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sajmark:
You are right when you said "women are incapable of loving a man properly", then you went ahead and ruined your comment.
Love exist, but the way men love women differ from the way women love men...

1. Can you stop using smart phones and computers from this day to the next 30 years? NO, because they make communications easier.
2. Can you trek from Lagos to Kaduna? NO, you would rather fly on a plane.
3. Can you cultivate a very large acre of land in one day? NO you would rather use tractors.

Men love machines because machines make our life fun and easy.
Women love men the same way that men love machines.

This is a very hard pill to swallow, take your time.

Okay

sajmark:
A redpilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war with armour and weapons, WHILE a bluepilled man going into marriage is like a soldier going to war without armour and weapons.
Work on yourself and a woman will choose you (this is deeper than it appears)... In lay man's tongue, try and marry a woman that loves you more than you love her.

Women are incapable of loving a man properly infact there is no such thing as love.

DonMoel:
Guys, so there's this lady who we're so close and I asked out even though she's yet to say yes but she's acting the girlfriend role already.

She's scared of committing because she doesn't want to experience what she experienced in her previous relationship where her ex took her for granted after accepting to date him but not willing to f**k him. She hates being taken for granted and that's what pained her the most in her previous relationship (according to her)


Now, this lady gets mad at me whenever I don't bother to assume the boyfriend role (she's not demanding any material thing from me) but if I don't call or didn't really show I care, she gets to complain that I didn't do this or that , then ends it with (well, I'm (she) in right position to complain since I'm not your girlfriend)

This lady has been wanting to know about my previous relationships which I didn't bother to talk about because I'm confused on why she'd be so interested in knowing what's up with my previous relationships and what lead to the end of each.

She claims to love me though and to an extent, I believe she's showing it because she's somehow more invested in me , talking about calling and texting and her attention.

Would it be right to let her know about my previous relationship? The number of ladies I've had and reasons why we separated?

Why does she prefer staying as "more than friends" but less than dating with me , and still acting like my girlfriend based on her ways. ?

Abort bro.....leave this girl alone. She's manipulating you. Your game isn't too strong yet to withstand a girl like this.

How can churchill be this wicked? Men aren't suppose to be wicked to women at all. Women are suppose to be pampared, loved and cared for no matter what their imperfections are. No matter what a woman does to a man he must forgive her because it's his duty to forgive her afterall women were created from the rib of men.
Even if a woman cheats on her man severally, it's in the best interest of the man to forgive her and make peace with her afterall she's a woman.
Churchil is infact not a REAL man for not letting go of the past and forgiving Tonto Dike's imperfections and loving and respecting her still, instead he chose to humiliate her by playing the SILENT game on her which later drove her gaga. Women shouldn't be treated that way. He went as far as getting married to thesame woman Tonto claimed he was having an affair with,which Churchill blatantly denied.
Churchill is not a REAL man and must be treated like an outcast for not taking into consideration the mental health of Tonto Dike.
Pun intended.
You just have to be crazier than this feminists

coolbreezy01:
Hmmm, I'd keep trying. And learn from my mistakes. Is there a known way to move on?

They has to be something you don't like about her. May be how she behaves, talks, dress, cook, smell etc. Just occupy your mind with her imperfections and in no time you'll forget about her. Also try and fill this void by learning a skill or something.
Personally i believe all women are smellos..so i just reject any one that comes my way with the speed of light. A gender that can't stay a day without bathing and not smell down there. That's my trick.
Right now I'm focused on building my knowledge of the universe and wealth. No time to entertain inconsequential thoughts.

The op is a foolish man. You're a really foolish big uncle.

This one cannot control his urge and senses. Lol

IPOB in severe pains.

Dear Jonathan your optimism is misplaced.

Martinez39s:
DonaldKiñg10's story (I copied and pasted his post from QuiñModah's thread. He has deleted his post):

Make una help me reason this matter.
I'm actually typing this with a deep heart.
Back then in skul, i met this 100 level virgin girl i loved so much, & who also loved me in return.
the relationship lasted 6 years, & i literally did everything for this chick. Got her a new phone, paid lodge-rent for 3 years, her feeding, hairs, nails & everything was on me. I literally converted this babe from a local-chick, to a slay-queen.I didn't allow her stress herself or do anything, at a point we even started living together as couples.
the babe too was nice to me & helped me out in other aspects like cooking, cleaning & washing.

Fast-forward 5 years later after graduation as she was about going for service in ogun-state, she cried & told me how she couldn't imagine staying for a month without seeing me, that's she's gotten so used to me & addicted to my díck, that she can't imagine staying for a week without fųcking me. to the point she even pressurised me into engaging her, & out of the love i had for her i did that.

Problem started 3 months into service, she started acting strange, picking my calls now became a problem for her, she started complaining how she's too busy with work & how my calls disturb her most times, & she even refused to re-deploy to my state like we initially agreed on. Before then i usually sent her money to come see me every weekend, but suddenly coming to see me now became a problem. most times she stayed for more than 2 months before reluctantly coming to see me.

Immediately i started suspecting another guy don de shine her congo. I pressurised her into telling me the truth, but she kept insisting there was no one else apart from me. Fortunately, I had some contacts over there in Ogun-state, so i immediately sent them to run investigations for me, & i later got to find-out she was even living with the boy. I swear, you people can't imagine the kinda pain I felt. At a point i was even contemplating suicide because i sacrificed a lot for that babe. I was a medical student, but because of that babe i had to lie to my parents & delay my clinicals for 1 year, just so we could spend our graduation year together.

I was so pained, I spent weeks crying & begging her to come back to me, but to no avail. All she did was just come over, told me that was the last time i would ever be seeing her in life, returned my engagement-ring, & asked me to move-on with life. Omoh i was so pained at how easy it was for her to open her mouth & say all those despite the number of years we spent together plus despite all we shared. I cried & begged to no avail. She only fvcked me for the last time, & the next morning she entered bus back to ogun-state.

Most times when I call, she would give the new guy the phone to pick, & they would be kissing & laughing at me at the background. That was when the love in me turned to hatred, & I swore to deal with her.
this was the same babe that promised me she would rather die than leave me. Same babe that cheated on me, & when I caught her, she almost killed herself because she didn't want me to break-up with her. Well, I had some of her nude-pictures on my phone, so I used a different number to send them to her parents & her church group-chat. NOTE: She is a Reedem Pastors Daughter.

She was so ashamed & devastated, she cried for weeks. Her parents almost disowned her. They had to cut her service short, asked her to return back home, & the relationship with the guy was ended after I also let them know she was living with a guy. I ended-up achieving my aim of ending the relationship with the guy & I felt so satisfied, & I never regretted my actions till today.

What even annoyed me further was weeks later when she called & told me she had no future with the guy because they were both A.S. That she was just using him to fill the space I wasn't around always to occupy when she needed me. But my question now is, Was my actions towards her right??

Lord have mercy

nairalanders should we tell him the truth?

Chiesa my type of footballer. Dude is a machine

This one don go fall in love with Olosho

Chaos breeds peace. Bring it on

Please don't try this at home.

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Absolutely correct

I thought we were done with the 10 ways to please a woman bla bla bla....
Op you need to wake up and smell coffee. We are in the Era of the redpill. For the kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violence taketh it by force.

bigpicture001:
Read my true life story... I made all straight A's in my WAEC in a gov't skl in one sitting at O'level. But didn't enter varsity in the next 12 years. Got admitted 3x at uniben, but couldn't pay acceptance fee. Popsy was long dead. I worked from here to there, always ambitious but never made way cuz no finances.. a gf then who later left me to get married eventually assisted to pay my acceptance fee wen I got the 4 admission. Sh continue to help in her little way.. while I do d rest of the struggles. Graduated without extra year later..

But couldn't get a job cuz my age has casted. I couldn't go do 20k jobs, so I dabbled into one or two huzle. Trust me, I hate fraud. I started teaching as a means to gather money for other things. I attracted a quite successful lady then at 24. First class graduta ND in the health sector... I was exactly in this OP'sshoe. I was going to end up in poverty if I don't give away men's pride...

In the date for the next 2nd half years, sh saw a perfect man. I DNT smoke, drink, womanize, I don't insult, hit her or steal from her. All I wanted was assist in my now clearer dreams that I HV created steps to get out of poverty... Sh was worth over 10million. Marriage was on the take from me, but no, sh would prefer a rich gud duke who will take charge of her...

I begged ND beged nd made her see reasons am in it for real, poverty wasn't an option. I still pay my rent ND feed but I very visibly struggle.. I inside by her rules of no sex. ND we stayed like dat for 3years... Aswear, u didn't fuvk outside for once.. last last, sh dump me citing not financially balanced. I continued my life in penury no more good food at least...

Till I met another lady, this one doesn't even HV up to 1million but sh does make up.. we clicked.. sh saw I was for real.... I helped her with ideas ND physical presence on better ways to grow her biz.. after 6months. Sh released 500k to support me....

My sister, the rest is history as I now plan to marry her... I now make over 300kmonthly ND got four persons employed. Will get a car by Nov. ND move into 2bedroom flat. Na this girl I Sabi ... Sometimes one really need help to grow... Love is not mny peoples problem but poverty...

Miss first class doctor is still looking for the right man, sh is now 31 ND under pressure. Sh called me one day wen sh saw with her own eyes on. Of my dream venture with the name on it that we both discuxx. Sh knew I hit it. Dou sh didn't want back, but u could tell sh regretted her decision...

Some people just get their man on a platter of Gold, others, work to get thier man.. once a mn is sincere with u ND ambitious, there is nothing to be ashamed of.....

Suffering get colour. You can bring down this business to my state too when you plan on expanding. I'll be waiting to assit you.

Botking:
Any man, who gives his girlfriend or wife head, I consider such guys, a weakling and less of a man.

The lady you're giving head is over you, and you are under her to do her biding

Sorry but you are a very weak ass hole

Gbamsolutely

The only wedding I've ever attended didn't end well for me.

Yeasterners have spoilt our NDA for us. They've brought their examination malpractice system to the NDA. If the names of offenders are published, you won't be surprise becuase it will be filled with the Okoros, Ndubuisis, Chinedu et al.

I laugh at southern Governors. Let's see how they are going to enforce these silly laws of theirs.