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Emmanuel909090:
Because you are an unfortunate being, i need to tame you before tou get out of control, fool

Pig

Emmanuel909090:
I cant expect less from a wicked and unforgiven heart.
I know you must have heard it a million times but this is just a reminder. Wasted fool lol.

Pig

Emmanuel909090:
Stop comparing people, i wonder why its so easy for this young generation to easily fall out of love.
What happened to fixing things?
Thats the reason why you will see a woman who has divorced 3 times and is on to the next.

Tonto thought it was greener, her new guy who has not even married her is already cheating.

Learn to build your partner into what you want, with patience, love, tolerance and prayers.

Did I mention you anywhere in any of my comments?

Why have you decided to show your unfortunate self in my mentions?

Emmanuel909090:
Just stop spilling trash and learn, people forgive and accept cheating partners, if you cant, people do.

You better shut your shitehole before I shut if for you.

MrSamsung:
I have gone through your good rambles, and one thing is consistent with all the paragraphs and statements, it sounds like this: '"Ah men and women can cheat around, I don't give a damn as long as you make EXCEPTIONS for only MEN to sleep and have bastards and still PRESERVE their marriage. The onus is on the woman!"'

With this kind of mental disposition and behavior, I bet that you don't know that our forbearers and REAL MEN of old didn't exhibit this character. In fact should they even have a mistress and a bastard, they will try their best to hide such and not rub it on the woman face, many of them wouldn't even do this, instead they would rather come out CLEAN to the wife that they are taking a second BEFORE they have a child who is not a bastard. Why? Because they understand DIGNITY not just to themselves but to their wives and families.

But now our days, grown-up men would turn to community dogs, have bastards, rub it on the wife's face even giving her the OPTIONS to either stay or leave. Like wtf is she a trash, or a woman deserving of no honor, or is she a piece of wood or animal I bet you, you will dignified your pet more.

This is not being a man but being a proud and arrogant macho and a selective justifier. I question the manliness and not the manhood of men with such thinking or behavior.

Also you rambled about me being emotional. Let me tell you one thing you don't know at this age. There's nothing that humans do without emotion, be it suppressed, controlled, hidden, pour-out, uncontrolled, bad or good emotions. Even to pick a pen to write you must have DECIDE.

Peace.

Bravo!

You couldn’t have said it better.

Let he who is wise learn.

ImaIma1:
Notice how the op is only aligning mostly with guys that are saying his sister should stay and ignoring those who are pointing out that the marriage is not safe for her.

Op since you already knew what you would do, why did you bring it here? To validate your own opinion?

You dey mind am.

He wants his sister to stay in a marriage full of infidelity but he can’t stay in one himself.

His blood sister we’re talking about here.

Last last enlightenment is key.

It’s no longer enough to be educated.

Ha

SadiqBabaSani:
U think evryone is like you seeking brides upandan,
Internet fraud has become a menace, very big one d fact that perpetrators dont even hide it is more alarming, it encourages more people to go into it..... we can all not become Yahoo Boys now

Nobody is saying they shouldn’t do their work.

All we are saying is follow best practices.

Why did they go back to destroy her things after she raised an alarm?

Mtchewww

SadiqBabaSani:
All these ignorant comments above, smh fr fools, this was how you people incited people against SARs ad it was Disbanded look at the spill over effect, see how insecurity increased ad Arms entered hands it wasnt supposed to enter, you are doing the same with Efcc, Hopefully everything should be allowed the way it is .... Internet fraudsters shud jst be allowed to be on the Rampage, soon you wont have any Youth not Involved because there re no deerent measures, u cant eat yr cake ad have it, quote me ad recev brimstone

E be like say dem don credit this one him 2k5

engrksa:
My concern that that they have very poor KYC. They are used to penetrate fraud since everything is online.

People identity are stolen and can be used to open an account with them. I think Kuda has improved this aspect as they will send OTP to the mobile number attached to the BVN registration and this is how KUDA stepped up but OPay is VERY worst

*Perpetrate not penetrate.

You must be talking of another country’s services cos these guys have top notch KYC.

There’s usually a live selfie involved when opening these accounts and from my experience in cyber security, you can’t cheat through a live sefie verification and that’s if you manage to get your hands on every other important document that’s required.

2ndtimeuncle:
Okay, I get you now. Honestly, I may not take it though I'm m yet married.

Look, I grew up in a house where the woman was a house wife.

The man has more than likely planned out his future before marriage. “Marry a woman and keep at home for children but flex outside when I want to or when I’m bored”, that’s how it always plays out when these kind of things happen.

The pregnancy may have been unexpected cos if the girl didn’t get pregnant, your sister may never have known.

You may successfully convince her to continue only for her to come back one day to tell you the man has built a bungalow for one small girl that’s rubbing his chest.

I don’t know if your sister is educated but if she is, it’s best she finds a job and prepare for whatever comes next.

Thankfully, my mom was a university lecturer who for some reason agreed to be a house wife. When she noticed oga was playing away, she took my baby sis and relocated.

Lol these Americans

2ndtimeuncle:
I honestly don't know how the instance you gave relates to my story.

Ahnahn, you don’t know how it relates to your story? Lol you’re funny.

You see exactly what your brother in law is doing/did to your sister, just imagine it was your wife that’s doing/did it.

I want to know, what will your honest reaction be?

2ndtimeuncle:
It rains every where, I don't want her to make a decision she will regret for the rest of her life.

It rains everywhere but it was this on this same nairaland that someone said his fiancée began disgusting him after she was raped, a crime which was not her fault.

Let alone someone intentionally breaking trusts and covenants.

Let me ask you a question; if your young wife confesses to you that she’s months pregnant with her side piece’s baby, what would be your reaction?

They’re MFBs with a tech infrastructure.

And what is wrong if she quits the marriage?

Why are you bothered? What ideas are you looking for?

A contract has been breached and it’s only right you terminate it.

The people will decide.

Let her reach out to governor Wike. Let her petition him. That’s the only strong man we have in the south.

The other governors are eba.

迫切希望改变

Whatever you’re doing, find a trusted builder who will handle the project from start to finish.

Incorporate a real estate company and employ one or two people to be managing this and other rental properties you may develop.

Don’t show your face or make noise as a 25 year old property developer.

People are wicked and efcc are looking for young rich guys to intimidate.

Work with sense.

Why not?

Lol

Then my dog must be his running mate.

What’s the full gist?

OhMyGodWtf:
A Muslim yoruba girl with thier regular short hijab and tight skirt gave me head some days ago , I almost exploded in her mouth. Might not be safe but sweet as hell

Clown

Lol

Which kind dirty prophesy?

Wake up.

Westerners wake up!

Hmm

Is she not the one that her husband abi father wanted to bring sharia to the south west but failed?

Stronger network connection at work.