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Romance / Re: What Is Wrong Hugging Your Ex-girl Friend In Front Of Your Girl. by Gentlelady(f): 5:20pm On Jun 19, 2009
Is there any reason why she should not trust you?  Have you in any way done or said anything to make her jealous of your ex? Getting angry over a hug is silly, except she has reasons not to trust you with your ex.
Romance / Re: ~~ Miss Independent ~~ by Gentlelady(f): 5:02pm On Jun 19, 2009
steve49ja:

You know any?

If you do not know any, you must be moving with the wrong crowd!

Romance / Re: ~~ Miss Independent ~~ by Gentlelady(f): 4:45pm On Jun 19, 2009
Of course, girls like this exist!  They may be very humble but you have to earn their respect!
Romance / Re: I Luv My Sisters, No Bi Small O! by Gentlelady(f): 1:56pm On Jun 19, 2009
shocked shocked shocked shocked
Romance / Re: She Luv Me But She Can't Let Her X-boy Friend Go. by Gentlelady(f): 12:44pm On Jun 19, 2009
Pls find your own girl! This one belongs to another, Don't waste your time.
Romance / Re: She Is Pregnant by Gentlelady(f): 1:57pm On Jun 18, 2009
The thing wey dey sweet dey bitter too!   grin grin    Accept your responsibility and act like a man that you are!

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Family / Re: 40 Reasons Why You Should Marry A Nigerian Man As a Nigerian woman. by Gentlelady(f): 1:47pm On Jun 18, 2009
Very nice! For me its Naija man for life, no compromise!
Family / Re: Why Do Girls Date Married Men by Gentlelady(f): 1:38pm On Jun 18, 2009
Please do not misunderstand me.  Not all married guys give good sex and not all guys who give good sex are married. undecided  A guy that is good in bed will not lose his sexual prowess cos he got married and a guy who is not good will not become a grade A just because he got married.  , well,  except he got married to an experienced lady who is willing to teach him and if he is willing to learn.

I have also met girls who believe they are in love with a guy who is married!  Sickening!
Family / Re: Why Do Girls Date Married Men by Gentlelady(f): 1:27pm On Jun 18, 2009
Fhemmmy:

I am sure it is not that the man is married that made the sex to be really good, it is all cos the man is just good on his own.
It is an individual thing and has nothing to do with being married, else, no woman will have to go and look for a better acting man.

The fact still remains that she is dating a married man because of good sex!
Romance / Re: Who Have Ever Seen This Kind Of Thing?,please Advise! by Gentlelady(f): 12:31pm On Jun 18, 2009
~Sissy~:

next time try sleeping naked and see whether that mysterious "person or thing" will cloth you. grin
lol grin
Romance / Re: My Sister Is In Confussion Help! by Gentlelady(f): 12:21pm On Jun 18, 2009
luxoire:

hahaha

ermmm - she should follow her heart - that way if it doesnt go well - she has no one else to blame but herself - stop putting herself under unneccessary pressure

  Yeah!  If she is old enough to  marry then she should be old enough to make her own choices and live with them! 
I do have a feeling that the 2nd guy is more comfortable than the 1st one and this has caused her indecision.  Just thinking aloud!
Career / Re: Earning N25,000 Per Month, Unable To Save In It. (tHrOw In Ur ViEw) by Gentlelady(f): 11:59am On Jun 18, 2009
It is advisable for one to save at least 10% of toal income.  It is prudent. 
1.   She should plan her expenditure with 90%
2.   Look out for a better paying job
3.   Invest in her career through further education, courses, trainings, books etc
4.   Cut out unnecessary expenses like unimportant phone calls, impulsive buying of unneeded items
5.   She can also find out if she can hitch a ride to work and back
6.   Also augment her income via trading of items like clothes, jewelleries etc.
7.   Most importantly she should let her family know her income to prevent them placing high demands on her

I am really against giving out money to boyfriends except it is a well defined relationship.   Item 3 is really important for self development if she wants to earn something higher or move to a higher position.
Family / Re: Why Do Girls Date Married Men by Gentlelady(f): 10:38am On Jun 18, 2009
Fhemmmy:

What kinda good sex can a married man give you when you have to share the longo?

Sharing the longa does not make the sex bad.  I know a lady that was dating a guy who left her and married someone else, till date she still has sex with him and her reason is that the guy is good in bed.  Different strokes for different folks.  We are stating reasons why girls date married men.
Romance / Re: Am Scared To Fall In Love by Gentlelady(f): 4:13pm On Jun 17, 2009
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed Just passing by and minding my biz!
Family / Re: How Can A Woman Understand Her Husband After Wedding? by Gentlelady(f): 3:40pm On Jun 17, 2009
spikedcylinder:

Lets give the OP benefit of doubt na. Maybe he's asking about arranged marriages. grin

Oho!  Now I get the message.  If this is so, she has a lot of work to do and prayers too! grin
Family / Re: Why Do Girls Date Married Men by Gentlelady(f): 3:34pm On Jun 17, 2009
For different reasons including love, good sex, availability, financial reasons, revenge etc.

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Family / Re: Marriage By Introduction by Gentlelady(f): 3:31pm On Jun 17, 2009
If you want to marry her you must ask her first! Or do you want your good friend who introduced you to do the needful!

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