oh well, i hope i'll be sane when i meet someone else 0_0 and aye, she said it herself she doesnt have feelings 4 me anymore, guess she neva really did, or maybe she did, heaven knws,

Eslynera, why d change of advice, I'm curious

If u'll forgive her it will come to u so naturally and u'll tell urself u r stupid, but that might only happen to one girl out of a thousand u'll date, the rest? well, u wont forgive

Take all the bad traits,  put into 1 man,  make it no 12,  thats me,  and i aint proud of it. Take away the Jail tho, that i cant do

danke

well dunno, miracles do happen , maybe I'm forcin things, she's told me I'm tryin to hard to be her friend anyway so i reckon if i move on its for the best, and if a miracle is gonna happen , i guess that other frog that drowned will come back to life

Well thx guys, and indeed looks like she's fed up and i am too now, I dont care if she's my missing rib or if i'll neva find anyone like her, cos if thats the case she'll neva find anyone like me, I need to at least stop giving my self heart ache. At the end of the day I wasnt half as bad and it was out of not wanting to be here that i did wot i did. Lesson learnt and I'll try and stay happy, thx 4 all the support , means a lot to me

ok, not giving up, but what story about what 2 frogs?

aye, serves me right indeed, lesson learnt, now whos my next victim?

well , tell u wot, she said she's 4given me, she's told me that she feels bad that i care so much about her and i want to make it worse, infact she thinks she's been punished cos she doesnt want to be with me, I have said sorry like 500 times, and I'll keep saying it till kingdom come, theres nothing i wont do to be with her and to get her to 4give me, she's like my best friend, life's been strange to me since she withdrew away from me. All the vibe i'm getting is that she just doesnt have feelings 4 me anymore and u knw wot , after 9months ish , i think i deserve to be happy even if i was ONCE wrong. The fact is I have not been given the chance to prove that i culd do better, infact she doesnt give me the chance to say sorry, if u knw her pls tell her i'm sayin sorry on my knees. The fact is this though, I NEED to get a life myself. All i knw I can do i have. If theres something I havent done its cos I havent thought about it. The only thing I havent done is "move on". Thats the only option that seems open to me now, and i think thats what i have to do, but believe i have begged and begged and asked for forgiveness, i even gave her space, didnt bug her when she started seeing someone else, heck, the only mistake I've made since she left was to give in to my emotions over her(if thats a mistake). Believe I simply DONT knw wot else to do apart from move on. If theres anything else I'll do it, infact I'll call her now and ask her to 4give me. and believe I'll be back here telling u guys hw she said "NO" again

wish me luck on making myself happy first, then lover will come, or i'll end up a true jedi or father, may the force be with u

Advice,  Just marry the guy ffs!!! make little babies,  rule the world,  the last thing u want to do is tell urself "I shuld have, ".

Thanks guys,  I've recently thrown the last dice. I guess God doesnt believe the relationship is good for me,  because after talking with her 4 1 hour plus and sending her a text message ,  I realised i sent the text message to one of my friends instead of her,  a bit of a break i guess,  according to master Yoda,  its time for me to "Up the shut f**k" and "on move". 

Well depends on the guy, generally tall girls are confident, tends to scare guys off, but when u meet f***ers like me (6'3" and u r down to earth, u knw the rest (boy meets girl and stuff). only dated 5'11" plus girls , and the only girl i am TRULY mad about is 6'0". Maybe if i meet u , u'll be the new girl? maybe,

Ok This Is Long: But I Really Need Advice On This: Really Do

Never posted on a naija forum before, but i believe i can only get honest advice from nigerians that my life wont really affect, Here's my story

I had a girl once, she's almost perfect apart from she loves "the chace", I was after her 4 nine months and even after we started dating , other guys where still in the picture, at the end of the day we ended it (2 months)

I met another girl afterwards, great girl , at first all i wanted was some fun to build my confidence back, but she was such a good girl it became a serious relationship. I didnt want to hurt her but at the same time i was scared of her allowing my world to revolve around her. This made me do stupid things in particular, frequently breaking up with her. I caused her pain. Now to make things worse the former girl wanted me back, but honestly i still feel all she wanted was just to destroy my new relationship. Needless to say after a while the good girl left me and i essentially became hopeless because my world has already started revolving around her. Well 10 months now, I still miss her and still want to be with her. She doesnt call me and even if i call she talks to me as if we r just friends and sometimes ignores my phone call. Now shes a good girl but the final break up came when she went to naija 4 holidays. She's been with another guy and left that one, am still here wishing we could be together. My whole life has been at a standstill since then(not like i was doing great but i had reason to be positive). What should I do, so far I've tried moving on, but i can't, I've talked to her about it and she just dismisses the topic. If I call her she ignores me and rarely picks up the phone. I knw if she can just 4give me for wot i did before we going to have a good future together but she just wont listen to me and she's so stubborn. I love this girl and I knw I LOVE HER, anyway fellow naija peeps , what else can be done? Should i just pace myself and do nothing? or should I keep trying over and over and over till she marries? am confused and need SOLID advice, please feel free to express your HONEST opinion