Baby! I hope you read this as I have no other alternative!    HMM!  You wont listen to me. You wont talk to me. Now since u always read my post on NL, I hope you read this! NA WA FOR YOU BROTHA! 

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My bf told me that his passport is expiring this December and he needs to renew it but has not much money for the time being. I gave him some money to renew it and he refuse to take it telling me that its his responsibility to come out with cash as he is the man in this relationship. I begged him to take the money and he still wont and I even kneel down on my knees and pleaded to him to take it, he still wont.

He told me that he will find his ways. Than I told him to take the money and pay me back later if he feels bad about it. He refuses and we end up arguing.

He has been acting like this so many times before and Im a little angry about this.   

He seems to be mad at me for helping out on terms of monetary issues. . . . . And now he wont talk to me just because I sent his parents some money for Christmas. Na waaa ooo! ABEG! Liz wants some money to buy Banana and Cake and to celebrate with her friends and she dey ask you for CHristmas Money you no dey give her yet. . . She is only 8 years old why can't I spoil her a little ehn!!!     

Anyways, guys, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?     

Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?     

Shei your boyfriend is now most od us? Kindly give me the money and I will gladly snatch it from you.

C2H5OH:

Shei your boyfriend is now most od us? Kindly give me the money and I will gladly snatch it from you.

Yahoo Boy! I no want to be your Maga

^^typical


Twinny- some men are fillemwith pride and some arent
I know my ex was extremely proud and he didnt want me to offer him a dime, though it wouldnt hurt me much. . .


Maybe hide the money under his pillow

and as for sending his people stuff
i dont know why he tripping


its not like he cant send his own, but you are sending your own
I sent gifts home to my boos sisters, stuff they would like

platinumnk:

^^typical


Twinny- some men are fillemwith pride and some arent
I know my ex was extremely proud and he didnt want me to offer him a dime, though it wouldnt hurt me much. . .


Maybe hide the money under his pillow

and as for sending his people stuff
i dont know why he tripping


its not like he cant send his own, but you are sending your own
I sent gifts home to my boos sisters, stuff they would like

He says that I send to many toys and money to Elizabeth and she is getting fatter buying all the biscuits and the cakes for herself and also she becomes spoilt. And he says I spoilt his sister's children. They are 3 of them all very young as well like Lizzy. I cannot help it when I love Children. . .

na wa o. dis one na serious love wan tin tin

oyinda.:

na wa o. dis one na serious love wan tin tin

Abi oo

ThoniaSlim:

No offense but I think your a foolish woman for bringing this to a public forum!

What you tryna do seek help or further embarrass your Boyfriend?

Embarrass ke? GOOD! 


ANYWAYS! Im more towards seeking for opinions and help. Read the last line.

Anyways, guys, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?

Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?

ur bf sounds very weird to me. if you don't want money from someone, don't tell him/her that u need money. simple as that why is he telling u his financial probs if he doesn't need help from u?

oyinda.:

your bf sounds very weird to me. if you don't want money from someone, don't tell him/her that u need money. simple as that why is he telling u his financial probs if he doesn't need help from u?

No mind the dude. He tells me everything

Let me tell you. . .when you are dating a man. . .you try to understand the sort of man your dating.


Obviously he's not comfortable with you tryna help out with monetary issues

Yet you come on a public forum you know he also frequents to talk about how he doesn't have money to give his family and you sent money to his family. . .

You think you doing him a favor with this broadcast? Or rather you tryna make yourself look like the helpful girlfriend and blah blah blah!

Puhleaseeee!

Yeah some babes sha. dem musto tell the public everything. we don't mind.

Gabry:

Baby! I hope you read this as I have no other alternative! HMM! You wont listen to me. You wont talk to me. Now since u always read my post on NL, I hope you read this! NA WA FOR YOU BROTHA!

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My bf told me that his passport is expiring this December and he needs to renew it but has not much money for the time being. I gave him some money to renew it and he refuse to take it telling me that its his responsibility to come out with cash as he is the man in this relationship. I begged him to take the money and he still wont and I even kneel down on my knees and pleaded to him to take it, he still wont.

He told me that he will find his ways. Than I told him to take the money and pay me back later if he feels bad about it. He refuses and we end up arguing.

He has been acting like this so many times before and Im a little angry about this.

He seems to be mad at me for helping out on terms of monetary issues. . . . . And now he wont talk to me just because I sent his parents some money for Christmas. Na waaa ooo! ABEG! Liz wants some money to buy Banana and Cake and to celebrate with her friends and she dey ask you for CHristmas Money you no dey give her yet. . . She is only 8 years old why can't I spoil her a little ehn!!!

Anyways, guys, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?

Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?

If he won't take it, find someone else who will. He's just pretending, his broke behind knows he needs the money.

ThoniaSlim:

Let me tell you. . .when you are dating a man. . .you try to understand the sort of man your dating.


Obviously he's not comfortable with you tryna help out with monetary issues

Yet you come on a public forum you know he also frequents to talk about how he doesn't have money to give his family and you sent money to his family. . .

You think you doing him a favor with this broadcast? Or rather you tryna make yourself look like the helpful girlfriend and blah blah blah!

Puhleaseeee!

C2H5OH:

Yeah some babes sha.  dem musto tell the public everything.  we don't mind.

And so? nairaland is a public forum and people post about how they bf or gf cheat on them and how they got dupes by their partner and how their fiance slept with another man or woman and all and so what? Big deal really. . . U should answer the question instead of mocking here. If you cannot answer the question, than move on to the next thread. Thank you.  

Yet again. . . My question is to the MAN WHOM IS INTERESTED TO ANSWER THIS TOPIC, why are most of you so egoistic when it comes to this?  

LADIES WHOM IS INTERESTED TO ANSWER THIS TOPIC, Ladies, how do you tame your man's ego?

Sweet T:

If he won't take it, find someone else who will. He's just pretending, his broke behind knows he needs the money.

Hmmmm. . . Ok Next!

No need getting all hyper girl. . .

You made it public and I got every right to comment on it. . .

And I've given my two cents. . .you either accept it or ignore it. . .

And if you do not like my comment. . .bite yourself!  

yeah kiss our asses.

Gabry:


Hmmmm. . . Ok Next!

Yeah i can find you the next dude. a dude that won't even ask before he goes straight into your purse. I'm talking about a dude so broke he turns your couch to his bed. If that's the what you looking for let me know.

what kind of relationship do you have with this boyfriend of yours.  he responds better to you talking to him through a forum, ehn

wonders won't end

personally i tink u r bein 2 forward sendn his family money n stuff especially wen ur guy is nt comfortable about it. I also tink ur guy is bein silly nt acceptn money from u (pride comes b4 a gr8 fall) tell him nxt time 2 nt discuss money issues wit u if he wnt b acceptn ur offer of help. This relationship is a bit wobbly shah

ThoniaSlim:

No need getting all hyper girl. . .

You made it public and I got every right to comment on it. . .

And I've given my two cents. . .you either accept it or ignore it. . .

And if you do not like my comment. . .bite yourself!  

C2H5OH:

yeah kiss our asses.  

And Im giving mine as well and you both can also ignore this thread if it doesnt suit your mentality. No need to be sarcastic or anything.  

C2H5OH:

what kind of relationship do you have with this boyfriend of yours.  he responds better to you talking to him through a forum, ehn

wonders won't end

She giveth and he taketh kinda relationship.

sugar pp:

personally i tink u r bein 2 forward sendn his family money n stuff especially wen your guy is nt comfortable about it. I also tink your guy is bein silly nt acceptn money from u (pride comes b4 a gr8 fall) tell him nxt time 2 nt discuss money issues wit u if he wnt b acceptn your offer of help. This relationship is a bit wobbly shah

Thanks. I needed that instead of listening to uneducated people mocking. They seem to mock more than they can think


Singing off. Going out.

Gabry:

Thanks. I needed that instead of listening to uneducated people mocking. They seem to mock more than they can think


Singing off. Going out.

Your bf is a P-I-M-P

Gabry:

Thanks. I needed that instead of listening to uneducated people mocking. They seem to mock more than they can think


Singing off. Going out.   

lolzzzzz.  . .obviously you must be the one who's uneducated and got no brains to think. . .the reason you bring every silly argument with your boyfriend to a forum. . .

So no need to get worked up girl. . .you brought your problems to a public forum so accept whatever opinions come with it!

Bombo! 

Gabry:

And Im giving mine as well and you both can also ignore this thread if it doesnt suit your mentality. No need to be sarcastic or anything.

sarcasm my black arse. does this resemble a malaysian home to you? we trespass as we see fit.

ThoniaSlim:

lolzzzzz.  . .obviously you must be the one who's uneducated and got no brains to think. . .the reason you bring every silly argument with your boyfriend to a forum. . .

So no need to get worked up girl. . .you brought your problems to a public forum so accept whatever opinions come with it!

Bombo!  

Hey watch out thonia! The girl is good, i need me a girl like that in this tough economic condition. Girl, can i get your digits?

Gabry:

Thanks. I needed that instead of listening to uneducated people mocking. They seem to mock more than they can think


Singing off. Going out.

Gabby just do what everyone else does . . . create a new ID and post a topic






Hypocrites sha . . .let me hush

platinumnk:

Gabby just do what everyone else does . . . create a new ID and post a topic






Hypocrites sha . . .let me hush

Yeah hush babygirl. Gabry, can i get your digits.

















Pimpin ain't easy but it's necessary

Who the hell are hypocrites. Hypocrites hide behind monikers to make their comments seen. None of that here.

C2H5OH:

Who the hell are hypocrites. Hypocrites hide behind monikers to make their comments seen. None of that here.

Really?  I must not be on Nairaland.com, sorry, let me check my url

Forget the url. It's nothing a brain upgrade won't cure.

C2H5OH:

Forget the url. It's nothing a brain upgrade won't cure.

ok, remember to check with[i] your[/i] doctor, i know its not me