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Cutehector:
Mehn, I no jus knw weda na winch or some badbelle ppo buh its really getn out of hand. Am tired of bein friendzoned.. I dnt want friendship again na! I hav enough frnds to last a life time. Why e be say I go chyke babe finish, dr response wil be, hector, let's just continue bein friends.... What am I not doin? Where did I get it all wrong?

Do you try to turn your friendship into relationship? Quite the case here. You don't outrightly go out and date girls. It's very obvious. You turn the ones that are already friends into a relationship. from my experience, girls HARDLY date guys in such scenarios.

Are you the shy type, as in scared of talking to girl?

Well, start by approaching the ones you do not know just yet. That will save you from such wahala.

wizemoney:
Export business is a very good one.... with the current exchange rate advantage

How much d you know about export. Share the information.

dancok:
is my on and off chick,i usually tell her to come visit that i will send transport fee but i will ignore her for sometime i will not send money or call so she told me the last time,that childish of me.

Lol... I did that to an ex for a long time. It took her long to realise I didn't take her serious. Well don't blame me cos she messed me up big time. May be you should just free her.

dancok:
what does it take to grow up,especially when your girlfriend tells you to grow up,what does she mean?





don't mark grammar,just comment.

give an example of what led to her saying such to you. I have girls in the past tell me to grow up but in essence they needed to grow up because I tell them the truth. One of my ex realised this after 4 years and admitted she had really erred especially in the area of our relationship. Most of them think they are wise but have just fish brain.

JERRY1925:
Am in love with this girl, she won't date me..and don't want me to leave her..confused..i'v spoken to her several times but her reply is always No...I knw u will say i'v bin frnd Zoned, but this is more than that, because we have feelings 4 each other and we do stuffs..like hold hands,kiss,cuddle nd plenty more...but the said part is she can't date me...and when I try to ignor her for real, she starts calling and saying hi on social network..

Dude, you got no game... The bro code is that never ask a girl to date you... just act like her boyfriend. Be there for her and all that. If she kisses you, you are dating already. So stop asking her that question. Just play along. xxxtedyxxx's thread should explain better.

xxxtedyxxx:
U are on the right track. Keep doing that. Don't relent, push ur comfort zone farther and farther. D best way to learn something new is to start doing dat thing wen we feel fear or anxiety. With time, talking to girls anywhere will become a part of you. Its not every guy dat's skilled in that aspect.

met a damsel at the bank 2 days ago. She was complete gorgeous. Naturally beautiful just the way I love it. Even though rain don beat me. I didn't fail nor care to chat her up a few seconds before she left. I would have proceeded but I think she is engaged already. No go area. Lol.

Profitsng:
Sir/ma Its not faustrating, once you are a business man or woman, you will do all it takes to satisfy your customers,

I Stay in benin, but when i get orders every week on my store (i sell hot items, get orders every week),
i travel to lagos to go drop the items, simply because im a business guy..

So make sure you create time to deliver your items in lagos..

Regards
Joseph.

so you travel all the way to Lagos from Benin just to go drop items for buyers? How much profit do you make in return? Dude, you are running at lose if you don't know. Better sit down and look at your expenditures vs revenues vs profit.

I am in Benin but distribution made me paused.

dossypretty:
Not at all

Then I guess its the one you met in the "new city" congrats all the same

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] And you want tell us Church Bizness is not big bizness?...Look at the real estate those two robbers have managed to corner with that front called Church. [/color]

Plus when they were raising money for the building, they told congregations that they(the congregation) where build the house of God...

xxxtedyxxx:
U are on the right track. Keep doing that. Don't relent, push ur comfort zone farther and farther. D best way to learn something new is to start doing dat thing wen we feel fear or anxiety. With time, talking to girls anywhere will become a part of you. Its not every guy dat's skilled in that aspect.

can I have you digit? I need to discuss something with you.

iamdeclan:
Plz,I need a reply to what am about to say co am going crazy now.
What dies a girl mean when she keeps insisting she can't date u but gets jealous wen she sees u wit oda gals,calls u up to 3 tyms a day,even call during extra cool sometyms and tells u abt all guys dat asks her out/dose dat she goes on a date with...Don't understand her &I rly love her..
N.B her reasons 4 insisting we can't date includes
1)U are my friend
2)all guys seem fakish to me now(because her last relationship hurt are rly well)
3)we are in same level&our future isn't sure cos u mite not b ready 4 marriage wen I am.
But recently,she told me dat she wanna 4get abt d level issh&go 4 any guy dat seem appealing to her.
Pls do u tink she z friend zoning me?? I need a reply quickly

Cut her some slack buddy. Leave her. You have told her your mind. The thing is that VIRTUALLY all girls build a defensive wall when you say: "can we date, or I wanna date you" They get all defensive and give you an almost programmed reflexive reply: "I can't date you, we are like brothers and sisters, I will think about it, I don't know, I have a boyfriend (when they don't have)" blah blah.

So what do you do, leave her and focus on something more important to you. What's important to you? Only you can answer that question. do you like games? spend time playing games. Do you like reading books? spend time reading books etc. You get the drift?

What many guys do is that they play around as many as 3-5 girls so that once one messes up, they focus attention on another. It helps you a lot. I lost guard and focus of this rule and I have messed up pretty badly in the last few days. My bro wackyj1 had to reboot my memory. So, bro... get as many girls as you can so that just as in this case that she says she can't date you, you focus attention on another.

when she doesn't hear from you anymore she will start flashing or calling you. I had done this before without even knowing that its the rule. How I lost guard of this rule and mess up my chances is what I can't explain.

You are likely friendzoned already so the game changer that can remove you from that zone is when you stay away from her for MONTHS... if you come back, you can start afresh on a different memory lane.

WackyJ1:
Fxbot everyday you go out approach a random girl you know and talk to her without any intentions in your mind.
Don't think too much, just move.. Don't bother about what you will say, you're already good with words. Saying junk will help you sef as long as it's funny.

I got over mine with intensive field lectures from a friend.

Thanks Buddy. Been doing that but unfortunately, the girls so far hasn't caught my fancy so I do not proceed after a few words. I told one today while crossing the road. She was on the divider. I asked her why she didn't cross the road as i did, she just laughed and said something inaudible.

fxbot:
Charging my hot. Review afta thorough test. Tanks 4 prompt delivery.

My personal experience with this mayor source T1 power bank

pros

Charges fasta than nepa light

The power bank energy does not reduce if not used

I get 4 full charge on infinix hot from 0-100% ( better than my previous pb)

The power bank does not get hot

Cons

Heavy

takes 10hours to charge fully


But my battery is 2000mah, I expect atleast about 5 and half charge cycle. 120000mah/2000mah= 6


cc. Mayorall nani667 and the gurus here.

OP go and take your herbs today.

No credible source.

mayorall:
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Charging my hot. Review afta thorough test. Tanks 4 prompt delivery.

mayorall:
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You can also order our mayor source T1 12000mah power bank from Konga


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Contact us on whatsapp : 07066435369

BBM : 7FDE8205

Email : sales@mayorall.com

Impressed. Waitn for delivery, followed by review.

Man City don sofa toda

Mam city don sofa toda.

Beckharm:
Buy mayor source power bank from Mayorall and company on nairaland. Their product is cheap and reliable infact I get 4 full charge on my infinix and 5 full charge on my iPhone 4s since four months now. Their 12000mah power bank cost #4000.

Tanks. Pls hw do I contact them? Gv me their contact. Do they hve thread on nairaland?.

estherdim:
My dear where u leave should not be a barrier to u. I will suggest u open a store with konga.com and if u can get a good friend in lagos that can be helping u to drop the item at konga when ever u have any order, even if it takes u paying the person that is part of business. From friday last week I openned a store with konga till now I have gotten more than 10. Today alone is 4 order.

Thanks to mastercee
God bless u

Please your background be always white?. While entering the quantity, you are to enter available quantity or you just put 1 piece? . I have created my account since last Thursday and I have not gotten any message from konga. Also my product has been under review since that Thursday. Is there anything am doing wrong? .

Ikonz:
CBM means Cubic metre, its a system of measuremen used to calculate the charge fees for goods when using sea freight

You go school so . Or patience Jonathan is your current school teacher ***measuremen***

10thangel:
hi everyone. Pls, what is the meaning of CBM when you are shipping thru sea. I need it to complete an application. thanks

Cbm means cubic meter angel

I have been using cvm close to two years 4 goods above 1120kg and I haven't had any complain. Surprised with the complaints here over the latest companies.

Yes, he will surely be consulted to defend hid atrocities.

thegoodjoehunt:
Glad you had fun and happy new year. I got a question for you. There is this chick who stood by me during my darkest time in life. She helped me get through the pain.

After that time, we became close but in a friendly way, not intimately. We hang out a lot and confide with each other. I have grown to like her.

Lately, she has fixed 3 meetings and failed to show. What bothers me is that she fixed the dates. When I call her, she is so excited and happy. The same vibe as before but she fixes dates and doesn't show up or cancels.

What do you think is the problem.

Hey buddy and everyone here. I have a problem. I am not used to approaching beautiful ladies in open public places and I seem to have been meeting them in just that spot lately but missing. I really need help.

I was at a spot, the center of my city and have missed 2 solid chances of getting these ladies... for which I often hate myself for minutes later with regrets.

Case 1: I was at a spot where I wanted to buy CD and I noticed the dark smooth skinned beauty. As soon as I got there, I noticed her beauty few seconds delayed and my mind was still processing the thoughts when she left. Considering its the center of the city, it was often very crowded. I missed her. However I met the CD seller and he said that the she does come around and that I should give him my number. I did and I collected his own too. The CD seller seems to know a bit about her though.

I have called him on several times to know if he has seen her. NO SHOW and its almost a week now.

Case 2: This light skinned damsel was racking through the CDs for more than 30 minutes, directly opposite where I saw the girl in case 1, just a few meters apart. I was processing the thoughts but left.

The 2 cases were cause by my in ability to make a move I am not a good talker when it comes to women or how to strike conversation. How to initiate the convo, what words to use...

and mind you, these was in a crowded public place.

I need help to in case I meet such damsels in places... thanks.

I dated a girl for 4 months and had one of the best romantic kisses of my life. Chei! That babe sabi kiss and caress and that's what I love because it turns me on.

No girl has ever given me such sensation till date.

On her own will she ended the relationship on basis that I want to use and dump her, which isn't true just because I can be naughty most times and talk about sex often.

She told me she does not like it that way and we parted ways. I later came back to beg her so we could continue from where stopped.

Let me confess to you all here. I really love her but her mind and image on me has been made which has been the defensive wall.

I have begged since 2011- till now. She refused.

I angrily blasted her last time on facebook because she is doubting me and I told her I will prove her very wrong and make her understand it was her own mistake. Knowing my kind of person, I never fail at that to pass my message to such girls. I did it before and I can do it again. I just hope the regrets does not haunt her to the grave.

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