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Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 9:45pm On Mar 18, 2018
Ifedoyinmola:
Phew!!! Finally! Page 0-13,i read everything. Though i have my own 'days i will never forget' but reading everyone's experience really gt me.To those that lost a loved one,accept my condelence.Mr Gaby,u r really a strong man,keep up the strenght,some people r tapping from it.
The day i can never forget,May 20,2009, the day i lost my dad,as young as i was,the pain in the heart,the fear of the future,the worry of how we will survive,the question of 'God why me?',the sorrow of why did he deserve that kind of death,the question of 'how will my mum do it'.As young as i was,i felt everything all at once.I didnt use to feel so remorseful when i hear about death here & there,bt after that day,i even cry sometimes wen people lose their loved ones because i now know how it feels.Glory be to God though,He gave me a wonderful mother,caring for 6 young girls wt no father is nt easy bt thank God.
Once again Mr Gaby,kudos 2 u.
PS,i LOVE the way you compose ur story,wt those english words,damn! I av a thing 4 guys/men wt correct english,i really hope u find peace,i love u already...(i pray my bf doesnt see this)
grin

Thanks sis..
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 9:34pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nazeren:
You're a strong person. Very courageous. Very bold. You should publish your story. You'd sell millions. You write too well. Wish you wouldn't underestimate what you can do. So much suspense in your narrative.
Humbled and awed by you sir..

Can't do it without everyone of you's support.
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 9:22pm On Mar 18, 2018
Cutehector:
and in turn endangering your Lives..
Thank you.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 9:18pm On Mar 18, 2018
dexcira:
After how long where u able to get connected to your family? What was their story? Felt u were dead? Kidnapped? Etc.
Will answer your query just because na you nudge me on open my nyansh reach here but no laugh ooo..
Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
ok
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:44pm On Mar 18, 2018
Cutehector:
Chai but why una too do illegal immigration na.. E no good.
E go good bros..we wan make am good now
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:43pm On Mar 18, 2018
Typing..
sorry guys i needed some dutch courage to fire down..who know,know

Updating an answering queries in a jiffy
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:40pm On Mar 18, 2018
Cutehector:
Gaby sorry which state do you come from.. I know its edo grin
I'm Edo as rightly guessed sir..It's our work oo...lol
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:02pm On Mar 18, 2018
Cutehector:
Gaby sorry which state do you come from.. I know its edo grin
I'm Edo as rightly guessed sir
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:01pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nairalane:
Gaby, the title is damn long! As a graduate, with experiences in Psychology, I can boldly suggest that you make it abridged


e.g. A True Life Story; My Journey to Spain thru the Desert.


Many will want to follow it for diverse reasons;
1. How possible?
2. What road is that?
3. How many days did you spend
4. What happened on the road
5. Where are you now
6. Successful or not

and many more
I appreciate your comment and taken it to heart. Bless you sir
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 8:00pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nairalane:
Nice, but Gaby! Don't lit the cat out so quick! Speak in Parables but make them attractive
sure..

Lets see...okay can i get some questions from you guys
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 7:53pm On Mar 18, 2018
And this:
Just remembered how in the course of the journey one of the girls had gotten knocked up by someone she can't place and how she had gone into labour and everybody scampered in different directions except me. I helped Christy bring into the world a cute little baby boy and christened him Tyson right there in the desert.The boxer Mike Tyson was at his peak then.
How i managed with the delivery? Even me sef tire for the inspiration and inexplainable direction on what to do.

I can remember kneeling in front of Christy while she was gritting in pains and urging her on to keep pushing.When the baby popped out and unto my hand i was confused on what to do because the baby was still attached to the placenta inside her mom through the umbilical chord.

Confused on what next step to take,i resorted to pulling on the umbilical chord until the placenta came out. At this time i had shown Christy her new bundle of Joy and though still in pains,she had the presence of mind to direct me on what and what to do , such as un tying a thread from her head and tying between the chord and the placenta before separating the baby from the placenta. For the cutting i had to improvise with the lid of a sardine can.

There's more on this particular event too.
Only God knows where Christy and Tyson are today and if they ever talk or think about me...lol Got no contact with them.
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
For the benefit of new followers the below post was what "opened" my nyansh and landed me on this hot seat.

This is going to make for a long read though but here we go..

The story about a day i'll never forget..

The year was 1999 and i was just 21,had dropped out of college and decided to migrate for economic reason from my home state in Nigeria.

With no pre-requisites nor sufficient finance to go legal by obtaining a visa and flying,i opted to travel by land through the desert onwards Spain via Moroco. There was however a snag as all i had was a map and a sketch of how and where to change vehicles at specific towns in each country i’ll be passing through. Fortunately on the night i was to board the check out bus from my small town of Benin City enroute Katsina State bordering Nigeria and Niger Republic,half the passengers on the bus turned out to be making the same journey so we all naturally gelled and formed a group.

We got to the border town the next morning and got smuggled into a vehicle that took us further into Niger Republic specifically to a town called Agadez.We did a couple of more days there until we got the next connection to smuggle us through the Sahara desert into a town (Tamaransett) in Algeria. Pertinent to note here that the ultimate target of our journey was to hit Morroco from where we can either Climb accross the razor fences seperating Morocco from either of Spain’s enclave of Ceuta and Mellila both on mainland Morocco.This is actually like crossing from Mexico into the US.

A lot happened on the travel through the Sahara as we did the journey in three days.From co travellers collapsing and been abandoned in the desert to having to survive on our urines. Travelling through the desert we did come upon a couple of human skeletal remains of a couple of unfortunate travellers.

Not to bore you folks with my epistle so i’ll leave out much of what i went through on the journey and continue from when we got into Moroccan territory or the border between Morocco and Algeria in a town called Magniya.Everybody journeying through that route actually get together at this jungle-a valley actually where we set up camps and wait to make up a certain acceptable number for the smugglers to take us on the journey by foot through the woods,deserts and jungles of Morroco to evade the authorities.On a good day with a good guide who knows the route well that’ll be a 2 weeks or thereabouts journey on foot.

So on this day my group and i got prepped to embark on this journey.We had gotten our standard supplies of barguettes,sardines and milk to survive on just enough not too heavy to burden us on the long walk.

We journey only at nights for cover.On the first night we covered a couple of km’s in between some guys and ladies already dropping by the way side not able to keep up pace and exhausted,nobody even cares it’s either you ship in or ship out. So we continued until i eventually took a short rest and afterwards got sperated from the group and i knew not what way to continue on.

Out of frustration,hunger and desperation i decided to come out of the woods in broad day not a single scare of the police as i would have gladly ran to them at this point if for nothing at all just for something to eat and a place to sleep.I started begging for food from some locals who were so kind God bless them.These locals will actually get into trouble with the authorities if it becomes public knowledge that they are habouring or didnt report seeing an alien.But these guys will take me in,make me ‘shai’ morrocan tea and bread then hide me until night time then show me how to go and avoid the cops.

So i continued until i got to Nador.This town actually borders Mellila one of the spanish Territories on Morrocan soil.Meanwhile as a group,our original destination was Rabat where we have a decent population of fellow immigrants on the same journey,where we could gather and map out the next strategy on how to cross into spain either by ferry on. a dingy across the atlantic/mediterranean or scaling the razor fences.

When i arrived Nador i was lost for how to proceed being alone.Mind you it was 2 weeks plus already since i got seperated from my group.I hadn’t showered all these while so you can imagine what i was like. While thinking about my life and how to proceed a bike drove up to me and asked i hopped on,i was hesitant but he insisted and i obliged.He drove me for about 5 kilometres and stopped then asked me to keep left and climb a super mountain across that if i did that and kept to my left i’ll get close to the razor fence.

I thanked him and started on the journey of climbing the huge mountain.From my reckoning i started ascending at about past 8pm when the.man dropped me and when i got to the peak of the mountain where i could see all around Nador and also look into the spanish territory it must have taken me about 3 hours but i became so fired up that at least i’m close to spain.

While i was still basking in the euphoria of my new found luck and planing on where to attack from,the heavens gave way and it started raining cats and dogs with no where to take shelter.

I decided to just keep walking with no particular direction until i happened on a cemetry.When i got to the cemetry at about 12–1 am i couldn’t hold it any longer.I just broke down and started crying my hearts out thinking about my family and friends and how no one knows where i am at what i was passing through. Afterall and the rain had subsided i hadn’t the will to continue that night i just laid on the closest grave to me and prayed for the person resting there.

Pretty tough journey i must confess but had to leave out most parts for easy reading.

Thats it folks a lil story about my life.

Thanks for your time and for reading.

I've done a book on my story. To get the book, follow this link. https://okadabooks.com/book/about/the_irregular_migrant_a_story_of_perils_triumphs_and_karma/19703
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Literature › Re: Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op): 7:48pm On Mar 18, 2018
Shuooo una don make me dey fear o..i just go buy my bazz plus origin come meet crowd here... grin

Abeg make una bear with me i'll drop in a bit
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Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 7:43pm On Mar 18, 2018
justwise:
You really know how to talk nonsense, how will i hate somebody i never had issues with before or even know, i have not being following his story neither have i ever come across his post or ID before

If you needed to read his story to know why you should not travel to Europe through the desert then you are hopelessly ignorant
Keep flexing your muscle. I dare you to bring my opening post on that thread here for all to see.You really do not need going ballistic or all defensive to drive your point home.
Tell me you don't have the powers to edit a header or draw an op's attention to any error if any.But no,i had barely completed the post and clicked submit before you removed it.
I'm not in any sorta competition with you man.
Thanks
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 7:34pm On Mar 18, 2018
Jaguntimi:
Honestly I can't but only shake my head in pity and disgust... All you need is to clear your mind of those hatred and pride.. I understand you must be a young lad..
You've still got lots to learn about life ...@Gaby God bless your level of maturity..
Thanks mate
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 7:05pm On Mar 18, 2018
JaySea:
Justwise, if you follow Gaby's story you will get the impression that travelling to Europe as an illegal immigrant is not only dangerous but wasteful. Gaby has clearly been dissuading readers from taking that path. His story will do more of that in a captivating and entertaining way and as a result reach more young people who will learn valuable lessons.
Allow Gaby please.

Gaby, may I suggest a title; "In Search of Eldorado: My Journey for a better life in Europe".
Just a suggestion.
My brother abeg ignore that guy na him know wetin him get for mind.I don move on.

Nice suggestion for a title,thanks bro
Literature › Nigeria to Europe through the desert-A true life story by gaby(op):
Hello guys,due to the overwhelming support i have received from a seemingly innocent comment on a previous thread and in response to popular demand to create a separate thread to chronicle my experiences,i have decided to do this here.

However,i would like to point out and crave your understanding to the honest fact that i might not be doing a bare it all here. This is so because at the moment no one can tell where or when special interests might come knocking for my story.

I wouldn't want to have bared it all in here and be left with nothing to hand prospective suitors. ( everybody like money)

The experiences i'll be sharing here are going to be straight up first hand as it happened to me some 20 years ago,beyond and present as it might relate to my narrative.

To get a proper perspective i might have to do a background intro so you readers will better understand how i ended up venturing on this voyage of yes/no return as the case may be.

It is imperative to state here for the sake of clarity that i am doing this not for some cheap popularity or attention-seeking-ego-massaging trip,i am taking this up as a first step to finding me healing from all the trauma and also to pass on a lesson or two to you readers on the dangers inherent on this journey.

I'm naturally a pretty well private person who's known to bottle up stuffs a lot,this explains why this is the first time i'll be baring my experiences of some 20 years ago for the first time straight up as it is.

I'll hope you guys enjoy reading as i give the narratives but i'll prefer a question and answer session kind of. I even confuse sef.

Please note that my narrative here is not an expert advise on travelling by road or illegally,neither does it seek to promote or encourage same. I stand against and condemn all illegalities as it relates to travelling and otherwise.

Here's the thread that got us here

https://www.nairaland.com/4403645/share-day-never-forget/13#65950071
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Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 5:41pm On Mar 18, 2018
iamloyalty:
Dont honour him with a reply, i dont have subscription but i had to comment on thiss. U are a strong, i shed tear reading some part especially when u slept and prayed on then cemetery.
Be careful of who u contact so thät u wont be taken advantage of. If ur story is properly documented is gonna be a hit, i wish i could sponsor it but i cant. I am following u to know the rest. Cheers...
Thanks mam.He's been duly ignored.How he couldn't call my attention to changing the header on the thread or better still used the same powers he used in bringing down the post to edit the header beats my imagination honestly.
His motives are however best known to him i suppose.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:47pm On Mar 18, 2018
Jigba:
Gaby you could open a thread in the literature section.
Ok
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:47pm On Mar 18, 2018
justwise:
This is the title of your thread:

That is what uninformed illegal immigrants from Nigeria and other African countries do constantly with a disastrous consequences.
End of.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:34pm On Mar 18, 2018
justwise:
I'm surprised that you are making some reckless allegations despite your age.

Any idea how many Nigerians that have died, sold as slave or deported from Libya through that route recently?
How about you point out any part(s) of my posts that was actually going to be edifying or encouraging travelling illegally or through the desert.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:23pm On Mar 18, 2018
justwise:
This is a baseless allegation, I'm personally doing the opposite of what you just stated.

Your topic would have encouraged people to take such a dangerous journey.
You think say na pikin wey dem born today you dey follow talk abi...keep on trying hard to justify the unjustifiable. As an aside i'm not begging to have my story or experience read on here, so you just might be on point.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:12pm On Mar 18, 2018
justwise:
Not automated, I sent him that message.
Never knew you and Seun were supporting and encouraging young Nigerians to jet out from Nigeria by all means possible even through the desert and illegally to boot.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 4:09pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nairalane:
And Gaby, before you start contacting people, don't be misguided! You're not writing a story. It's an experience you've had and writing a narrative must have a focused theme, it must not be vague but there should be an element of curiosity in the topic. Once they start reading, forget, they'd want to get to the end.... If I see a book titled Agadez 1999 like you suggested, I'd just move on without wanting to know the possibly outdated historical event.
Copied...
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 3:56pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nairalane:
I'm just speechless that you got such reply! Lemme assume it is automated!
I am gobsmacked.It's the height of irony.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 3:29pm On Mar 18, 2018
pizzlesbar:
Sojourn to Spain by Land too cliche.

You need to keep readers interested you don't explain everything in the title like Nolllyword people. That's very uninspirational.

Ajala by Gabzy Unereka (sometimes titles should be the last thing you think about) First you have to develop the story. And as the story develops title ideas will come which you keep on a side note.

Chapters Title can be: Edo 1978, Agadez 1999, ...Cadiz 2002

Gabzy can you contact me via inbox?
You got mail
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 3:10pm On Mar 18, 2018
schumastic:
Wow that's a long time.
No be today eh ya e don tey grin
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m):
Nairalane:
My Sojourn to Spain By Land would be nice! Here, It's vague, and people will wanna see how you did it, so along the lines, the narrative will change to a pitiful One, and they'd want to see the experiences and where the story will end! You'd have seen that from the psychological attachment of few people that read the seeming prologue here.
Was just on the travel section opening a thread to start chronicling my story and before i could modify and post topic was removed and i got the following mail from the mod,so i leave you guys to judge how someone will on the one hand claim to be fighting against illegal immigration and on the other hand giving the below excuse beats my imagination on the true definition of contradiction and hypocrisy :

"You may good intentions for starting that thread in travel section but i think it will do more harm than good to many Nigerians who are desperate to take life-ending measures to European. That was why i removed the thread." justwise
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m): 2:55pm On Mar 18, 2018
Nairalane:
Don't get you
Was asking if you advised i started a blog on the topic you suggested.
Nairaland General › Re: Share A Day You Can Never Forget by gaby(m):
Nairalane:
My Sojourn to Spain By Land would be nice! Here, It's vague, and people will wanna see how you did it, so along the lines, the narrative will change to a pitiful One, and they'd want to see the experiences and where the story will end! You'd have seen that from the psychological attachment of few people that read the seeming prologue here.
So a blog on the above topic you suggest?

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