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Obrigardo:
What is this?

Thighs

naijaboiy:
lol she's not a Hoe.

She's just confused.

She's not confused bro. I feel any girl who starts playing "away matches" is a hoe..you mustn't have sex with another guy before you're called a hoe. There's no two ways about this.

Beverlyjean:
Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.

It goes like this; I have a bf that I have been dating for a year now and he is a very wonderful Person, he is my first love and I really love him so much because he gives me a different kind of feeling that I have never felt before , but my dilemma is that I met another guy a month after I accepted to date my bf , we were normal friends for the first one month though I never told him I had a bf until he surprisingly made his intentions known to me . This other guy has been an angel in my life and we started hanging out frequently due to my bf not being around because he traveled out of the country , this other guy has been the most loving and caring guy that I have ever met, he is always there for me and showers me with so much care love and time . He then introduced me to my introduced me to his family ( his mum and dad inclusive) and they loved me at an instant and started welcoming me and calling me their daughter . Now this other guy is 30 while I turned 21 in December and my guy is 23 . This other guy has a great job and ready to settle but his not rushing me saying that he will wait till I am ready . The problem is that I don't have the type of love he wants me to have for him , the thing is that I love my bf so much and I am not ready to let him go . My bf missed my graduation , my birthday and Val's because he had some pressing issues though he sent me my gifts through mail but the other guy was there for me , came for my grad at gwagwalada, took me to a lovely restaurant on my bday and surprised me with a lovely gift and also spent time with me on Val's day and it was so lovely. My bf is around but I see him only 3 times a month and I don't complain but this other guy sees me like 4 times a week .

I have been in a romantic relationship with the new guy although we have done something's apart from direct sex because I am a virgin . This other guy has sacrificed a lot for me but I wanna let him go because he really want me to leave my bf and stay permanently with him , but I love my bf so much and my feeling for him is not strong . He said the reason why I don't love him is because my heart is somewhere else and the moment I leave my bf , I will start loving him as long as I concentrate solely with him.

He also said that even if I leave him and my bf should later find out what I did with him , that my bf will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him ( the other guy)

I care a lot about the other guy and I have feelings for him but I love my bf a lot , even though he loves me more that my bf does.

The other guy also said my bf is still young and might disappoint me in the future . I believe my bf will not because I can guarantee that he is not cheating on me and will not .

The following are the questions that keep on giving me sleepless nights :

1. Will my bf dump me if he eventually finds out bout what I did with the other guy.
2 . Will my bf or me fall out of love as we grow due to the age
3. Am I sure that he is not cheating on me or later leave me for someone else
4. Should I loose my virginity to him to prove my love
5. Will I find another lovin guy like the other guy later in life if my guy leaves me
6 . Will I leave to regret leaving the other guy
7 . Should I follow my heart or head because my heart says my bf but my head says the other guy
8. Will I fall inlove with the other guy if I stop seeing my bf?

Please help me with very mature answers because this will play a vital role in my life in the future .

Ladies that have experienced this come forth and guys that understand the way guys reason should help out pleaseeeee , because am still a novice when it comes to relationship issues. Thank you

You're a hoe..an inexperienced one.

naijaboiy:
you have already done some things with this other guy.

It just remains sex. Only God knows what those things are.

Please just leave that poor boy in abroad alone.

You clearly do not Love him

There are so many hoes in this country.

babadee1:
Tinubu is a thief. Jonathan is also equally a thief. The difference between the two of them is the difference between six and half a dozen. But Jonathan is going against Buhari in the elections not Tinubu, so unless you can convince me that Buhari is a thief then I don't see the relevance of this PDP sponsored documentary to the upcoming elections.

By the way, the stealing of public funds is the very definition of corruption.

Kai bros. A crate of Orijin for you...it's really unfortunate many people fail to reason liker this.

dre11:
This is really interesting. This scenario is like a student who chose a university and was offered an admission and was matriculated. Then the university authority said to do exams, you need to show your ID card at exam hall. Then the student said no and threatened with leaving the university. The question is Who Cares?


Let them withdraw..... All those mushroom parties
Something that have tested and done in some African countries like Ghana and SA

They claim INEC hasn't tested with mock elections. Fortunately, INEC is planning on carrying out mock elections in 12 states. I hope PDP will not sabotage efforts of the card readers in their states just to discredit the technology.

Wenger

blacksta:
what is your own ...are you his father

how do we know you are not the real paid poster... you cant force GEJ on us anymore,, we are a bit wiser now

The fools want to force a failed government on us.

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Kenai:
Sorry, I see nothing 'inspiring' in this diatribe. Rather, the only thing I see is a very acute case of Stockholm Syndrome, where an oppressed element, either by some stroke of masochism or plain ignorance, falls in love with his oppressor.
It's not to be a thing of surprise, though, as many similar cases abound in the country. A few examples can be seen in Osun State, where the civil servants are about to mark their 4th month of hunger and no salary checks, but their governor has enough money to spray from the top of his campaign bus during his street rallies; Or Lagos state where the people are looted dry as they chant "Eko oni baje o!"

Thanks, but I refuse to join that crowd of zombies and voltrons.

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You're free to join the other crowd consisting of PDP slaves.

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3. OFFICE OF THE FIRST LADY: To Be or Not To Be?
On December 26,2014, Buhari specifically said in Kaduna that there will be NO Office of the First Lady if elected. He said the Ministry of Women Affairs will be allowed to play such role. He was very emphatic, which I believe was in tandem with our constitution. However, we are witnessing a turn around where his wife Mrs Aisha Buhari has been touring the country campaigning for her husband. Mrs Aisha in a speech on January 24, 2015 said “If the office of the first lady is constitutionally recognised, he will not tamper with it, but if it is not, that’s okay.". (www.punchng.com/news/buhari-wont-scrap-first-ladys-office-wife/ ). One begins to wonder whether Mrs Buhari doesn't know that the office is unconstitutional and the "IF" in her statement is not even in contention or Is it that Gen Buhari has changed his mind with respect to the office(which I insist is unconstitutional).

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Read this part again, everything you stated down here is very straightforward. What turnaround did Aisha Buhari make? Did she say that the office is constitutional?? What exactly is your question here?? You're becoming dull and boring bros.

2. CORRUPT OFFICIALS PROBE: Compromised or Clipped?
In 2012 while speaking with SaharaTV, Buhari decried the level of corruption and scams going on since 1999, specifically the the $6.8 billion dollars fuel subsidy fraud, the N155 billion Malabu oil block scam, and the N36.8 billion police pension scheme. He advocated for government to prosecute, arrest and execute indicted officials based on documentary evidence. In his firm and assertive manner, he said
“Just use the documentary evidence and prosecute them and jail them or shoot them.”
saharareporters.com/2012/06/06/prosecute-them-and-jail-them-or-shoot-them-says-gen-buhari-saharatv

Buhari since 2003 has made it clear that he's coming to rid the system off corruption and bring perpetrators to justice. This is one attribute of his that even his detractors admired. We were shocked to the bones when John Oyegun on December 29, 2014 said that the APC and Buhari has agreed "Not to probe the past". More shocking was Buhari's speech in London on Feb 26, when he said he won't probe the past (thecityreporters.com/i-wont-probe-past-nigerian-leaders-buhari/ ). One begins to wonder whether Muhammadu Buhari has given up on the probe of former thieves so as not to offend the cabals within his party or he has been clipped by the "cabals" within his party who knows that probing the past will send them to jail. If Buhari insist on not probing the past, then he has to apologise to Second Republic Politicians that he visited their sins when he came onboard. He also has no business in Aso Rock as the incumbent is also focusing on the present(which he plan to do).

The bolded in your writeup gave you away. Jonathan is not fighting corruption and his body language doesn't represent that of a man who wishes to do so. I wonder why any sane mind would claim Jonathan is fighting corruption...except a clearly partisan PDP supporter.

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4. POST ELECTION: The Court or Lawlessness?
In 2003 Gen Buhari the candidate of ANPP spent 20 months in court challenging the fraudulent election result as announced by Obasanjo(navigator) INEC. In 2007 Gen Buhari also went to court to challenge the election of Musa Yardua even against the wish of his party that decided to join the Yaradua Government of National Unity(the Oyegun group). Buhari contested and challenged the result of President Jonathan as the CPC candidate. He lost yet he had his head high because he followed through democratic means. Sadly, as candidate of the APC, his party through its Chairman and Campaign D-G vowed to form "Alternative Government" if by their own judgement the Presidential election was rigged. They also specifically said they won't go to court to challenge the result. In other words they are ready to burn the country and cause chaos rather than take the "evidence" to court(if any).
Is it that General Buhari is tired of following constitutional process or he has been totally hijacked by his Associates? Will Buhari tolerate such a threat from any quarter if he was the incumbent?

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There will be no reason for APC to go to court after the elections. PDP will become the next court candidates after March, 28.

[s]5. PASTOR BRIBE: Amaechi(APC) or GEJ(PDP)
Earlier in February Amaechi accused PDP(GEJ) of bribing Pastors with N6 billion. However, he was challenged by Pastor Adeboye of RCCG to mention names but till today he has gone mute.
On the other hand, Bishop Emmah Isong, Chairman, Pentecostal Fellowship of Nigeria (PFN) in Cross River State accused Amaechi of bribing 500 Pastors in Hotel Presidential, Rivers state. He challenged Amaechi to refute the allegation but till today Amaechi didn't deny.
www.naij.com/382942-amaechi-paid-500-pastors-to-campaign-for-buhari-bishop-isong.html
If Amaechi is very sure of his allegation against the PDP, why is he mute on alleged receivers of the bribe? Is Amaechi guilty of bribing the Pastors as alleged by the PFN Chief?

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Since you're now making it a very childish game of questions - "APC did this", "PDP did this too", this particular "game level" is flawed!!

Amaechi accused Jonathan of giving pastors 7billion naira in bribe. Has Jonathan refuted this claim?? NO!!
Is Jonathan guilty of giving pastors 7 billion bribe as alleged by Amaechi??

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RedEboe:
I read the Glory Okon thread on NL's front page, a propaganda story wholly twisted and designed to exenorate Buhari's military regime and implicate Babangida for that young lady's death in 1985.

Obviously, pro-APC Nairalanders created this thread with their 'LIKES' crew on hand to post a supporting comment, "This is why Buhari is the next President", and all the LIKES begin to flow in.

I no longer understand the job of NL moderators, i wonder if they proof-read these threads before pushing it to home page.

The pro-APCs are not the only guilty party here, the GEJites also create appauling threads.

Unfortunately, while Nairaland mods have the uncannying ability to push pro-PDP ish threads to homepage with titles that can easily convince a one-year old that it is mere propaganda, they allow CLEAR pro-Buhari threads to fly into front page as FACT.

It's getting disgusting.

That Gloria Okon story has no business on front page.

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Give us a true version of your own story with evidences to back your claims or [size=16pt]S.T.F.U[/size]

Jonathan the ATM machine
Na only PDP needs supporters??

absoluteSuccess:
That is 'video-arrest' of a camera-convict. The documentry-proper is a 'digital prosecution'. That is the best name for this scenario. It is an ulternative prosecution best suited for banana republic. It is first used in Nigeria on AIT in the year 2015.

I missed reading this

Billyonaire:
I respect your candid opinion that Tinubu is corrupt, but I want to say that Tinubu is more than corrupt, he is a thief. The chief reason that Tinubu is NOT arrested this moment, and the other times has been because he actively uses arrowheads of opposition to surround himself as a politician, so that any move made against him will be misconstrued as a politically motivated witch-hunting by his army of mouth-smelling followers, so the best thing is to educated the masses, that the man called Tinubu is the 'thiever' of their destinies, so when the cloak of politics is totally removed from him, then justice can take its course,either judicially or through cosmic retribution. Either by man or by the Gods.

I advise you today GeneralBosco, your talented is needed in truth-telling divide. FFK saw the truth, and migrated. Barcanista saw the truth and migrated. Cramjones saw the truth and changed Moniker. What are you waiting for ....son ?

There's no light in PDP, no truth also. Without sentiments who would you prefer? Tinubu or BOde George??

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OREMUSSANCTUS:
Where a d pigs dat won't allow us to rest for one minute wifout shouting change change change. Dey ve all gone to space, smelloz

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[size=15pt]PROPAGANDA FROM SAHARA REPORTERS!!

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francizy:
That is the OVERRATED CHANGE they are giving the masses!

Kudos APC, you've done well on papers too!

It's from Sahara Reporters...Propagandaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!

jpphilips:
Which pipeline was vandalized recently that we don't know about? people are saying they don't have money again to import products and you are talking nonsense!, how can you expect me to spend 450m on a product that 320m used to buy because you devalued the naira?

I continue telling Nigerians, by the time Jonathan is done with their ars@, they will regret Jonathan 2019.
It is clear that the nation needs to start afresh but we must punish the culprits at the polls, the government's austerity measures is suffocating and the masses think its cool!!

How can you have kids studying abroad and you want to vote Jonathan, are you insane? what devalued the naira? shortage of FOREX
where does our FOREX come from? Sale of Oil, under Jonathan 400,000bbls of this oil is stolen daily worth $46,000,000 when oil was $115.
Jonathan had the temerity to award a security pipeline contract of $1.3b to Tompolo who is part of the theft, can you imagine the wickedness of this man?
Tompolo got his $1.3b in 2011, yet millitary got theirs in 2014 after boko has killed over 13,000 Nigerians? Is jonathan not wicked? are you guys ok! how can you vote poverty on your counscience? Let the Abuja big boys vote him, let us see how many votes he will get, yet the poor people who will soon become armed robbers and prost!tutes are shouting Sai Jonathan!! shame on your souls!!

Other oil producing countries saved at the time reason they are not complaining much, Russia saved $480b, their only achilles heel is their EU sanction.

Norway saved $780b, they are not complaining, Saudi Arabia saved $920b, depleted to $760b they are not complaining, Nigeria decided to deplete the ECA and Foreign reserve, that is the genesis of this mess and we say SAI Jonathan?

You are an importer getting dollars at 225 naira and you say jonathan 2019? you are a m0r0n.
By the end of 2015 if Jonathan continues, most of the students here will drop out because your parents will lose their jobs, I am firing three next month and a lot of people are doing the same, you guys have no idea what is going to happen by this year end.

let me give you the history, oil price down, devalued naira, shortage of fuel, removal of all subsidies including HIV drugs, do you guys know where austerity measures end? food shortages.

We must punish PDP at the polls, why are you scared of Buhari, are you a thief? the indisciplined and the thieves don't want buhari, while you a nobody is singing their praise, what are you scared of?
Anytime you fall in love with Jonathan ask yourself? what do you have to lose?

We are already down with Jonathan, we cannot fear any worse.

God bless this bros.

Billyonaire:
Are you sure you live in Lagos ? Do not pretend to be stupid, you are not stupid, you are an intelligent young man that knows the truth but chooses to dance to your sentiments and inclinations. You know that Thief Tinubu owns Alpha Beta and uses it as conduit for corrupt enrichment at our expense. Say the truth and shame the devil on pampers, the witch with the brooms, and the lier odour pills.

Tinubu is corrupt no doubt...Tinubu might be the spearhead of APC but 98% of Nigerians supporting APC are not doing so because of Jagaban.
The basis of this thread is requesting why documentaries should be created on a " supposed thief " with evidences linking that person to corruption when that person is intact a free man. That's in turn indicting the present government.

Billyonaire:
This is not about you my dear friend, I am a Lagosian and I pay tolls daily to Tinubu's Alpha Beta. It is a personal issue to me, because it is theft. Tinubu is shamed using AIT. This thief wants to gain access to Aso Rock and Oil wells, using Osinbajo (Tinubu's surrogate), who actually is a Director in Alpha Beta (According to CAC documents) as conduit. God will not let them.

Not once in that documentary was evidence (even a paper) shown in that video that Tinubu owns Alphabeta.
Your claims are based on "according to CAC documents". You'll do well to provide proofs for your assertions since PDP couldn't show even a paper in their video.

Billyonaire:
Stop insulting. We are shaming s thief using mass media. It is first step, so tomorrow when he passes on the road, the masses will know that Tinubu has been the thief that took away their future.

Don't derail please. When did documentaries become a punishment for corruption??

Billyonaire:
A thief is a thief. Condemn the act of stealing. Do not defend a thief.

Condemn the act by prosecuting the thief instead of creating documentaries. Imagine a situation where documentaries are made on all thieves

PDP no get sense bros

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izuch:
What's your point? I don't see any sense in what you posted.

You don't see any sense because you have no sense in your head. Why should a government be creating documentaries on a man claiming to have evidences of him being corrupt when that man is walking free. Does that make any sense??

In sane countries, when evidences are present condemning a Politician for corruption, that politician is prosecuted and sent to jail if found guilty. In Nigeria, led by the useless PDP led government, the punishment for corruption as shown in the Tinubu case is for a documentary to be made on you. What level of cluelessness is that??

ahaika23:
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Slave of the southwest greatest thief ever!

Slave of the PDP government

temitemi1:
I don cover my nose oooo

Hope say you don charge your battery Robot Mugabe

Very dull empty cretin. #fail

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mikeansy:
It is unfortunate that a serious institution like the NASS is now moving motions and adopting positions based on rumours

Does the House have a memo, bill or any communication in any form whatsoever that Jega is about to be removed or that an Interim Government is being planned?

The President has said that he has no plans to remove Jega and the President has also said that it is a treasonable offence to talk about Interim Government.

So why is the house adopting a motion based on rumours?

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GEJ might be dull and clueless but the people around him are giving him devilish ideas. Btw are you more informed than them to claim they're only acting on rumors??