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Prettychild:
What if it’s your Dad and Mum that are refusing to accept the person, what will you do?

Prettychild:
But you can’t start marriage preparations like that na, who will collect the bride price?

Kate999:
I have been in a serious relationship with a guy for 7 years, last year I formally introduced him to my parents. We want to start the marriage arrangements this year but my mum has bluntly refused my fiancée, her excuse is that the guy is not presentable due to his slender physique and she feels that I will be maltreated by the guy once we get married.

I know this guy too well and he cares for me a lot and has never raised his hands on me. My mum has insisted that if I go on with the my wedding plans she will disown me and place a curse on me.

What baffles me is that she has never seen this guy in person, they have only talked on the phone, she just made her judgement via phone calls and photographs.

I really want to fight for what I love but both my parents have refused to respect my decision.

Walkee:
the funniest part of it all is believing that if the valhala exists, a snow white Scandinavian god will allow a dirty niggar into his hall of banquet
Scandinavians that even felt French and Britanias were inferior to them

aboyaji:
Dah!!
I can feel the pains in your comment already.
May God give us good wives












You people don't just read and start typing. Most of you commenters have no such experience, nor very close family. I'll buttress this.

I have 4 brothers and a sister including myself which is 5 guys and a girl (totalling 6 people) in my family.

Our 3rd bro is married to a very lovely girl. She accommodates everyone. She was very young when she came into our family (20). She even calls me her husband and I call her my wife. I'm always confident and comfortable calling her by such name because she's worth it and more. We talk on video calls all the time unending.

She always asks us when next we'd visit. She should be 25 or 26 now. Her husband is financially stable. We all could visit at once and she'd accommodate us all. Mind you, we're all grownups. No issues whatsoever. Our eldest brother is too proud of her. He should be 40 soon.

Our 2nd brother is the one in the mess now. She has a baby mama. Now, the girl wants to be converted to a wide by all means. But before that, here's the story....

I shared an apartment with this our 2nd brother. We did things together. We shared rents together. Cook and eat together until he got a girl pregnant. Because of this, I moved out and started living with a friend to give them space since he had to take care of the girl. One day, due to some irregularities in my friend's house, I couldn't bath their at the time. I took a bike to my brother's place (our shared apartment) to have a quick bath only and get to work early. I met this girl alone in the house. I told her my intentions and situations on ground for coming and I didn't visit frequently since I moved. Guess what she said; "you'll replace the water after taking your bath". I was shocked.

I took my bath and left. One other time, I had a particular cloth I wanted to wear to work. I remembered I had left it in that our shared apartment. I went their to get it. On reaching the apartment, I told her why I came. I went in, opened the wardrobe. Behold, this girl left what she was doing, came and stood behind me to see what I was taking. Me?

Then I opened the fridge to pick a satchet of water, she moved toward the fridge to still know what I was picking. I was mad internally. I didn't speak of it. I called my brother and told him all of those she did. My brother said it's not a serious something.

Now, I live in my own home alone. The girl had put to bed and I hadn't seen their child. This new year, the came back from the East with the new child.y brother called that they're back. I said if come see them officially. That is my duty.

Same day, same night, I took my woman to great them from a distance I live. On reaching, I didn't meet my brother but the lady and child. She barely opened her mouth to greet us. After that, she didn't say anything again. No "welcome take seat". No "will you guys drink water"?

We stood until I motioned my woman to sit after pulling out a seat behind the door. I sat on the floor.

The lady didn't say anything. She was just watching some TV programs. A small girl of 22-23 ooo!!! Shortly, she saw the footwear I came in with and said "you came in with shoe into our house". I was like

I waited patiently. Shortly, she stood up grabbed a broom and started sweeping the already neat floor. That was when I stood up and went outside. My woman followed suit.

We were outside in the night by 10pm till my brother came back. We went in. My brother had to go to the kitchen to make eba for everyone to eat. Her baby mama wife-to-be sat doing nothing. The baby was even sleeping. We ate and went home.

I know my brother won't see anything bad in whatsoever she does. He grants all her requests. He even calls us and ask us to please call her wife from time to time. Who does that? You don't force love.

None of my family members welcome her presence in the family at this moment.

osuofia2:
See nna Life

Torg77:
you broke people know how to collect loans above your means but can't pay back. Its always easy and sweet to collect but when you don't pay back its hard and bitter for the companies involved. If 50 nigerians take loans and don't pay these companies will run into debt. If you don't have money go do conductor and stop punching above your weight

badboyTee:
If you go that group on Fb u go laugh tire

Note: if you want to learn to borrow from Lcredit without them having access to contact any of your friends and family if you don't repay quote me so I teach you

MJBOLT:

you want make them do obituary poster for you??

Truthisunique:
Angel on Nike abi

Benin Republic people have low iq, just wear white and run then snap am with some blur

By their fruits we shall truly know them

Joeyfizzo:
wat is dis ode saying

Krismas:
let me learn from u