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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by efonat(m): 11:49pm On Mar 04, 2015
The new guy could be a potential player. Just pray for God's direction. Decisions like this, u don't treat it like a point and kill. Be guided

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by GeneralBosco: 11:50pm On Mar 04, 2015
Beverlyjean:
Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.

It goes like this; I have a bf that I have been dating for a year now and he is a very wonderful Person, he is my first love and I really love him so much because he gives me a different kind of feeling that I have never felt before , but my dilemma is that I met another guy a month after I accepted to date my bf , we were normal friends for the first one month though I never told him I had a bf until he surprisingly made his intentions known to me . This other guy has been an angel in my life and we started hanging out frequently due to my bf not being around because he traveled out of the country , this other guy has been the most loving and caring guy that I have ever met, he is always there for me and showers me with so much care love and time . He then introduced me to my introduced me to his family ( his mum and dad inclusive) and they loved me at an instant and started welcoming me and calling me their daughter . Now this other guy is 30 while I turned 21 in December and my guy is 23 . This other guy has a great job and ready to settle but his not rushing me saying that he will wait till I am ready . The problem is that I don't have the type of love he wants me to have for him , the thing is that I love my bf so much and I am not ready to let him go . My bf missed my graduation , my birthday and Val's because he had some pressing issues though he sent me my gifts through mail but the other guy was there for me , came for my grad at gwagwalada, took me to a lovely restaurant on my bday and surprised me with a lovely gift and also spent time with me on Val's day and it was so lovely. My bf is around but I see him only 3 times a month and I don't complain but this other guy sees me like 4 times a week .

I have been in a romantic relationship with the new guy although we have done something's apart from direct sex because I am a virgin . This other guy has sacrificed a lot for me but I wanna let him go because he really want me to leave my bf and stay permanently with him , but I love my bf so much and my feeling for him is not strong . He said the reason why I don't love him is because my heart is somewhere else and the moment I leave my bf , I will start loving him as long as I concentrate solely with him.

He also said that even if I leave him and my bf should later find out what I did with him , that my bf will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him ( the other guy)

I care a lot about the other guy and I have feelings for him but I love my bf a lot , even though he loves me more that my bf does.

The other guy also said my bf is still young and might disappoint me in the future . I believe my bf will not because I can guarantee that he is not cheating on me and will not .

The following are the questions that keep on giving me sleepless nights :

1. Will my bf dump me if he eventually finds out bout what I did with the other guy.
2 . Will my bf or me fall out of love as we grow due to the age
3. Am I sure that he is not cheating on me or later leave me for someone else
4. Should I loose my virginity to him to prove my love
5. Will I find another lovin guy like the other guy later in life if my guy leaves me
6 . Will I leave to regret leaving the other guy
7 . Should I follow my heart or head because my heart says my bf but my head says the other guy
8. Will I fall inlove with the other guy if I stop seeing my bf?

Please help me with very mature answers because this will play a vital role in my life in the future .

Ladies that have experienced this come forth and guys that understand the way guys reason should help out pleaseeeee , because am still a novice when it comes to relationship issues. Thank you
You're a hoe..an inexperienced one. angry

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by jameschibuike(m): 11:52pm On Mar 04, 2015
Follow ur heart and use you head in loving

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by tajay12(m): 11:52pm On Mar 04, 2015
Beverlyjean:
Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.

It goes like this; I have a bf that I have been dating for a year now and he is a very wonderful Person, he is my first love and I really love him so much because he gives me a different kind of feeling that I have never felt before , but my dilemma is that I met another guy a month after I accepted to date my bf , we were normal friends for the first one month though I never told him I had a bf until he surprisingly made his intentions known to me . This other guy has been an angel in my life and we started hanging out frequently due to my bf not being around because he traveled out of the country , this other guy has been the most loving and caring guy that I have ever met, he is always there for me and showers me with so much care love and time . He then introduced me to my introduced me to his family ( his mum and dad inclusive) and they loved me at an instant and started welcoming me and calling me their daughter . Now this other guy is 30 while I turned 21 in December and my guy is 23 . This other guy has a great job and ready to settle but his not rushing me saying that he will wait till I am ready . The problem is that I don't have the type of love he wants me to have for him , the thing is that I love my bf so much and I am not ready to let him go . My bf missed my graduation , my birthday and Val's because he had some pressing issues though he sent me my gifts through mail but the other guy was there for me , came for my grad at gwagwalada, took me to a lovely restaurant on my bday and surprised me with a lovely gift and also spent time with me on Val's day and it was so lovely. My bf is around but I see him only 3 times a month and I don't complain but this other guy sees me like 4 times a week .

I have been in a romantic relationship with the new guy although we have done something's apart from direct sex because I am a virgin . This other guy has sacrificed a lot for me but I wanna let him go because he really want me to leave my bf and stay permanently with him , but I love my bf so much and my feeling for him is not strong . He said the reason why I don't love him is because my heart is somewhere else and the moment I leave my bf , I will start loving him as long as I concentrate solely with him.

He also said that even if I leave him and my bf should later find out what I did with him , that my bf will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him ( the other guy)

I care a lot about the other guy and I have feelings for him but I love my bf a lot , even though he loves me more that my bf does.

The other guy also said my bf is still young and might disappoint me in the future . I believe my bf will not because I can guarantee that he is not cheating on me and will not .

The following are the questions that keep on giving me sleepless nights :

1. Will my bf dump me if he eventually finds out bout what I did with the other guy.
2 . Will my bf or me fall out of love as we grow due to the age
3. Am I sure that he is not cheating on me or later leave me for someone else
4. Should I loose my virginity to him to prove my love
5. Will I find another lovin guy like the other guy later in life if my guy leaves me
6 . Will I leave to regret leaving the other guy
7 . Should I follow my heart or head because my heart says my bf but my head says the other guy
8. Will I fall inlove with the other guy if I stop seeing my bf?

Please help me with very mature answers because this will play a vital role in my life in the future .

Ladies that have experienced this come forth and guys that understand the way guys reason should help out pleaseeeee , because am still a novice when it comes to relationship issues. Thank you
you know what?..follow jesus and leave dis bf thing.he will show you the right thing to do

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by naijaboiy: 11:53pm On Mar 04, 2015
GeneralBosco:

There are so many hoes in this country.
lol she's not a Hoe.

She's just confused. smiley

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by centjamie(m): 11:53pm On Mar 04, 2015
The older guy is who i think you need.

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by dapsy4u2(m): 11:53pm On Mar 04, 2015
Beverlyjean:
Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.

It goes like this; I have a bf that I have been dating for a year now and he is a very wonderful Person, he is my first love and I really love him so much because he gives me a different kind of feeling that I have never felt before , but my dilemma is that I met another guy a month after I accepted to date my bf , we were normal friends for the first one month though I never told him I had a bf until he surprisingly made his intentions known to me . This other guy has been an angel in my life and we started hanging out frequently due to my bf not being around because he traveled out of the country , this other guy has been the most loving and caring guy that I have ever met, he is always there for me and showers me with so much care love and time . He then introduced me to my introduced me to his family ( his mum and dad inclusive) and they loved me at an instant and started welcoming me and calling me their daughter . Now this other guy is 30 while I turned 21 in December and my guy is 23 . This other guy has a great job and ready to settle but his not rushing me saying that he will wait till I am ready . The problem is that I don't have the type of love he wants me to have for him , the thing is that I love my bf so much and I am not ready to let him go . My bf missed my graduation , my birthday and Val's because he had some pressing issues though he sent me my gifts through mail but the other guy was there for me , came for my grad at gwagwalada, took me to a lovely restaurant on my bday and surprised me with a lovely gift and also spent time with me on Val's day and it was so lovely. My bf is around but I see him only 3 times a month and I don't complain but this other guy sees me like 4 times a week .

I have been in a romantic relationship with the new guy although we have done something's apart from direct sex because I am a virgin . This other guy has sacrificed a lot for me but I wanna let him go because he really want me to leave my bf and stay permanently with him , but I love my bf so much and my feeling for him is not strong . He said the reason why I don't love him is because my heart is somewhere else and the moment I leave my bf , I will start loving him as long as I concentrate solely with him.

He also said that even if I leave him and my bf should later find out what I did with him , that my bf will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him ( the other guy)

I care a lot about the other guy and I have feelings for him but I love my bf a lot , even though he loves me more that my bf does.

The other guy also said my bf is still young and might disappoint me in the future . I believe my bf will not because I can guarantee that he is not cheating on me and will not .

The following are the questions that keep on giving me sleepless nights :

1. Will my bf dump me if he eventually finds out bout what I did with the other guy.
2 . Will my bf or me fall out of love as we grow due to the age
3. Am I sure that he is not cheating on me or later leave me for someone else
4. Should I loose my virginity to him to prove my love
5. Will I find another lovin guy like the other guy later in life if my guy leaves me
6 . Will I leave to regret leaving the other guy
7 . Should I follow my heart or head because my heart says my bf but my head says the other guy
8. Will I fall inlove with the other guy if I stop seeing my bf?

Please help me with very mature answers because this will play a vital role in my life in the future .

Ladies that have experienced this come forth and guys that understand the way guys reason should help out pleaseeeee , because am still a novice when it comes to relationship issues. Thank you

If you dare go for the 2nd guy..... You'll regret it big time cos he's the available and not the suitable. He's just using the opportunity of your boyfriend not being around to mess with your heart. As soon as he get's what he wants from you - sexz, then it's all over.

Secondly, I think you never truly loved the 1st guy, cos if you did, you'll never give this new guy a chance not to even talk of having a romantic relationship with him.

I think I have said enough!

Cheers...

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by redcliff: 11:54pm On Mar 04, 2015
Nigerian girls.. confusing themselves and every other element within their proximity since before the time of creation. Thats why i like oyibo gehs.. theyl clear you about their relationship status before you say your second sentence when introducing yourself..

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by onebullet: 11:55pm On Mar 04, 2015
My dear is so obvious u re gullible to attention but my candid advice to u is stop cheating on ur bf and build a relationship with him... The other guy is a distraction, he is not gonna only waste ur time but also it will impede on ur integrity/deginity as a woman. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by aorta(m): 11:55pm On Mar 04, 2015
aphildam:
they say follow ur heart, but take ur brain along... what if your heart deceives u?
what if the knowledge in your brain is erroneous ? what if the ectasy men make you see are deceitful? what if the pleasure u seek are found in mars only on a blue moon? what if all they told u and u gulped deepthroatedly were lies concocted in the dark shallow abyss of mortals heart?

Let God be true but every man a liar--romans 3:4

He revealeth the deep and secret things: he knoweth what is in the darkness, and the light dwelleth with him.--dan 2:22

in him was life and d life was d light of men

ve u consulted the holy spirit and are you in jesus. He will tell u, if those decisions were right in the first place.

THE LORD BLESS AND HELP YOU SISTER TO MAKE A RIGHTFUL DECISION VOID OF ALL HUMAN ERRORs & VOID OF EVIL MANIFESTATIONS.
sys.exit();
wetin concern olosho wit mother marry
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by redcliff: 11:55pm On Mar 04, 2015
tajay12:
you know what?..follow jesus and leave dis bf thing.he will show you the right thing to do

Best advice ever

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by jameschibuike(m): 11:55pm On Mar 04, 2015
Why call hear names, she only seek for a solution

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 11:56pm On Mar 04, 2015
Beverlyjean:
Good day nairalanders , am new on this forum and I actually registered here so that I can get a credible and mature solution to my lingering emotional and relationship problem.

It goes like this; I have a bf that I have been dating for a year now and he is a very wonderful Person, he is my first love and I really love him so much because he gives me a different kind of feeling that I have never felt before , but my dilemma is that I met another guy a month after I accepted to date my bf , we were normal friends for the first one month though I never told him I had a bf until he surprisingly made his intentions known to me . This other guy has been an angel in my life and we started hanging out frequently due to my bf not being around because he traveled out of the country , this other guy has been the most loving and caring guy that I have ever met, he is always there for me and showers me with so much care love and time . He then introduced me to my introduced me to his family ( his mum and dad inclusive) and they loved me at an instant and started welcoming me and calling me their daughter . Now this other guy is 30 while I turned 21 in December and my guy is 23 . This other guy has a great job and ready to settle but his not rushing me saying that he will wait till I am ready . The problem is that I don't have the type of love he wants me to have for him , the thing is that I love my bf so much and I am not ready to let him go . My bf missed my graduation , my birthday and Val's because he had some pressing issues though he sent me my gifts through mail but the other guy was there for me , came for my grad at gwagwalada, took me to a lovely restaurant on my bday and surprised me with a lovely gift and also spent time with me on Val's day and it was so lovely. My bf is around but I see him only 3 times a month and I don't complain but this other guy sees me like 4 times a week .

I have been in a romantic relationship with the new guy although we have done something's apart from direct sex because I am a virgin . This other guy has sacrificed a lot for me but I wanna let him go because he really want me to leave my bf and stay permanently with him , but I love my bf so much and my feeling for him is not strong . He said the reason why I don't love him is because my heart is somewhere else and the moment I leave my bf , I will start loving him as long as I concentrate solely with him.

He also said that even if I leave him and my bf should later find out what I did with him , that my bf will dump me , if not now but later and I will loose the opportunity of everlasting happiness with him ( the other guy)

I care a lot about the other guy and I have feelings for him but I love my bf a lot , even though he loves me more that my bf does.

The other guy also said my bf is still young and might disappoint me in the future . I believe my bf will not because I can guarantee that he is not cheating on me and will not .

The following are the questions that keep on giving me sleepless nights :

1. Will my bf dump me if he eventually finds out bout what I did with the other guy.
2 . Will my bf or me fall out of love as we grow due to the age
3. Am I sure that he is not cheating on me or later leave me for someone else
4. Should I loose my virginity to him to prove my love
5. Will I find another lovin guy like the other guy later in life if my guy leaves me
6 . Will I leave to regret leaving the other guy
7 . Should I follow my heart or head because my heart says my bf but my head says the other guy
8. Will I fall inlove with the other guy if I stop seeing my bf?

Please help me with very mature answers because this will play a vital role in my life in the future .

Ladies that have experienced this come forth and guys that understand the way guys reason should help out pleaseeeee , because am still a novice when it comes to relationship issues. Thank you

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Eluwilussit(m): 11:56pm On Mar 04, 2015
naijaboiy:
angryangry
if you think you Love two people at once,,choose the second. undecided

Because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have a second option
angry

Confused set of species undecided

Naijaboiy you too much.

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by nallypaul(m): 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2015
Hello dear by this u won't get the answer u seeck. I would to share a similar story with and the out come but it won't be here. Whstspp me 08035307959. The other is best option for one reason and he may be doom for you if your not sure of the reason. I await your msg. Paul I studied gardian and counciling in ABSU
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by wizboi26(m): 11:58pm On Mar 04, 2015
dear I really undastand what u are passing through. My presnt babe passed through same. U can check out my signature for when I posted something like dat. She had a guy before I asked her out. She agreed to date me. She claimed to love the guy,but I felt dat if she truelly loves the guy why will she agree to date me. But presently we are now happily together into a serious relationship dat we will soon tie the nuts. We aint having any third party any longer. So my point is dat if u truelly love the ur bf u wount even give in to this guy. And this guy in question didn't have any reason for not bein around u when u needed in most. But ur bf has reasons, this is to tell u dat the the second guy will always be there for u, but ur guy will always find a reason for not being around with the believe dat u will undastand. U know this second guy more dan u know ur bf. Distance relationship to me is a childs play. Use ur head dearie

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by baralatie(m): 11:59pm On Mar 04, 2015
free2ryhme:




The epistle of a confused virgin
she is definitely not a virgin!

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 04, 2015
amacastel:
The other is right ur bf is still young go for d older guy that loves u more cos he is more matured and ready to seytyle down . Follow ur head
I was smoking my precious tobacco when i saw this quote # very annoying
what are u trying to point out here.....

Are u saying age has a vital role in a relationship that concerns the matter of the heart, then u need to smoke with me...

My dear older or younger love is no respecter of any age.. if the younger one which is her boyfriend loves her and she loves him in return ... then the older which is the other guy should let them be after all there are over 1million girls in the country in fact that's an understatement ""there are 1 million girls in his area"" ... he should go and look for one that is not having a relationship and show all his love and whatever care rather than come in disguise to destroy the building of twos built on the foundation of true love from her story.

The best thing you should do is FOLLOW YOUR HEART LIKE IT IS ON TWITTER


CAN I CONTINUE SMOKING MY TOBBACCo

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by LewisO: 11:59pm On Mar 04, 2015
naijaboiy:
angryangry
if you think you Love two people at once,,choose the second. undecided

Because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have a second option
angry

Confused set of species undecided

Intellect matters with good sense and vision on how to handle matters, guy are very right! cool If i can "Like" more than ones, i did rather give u "10 Likes"

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Judie7654(f): 11:59pm On Mar 04, 2015
Nope...long distance relationships are difficult and not an utter waste of time...I'm in one now and I'm willing to make every sacrifice required... People mostly want easy...if you found the woman who ticks all your boxes in your list,would you dump her just because of a few years?...my opinion though... You don't have to buy it.
ZedX6:
First of all, end the relationship with the guy abroad. . . It's pointless. It won't work. Long distance relationships are an utter waste of time.

Now.

1. Yes he will dump you, therefore, you're screwed both ways anyway. It wasn't going to work. Dump him yourself and let him move on.

2. Yes. As long as that distance exists between you 2, one of you must eventually get tired of the nonsense.

3. You cannot be sure of anything. You cannot trust him. You don't even trust yourself. You are dating someone else already, and you still ask this question? Are you for real?

4. No. Don't ever do that. Having sex with him proves nothing. If he loves you as he claims, he'll wait.

5. Life is not a fairytale. It doesn't happen like you watch in movies or read in books. You are guaranteed nothing. No one makes a choice for you. You can only get advice, but the decision is yours. The consequences, you'll bear alone. I don't know if you'll find another guy or not. I'm not God. What I know, I have told you. Left for you to choose.

6. Again, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. Your mind has shifted from the guy abroad for so many reasons. Forget him and move on. Then bear the consequences of your decisions. At 21, you're an adult.

7. Use your head. The heart is mostly wrong.

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:00am On Mar 05, 2015
when will nairalanders learn 2 abreviate their writeup,as someone is payin me 2 read it all.....*angrily* follow d one wey u c
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by mercielizzie(f): 12:00am On Mar 05, 2015
Doxie69:

From your post Op is an Olosho in the making
hian! U r wicked joor

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by smartn09(m): 12:00am On Mar 05, 2015
Take this prayer if you care to: look for two bright corn, give each a name of your boy friend and pray that God should direct you to select your rightful husband thru the corn and sow the two seeds in the garden and water it with intent. The first to germinate remains your husband. Call for more prayer point.
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by jameschibuike(m): 12:01am On Mar 05, 2015
They have started, who told you she not following Jesus, wont she get married? she is 21 oo
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by redcliff: 12:02am On Mar 05, 2015
Elan83:
U're just lookin 4 an xcuz 2 deflower urslf, ur bf is d ryt psn 2 protct u & mek ur virgnty last longer, cnt u see hw he 's gvn u less atention & romance,not because he dnt luv u but because he dnt wnt u 2 spoil nw,dis is an unconscious natural action dat is very gud 4u,dis 2nd guy wil disvirgn u,mess u up wella & dump u at last, BTW i dnt tnk u're due 4 mrrg,,so stick wt ur bf & lock ur ass 4 nw, u spoiled brat!

Lmao . Haba
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by naijaboiy: 12:02am On Mar 05, 2015
Eluwilussit:


Naijaboiy you too much.
cool
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Mendo007(m): 12:02am On Mar 05, 2015
women have never know what they truely want since 300BC
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Sunymoore(m): 12:02am On Mar 05, 2015
Hmm... Holy hell... While NASA are busy exploring the space, somewhere in Nigeria a confused fellow is asking some useless questions.
If you really 'love' your boytard, why will you give the other guy a chance?

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by babs01(m): 12:03am On Mar 05, 2015
ZedX6:
First of all, end the relationship with the guy abroad. . . It's pointless. It won't work. Long distance relationships are an utter waste of time.

Now.

1. Yes he will dump you, therefore, you're screwed both ways anyway. It wasn't going to work. Dump him yourself and let him move on.

2. Yes. As long as that distance exists between you 2, one of you must eventually get tired of the nonsense.

3. You cannot be sure of anything. You cannot trust him. You don't even trust yourself. You are dating someone else already, and you still ask this question? Are you for real?

4. No. Don't ever do that. Having sex with him proves nothing. If he loves you as he claims, he'll wait.

5. Life is not a fairytale. It doesn't happen like you watch in movies or read in books. You are guaranteed nothing. No one makes a choice for you. You can only get advice, but the decision is yours. The consequences, you'll bear alone. I don't know if you'll find another guy or not. I'm not God. What I know, I have told you. Left for you to choose.

6. Again, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. Your mind has shifted from the guy abroad for so many reasons. Forget him and move on. Then bear the consequences of your decisions. At 21, you're an adult.

7. Use your head. The heart is mostly wrong.
lubishit
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by freecocoa(f): 12:03am On Mar 05, 2015
ZedX6:
First of all, end the relationship with the guy abroad. . . It's pointless. It won't work. Long distance relationships are an utter waste of time.

Now.

1. Yes he will dump you, therefore, you're screwed both ways anyway. It wasn't going to work. Dump him yourself and let him move on.

2. Yes. As long as that distance exists between you 2, one of you must eventually get tired of the nonsense.

3. You cannot be sure of anything. You cannot trust him. You don't even trust yourself. You are dating someone else already, and you still ask this question? Are you for real?

4. No. Don't ever do that. Having sex with him proves nothing. If he loves you as he claims, he'll wait.

5. Life is not a fairytale. It doesn't happen like you watch in movies or read in books. You are guaranteed nothing. No one makes a choice for you. You can only get advice, but the decision is yours. The consequences, you'll bear alone. I don't know if you'll find another guy or not. I'm not God. What I know, I have told you. Left for you to choose.

6. Again, no one knows what will happen tomorrow. Your mind has shifted from the guy abroad for so many reasons. Forget him and move on. Then bear the consequences of your decisions. At 21, you're an adult.

7. Use your head. The heart is mostly wrong.
*hugs*

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:03am On Mar 05, 2015
naijaboiy:
angryangry
if you think you Love two people at once,,choose the second. undecided

Because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have a second option
angry

Confused set of species undecided

You're so on point...quote of the day kiss

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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by GeneralBosco: 12:04am On Mar 05, 2015
naijaboiy:

lol she's not a Hoe.

She's just confused. smiley
She's not confused bro. I feel any girl who starts playing "away matches" is a hoe..you mustn't have sex with another guy before you're called a hoe. There's no two ways about this.

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