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Osama10:
The OP na hermaprodite.

Nekai:
She didn't apologize for her outburst, she made no effort to keep in touch, and she sends u a text message over a year later telling you (not even asking) that you still have feelings for her.

Guy don't even answer her message. She has no true romantic feelings towards you, and worse she has no respect for you. She is a money hungry and immature girl. Who knows how many other 'made' men she has in rotation.

Go find yourself a real woman.

CrazyMan:
Well it would be good for you to come back home and experience some mosquito bites, power failure, frequent gunshots from armed robbers and kidnappers, bad roads e.tc.

Also whenever you feel feverish, there’re fake and expired drugs awaiting your consumption, quack doctors and nurses would be there to ensure that something goes wrong so they can double your medical bills.

You’ll also experience how it feels to cross dangerous roads without any zebra crossing, doge from motorcycles, finally in order to avoid unnecessary delay during a check point, you must keep a roger for the men in black.

Welcome home in advance.

kandiikane:
^^Did you know men fall faster than women?

LoveKing:
I need a true love, leo or taurus.

Icy Icy:
Love has no price tags,  how to justify its worth? I asked myself the questions multiple times, why keep a distance relationship? Why not go for a local guy or someone of the same culture? I never had "special" likings for dark guys,  why I fall for a black guy 11,000km away? I can't find the answer too,  just followed my heart

Listen to your heart, if you feel the person out there somewhere is what you seek for in a life partner then work towards achieving a future together. Its not a easy love path but I would think when it does success, I am sure both will greatly treasure their togetherness. If both parties don't have the same goal, same feelings, understandings etc. even though in the same town relationships wouldn't work out too.

sauer:
just knock him. dat's all

Kingsleyinfo:
@OP
One thing i have noticed though, is that for most, the first relationship usually ends in a heartbreak. Its a 70% for women, and 30% for men.
This is due to the fact that a lot of girls tend to enter their first relationship with an older male who is probably more experienced than they are. Try telling a 16yr old not to fall in love with that guy who has got all the swag in her school and hear what she will say.
For the guys mostly the first experience is usually mostly of a sexual inquisition, that is what accounts for the lower percentage for men who are likely to get heartbroken during their first relationship.
However i have since learnt that being heartbroken or dissappionted by the one you first fell in love with shouldn't totally define how you see love. With experience comes maturity, and you start learning to pick smarter.
Ladies are more prone to heartbreaks than their male counterparts.
But the funny thing is that alot of people never learn, and thats the major thing.
As long as people change, heartbreaks will be a continual, issue, but whether you learn from it is the actual issue.