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chipmunkey:
Gabry, dont know if you'll see this but i guess you and your bf need to sort this out privately and not on NL. People here won't give you the right advice on such a personal level. On a lighter note, i wish i had a girl like you. All the girls i ever had something with take from me.

U are so right. . . Guess I have taken this too far. I was so angry with him. he wont pick up my calls, he wont reply my msg. . . I thought he was angry but turn out to be his battery died. . .

We have talked just now but Im gonna talk this over again soon and this time privately. Thanks for your advice. I rally appreciate it.


What do you mean by the girls you had something with take from you

kpolli:
i tot it was only grown ups allowed to say that??

@ Gabry, men hate being broke n for him to tell u, he loves u n its eating him inside, ahhh do u know hw to tell your girl that u cant spoil her a while, i know men that will weep b4 they can do that

FYI, Druss is a grown up. At least he could think straight unlike some people


Ok, I didnt know men could feel that way. . . But the thing is how come I see some men out there whom is not afraid to take their girls money?

I understand where you guys are heading at but at the same time, I was thinking no wonder this world is filled with divorce couples cause everyone seems to have this kind of mentality.

He cheats yes and I did not say that I wont leave him. I will just question him and give him a chance. Did I say that I will stick by him still? U guys are not getting my point and seems to me you will never will. . .

You guys make it seems like if someone made a mistake, you would dump that person and if you do it, you would expect that person to forgive you.

C2H5OH:
Is Gabry not a woman?  Abi, do you consider her a genetic mutant.

Maybe Tiger should have married a woman who doesn't mind having an open relationship.

U talk like a drunked man. Ohh I forgot, your name sounds like one


Anyways, I dont fall for rich and famous guys. . . Not my cup of tea!

190:
^^

its suger pp

She did not sound like she is now  

Crude Oil:
It seems you have a lot of cash to throw around. You are a rich girl. KUDOS.

Nope. truth be told, Im broke but whatever I can spare for him, I would. Cause I know that if Im in need of cash, he would always help me out as well. I dont see the problem of helping out my love one.

kpolli:
he is a man, dont make him feel less like it, do u know hw it feels to collect money from your gf??
a real man will feel terribly ashamed n sad not a guy that just wants your money,
well if i was in his shoes, i will do the same thing

Ok, guess Im wrong in a way and I am really sorry. Im going to apologize to him. Just that at times I get worried about him you know?

Druss:
@ those saying she is embarassing the bf or she no get shame?

Did she call any names? GROW UP!!

Druss, thank you so much. U are a wonderful guy for understanding me.  

Its just that malaysian people do not date through online and they dont like long distance relationship

190:
theres love in d air
and some lesbian friends in d room
trowing love around

Who is a lesbien J

oyinda.:
hehehe this is serious

Abi oo. vry Very serious

190:
Re: Im Tired Of My Boyfriend!

hiss,
i thought it was sometin serious
and u were now single or sometin
so i could apply promptly~

Na waaa. , For u, everyone u want go and marry!

platinumnk:
Thanks Twinny. . i love u too

And I love you too

Pweety4me:
@Gabry just leave him he will soon burst. . .

Burst? What do you mean

sugar pp:
i luv my boo too,

Thats nice to hear.

dreeldee,

U were once in malaysia. How do you find malaysian girls compared to African girls?


I know some African guys dont like Black Woman cause they talk and act very rough. I dont think all of them are rough but I know some are.

i love you too Honey Bunch 

The poster want change mind oo,. . . Like u change your mind on what ice cream flavour o take the other day.

faakay:
u better work on ursef and stop deceiving ursef

Dont be mean now

Tony.K:
Baby, Benjamin says he wants Red Bean Porridge. I told him to shut up!


Platinumnk, Im not a forum /internet kinda person. Just that I sign in coz of Gabby. This yeye gurl. . .

Ok bobo. na wahala's. I dey make some Red Bean Porridge. Ok, I have to go now.


Thanks Twinny. U are a blessing from God. . .

platinumnk:
just like my twinny, so what time i dey come chop

So u too ike food abi? If you were here, I would invite you for meals everyday oo

platinumnk:
wheres   mine

I will courier it to you via FEDDEX. LOL!  

Tony.K:
Aight babes, its fine.


And this is the first and last time I dey enta for this site ok?  

no difference naa since u always read my post  

Tony.K:
Fried Rice and Egusi!!!

Aight boss. Am going off now and going to buy ingredients to cook. I go make Fried Corn Rice. Is it ok with you?

Ok . . . I will come home soon and we will talk. Im going to the market on the way home. Wetin u want chop for lunch?

Tony.K:
Baby. . . I told u a million times, Keep your money for a rainy day.Havent I told u that.

Anyways, can I call u now or are u still angry with me

HMM!

platinumnk:
hahahhaha
This has made. . . . my NIGHT!!

Nairaland

Twinny. . . Not funny ooo

Tony.K:
Hahahahaha! So that made u think that I was angry with you right?  Baby! Im sorry I took your sweets. I took it cause I wanted to have some and I went straight to the bathroom cause I needed to do a big business and it was urgent! U want make me poo on bed abi?  

Ok Ok Ok. . . Im sorry! I just. . . Well, I want you to get this straight. Why I bring this out cause I want this to be fair for the both of us. You keep giving me money and you wont let me give you money when you are in need. Do you think thats fair? Why do I work? Money coms and goes and money is meant o be spent dont you think so? ABEG!

chiogo:
You're just too funny. And I know I shouldn't be laughing at your situation. Couldn't help it.

na waaa ooo. . . This one go make u laugh abi? U have not seen the real me now

platinumnk:
Gabby is more than my friend, she is my twinny My bestest buddy in the world
Why u break my twinny heart

yes love. . . We ar indeed

chiogo:
LOOOOOL I laugh in Malaysian language!!!

Sorry oo Gabry

Chiogo, wetin happen now?

Tony.K:
platinumnk, I hurt her? She must have misunderstood me. . . I did not mean to hurt her.


Gabby, did I hurt you?

Nope. U did not hurt me.  Just that u. . . Well. . . The reason why I thought you were angry cause you took my sweets and left and also I woke up this morning and you got up from bed and you look at me and went straight to the bathroom! U dont do that and you never did. . . Why th change this morning?      

C2H5OH:
It's alright gabe, don't flinch.  some guys just don't feel comfortable taking money from their babes.  guys like the feeling of machismo and independence.  that could be the reason for it.

Thank you. I love it when you are not sarcastic. . .

Tony.K:
Gabby! Why are u not picking up my calls?

I cannot talk to you right now cause I still have some anger in me. . . I sent your mom some cloth last year and your sisters some ear rings and bangles, you did not get angry. How come when I send Liz some money, you got angry?

^^^ properly? BABY, its you! Go away! Im angry ooo!


[size=3pt]I thought you said you dont want to register on NL? [/size]

Twinny Plat, thanks for your advice but I dont want to create another ID. . . Alot of problems will occur Im sure of it. . .

REDIN:
gabry, if you like your guy which i believe you do, then play it cool with him. dont push him and at the right time, he'll come around. i assure you that, except you are no longer interested in the relationship. play it cool and give him time. talk to him with love and care, you have the magic to do it and he'll open up to you why he has been acting strange or not accepting your assistance. it may be his belief, background or his friends. watch it too, he may just acting to see your reaction. whichever, if you want to keep your man, play it COOL!!

Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it and will se what I can do about it.  

sugar pp:
personally i tink u r bein 2 forward sendn his family money n stuff especially wen your guy is nt comfortable about it. I also tink your guy is bein silly nt acceptn money from u (pride comes b4 a gr8 fall) tell him nxt time 2 nt discuss money issues wit u if he wnt b acceptn your offer of help. This relationship is a bit wobbly shah

Thanks. I needed that instead of listening to uneducated people mocking. They seem to mock more than they can think


Singing off. Going out.

ThoniaSlim:
No need getting all hyper girl. . .

You made it public and I got every right to comment on it. . .

And I've given my two cents. . .you either accept it or ignore it. . .

And if you do not like my comment. . .bite yourself!  

C2H5OH:
yeah kiss our asses.  

And Im giving mine as well and you both can also ignore this thread if it doesnt suit your mentality. No need to be sarcastic or anything.  

0hsisi:
You must be every cheating man's dream wife
after cheating for 4 years with multiple women,he gets 5 extra away matches and since he'll be more cautious this time, the man will be practically in cheating heaven

I dont really care if he cheats. The moment I marry someone is the day I trusted him with my life. . . So since he made a mistake, why cant I forgive him? God forgave all of our sins repeatedly despite how many times we have sinned against him. Jesus forgave those whom crucified him on the cross. . .

I might make a mistake one day to my husband and the same thing would happen to me.

True he has multiple women and thats why I would ask him if he still loves me or not and still will give him a chance to prove himself. . . Everyone on this planet deserves chances in life. . . We dont just go giving up hope on people and besides! I swore in church that I will live with him through sickness and in health till death do us part didnt I? What happen to that commitment?

If he doesnt change, its not my loss. Im not the one paying karma here.

Sweet T:
If he won't take it, find someone else who will. He's just pretending, his broke behind knows he needs the money.

Hmmmm. . . Ok Next!

ThoniaSlim:
Let me tell you. . .when you are dating a man. . .you try to understand the sort of man your dating.


Obviously he's not comfortable with you tryna help out with monetary issues

Yet you come on a public forum you know he also frequents to talk about how he doesn't have money to give his family and you sent money to his family. . .

You think you doing him a favor with this broadcast? Or rather you tryna make yourself look like the helpful girlfriend and blah blah blah!

Puhleaseeee!

C2H5OH:
Yeah some babes sha.  dem musto tell the public everything.  we don't mind.

And so? nairaland is a public forum and people post about how they bf or gf cheat on them and how they got dupes by their partner and how their fiance slept with another man or woman and all and so what? Big deal really. . . U should answer the question instead of mocking here. If you cannot answer the question, than move on to the next thread. Thank you.  

Yet again. . . My question is to the MAN WHOM IS INTERESTED TO ANSWER THIS TOPIC, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?  

LADIES WHOM IS INTERESTED TO ANSWER THIS TOPIC, Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?

oyinda.:
rotfl you are very smart gabry

0hsisi:
Ebelebe Igba!
Of course he'll "love" you
He'll prove it to you sef
I hear he has great "golfing skills" and a humongous golf club
allahu wakban!
The question is who are the other lovers
word has it that his wife will be filing her nails  and knitting a sweater while they're in bed making love
she drove him into the laps of other women
silly woman

Well, I dont care who are the other lovers. I dont want to know who are the other lovers. I just need to know from him. If he claims that he loves me and only me, he should also act according to what he say. Im giving him 5 chances. Im not God but still I dey try to give him a chance and forgive him if he has done some mistakes but if he dont change after 5 chances, I will have no choice but to take actions which its not going to be a good move especially after having children. Lord have mercy!

oyinda.:
your bf sounds very weird to me. if you don't want money from someone, don't tell him/her that u need money. simple as that why is he telling u his financial probs if he doesn't need help from u?

No mind the dude. He tells me everything

oyinda.:
na wa o. dis one na serious love wan tin tin

Abi oo

ThoniaSlim:
No offense but I think your a foolish woman for bringing this to a public forum!

What you tryna do seek help or further embarrass your Boyfriend?

Embarrass ke? GOOD! 


ANYWAYS! Im more towards seeking for opinions and help. Read the last line.

Anyways, guys, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?

Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?