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So we had sex that night. After the sex, she called me in a very calm voice and said, "I have HIV."


With that statement she left. For 2 weeks she couldn't talk to me. I, on the other hand, was confused and perplexed. So many thoughts were going through my mind.

I started having fear, fever, and cold.

I began to research on the early symptoms of HIV which include fever, night sweats, etc. Funny enough, I was having those. My heart beat rose up. I practically dimished!

Ok. Let me admit this.

I've had sex mistakenly once. It was so sweet, yet it left me with painful memories that I'll never forget. Since then I promise myself never to have sex again.

Now, I'm 36. No real relationship. I'm just scared. People around me think I don't like to vibe with ladies, but they're wrong.

Once bitten. Twice shy. They say. This has been with me for so many years now. I can't tell anyone.

Here is the story.

While in my final year in a college of education (NCE 3) finals, I had this hausa girl I loved so much. I was really crushing on her. She wasn't really hausa. She is from one of these minor tribes in the north. But this girl too set. Black beauty with good curves, pointed nose and so cheeky. Her smile would even make you forget your name. I had known her since our NCE1.

We were in the same school, but different departments. I have always had this crush on her, but I found an opportunity to express myself during our finals.

There was this course we had together, and some how, I linked up with her since she needed help on the course and I understood the course (related to statistics), so we blend along and I found out that she also had a crush on me, but she couldn't speak out.

To cut the story short, on the night before the course exam day, we were rehearsing...

SolaFide:
Wounds that have refused to heal.
Wash the affected area with your early-morning urine.

Wounds that refuse to heal or deep cut wounds:

Mix enough honey with salt. Keep applying it to the wound. It will definitely heal.

From first hand experience.

Wealthyonos:
We suppose arrest you for still using this kind of phone.. No wonder Nigeria is not moving forward

Give him money to buy a new phone.

Some people and st.vpidity.

People dey eat rubbish ooh i swear.

You opened your mouth waaah and eat cat meat Tufia!

By 2027, you will still go and vote in those yeye people that made you chop cat!

Udeke!

Who chases after women these days?

Man, chase after money and chase after your financial goals. Women will naturally like you.

If you've ever traded crypto or forex, then you have used this kind of chart. Oil prices rise, oil prices fall. Dollar rise, dollar fall. It's all about this chart, incase you don't know.

Believe all these motivational gibberish at your own risk!

One major rule of success is having a chief aim in life. Which your story does not allign to.

Dispersed energy can hardly give you a meaningful success.

jmoore:
This year in Aba, Abia State, I noticed a new business in town. They come with speaker with a pre-recorded audio that plays "Condemn phone, condemn laptop, condemn engine, we are buying it in a good price.
If your phone fall down inside water, bring it we are buying it in a good price. Condemn phone, condemn laptop. Baje baje..."

And it's seems it's only northerners are into it.

What's your state of residence? What year did they come into your state of residence?

You need no one to tell you that they buy onbehalf of the chinese...

What bothers me though, is why they don't buy chinese-made laptops? They prefer those begium laptops.

Mariangeles:
So, how many are you having in this blazing heat?🔥
How many is enough to cool you off? 🥵

I'd rather take chilled fura da nono.

This your title got me laughing real hard.

Anytime he wants to cause trouble, he goes inside, orchestrate the trouble, then comes outside after the deed is done.

saddler:
I still saw a video on Aljazeera where one of the leaders of the Kurdish forces said they were ready to do a ground invasion but needed support from US. Trump also said in video, he doesn't want that .

Don't mind that dude. That is why I refused to reply him. He is not updated.

Biafraaa:
TRUMP IS CORNERED AND NOBODY IS SAYING IT

Option 1: Leave Iran → Middle East falls. Israel destroyed. America looks weak FOREVER.

Option 2: Send ground troops → Iran has 600,000 active military + mountain terrain. This becomes Afghanistan x10.

Option 3: Nuclear strike → Russia and China respond. Global war. End of civilization.

Every option ends in catastrophe.

The leader of the free world has NO GOOD MOVE LEFT.

Let that satisfiedink in.

Option 4:

Send kurdish militias to overthrow the Islamic regime from the west. Then send Aizerbajanian forces from the north to create a buffer zone and acquire more iranian territories. Then break up the country...

Don't ever compare Iran to Nigeria. Iran has missiles that can reach Nigeria. Does Nigeria has missiles that can reach Niger? talk more of reaching Iran🤔🤔🤔

You never defeat bandits, you wan acquire nuclear weapons?? So that it will fall into the hands of jihadists abi?? God forbid you!!

I didn't see any dead school girl in the video.

The truth is:

Demons don't like noise, and they fear crowds. Yes, demons fear crowds of people. But if those guys there are not fortified with the power of God, those demons will come back later and hunt them one after the other.

Wickedtruths:
Since you tour these states daily, tell us Otti's achievements in
Security
Urban Water supply
Health
Housing Infrastructure
Urban Regeneration
Agriculture
Education
ICT
Transportation

In security, there is peace and safety in Abia state.

In health, Gov. Alex Otti recently employed over 2000 health workers and created hundreds of PHC centers.

The state government has taken over Aba Power. There is steady power supply in Aba and other areas in Abia state.

The state government has employed over 5000 teacher, and is currently recruiting over 4000 teachers more. There are currently ongoing projects to construct smart schools in Umuahia and Aba.

There is free electric bus transport within the state.

There are tech incubations organized by the state government with startup rewards for participants.

The Abia state government recently acquired Aba Textile Mill to restart production.

There is free and compulsory education at the basic levels in public schools.

There are many ongoing road projects.

Etc

Isaiah 44:5 (KJV):
One shall say, I am the LORD’s; and another shall call himself by the name of Jacob; and another shall subscribe with his hand unto the LORD, and surname himself by the name of Israel.

What is your problem with it?

And that pastor Jimmy Odukoya looks like some dogging his female church members... 🤔🤔🤔🤔

Leviticus 19:28 explicitly condemns tatooing your body. So Pastors Jimmy Odukoya and that other guy parading as a pastor, are all big sinners before God.

If you like, argue with your keyboard....

helinues:
How does having tattoos, dreadlocks affects the preaching

Where in the bible was it written that you must not have a tattoo or dreadlocks

There is a place in the old testament where God told the israelites not to put marks on their bodies. I will get it for you

Mikedel80:
Do I truly have any love to show her. I'm just being real. My kind of person, I don't talk too much. If you hurt me. I withdraw my attention and everything towards you to show you that I'm angry. I don't like arguments. Since I married her, I have never told her you're mad or stupid, or that she is a fool. I don't insult. That woman has shown me shege too in that house

You were not prepared for marriage.

floss:
The best thing to do is to invite one person she worships like a god… and in most cases, women like this worship their pastors or their supervisor at work…. Their presence will help pacify things for a conversation to take place…

Then you can have that conversation… remember that conversation is necessary so that the decision will be made in unity… especially since a child is already involved..

She being manipulative is because the love seem dead, so with a good conversation both of you will know if it’s best to be divorced, separated or work on the marriage.

DONT ever invite a pastor that she worships as God, else your case na otilor ooh!

Mikedel80:
She argues too much
She is disrespectful
She is stubborn
She acts like a man
She dresses the way she likes. Not the way I want
She prays too much which a red flag.
After the prayers, she goes back into ungodly behaviours

Now, go and meet her. Show her love. Then ask her to list the things she doesn't like about you.

Then you both can iron it out. Compromise where necessary.

Well... Every woman is a parrot. But what I see here is that you have an ego. Your wife has ruffled that ego, and you intentionally refused to have sex with her to teach her a lesson. You are now acting as onye odi Naka. If you truly believes that she is your wife, you better bring down your ego. Don't see her as a maid, see her as a companion. Love her despite her faults.

The truth is: since she never give you poison as you deprive her sex, she is a good woman.

Mikedel80:
The problem is that she is a parrot. Before you talk one, she don talk 100. I can't even sit her down to talk to her. I've sworn never to have any discussion with her. She is manipulative also.

List the things you don't like about her.

donsheddy1:
So grey does not withdraw directly to your local bank?

Most ads networks don't support Grey.

Why not use Payoneer. You withdraw directly to your local bank account.