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MRbrownJAY:
is baking a cake and making time for someone "a lot"? by what she wrote, we can clearly understand what kind of gifts she is looking for and it aint cheap teddy bear, look at how she described the first "gift" he got her.she wrote:"
i dont know what he bought before but in HER mind, that aint enough and he should spend much more because "she is worth it". what she doesnt understand is that the fact that she is a "giving type" doesnt automatically mean that the person in front of her has to reciprocate. obviously she value this relationship with the amount that man will spend on her because  after all the care, affection, humorous,a wonderful person and a whole lot more. He takes her out on dates, makes her feel special and treats her very well she is still sad that she doesnt have a"valuable" token of his love that would make her proud. i guess all the stuff i just mentioned is automatically void if no gifts are given.

the worst part of this girl post is this: so in her mind, to show love you have to SPEND money on her with expensive valuable gifts. this post is just about money, nothing more. she should have gone and sell herself in an auction to the highest bidder.

and then she wrote that silly part which was the nail in her coffin: bloody hell, where do they find these kind of low life?! so now, a man has to reward someone who is trustworthy, good and faithful?! is it not compulsory in relationship?! or am i missing something? ROTFLMAO
you see in this girls mind, all he did/doing/will do counts for nothing. affectionate, caring, good etc ZERO! the only thing she values is how much he is willing to spend on her. period!

I would want to agree with you but on the other hand, Im somehow agreeing with her.

You see, she did not say she wanted expensive gifts at all. We all know that he takes her out on a date. Yes!

But in a relationship, at times you drop by a mall or a store, dont you ever think about your bf/ gf? I know I do! Everytime I drop by a store and I see shirts or jeans or hats or wallet or shoes or any other things, I would always want to buy for my bf even if its cheap. But I dont really calculate. Its nice of the guy to bring her out on dates but to not buy her any gifts at alll is a little bit weird dont you think?    


Unless if the poster's bf is the type whom does not like going to shops to pick out gifts than I can understand that.


Poster, I disagree with you on the part where you said u deserve more than that cause mind u, if you're not worth it, he wouldnt even bring you out for nice dinners!! Mind u, my bf does not bring me out for nice dinners its because he loves home cook food instead. As for gifts, well. . . The beggining of our relationship, he gives me KEYCHAINS all the time and Im like okay! So I just colelcted them and I come to realize that those keychains has nice designs!! and people has been asking me to give it to them cause they love the designs. Im not a keychain person but no way am I giving it to them Ill just have to accept it and appreciate it cause it has been given by him. Now he buys me teddy's which is on discounted rate. (Dont blame him, we both are money contious people!) and when he managed to collect more money last 2 months, he bought me an IPOD, my first expensive gift and I almost cried. . .

But what makes him the most special bf is that he is not demanding, he is not lazy, he cooks for me on special occasions like my Birthday     and above all, he is funny.

Poster, u just gotta learn how to appreciate your bf in terms of non monetary otherwise I would say you no be serious jor. . .  

Goodnight Sima dear. Sweet dreams

Good job Okija and Sima. Ok AM going off right now. Odabo Oremitodun'ssss

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Ok, U can do it gurl

Where is Okija? Sima, I know you are sleepy but its only for awhile till it reaches 1000

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