Cusomer care! Mmmmnnn!!  Not bad at all!   It could have been worse!  Try plumber, drycleaner, houseboy, gardener, yeye boy, nuisance etc.  

pinky lady:

na wah.
ive come across some threads of guys complaining of their girl friends not calling them
and here is some one complaining of 2 much callss.
wetin guys com want make we girls do noa

Na wa o!  

frank3.16:

@poster,
I feel u. no b small thing oooo
the bad news is that she does not know that mony is burning talking rubbish in the name of love.
women and their wahala. do they actally think that mtn/glo/zain/etisalat charge them for flashing? they feel that one is enuf for their so called love.
ny way she, watin man go do now after all we asked for it indirectly

That is the price of love!   Since you guys like to be in charge of the relationship!

It is possible!

No, I cannot die for anyone and I do not expect anyone to die for me.

Feelitx:

Even ugly husbands or boyfriends must have some beautiful aspects.

True talk! There must be traits/attributes that sparked the first attraction, I will not leave him for a hunk I will stick to what I have!

;d ;d ;d

I will not like to wear an engagement ring for more than 1 year. But it depends of finances. An engagement should lead to marriage and marriage costs money, so sometimes money determines the duration! I think a financial plan between the couple should be in place beofre getting engaged.

Ben20001:

I smell poverty here.

lol    

@ topic
I have to agree that some girls tend to overdo it!  But the fact is that the guy should be able to take the girl to a restaurant he can affford and tell the girl when she has ordered too much.  Guys try to be honest about your finances and stop posing.  If you are not rich enough do not attempt to date an ajebutter! Shoe get size! After una go dey complain for NL.

Can one really make a choice?  I want a bit of both, not too ugly and not too poor!  But if I must choose, I will go for looks!

Kx:

How many of the single men end up marrying them?
Playing instincts knows no nound,married or single.

At least when dating a single person, one has the person to himself/herself while the relationship lasts!   Also your mind is at rest that you are not stealing what belongs to another.

Fhemmmy:

Do married man really love the babes, or they just love how they can take them to cloud 9?

I believe the married men just use the babes. How many of them eventually marry the ladies? True love is rare (if this ever occurs) in this kind of relationship.

As all have said you are too young for all this marriage stuff! Get to meet the guy in person and please cross your legs, DO NOT ALLOW THE GUY IN!!!
I am certain that is what all this introductiion and meeting your parents is about.

Na so na! The way to a man's heart is through his stomach,
Eat and love her, chikena!

I can't be a full time housewife!  I have seen what some widows/divorcees in Naija pass through.  The woman becomes the sole breadwinner, it is not fun starting a career or business when one is advanced in age and without a partner to support you.  One does not pray for evil things to happen but we must be prepared for it when it come.

Money does answereth all things! It pays the bills and keep the kids happy! These days in Nigeria the wife has to support the husband to meet up and of course she has to have something doing incase things go wrong.