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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
So much to tell and say yet not sure how to go.Like i mentioned in one of my earlier posts,i had it all and subsequently lost it all with no regrets for the records because all i had accumulated weren't truly ever mine.Purely proceeds of crime and i'm happy i got to this stage where i had to pay for the consequences of my actions.

I chosed to live away from crime and focus on earning my worths legally and to say it's been tough will be putting it in the mildest of forms.You can imagine being all up there losing it all and having to start all over afresh , but i remain resilient not minding the sliding into depression sometimes but i'm keeping my head up.

At the moment i get by hustling with a construction firm not working right now though,and doing one or two buying and selling on the side and wouldn't mind getting fixed up to keep me going.I'm pretty well versatile and a fast learner trust me.

I'm looking at learning a particular trade i've got my eye on but still (lack of sufficient cash factor).

If theres any way anyone can get me linked up to monetize my story to give myself a head start at reinventing myself and keeping legal i'll appreciate it.

I'm straight up legal and original no time for faking it.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 4:46pm On Mar 21, 2018
ambs50:
Dnt mind him Op. Nice work jare am following u bumper to bumper...but no be homo things oo
grin
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 4:46pm On Mar 21, 2018
dairo123:
Chai, this tory dey tickle me well well.

Gaby abeg continue. i will give my offering when they pay my salary next month.
lol
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2018
DonPiiko:
Your story makes an interesting read. welldone, now following
Welcome bro
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2018
Una dey bone my request for offering? i dey serious oo..na power madman take dey trek o.. i need to sub (glo) and feed well for more inspiration. grin

I no get money again..

You guys can ask any questions...
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 4:07pm On Mar 21, 2018
ladycomfort:
:ohmmmmm

Gaby the real man sad shocked
And so many Nigerians are still gonna travel through that same route embarassed
Yeah mostly out of sheer ignorance,for some its a do or die because they already know what to expect.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 3:32pm On Mar 21, 2018
FortifiedCity:
Go to the initial thread, take note of all the people that asked you to mention them when you create this and do just that
ok sir
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
Kojiek:
@gaby, are the pics above like the razor fence?
Yup three of those separated by roads, a couple of metres in between with the razor coiled one at the top.

Still got some scars from those sharp shits.I was bloodied,alone and resorted to licking my wounds in dejection and agony.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2018
Offering time.Offering time..Offering time...

Oya usher pass the basket round.Please give bountifully to expand this ministry and my God will enlargen your coast beyond the deserts.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 2:52pm On Mar 21, 2018
How would i know my hip hop dress and trainers i had arranged from forestry road to go threaten the europeans and announce the coming of the latest Nigerian Kid n Play in town would become an extra burden to bear and that the dollars i had sewn up hidden in some coded angles of my clothings and shoes were best saved in my behind,yes you read it right straight up my rectum.

All these i got to know when we got to Katsina enroute Niger Republic.....

I don even forget where i abandon my backpack wey don turn igbese sef...
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 2:33pm On Mar 21, 2018
alphaconde:
besides suspense its actually frustrating reading half stories
You'd think it's really easy to recall events that happened 20years ago and also write them down chronologically with just a snap of the finger don't you?
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 1:51pm On Mar 21, 2018
Oya make una find me a book or movie deal...lol
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
Hoping this thread might just be a way to get reconnected with Christy and Tyson you never can tell.
Just to hear from and know how they've been.

Had a fling with one of the girls in my group (Joy) who couldn't continue on the journey.She was being trafficked by one OZ in company of Charles and the last i heard from via via was that Joy claimed i knocked her up even though we all knew she and OZ were an item as per trafficker and traffickee. If pregnancy got to term and delivered, kid should be 18 now i suppose.I know nothing about Joy other than that she was from Benin and used to attend a church at ihinvwin around st. Savior 3rd east circular in Benin City.

Just incase anyone here knows anyone else who might just happen to know Joy we might be running a paternity test.

Shout outs to my fallen comrades too numerous to mention..Wilson,Smart,Tupac,Lucky (was stabbed to death in my salon 31/12/2000 forever etched) i salute you guys still holding it down on this side..RIP fellas embarassed
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 9:25am On Mar 21, 2018
ayusco85:
Pls shove the thoughts o. It never ends well especially now that all eyes are on such dangerous routes. Imagine what OP went tru back then as 1999. Now u won't make it to Libya alive not to talk of spain
Be guided bro..not worth the pains and psychological scars..please don't broach it.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
Martin0:
honestly the only thing am thinking of is just to meet op one day and ask him, "man how you doing "


I hope to meet him one day!!!

my bro is just like you and suffered in all area's just to get to Europe, but all the same, you are indeed a wonderful man.
Humbled bro will be a pleasure meeting y'all someday too..we've become fam ain't it?
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
ok
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Travel › Re: The Grass Is Actually Green Dust In Obodo Oyibo by gaby(m): 12:02am On Mar 21, 2018
dancok:
no mind them, my sisters friend went there barely 6 month she got her self a car and a comfortable place to stay with her four children, they will be telling us is not easy just to scare us from coming, well God dey.
If you reach abroad,,oyibo dey park car leave key for the mouth you fit just enter drive am go port ship am come naija..na the gist wey most of us take land for desert be that...
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 11:51pm On Mar 20, 2018
NobleBeer:
I was actually looking forward to his descriptive prowess too but e be like say the bass and orijin wey him dey take break don finally gii am writer's block. grin
You and Emerich dey kolo grin grin

I dey look for work outside nairaland man must wack na...

Will drop some tit bits morrow
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 1:12pm On Mar 20, 2018
emmabest2000:
Why you quote me dude ?

I guess you didn’t coded what I wrote up there
No vex sir
Travel › Re: 'It's Not Worth It'; Couple Who Returned From Libya Amid Suffering. Photos by gaby(m):
chronique:
Lol. Personally, I think people without class and with low self esteem, are the ones who get desperate to the point of traveling through desert to Libya, Morocco, Tunisia, etc, to get into Europe. If you must travel to Europe, get a visa, a flight ticket,and travel like a normal human being. Not the one where you'd wear one cloth for several days,trekking through desert and eventually being packed like sardine on a boat to cross the sea. I know some people who have gone to Europe like this and their hustle over there is prostitution and drug dealing. Fact is that, most of these immigrants are aware of what obtains over there but most won't admit openly that they knew,so you won't see them as irresponsible.
While i'll commend you on your submissions,i rather would have wished you hammered more on the word "IGNORANCE and DESPERATION".I wont however shy away from correcting some erroneous and blanket assumptions you made and my counter submissions are wholly and solely my personal opinion which is well much open to debate.

Now imagine a scenario where in my case i was the first of 10 kids plus one or two cousins including dad and mum cramped up in a 2 room living space in a face me i face you setting and while dad is toiling to do his best and mum a petty trader,you still can't get over the desperation and need to step up to the plate and be the one to initiate a change in your family's destiny and this is not forgetting the fact that you are been reminded on a daily of your burden to bear as a first son.

As one who embarked on this perilous journey some 20 years ago,it'll be pertinent to get us back to the situation of the country from 1993 when Abacha held sway until his demise in 1998. I'm taking us back to this Abacha years to give you an idea of what drove the tens of thousands that made the exodus in my time alone , this is just in case mine was borne out of low self esteem and a lack of class as you erroneously opined,i wonder if the same can be said of the many others.

In my case the exodus was en masse and cut across all class bearing in mind where we were just coming from as a country,coupled with not having access to this much information and resources on how to get a visa to go legal.

You naturally begin to see travelling by land as an alternative,a cheaper option and the poor man's last hope.This becomes particularly the case when you begin to hear stories of "Osaze" whom you had played street soccer some two weeks back having called from spain with his (+34) number flying around as evidence plus hard copy photographs of Osaze all geared up from head to toe in winter clothings posing in front of a sleek ride with some white folks at the background. And then within a couple of months Osaze had started sending cars home to his folks.

I don tire to type but my brother or sister it is definitely a combination of factors other than entirely those you submitted.

Please note that i am in no way encouraging or advocating for people to embark on this killer journeys far from it,was only trying to make you see how not lacking in class and self esteem are not entirely the main reason it happens.
And as an addition,do you really believe people who fly do not engage in criminilaties cum prostitution out there? Just asking.

Suffice to also point out that the change in fortune for the earlier travellers and their immediate families back then was almost always immediate and evidently apparent so you get left with the choice to make of impacting on your immediate family positively or continue wallowing in the unending cycle of poverty.
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
emmabest2000:
慢慢来 ....
Smallies dem..a quick search of my moniker and posts would have been enough if you were any smarter.

Here's a thread i started in 2006 for your kind perusal and by the way how old were you in 2006
https://www.nairaland.com/22441/need-serious-advice-trucking-business#610104

I am even holding back from spilling much and yet you want to accuse me of telling lies,very laughable.

My story will loose all of its originality and sauce the moment i try making things up because i'll constantly need to keep up the falsehood to reach a climax,and that my brother is more energy sapping than keeping it real the way it happened.

Do you want to know how at the top of my game as a dirty fraudster i had made an upward of 500k-1m euros in assets and cash or how the almighty FBI instigated a crackdown on us (made the headlines both electronic media and print where i was living) and how some of us got extradited to the US?

I'm only holding back loads so as not to be seen as a snitch telling on my former crook mates,as everyone is trying to appear legit.

Please note that i had already started my trucking business 2 years prior to the topic above i only got worried that i had made a wrong choice of investment when the constant demand for maintenance and all sorts was becoming overbearing and i needed to sample opinions to be able to find out from people who know or are already in the business if it was well worth it.
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Politics › Re: Human Trafficking: Obaseki Urges Edo Elite To Support Fight by gaby(m): 8:12pm On Mar 19, 2018
PhilipIdaghosa:
Edo State Governor, Mr. Godwin Obaseki, has tasked members of elite clubs in Edo State to support governments in advancing laws and social projects to end the scourge of human trafficking and illegal migration.

Obaseki made the call when he hosted executive members of the Benin Recreation Club, at the Government House in Benin City.

He said the elite culture has long disappeared from society, noting, “without defined roles for the elite, the society suffers. I am however optimistic that the Benin Recreation Club can help revive this culture.”

He urged members of elite clubs to support government’s socio-economic developmental efforts in the state, noting that the support of persons in privileged positions in society for laudable social projects will benefit humanity.

“When the elite speak out against issues confronting the society, such as modern-day slavery, it would go a long way to bring an end to the inhuman practice. How can we, as a people tolerate such a practice long after it was abolished? It is left for the elite to stand against this culture and ensure the preservation of human dignity,” he added.

He noted that members of elite clubs have the obligation to provide leadership and direction that would spur socio-economic growth, noting, “Why it is the responsibility of governments to provide basic infrastructure, the elite must contribute to the progress of society.”

Obaseki urged the club to assimilate more female members to allow for diversification of its membership and aggregate more ideas.

President, Benin Recreation Club, Engr. Wilfred Aiguobosimwin Irogue, expressed appreciation to the governor for the giant strides in deepening infrastructural development. He noted, “The development of infrastructure will transform the socio-economic development of the state.”

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President, Benin Recreation Club, Engr. Winifred Irogue (left) presenting a souvenir to Edo State Governor, Mr. Godwin Obaseki, when executive members of the Club visited the governor at the Government House in Benin City.
Hey bro,do you by any chance know someone who knows anyone who might know the Governor or do you have any access to the state ?

I've got a story to tell you can follow me or look up my moniker.
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
My Persona/ How i live

I'm naturally shy and reserved but when i get comfy i can be a chatter.I thrive better expressing myself in writing though than talking.

Saying i'm sorry is the easiest and quickest word i can say.

I respect people a lot so i find myself sometime hoping into a public commuter and greeting everyone in the bus or cab and when i'm alighting i don't forget to thank the driver or conductor for the ride.Some people look at me like wetin dey do this one but its become second nature.

I am blunt to a fault and pretty well opinionated and this hasn't earned me very much friends.

If i call you a friend i'll tend to you and yours before facing mine.

I'm temperamental(under works though) owing majorly to verbal abuses growing up and my subsequent life experiences i.e my journey.

My weakest point as a man..i love women but now a changed man as i've grown older and more matured and also realizing how much powers women wield.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 1:20pm On Mar 19, 2018
@ edrys
Be strong and keep your chin up you'll be fine.
At a point in my life even when all had gone south i had 6 of my younger siblings in the same University to cater for.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 10:13am On Mar 19, 2018
emerich:
Tnx for the mention.....
Always welcome bro
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 10:13am On Mar 19, 2018
dexcira:
Awww that love for family. Chilling to hear about ur to do list. Let's I forget. U are a GREAT writer
Thanks sissa
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:36am On Mar 19, 2018
tillaman:
Mr Gaby, I salute you for making out time to create this thread, wherever you are I pray the God be with you, but I want you to elaborate more, this ain't no boring epistle it's like an eye opener, thank you
Thanks bro God bless you.
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
dexcira:
After how long where u able to get connected to your family? What was their story? Felt u were dead? Kidnapped? Etc.
My first contact with my family came a whole three months after in December of '99.
This was before the advent of the gsm but i crammed a couple of landline nos especially my dad's office number.

So i called dad's office number..

ring ring...

Receptionist:Hello goodmorning welcome to Afro bla bla bla how may we help you
Me:My name is sir P Mr P the workshop manager's son i would love to speak with my dad.
Receptionist:hold on while being put through

At this time i don dey shiver my heart dey beat..

Dad picks up:
Dad: Hello who's this?
Me: Daddy good morning it's me sir p
Dad: after a long sigh and exasperation and probably relief-where are you and where have you been everybody has been worried about you,your mom has become a shadow of herself..plenty talk
Me: Daddy i'm in morocco.It's a long story but after i had flown out of nigeria i was denied entry at the airport,there was no way i could come back home to sit with you guys so i ventured on this journey when i heard some guys talking about it.I'm very sorry sir.
Dad: your younger brother is here,works with me now
Me: wow really? (excitedly) lemme speak with him
My kid brother: Hello bros
Me: Guy long time how far now
My younger bro:He cuts in abrubtly bros na wa oo,for how long now you travel make everybody dey panic here if na me i know wetin i for don do.

He didn't even allow me explain to him like i did my dad and dad was yet to brief him what i explained to him ( this is all retrospective thinking and me trynna make an excuse for my kid bro) i was hurt and touched at the same time but i still got love for my family because we are all we've got. After call dem seize me say i over talk and i no get shi shi to make up the difference na so i begin beg.

When i got off the phone,i had a long thought about what my kid bro just told me on the phone.There and then i took a vow and a decision and dropped it jejely at the top of my to-do list...

You'll find out subsequently if i visited my to do list or not..

cheers

joseid,nazarene,nairalane,badboyharmony,emerich,souloho,horlasunbosun
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:11am On Mar 19, 2018
horlahsunbo225:
Why did you decide to take rest when your guys didn't rest and how did that affect you
Is it postice or negative
You can only bear the pains for as long as your body can carry before nature takes its toll.
Collectively as a group under the directorship of our guide,we took out times to rest,eat and recuperate some before proceeding.

But from time to time one or two persons gets exhausted and can't keep up pace any longer and take their own rest time and before you know it the group is gone far out of your sight and reach.

It did affect me negatively not been under the shepherd of a guide who'll normally know the landmarks from point a to b or town a to b and how to stay away from troubled zones.

Out of desperation and exhaustion and wanting to be caught by the cops for a reprieve (kpata kpata dem deport me back to magniya then i start again) i set off into town walking on major ways which on a good day should be a no no,but instead of finding the cops or getting arrested,i always encountered kind hearted moroccans who took pity on me and would give me food and hot tea and then direct me on how and where to walk to avoid getting arrested,risking their own freedom for mine.
It's a big deal if a local is found out habouring or aiding an alien out there.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
bayocanny:
Alright sir, you've given us some background information about what triggered you to embark on this perilous journey, also you have shed some light not all tho on your adventure from Niaja to spain.
What happened when you finally reach spain?
Who host you, how do you survive and manage to get a job to sustain yourself being an illegal migrant without papers?
In addition, where are you now, spain or nigeria?
Are u successful or not?
What about your family back in Nigeria, do they know about your travelling plan?
How are you faring now?
The only positive about the perilous travelling by land (not advocating for it o) is this:
We all had and still have this idea of how europe would be an eldorado and even wondering if it's located in this same earth as ours.This feeling however begins to fade immediately you set foot in Niger and reality begins to hit and prepare you for the unending struggle ahead even in Europe.

When we got off the dingy early morning all soaked and oozy,the spanish marine (civil guardia) had already picked us on radar and where on hand to receive and detain us which we gladly submitted to. It is worthy to note that we don't get a 100% on shore before disembarking and more people loose their lives from here as the smugglers are always in a hurry to get back to the moroccan side of the Sea to evade capture by the spanish authorities.( long jail term for them.

So you'll often see people in a rush to get off the boat in desperation thereby slipping or falling into the deep waters.

There are two major take off and target points across the waters into Spain.One is across the Atlantic ocean targeting the canary islands of Las Palmas and Tenerife,while the secon take off point is through the Meditteranean Sea targeting Aljeciras,Cardiz et al.

Factors that determines what routes to strike from includes but not restricted to,Smugglers knowledge of the water ways,calmness or turbulence of the waters dependent on the season of the year.Best times across the waters is usually during the summer months.

We arrived in Cadiz,taken into detention and processed in our wet in stinky clothes until late at night when the gates were opened and we were all let out into the streets to find our respective ways but who know road.This is where people who have contacts already in Spain or wherever begin to make calls to announce their arrival and location and from there onwards the second phase of life and the hustle begins.

Takuu,Dexcera,Nazeren,nairalane,joseid,badboyharmony,souloho,emerich,horlasunbosun
ifedoyinmola,iamloyalty,blueeyes1,tobi7,skyken001
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Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 7:23am On Mar 19, 2018
Nazeren:
You're a strong person. Very courageous. Very bold. You should publish your story. You'd sell millions. You write too well. Wish you wouldn't underestimate what you can do. So much suspense in your narrative.
Much respect bro
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 9:57pm On Mar 18, 2018
dexcira:
Jeeezz this must be terrible, u are supposed to be in the military lol cos u get mind. Alot would have given up
No retreat no surrender..where you dey come from far pass where you dey go..now make a choice..

Wetin you wan go tell mama and papa wey think say their pikin don go europe?
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