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Dear Chiogo, I understand what you mean. If I were in your shoes, I will not be happy myself. In fact, one of my neighbour is the same except its the other way round where the husband would do all the work and the wife sits at home and do nothing and they both are Malaysians. The husband had to pee sitting down because his wife made him do so and she hates it when he lifts the toilet seat up. Things like that which really kills me when I see it and I think it all brings down to different individuals. If the husband still intend to be put down just like that without fighting for his rights, than nobody else could help him. Its the same thing like what you saw. If the wife dont seem to mind carrying all the stuff by herself and she dont want to talk about it to her husband, theres nothing anyone could do about it. So I guess its not about Nigerian men, Its different people from all over the globe. And speaking about Americans, I've seen some American men / women whom are evil and some good ones. Hope it helps?

Ok, I'm a Malaysian and I am dating a Nigerian guy. I would always prefer to do everything myself without depending on anyone else and when I have him in my life, he basically would want to share every single thing with me. I like it alot but I;m just not use to it and I'm trying to get use to it. So when I go for shopping, he would help me grab a trolley, carry all the stuff which makes me really uncomfortable so I tend to always try grabbing the stuff away from him and things like that and we end up teasing each other all the time and we would laugh about it so I dont see him being bad in any ways. I'm not saying that he is perfect. he has his flauss just like any other people on earth including me but I love him for who he is. Guess I;m just trying to say that in this whole world, you will have good people and bad people and its like a lottery. If you meet up with the good ones, then you are lucky but if you dont, then you always have the choice to decide what turf you want to take next to make your life happier so please dont think negatively about a certain race just because one rotten apple spoils the whole crowd. Hope it helps