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I lived with my wife for 5yrs befoee marryin her. Best decision ever.

7yrs more and 2 babies, i married my bestie

brain54:
Ghanains are obsessed with Nigerians...


They love to spread false facts about Nigerians. Without taking into consideration or giving kudos to the help, role,or the part that Nigerians play in their entertainment industry generally.

Nigeria is one of the markets that embraces and accepts everything without bias.


If it's good. Nigerians would accept and play it without consideration for where it's coming from. Nigerians accept things from outside almost to a fault. Same cannot be said of the same people that like to sit down back and criticize all the time. They always like to shift blames. Nigeria or the success of Nollywood or the entertainment industry in Nigeria generally isn't the reason for the failure of the Ghanian entertainment industry.

Someone should help me ask this Ibrahim sellasie if Ghanians themselves accept and watch their own movies? Why are they not watching their own movies which most of them are low budget with weak story lines but expect Nigerians to watch them.

Ghanains watch Nigerian movies because it's more entertaining to them especially compared to their own movies and not because they want to deliberately support Nigeria movie industry or entertainment generally.

These Ghanians can really be annoying and unnecessarily competitive and petty sometimes!

Dont mind them small minded petty things. The lots of them have very fragile ego and low self esteem

Whoever merged northern and sputhern nigeria is a terrorist

NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING !!!!!!!!!!!

I now believe we have a generation of idiots who do not know that women also have to earn things to value it.

How will you go and pay 90k for food? And pay uber 18k? Are you not mad.

Such effort for something you are not sure of. Who are you trying to impress?

papiSNEH:
My brother don't wound yourself with talk..A tiger cannot change its stripes.

most Nigerian girls feels they are the ones doing you a favor in a relationship.. that's why i jejely go for east African girls. especially Ethiopian Damsels they are too calm,soft,loving and loyal. Na there you go know God's design na helele... beautiful face, nice shape 8 , madt behind with flat tummy unlike their Nigerian counterpart with big belle like person way dey drink Gulder, consuming everything on the menu like Anaconda

I can really relate. The most soft and feminine women on earth are Ethiopians and Indians.
If you lucky to date any of these, from experience, you are in heaven.

Ifexibe:
“Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser.” - RM

"Hypergamy doesn’t care for male idealistic expectations of love." - Rational Male

Her goal was probably to get pregnant first since she was pressured by family to marry an older man so she can at least lay claim to inheritance, then later pursue her hypergamous instincts like most of these dumb bitches do.

All in love is fair - Steve wonder.

A woman's definition of high value man is very different from a man's definition.

When mem talk of a high value man, they only think of money, wealth, power or fame or material possessions. When women think of a high value man, they think of one with emotional security, strength and social value, emotional intelligence, a thorough leader who can provide infrastructure for their growth and someone they can respect without money.

💯 women will leave a man's idea of a high value man and we all wonder whats wrong with them.

High value means different things to both genders

Tall only? No nyash, no curves no fine?? Abeg

Anal sex does not glorify your God not mine. Anuofia

Ignorance is a terrible thing.

Lol...100% of nigerian women dont have promised lands.


All other women who are not Nigerians have absolutely no problem getting to the so-called promised land 5 minutes after meeting a nigerian man.

Nothing is worth the life of another person.


Nothing is worth throwing your own life away for.

So many things to live for...A woman should never make the list.

Painful experience but brother ain't no anger gon change a hoe, dont let another person's actions define you.

What a woman does with her body should never impact how you feel as a man.

Decisions of the court obeyed for political patronage but not for local government affairs

You don marry woman...her see finish don start immediately . If you never marry am or she instill gf, you go teach am anything and she will listen

izicooo:
i'm really sorry for sounding indifferent here, please pardon my mannerz; what i'm trying to understand is, how two adults having sexual relationship, how is that suppose to be an issue? if this was a case of rape or defilement it would have been understandable. Them dey always tell men, mount your guard (financially, bedroom & in several other aspect) or else person go wipe your wife.

In military formations, this is an offense in the sense that the bond of brotherhood is broken. Imagine going on a mission or operation together standing behind a guy who stradded your wife. Why wont you MISTAKINGLY shoot him?

Karashikaa:
Yes my lord, I'll no further argue with a narcissist...

Calling someone a narcissist for expressing an opinion on a public fora only goes to show how shallow and low one is.

Nigerian women think that emotional manipulation and labeling men who have a different view to their emasculated mates makes them ideal.

Nobody is responsible for your fears and emotional wounds. If you have a problem with men, sit down with yourself and review your choices.

Sirianese:
Yeah foreign ladies don't come with family bukata, entitlement and juju activities, that's why

All women are greedy but Naija ladies are on another level...once you experience stress-free love outside of our shores you will never go near Naija ladies again

You see that stress part is a big thing. Whe a woman sees it as her duty to value, honour and treat you, spend her money and receives your money, presence and gifts with appreciation.
Omo suffer no dey tire you?

Karashikaa:
Just the same way cultural expectations can be a major problem with Nigerian men, especially when it comes to submission, leadership and the likes.

This is actually very wrong. Women all over the world are looking for leadership from men and ever woman submits to a man she respects. Its a natural order and seen across cultures. The most submissive women are Europeans.

Mirasteel:
Actually this is what I have observed for so long, the rich ones especially those that work abroad hardly settle for Nigerian women.

If you have ever dated women from other countries, even other African countries, talk more or Europeans, you will NEVER even reply "good morning" from a naija lady

franchasng:
Honestly its annoying. Maybe the op resembles an am0eba or something for him not to be able to get sex abroad for a whole year, can you imagine that?

He doesn't even need to look good. European women domt care about your looks. (Although good looks gets you places)
Just dont come online and show off your ignorance in a public fora like this

Softmirror:
That's why I like U.K the made sure that prostitution doesn't thrive. Not a single prostitute in the U.K. 😁

Which UK are you yapping about?

Simply say you didn't know how to navigate the dating game . People are having sex recklessly here.

People just write whatever tickles them and generalize their ignorance

Simply say you didn't know how to navigate the dating game . People are having sex recklessly here

The girls be like...do we have to endure this speech again?

My brother suffer no dey tire you? You leave naija come Uk 🇬🇧, still dey reason to date naija.

Suffering no dey tire you?

I pity children these days. Nothing to enjoy in Naija again. Atleast we went to zoo and used 10naira and 5naira notes.

Both you and your virginity wife should getat abeg.

I can't stop laughing while reading this story. For Uk wey women plenty without work looking for sex 24/7