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Fembleez1: Boss,I beg send me your number,I no dey group again,we gaz chat!!!

Fembleez1: Boss I need airtime o,abi u go give me your gf number??











Congrats bro

Serendipity: The difference between what women say they want and what they go for is like a chasm.
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The difference between what people say women are attracted to and what I see that happen in our enviroment is like a gulf.

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One thing that is certain is what the bible says in Ecclesiastes 10:19--- 'that money answers all things'.
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They say that women love confident men. And i dare say that confidence doesn't emanate from zilch, something informs it. It could be your achievements in life, ranging from educational qualifications to physical attributes and most importantly MONEY.
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There is this confidence that you have when you alight from your monstrous posh SUV, even at police check points.

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Again, you have money people respect you and that respect will subliminally and unconsciously increase your confidence.

Yes, MONEY.
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They want a nice dresser, averagely money is involved.
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Women need a caring and romantic man. A penurious man will find romance very difficult and might be aromantic nuisance. OR how can I care for a woman that needs to be operated on because of an inchoate cancer when I can't foot the bills? It will be frustrating for both of us, hence she will not be happy and by extension I wont be happy too.
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I once asked a girl why she stopped attending lessons she said its because of lesson fees, a paltry sum. How else could I have cared best if not to provide it.

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Women want a God fearing man. A financially okay person will be in the position to serve GOd better.
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In effect, money makes life easier and a man attractive, every other thing is attendant and ancilliary to it.
Only few things are impossible with money.

mad nigerian: Here are the issues raised(note...I am not an expert inthese things).

1.What made you go into a relationship with this guy. Was it his love for God, or the fact that he was mature/handsome/had his own car/property/ speaks well etc.

2.Obviously the guy is not ready for a relationship with you...or with any girl for that matter. If he is asking for sex now, chances are he has already tasted of the fruit before(And I say this as a man myself). If he cannot control his sexual urge now, chances are that if the two of you take it a step up, he will be having fun with ladies on the side...and if you marry, chances are there will be lots of other women in the marriage....and it will affect you and your kids heavily.

3.Further on point two, if all the guy can do is talk about sex, he is just interested in your body (Confession...we men find ladies bodies very interesting...it is why life dey sweet ). But, seriously now, if he is just interested in your body, then think, would he be interested in your body thirty years later? After three children?...You knows the answer.....

4.So who is the ideal man for you. Well,the ideal man is not tall, dark, handsome ,and driving an infiniti jeep! . A real man is someone who is interested in you as a person, interested in your sucess, interested in not doing things that would leave you feeling naked and ashamed, more interested in how you get close to God (not a 'pastor'....because you know, there are guys who quote bible from morning to night....and look at the ladies one kind! ...fortunately most pastors are the genuine article!), more interested in your dreams and needs.

Don't be ashamed to wait for that kind of man......

One more thing.....I am a fan of the late Bimbo Odukoya....and one thing she liked to say was...seek God first , and everything, including marriage will be added unto you. Now , I am not advising you to turn yourself into nun (Nuns are great people BTW )...but to focus on God. Andone other thing.....why don't you and your boyfriend, sit down .....in a safe place, not in an isolated place,, like his bedroom ...and talk about the relationship. If he is not ready to respect you and God....then break off the relationship. You will not die an old maid. God will surely bring you your husband. He may have even brought you this man to see how well you handle temptation...and so far you are doing fine. If you handle this temptation well.....you will handle it better when you are married (yes.....even married women face temptation.)

A good book to read......Every Woman's Battle by S. Arterburn(that man of yours could also read Every Man's battle by Arterburn and Yorkey). If you live in Abuja....it is available at LOOKAY CHRISTIAN BOOKSHOP, WUSE zone 3 , ABUJA(I don't work for them....I am just one of their satisfied customers! )

mad nigerian: Here are the issues raised(note...I am not an expert inthese things).

1.What made you go into a relationship with this guy. Was it his love for God, or the fact that he was mature/handsome/had his own car/property/ speaks well etc.

2.Obviously the guy is not ready for a relationship with you...or with any girl for that matter. If he is asking for sex now, chances are he has already tasted of the fruit before(And I say this as a man myself). If he cannot control his sexual urge now, chances are that if the two of you take it a step up, he will be having fun with ladies on the side...and if you marry, chances are there will be lots of other women in the marriage....and it will affect you and your kids heavily.

3.Further on point two, if all the guy can do is talk about sex, he is just interested in your body (Confession...we men find ladies bodies very interesting...it is why life dey sweet ). But, seriously now, if he is just interested in your body, then think, would he be interested in your body thirty years later? After three children?...You knows the answer.....

4.So who is the ideal man for you. Well,the ideal man is not tall, dark, handsome ,and driving an infiniti jeep! . A real man is someone who is interested in you as a person, interested in your sucess, interested in not doing things that would leave you feeling naked and ashamed, more interested in how you get close to God (not a 'pastor'....because you know, there are guys who quote bible from morning to night....and look at the ladies one kind! ...fortunately most pastors are the genuine article!), more interested in your dreams and needs.

Don't be ashamed to wait for that kind of man......

One more thing.....I am a fan of the late Bimbo Odukoya....and one thing she liked to say was...seek God first , and everything, including marriage will be added unto you. Now , I am not advising you to turn yourself into nun (Nuns are great people BTW )...but to focus on God. Andone other thing.....why don't you and your boyfriend, sit down .....in a safe place, not in an isolated place,, like his bedroom ...and talk about the relationship. If he is not ready to respect you and God....then break off the relationship. You will not die an old maid. God will surely bring you your husband. He may have even brought you this man to see how well you handle temptation...and so far you are doing fine. If you handle this temptation well.....you will handle it better when you are married (yes.....even married women face temptation.)i

A good book to read......Every Woman's Battle by S. Arterburn(that man of yours could also read Every Man's battle by Arterburn and Yorkey). If you live in Abuja....it is available at LOOKAY CHRISTIAN BOOKSHOP, WUSE zone 3 , ABUJA(I don't work for them....I am just one of their satisfied customers! )

pDude: So what's the big deal

@op how old are you? You sound immature.

Which relationship is sex not involved? You think when I first met my wife, i was thinking about how many good, health, beautiful children she can deliver?

I was thinking about how she would look when i hang her leg over my shoulder and ramming her deep. I was also thinking of how i will be smacking her butt and making it bounce when hitting it from behind

Today we don marry o

If you are looking for a guy that will not want sex or that will be preaching Bible to you just because he is a church guy, don't worry: one day an angel will miss road and jam nepa wire, and drop on your roof.

Just wait it will happen one day

fairygeh: All the girls them dey dance galala
But this new dance don cause casala
For this dance you no need shakara
Oya whine your hips like a this
Like a that
Like a this
Like a that
To your right
To the front
And your yansh to the back
Skelewu
Skelewu
Skelewu
Skelewu…#skelewu things.Even my dad now knows my ringtone.hahahahaha.each time my phone rings,my dad sef go dey dance.my dad calls me skelewu,your phone is ringing oooo

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I-am-Winner:
Is it Possible to get to ibadan from lagos b4 11am dat day??

Chicksy: abeg dnt add to ma fear.as far as i knw yor is art subject.if ui does nt invite i wud neva blame maself.i wud rada take it to b dat it is nt ma
tym.i wud wryt yor ova nd ova again if i av d chance.i am proud of ma culture nd lang i dnt knw abt u.mynd u yor is nt as easy u tnk