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Well Said! But.......It is well o

revolt:
I adressed a general societal phenomenon. you know pregnant wives seriously blackmail their husband's cos they know the stakes are high. All I'm saying Is whether they're one body, the husband remains the head of the home, and in unison the wife should be the prime minister of the home and not opposition member. Even the sweetest of men can become a beast when his ego is trampled. Every woman must understand this If she wants ti get married. same way eery man should understand a woman's jealousy can make her pluck out a kids eyes. If you understand.

5minsmadness:
Two punches.
One to the eye.
The other to the lip.
The lip got cut and bled with the blood staining her dress.
?multiple bruises to the right arm.
Most injuries are unilateral to the right.
Means her husband is left handed.
And we all know how deadly left handed people are.
Ass: Assault/ Domestic violence.
Plan:
Ask woman if she'd like to press charges. If yes, take photograph. Get a complete history of what happened.

Get a police report.

Bring charges up against husband.

Court case.

Resolution and restitution. Not necessarily divorce in all cases.
However husband now has a criminal record which will hang over him for life.
Bitterness and anger ensues. Separation, divorce.


Nigerian way:
Refuse to press charges. It's a family affair.
Take pictures informally.
Show pictures to your parents.
Show pictures to his parents and siblings.
Show pictures to his pastor/priest/imam/mentor.

Husband is summoned, called to order and shamed by one or all of the above.

Warned not to repeat such or else there will be consequences (take back their wife, loss of respect and favour from mentor/pastor/Imam, punishment by superior office if in the police force etc)

Wife called aside privately and admonished not to push husband to the wall

Wife given speed dial number to mentor/pastor etc in case of any wahala.


C'est finis.

well said my brother! You are not far from the truth....its so painful

revolt:
even a good man can become a beast if married to a disrespectful abusive unsubmissive woman. Even in the animal kingdom lioness and lions exist with each knowing it's place. The day a lioness tries to assume the role of a lion it'd probably be killed. The idea of always demonizing the man in a fight between a couple solves no issues. why would a woman go challenging someone that's bigger, stronger more deadly etc I think it's stupidity. now I'm not saying all spouse beaters r right but common sense should prevail.

You insult your husband, disrespect him, and always think his opinion must be countered and u expect a loving man. Im beginning to understand why some people's don't support women education, cos knowledge is power? and most women simply can't control that power. they lose the very reason men find them attractive and become pseudo men. Ironically these feminists at the sound of a gunshot jump behind the men for protection. You'd wonder in such situations like wars, and matters requiring physical agility they concede n willingly submit to their men............you're more likely to get hurt by a man when you battle his decisions and abuse him.

well said! But do u know dat husband and wife are now one body? And d lady in question is Pregnant.

STOP BEATING YOUR WIFE! Just imagine what this Man turned this pretty woman into?
please ladies, use your power of choice well.
Marry a good man.
The truth is that most of times, the signs are there for you, but you ignore them.
Make your own money and stop being moved by money and gifts.
These things are not proofs that a Man loves you.
Do you know that just one day beating can purge you of all the good things he got You.
Some of You have good men around you, who are willing to worship you. Instead of marrying such men, you allow greed and desperation to put you into the wrong hands.
Marriage is not a do-or-die affair.
Take your time and observe a Man.
Don't just look at his actions, pay attention to his mindset. As a man thinketh, so is he.
Watch his relationship with other females.
Get his angry intentionally and watch his reaction.
Sometimes push him to the wall.
This is very important.
This woman is lucky to even be alive.
Imagine a man beating up a woman during pregnancy.
Such a bastard.
If you die, the man will get another woman.
So you lose on both sides.
I didn't know that dinosaurs are still in existence
Marry a Man not a boy.
There are good men everywhere
Don't be deceived.
It's just that most of them come in seed form.
You have to discover them.
This journey of marriage is a loooooong one.
What is the benefit of rushing into marriage, only to rush out again.
When you find a good man, stick to him.
Abundance of wealth is good, but it won't guarantee you much happiness.
Avoid men that see women as slaves.
If possible build with your man.
Especially a good man.
ITS MY OPINION THO!
You reserve the exclusive right to make your choice, I hope you make the right choice.

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Tushmum:
It is well OP.
I strongly believe there is no one God has forgotten cos am also believing God for a better job.Am also a graduate like you but i earn 13k per month as a teacher.It is well

really? 13k only, na wa o

Olutola88:
Dear GalaxyBlends, If I had my way, I would advise you not to accept such offer. One thing I'll just say is that you make sure you don't relax & get comfortable with the role.

Truth be told, 25K is a decent pay for that role. Compared to what some Teachers earn & what is ascribed to certain “Graduate” positions, 25K is a handsome pay for a Fuel Pump Attendant. If the Location is Lagos, your monthly income will be around 40K since you will be making 20naira, 50 naira or 100 naira(as the case may be) from sales to customers filling Jerrycans.

YES! This could carry you away and make you forget that is not your place. Please, always remember this.

Make sure you don't leave the job search community; keep applying, keep up with latest trends in the Search community & in d the Labour market.

Try and build a good relationship with your Supervisor & Manager as this will make it easy for you to honour job tests & interviews & still retain your attendant job.

No one knows how long you will stay in the filling station, but make sure you're doing something by the side( even if it's only once a week you'll have time for it). This is needed when an interview question pops up: “what have you been doing since you finished NYSC?”. It might not sound too good for you to tell a potential employer (during an interview) that you've been ONLY a Fuel Pump Attendant. This might be a better response: “I've been managing a small Baking Business & a few other engagements”. Within you, you know that the attendant job is what you are referring to as other engagements.

Like someone said earlier, you can get a solid network on the job.

Cheers

thank u very much. God bless u real good

AdesinaOlajide:
@OP, I would advice you take the job but always put your eyes on the job market.In all fairness #25k for such job is very decent compared to what other attendants are paid. I know someone who pays just #8k to attendants monthly. How sad!
One question for you:Are you going to work the full day or you share duty for half the day?

thank you

olawumia:
accept d offer bro, but dont be carried aways, with d "unchallenged" environment. I Started with 40k, later moved to a job of 28k, but today, with God things r getting better. Pray and work hard, I am a testimony

Thank u ,d God bless u Sir

nerodenero:
You are still being fed by somebody,the reason you reason like this. By the time that free food stops and those worms in your stomach demands their daily bread, then your reasoning will become sharp.Graduate my foot!

Hmmmmm! Tnx

taiwolusol:
Whatever situation you find yourself. Take time to thank God.

sure! Tnx

Ahmed030:
hello, i understand d way u feel, but here in naija what really matter most is dt accept the job in as much that at the end of the month you will receive something. Let me tell u about myself when i finished my nysc 2008, am doing teachin job and collectin 15k per month because of d stress i move to anoda school, but both school salaries are not enough for me after dat i worked as a security and collecting 18k per month. As am doing these work, i mark both waec and neco just to have sometin doing. Now presenttly am working with lagos resident lasrra. God did not forget anybody this life is a step by step process. Bye, take dat job at least to have experience

Thank u very much for ur encouragement

Nature129:
The salary varies as it depends soley on the owner of the station. I've managed a filling station before. I paid cashier 30k, supervisor 40k and my salary was 50k.

So the owner decides what he pays as the salaries aren't fixed. Sadly, our pump attendants were paid 10k. I tried so hard to change it but my MD wouldn't let me...he said I could increase their salary from my own salary.

10k? Are u serious? Na wa o

freeboy604:
Take the job and continue searching for other jobs, please pm me and let me send you a site that will send all the jobs advertised in the news paper on daily basis, so that when you close from work you can open your mail and apply.

This issue is touching!

thank u very much Broo. Am most grateful

Rich4god:
My little advice... Take it... Always go to work with your CV and cover letter... Then try giving it out among the wealthy ones that come to refill in your station... You never can tell what you could get from there...
On a side note, dressing smart and doing things a little diff frm the normal SSCE attendant might indirectly push you ahead... Goodluck...

Thank u very much. God bless u real good.

Estorico:
Please how much do they pay a cashier in a Filling Station as a BSC graduate? A friend of mine applied and is asking. I have no idea

they pay cashier 25k as well. Supervisors 30k.

GoldenDr:
I do not mean to be mean but can a graduate stay at home for months? Can a graduate not have plans for the future? Can a graduate wait up to three years before getting a job? Can a graduate eat three square meal a day? Can a graduate drop the graduate title and start from somewhere?

your words! Hmmmm, so touching! Feel like crying. Tnx tho.

Good Move for Deltans,I stay in Asaba too, Infant Jesus road to be precise, My e.mail address is ogochukwunwodigwe@yahoo.com. Thanks all.

Pls I need advice from the house. 25k is d pay.

LaRoyalHighness:
After my first flow after child birth ( which was very painful) I never experienced menstrual pains. Guess you should reach to your doc... Hope its nothing to worry about.

I went to Hospital in Nov 2014, I did a scan and a culture test to check if I have an infection,but non was found,so....I don't know what else to do.

I have been experiencing a serious ,excruciating ,severe menstrual pain for the past few months now. What do I do about it? Its really weighing me down, the one of this month seems to be the worse of all,I'm married with a 2year old baby. Pls I need advice from Doctors,nurses and experienced mother in the house. Thank you

Omexonomy:
@ galaxyblends the quality and the age of the hemp in the soil matters a lot (gahana hemp) when preparing it and the length of time the hemp is allow to soak in the gin (70% alcohol volume) also matters alot and will help to determine the overall quality of the monkey tail

Hmmmmmm!

Blakjewelry:
It is the tail of a monkey...... It is gin mix with India hemp.

Really?

I was discussing with some friends over the weekend and they mention Monkey tail, asked them what they meant by that but they refused to tell me. Please can anyone tell me wat a Monkey tail is And Its Health benefits as well. Thanks.

Thanks OP.

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Dike made this disclosure in an interview with the News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) in Abuja.
He said noted that though X-ray could be used as a diagnostic facility, it could be harmful to humans if not properly administered.
Dike identified some of the harmful effects on patient, including the unborn child to include stunted growth, deformity, abnormal brain function or cancer, among others.
NAN reports that a radiographer assists in the diagnostic and theuraphetic aspects of medicine, thereby ensuring that physicians diagnose correctly to adequately treat their patients.
The radiographer demonstrates expertise in minimizing radiation exposure to patient, self and other members of the healthcare team during X-ray procedures.
Dike said registered radiographers were expected to always weigh the benefits of X-ray on a patient, as against the hazard.
In reference to a pregnant woman undergoing X-ray session, he said that the radiographer would consider the health condition of such a patient before administration, to avoid endangering the life of the unborn child.
“Imaging scientists or radiographers are authorised by law to dispense ionizing radiation to help, if the benefits outweigh the risks.
“This is done within approved dose limits and optimised exposure factors to reduce the risk of cancer and other radiation diseases.
“Radiation exposure before birth can increase a person’s risk of getting cancer later in life.
“Unborn babies are especially sensitive to the cancer causing effects of radiation.
“The increase in the risk depend on the amount of radiation to which the baby and patient are exposed and the amount of time that it was exposed,’’ Dike said. (NAN). Source...Vanguardnews.

Its well o

morefire:
RIP great man... Your teachings taught me golden ways

humanity is forever grateful for thy works..

Bless your soul