doesnt matter if she was sleeping with the guy or not, its not up to anyone to judge her actions because she is dead. The point is that this reckless disregard for human lives needs to stop, the man has to pay for his actions and not make other men think it is okay to kill or harm a woman for whatever reason. What a mess...........

Even a prostitute walking the street should not be treated this way.

Nigerian men can be very crude and uncultured. Post tells you the girls had told him No. Stupid men still flex unecessary muscle harassing girls who have better things on their mind.

WHen Nigerian men do not treat ladies wuth respect, they will continue to be dsgraced

This post applies also to Nigerian Men with their ridiculous looking bellies. All this backward comments always dissing ladies that make no sense has to stop! Anyone man or woman with protuding belly should check it!

@poster.

i am suspicious of guys who generalise that all d 9ja girls they meet abroad r not marriageable, I know a good number of good single girls in the Uk and in Nigeria, but if ur reason for going to pick a girl from 9ja is because all d girls u meet r bad, i wd suggest u check urself first, cos either u r a player looking to use some girl, or u might have issues u need sorting out, otherwise u will keep meeting bad girls even in 9ja as well.

Just my 2 cents, btw, i have never met any Nigerian that smokes in d UK, while i know there are some, but it might mean u've been looking in d wrong places.

i hope not! i find it quite irritating seeing it in london,

Airplane

There was an albino girl when i was in Uni and she was quite pretty, she had a great bf too.

She was a chick sha, used contacts, nice hair to suit d complection, but she was obviously an albino.

I think the same rules apply, if we fall for each other y not?

pro01:

You're obviously shallow; since you are intellectually blind, i dont expect you to see reason. Prove me wrong by negating my arguments (this is afterall a debate) rather than your resort to personalized, senseless profanities.

P.S. And, yes. All the men you share your 'goods' to other than your boyfriend/husband are goats. (un)Lucky goats.

Ha ha ha. Life would have been so much easier if one could easily distinguish promiscous girls and 'virtuous' ones merely by thier looks and behaviour. The pretenders are the ones i hate most. Don't wanna reveal how many supposedly 'decent' or even 'born again' gurls i've been 'familiar' with. After the initial 'acting', the real them comes to the fore - its only a matter of time. Some hold out for just 2 days, others 2 years, others even a decade. But eventually, they yield to all kinds of temptation and then go on a spree. . . .

Whats ur point though? they are sluts because they agree to sleep with you, but you are still the good one after you slept with them? Sounds a bit like typical hypocrisy,

anyways, since it seems u spend time with promiscous girls that have given you this point of view, or maybe you dont know how to handle women, so they have always cheated on you. I really hope you dont get married because you will be a disaster to any woman you meet, keep sleeping about cause the kind of girls you meet that way are the kind you probably deserve.

Who cares?I will leave this thread as just another unfortunate sad man to feel sorry for.

pro01:

Oyin don't mix things up. Of course i SHALL GLADLY have responsibility for my adorable kids, provide them with the best life possible; child support for baby mamas wouldn't apply 'cos i'd have custody of my kids. Aint a big deal anyway. But bearing full responsibility for a love-peddler of a wife who could later treacherously allow another got access to her privates is what i dread. Nah.

When you have daughters, make sure you teach them this same great legacy of yours, and I hope you've told your mum and sisters that they are animals who have given birth to you a goat (as you have just called men goats).

May 27!!! but will be a bit freaked out if me and bobo had d same birth date

maybe we should all meet up for dinner somewhere, then go off to a bar/ club afterwards if people are still keen?

I could recommend a few places if people show interest.

Kenny_G:

ah i c, might check it out sometime, is it any good?

ayettymama:

i was at clausebar on saturday and i loved it

maybe we shuld meet there??
the music is good
there were absolutely no monkeys
the crowd seemed young

Been there a couple of times, really good.
It's called Coko bar, but the venue they use is actually clause bar.
The songs are quite good and when you get there no forming, u just end up dancin like crazy!

Freiburger:

@ Olugirl or what u call yourself,
He that fought and lost and accept defeat will fight and win again, but he that fought and lost and refused to accept defeat wiil live to fight and remain a loser forever.

I was contributing to the post based on what i found out, am not fightin with u!

Quote from: funkkybabe on January 31, 2010, 09:26 AM

he he he, tell me about it!

ok lets have a chat over lunch,

As long as u r buying!!!!

[email]PERHAPS THE WAIT IS OVER!![/email]

he he he, tell me about it!

I would love to be in one. I just haven't found the person yet. But as a romantic, am very hopeful i will meet hime soon,

one question? If your ex never called you, would you still have this same reaction to wanting to break up with the current one? In life, noone is perfect and you will always meet some one that [_{s]seems to[/s]} has something your current one doesn't.

Should you then always break up because of that? I think you should let the current girl know the communication problem you think she has, be open and honest about your expectations, she might not be aware that you find it a problem.

if she really loves you, she will adjust or make an effort to, if she makes no effort then at least you tried. But i dont agree with just breaking up with her without letting her know there is a problem, otherwise you will keep breaking up with girls as there will always be one problem or the other

Is anyone serious about this? I don't mind helping out, any excuse to meet 9ja ppl in this cold weather would be great!!!!!!!!!!!