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Is it two to three flies


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a swarm of flies

Jozilinn:
Okay Op breathe first this whole brother wife, brother family is kind of confusing me but I think you should ask your wife rather than assume what went wrong between them. Besides because they're both married to the two brothers doesn't mean they're supposed to be close.

Now that your brother wants to bind with your son,you can always make a video call across and all of that. Just allow them get their spaces with time everything might just come in place.

Don't tell your brother anything and don't always think that your wife might be the villain No. Don't take sides speak to your brother as you should,speak to his wife and also their kids. Then you can ask her to greet him.

If you want a bonding moment tell her you want to visit your bro it's been long. See just don't take it too deep maybe before this year ends they'll eventually stop and if they don't your brother is your brother still bond you no understand my point.

Call him you know,both of you can still communicate without the wife issues popping up. As far as I'm concerned it's nothing and if you even want his kids to come over you'll know how to tell her.


Marriage is understanding feel free happy don't be angry or moody just act like you no send anybody. Afterall she didn't tell you what happened between them.

That's my advice oh because you're making your wife look bad don't judge what you're seeing and just feel free.

Best advice so far.

OP I beg you in the name of whatever thing you worship to take this advice.

Beans and potatos


Beans and plantain

Turkey has been saying that they want to conquer, capture, and seize Jerusalem. Is that not an existential threat to Israel?

Why most Islamic countries fume and show great anger at the mention of Israel is what still baffles me. Yet they love America?

Iran, Turkey, Pakistan, etc.

Why is this thread no longer been updated?

A blunch of unrelated videos stitched together to draw up sentiments.

Hmmm... I just hope this comes from his oga's pure heart.

I don't want to hear Ikenna don die 2 weeks after moving to his new house.


You know say ritual get levels.

Nobellight77:
Poverty and wealth are two different realms. The latter can only be granted by God, but it can also be given temporarily by the devil with consequences.

Hard work and discipline are advantages, but without the God factor, genuine riches are far from reach.

Many people only look rich but are poor, while there are others who are wealthy yet disguise themselves as poor or keep their wealth completely hidden from the public eye.

So, don't be carried away by what you see on the outside. There is more to life than meets the eye.

Talking about the devil giving temporary wealth. I've seen someone whom the devil literarily gave wealth. He died. But his children are still enjoying that wealth. When we say that there is something called ritual money, some people won't believe it.

This man practically sold his soul to the devil. When he was alive, on his head lived maggots, that gave him wealth.

Moonlight111:
Wow that’s difficult
Any other payment method?

I will advice you to open a GTBank or UBA dormicilary account (dollar account) and send your adsence money there.

Rubbish judgement!

How many of those churches burnt in the north have been compensated? I've seen churches burnt during post election violence, yet nothing was done. The church members had to contribute money and rebuilt their church.

Nigeria's judicial system is completely flawed. IMO

Toolegit123:
Good dey everyone here.

It's me again, . The young man whose fiancee just broke up with without any reasonable reason

But now,I've gone into the dating pool fully again and my observations of ladies of nowadays is sometimes I'd really like to discuss here,with you my brethren.

First and foremost,I must really say that relationship in Nigeria has become transactional and it seems ladies now go into relationship with the mentality of being fed and taken of.

Recently,after my first date with the 27years old lady ended abruptly and chaotic,I decided to go for an older one.

The new lady I met,a lady in her early 30s, precisely 31 years old was nothing to write home about . Imagine a lady at that age bracket having the mentality that --"men are everywhere" that she doesn't have to respect me simply because I'm in a relationship with her. She's rude and ill mannered. The worst part of it all was that she was into idol worshipping and not only her,but her entire family

Though I had almost fallen in love with her but whenever I remembered how my previous relationship ended badly,I had to clean my slippers and ran for my dear life.

Funny thing is that,how can a lady of her age with more than 4 body counts still have that mentality that "men are everywhere",when in reality no man would want to end up with a woman of that age who has bad character

Finally, I've made up my mind. And for now, I'll only be considering 18-23 years old girls. I won't mind if I spend my money on her after all she's still a baby who will someday outgrow her childish behaviors. Unlike the ones who have crossed the bridge of their prime.

So,my fellow Nairalanders,what do you guys have to say to me, about the age of the ladies I'm considering? Hope I'm not about to make a wrong decision?

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My advice: Be a phenomenal (proactive) guy and date an inexposed village girl. She will definitely be in love with you.

Tales at the beer parlour.

If you know how drones fly and how fighter jets can twist themselves in the skies, you will definitely not believe this story. Except he talks about many surface to air anticraft missiles launched once at him.

Why didn't the Iranians down an israeli jet?

It is better we hear from the side of the man before we conclude.

From the video, I could hear, "Iche na inwere obi" meaning you think say you get mind, abi?

We don't know what the woman did.

Maybe she angrily tried to stab him with a dangerous weapon until he overpowered her.

Maybe she wanted to poison his food, and he found out.

Whatever may be the case...

But if it is based on trivial matters, then that guy is a beast in human form.

I think it is part of the bargain...

She is only submissive because she is less beautiful and less desired. Had it been she is beautiful, she won't even consider you.

Then again, women are selfish creatures. She found comfort with you (away from the shame she receive). That is the goal.

Is it safe to travel from the east to Gombe on road for official assignment?

Their initial plan was to use the military to flush out ESN, then pave way for the jan.jawe.ed islamic terrorists to wreck havoc in the south east. But they don't know that ESN is formidable and resilient.

ESN is not waging war against the nigerian army, rather reverse has been the case.

ESN was created to "chase away the fulani terrorists from our forests"

Handwork of loan apps

I love Kuda Bank App.

Ecobank app rocks too!

In addition, pretend that you are in a deep shit, like you lost your job. Tell them about your situation and ask them for financial help of up to N30k. The one that sends you the money is really committed to the relationship.

You are at a point where delaying the decision is already becoming a decision on its own. Both women are asking you to meet their parents because they likely see the relationship as moving toward commitment. If you continue with both while unsure, the risk is that someone eventually gets deeply hurt — including you.
The confusion you feel is normal. Attraction, attachment, and compatibility are not always the same thing.
Here’s a practical way to think through it.

1. Stop asking, “Who do I love more?”
Instead ask:
Who gives me peace?
Who brings out discipline and purpose in me?
Who fits the kind of future I want in 5–10 years?
Who handles conflict maturely?
Who genuinely respects me?
Around who can I be fully honest?
If money became hard for two years, who would still stand well with me?
Which relationship feels stable instead of emotionally confusing?
Love alone is not enough for marriage. Stability, character, respect, and shared direction matter heavily.

2. Fear of making the wrong choice may actually mean you are avoiding pain
Part of your fear may not be “What if I choose wrong?” but also:
“What if I hurt one of them?”
“What if I lose someone valuable?”
“What if the one I leave later becomes more successful?”
“What if marriage changes everything?”
That fear can keep a man stuck between two lives for too long.
But maturity sometimes means accepting that clarity comes with sacrifice.

3. Observe who is truly compatible with your future
The nursing graduate and the polytechnic graduate may both be good women. But marriage is not a beauty contest or certificate competition.
Watch for:
Emotional maturity
Financial attitude
Respect during disagreements
Family values
Spiritual beliefs and lifestyle
Temperament
Loyalty
Ability to build with you
Ask yourself:
“If attraction reduced tomorrow, who would still make a strong life partner?”
That question reveals a lot.

4. Do not meet both parents if you already know you can only choose one
Meeting parents in many Nigerian families is seen as serious intention. If you are still uncertain, avoid giving both families strong expectations at the same time.
Instead:
Be honest with yourself first.
Take a short period to decide intentionally.
Reduce emotional juggling.
A man cannot think clearly while emotionally feeding two serious relationships equally.

5. Create a private comparison — not based on emotions alone
Take a notebook and divide it into sections:
Quality
Woman A
Woman B
Peace of mind


Trust


Respect


Communication


Shared future goals


Family compatibility


Emotional maturity


Supportiveness


Attraction


Ability to endure hardship together


Be brutally honest. Patterns will start appearing.

6. Ask yourself one uncomfortable question
If today both women suddenly disappeared from your life forever…
Which loss would truly break you the most — not because of ego, beauty, or benefits — but because you know that person genuinely fits your life?
Sometimes your heart already knows, but your fear keeps creating noise.

7. Once you decide, be clean and respectful
Do not keep one as a “backup option.” That creates long-term guilt and confusion.

When you decide:
Commit fully to one.
End the other relationship respectfully and clearly.

Avoid manipulation or false promises.
That is part of becoming serious in life.
You do not need a perfect choice. You need a wise, intentional, honest choice.

What would make someone commit rape and murder this small girl for goodness sake?

By beauty? She is not even beautiful. No shape.

By wealth? She is definitely not rich.

This could be family feud and vendicta
or

A soured relationship in which she played a fast one on an illiterate reckless village cultist.

Kennitrust:
Good day my follow Nairalanders.

Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.

In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.

To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.

She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am.
Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.

I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.

And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.

Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?

Since you really have time by your side and she asked you for a written proposal, go to ChatGPT:

1) write what you are in quote. E.g

"I am a business man, i am 32 years, and i am responsible. I am not educated but i have a good business i am doing."

2) past the quote on chatgpt and write,

write a 2000 words article on the quoted statement, make it look funny and appealling to a church lady. Make the age to be irrelevant. Also make it look like i have a good vision in life and i can sustain any lady i marry.

ManLikeL:
What's your doubt by calling me fake life?? Is it that you don't believe I have the listed systems or that I can't have them and need helps on way to go?
I never said I've been jobless all my life... I said I'm currently without job... It could mean I've just lost a job and not ready to start all over again. No part of that lines means I've been jobless all my life. If I want to be fake, I'll list things that aren't tech related but I have as properties ranging from the kind of car I drive and phones I use but nah, I just need guidance. And those systems are in all honesty, the least of what life has blessed me with. Consider it a very humble brag.

How much are you going to pay me?

Learn:
1) Video ads editing and 2d animation
2) Learn digital marketing

Yes. We have AI but in the end, how many people would keep paying for AI pro subscriptions? Just be good at them and be patient, you'll earn money in USD both ways.

You lots are ignorant TBH.

You think the US doesn't know his whereabouts from the onset?

That dude finally refused to do the bidding of the west, so they have to take him out.

dominique:
Cancer has been in existence for centuries but it was not diagnosed at the time.

So cancer has been in existence for centuries in Nigeria so much that we witness young people in their 30's and 40's dying from cancer?

In the years of my grandfathers, young people hardly die except from accidents and war. When a young man die, it is believed to be an evil omen. Now, you'll see a young man of 30 something or 40 something die, then they'll tell you it is cancer. Which kind cancer? Abeg.

There is something sinister going on in this era and present society that we do not yet know.

It's really a sad news. May God comfort the family.

But why is cancer cases rampant these days?

Back in the 80's and 90's, we hardly hear of cancer cases. What is really happening?

Emmy2022tech:
UPDATE: Error fixed and was paid for those still asking.

How were you able to fix the error?

Do you mind sharing any step by step guide?

Can it power a laptop? If yes, for how long?

Enskynelson:
That means you are qualified. But also notr that you must meet the O level requirements

Ok sir. Thank you so much sir.