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Kwinesther:
Would you have said this same thing if a man comes to visit his girlfriend unannounced? Wouldn't you have accused such girl of cheating? Should women set boundaries too?

I leave you to your opinion

Men should set boundaries and know its not your place to deal and tolerate a woman's insecurities.

Boundaries are a healthy sign of self respect and confidence.

If the reason you want to divorce is because he would not throw a glamour party for marriage, then do him a favour and get out fast.

As a woman, you expect a struggling man to throw a party he cannot afford just to please you and show off to people who dont care about him? Or maybe because you think ylu can fund it, so he should just come along for the party?

I dont also live in Nigeria, so i know the stress of hustling abroad. After 30yrs you obviously only planned for a wedding and not for marriage. Thats what 2yrs of marrying has revealed.
If you are not ready to be led and follow a man, please yall should stay single!!

All these boyz...you met a rich politician, who listened and acted on your advice instantly and all you wanted wasa picture with him?

If someone acts on your advise, they see you as valuable and knowledgeable but the only oppprtunity tik tok generation knows is to pose for a picture??

How does your evidence of meeting him improve your life? Even a poor man's wisdom is despised,
...oga you know not how to go the market...

What is democracy without a free and fair election

You dont need tl be married to have a child

Living abroad espacially on a visa is akin to elite imprisonment.

If at 40 you still dont have thencourage to approach a woman, nah. Consider being a monk

I shake head for you bros, you are writing letter in 2026, when women are looking for where to go spend weekend every day?

Hezmatosky210:
Just imagine naw. All these old traditional beliefs. Throughout last week comeout this week I dey under engine inside ship they sweat it out, for how much?. Then I will come and die for my wife's infidelity? If I hear. There's consequences for every sin you commit. God does not transfer sin of one person to another. The day I catches her, that's the end. No begging will bring her back

Omo God bless all hard working men out there. Nobody knows the sacrifice and fears of not providing enough, especially when you now have children.
I no send any woman at all. My Woman give me issue, i go jusy block am first focus on my hustle, when she reboots na my siblings go begin call me to unblock her. She wants to cheat ? I send am? Until men realises that a woman's world revolves around us, go find work and not waste ur energy on people that are already obsessing about men

Hezmatosky210:
Redhanded might not be forgiven. But I don't work nor listen to 'your wife is sleeping with one man' or 'your wife is going out with a certain man' whether it's true or false, I don't want to know. Nothing concern me. Na only jobless men monitors their wives upandan

Imagine the stress of making the bag, supporting the family and now join it with a woman wahala? I no fit. Make anybody do ad they want. My life is way too big to carry another person's decision and actions as my consequence.

Praying for a man as if they have any intentions of contributing anything positive to his life.

A bunch of parasites looking for who to leech off will be a more fitting description

Omo, i begin fight frkm nursery, enter secondary school, street fights then na my meal.

People always bring their children to my parentd to report one thing or another, any knock on our gate, my mother will ask me to kneel down first before the people come in and i be last born with 3 older brothers.

After university, i fought with a policeman that stopped me on stop and search and beat him brutally, got arrsted and taken to the state CID then. The first night, i had a chat with a lawyer who came for another person, cos he saw officers slapping me. He said to me, that police officer would have shot you and nothing would happen. Your parents would have lost their enitre investment in your life.

I was 22 yrs then, i never fight again till today.

You made a wpmans life easy when she is not your mom? You are mad

Why cant united play on the front foot? Why do they always sit back and invite attack expecting to hit teams on counter?

Why cant they control midfield, play on front foot for atleat 75%

Reloadedisraelp:
oga their tenure have expired....a new bot is already in place... Wake-up...

You are the one who needs to wake up. You dont just b3come a memeber of a BOT by nomination without a validly constituted NEC.
By this judgement, The last NEC meeting was the one that suspended Anyanwu and co and that BOT are the valid ones

As a man, if you like, focus on satisfying what God couldn't satisfy. No go find money.

Dem no dey telli person

Dogalmighty17:
The man is barely alive. It will be a miracle for him to complete his second tenure.

Exactly..how much longer can he really live?

Nicely said...navigating spaces that were not built with you in mind hits well.

To relcoate and settle in a different culture, you defo need a thick skin and a strong mind.

These two things have helped me with navigating life, the world is my stage, my life is my canvass, everybody can have their brushes but ONLY the artist i call "me" paints on my canvass

They both jobs. Bunch of jobless overgrown things

Weak ass men everywherr

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DeclanR:
I'm in chaos, depressed and nobody to listen to me.
What a world we are living in.
I need to open up to someone before I exit this wicked world

I'll like to support you bro

How can i support you? Send me a private message.

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DeclanR:
I'm in chaos, depressed and nobody to listen to me.
What a world we are living in.
I need to open up to someone before I exit this wicked world

I'll like to support you bro

How can i support you?

Who remembers that people died for this NNPPand APC during the last elections?

I dont know what ypu are talking about

Tinubu took sides already. He handed Wike a lifeline by the clearly partisan administrator conducting a one sided local council election.

If Tinubu did not give thr councils to Wike, he would have been out by now.

Also, Fubara messed up big time during the negotiations. Politics is a fight to finish, i am alrrady suspeneded as a governor, what is thr worse that csn happen? Why would i agree to someobody nominating the whole local council chairmen? In a state i am governor??

Abeg move on with your life. In europe and USA people have polyamorous and open relationships

So in 2017, i met a very struggling older guy, he was first born but not doing anything, his brothers were insulting him and too much see finish, i took him to my uncle who is an inffluencial politician under buhari govt.

My uncle gave him a job, i even refeerred his younger brother as well and he was also employed.
I helped set up a business for his mom and took them as my brothers.

Fast forward to early this year, my uncle, his boss,buried his mom, (my granny) i was putside the country but i felt he was the best person to pass along my contributions for the burial,
I sent him money to buy wine and a cow. We planned everything but the moment he received the money, we havent chatted again till date.

I later found out he had resigned by then, i didnt even bother asking him.

I dont join issues with such people, i only apologised to my uncle for disappointing him

I lived with my wife for 5yrs befoee marryin her. Best decision ever.

7yrs more and 2 babies, i married my bestie

brain54:
Ghanains are obsessed with Nigerians...


They love to spread false facts about Nigerians. Without taking into consideration or giving kudos to the help, role,or the part that Nigerians play in their entertainment industry generally.

Nigeria is one of the markets that embraces and accepts everything without bias.


If it's good. Nigerians would accept and play it without consideration for where it's coming from. Nigerians accept things from outside almost to a fault. Same cannot be said of the same people that like to sit down back and criticize all the time. They always like to shift blames. Nigeria or the success of Nollywood or the entertainment industry in Nigeria generally isn't the reason for the failure of the Ghanian entertainment industry.

Someone should help me ask this Ibrahim sellasie if Ghanians themselves accept and watch their own movies? Why are they not watching their own movies which most of them are low budget with weak story lines but expect Nigerians to watch them.

Ghanains watch Nigerian movies because it's more entertaining to them especially compared to their own movies and not because they want to deliberately support Nigeria movie industry or entertainment generally.

These Ghanians can really be annoying and unnecessarily competitive and petty sometimes!

Dont mind them small minded petty things. The lots of them have very fragile ego and low self esteem

Whoever merged northern and sputhern nigeria is a terrorist

NOBODY OWES YOU ANYTHING !!!!!!!!!!!