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It is time to let go when:-

1. There is no more joy in the relationship
2. Both partners no longer have same dreams and aspirations
3. There is no trust or mutual respect
4. It becomes obvious that your partner is no longer interested in the r/s

It is time to let go:-
When there is no longer joy in the relationship or

francosexy:
Women like you don't come around every day. Read ur post and got me wondering what it would be like to have a woman like you. I am a gentleman, comfortable and very goodlooking. We have something in common. I'm the type of guy who gives all when in love but quite unfortunately haven't been lucky with women. Just came back to the country and wants to settle down very soon.I'm really serious about this.
Please reply me @ francis_nwaeze@yahoo.com, would really love to get to meet you.

Caution is the word! I see shattered hearts in my crystal ball!

posakosa:
She's probably embarassed and feels that she won't be able to scream that loudly.

lol

You have to plan to do it when your brother is not at home.  I do not blame your wife, it must be embarassing if she makes noise while at it and your brother hears.

izeek:
well is it not a gud thing that our girls are getting proposals!
shows that guys are serious and are settling down fast.
my advice to you,
go find one small one wey u go train so that when she is old enuf, she wud proudly tell the other guys she is engaged too.

lol

@ poster
I am with somebody already too! It is a tough world.

I could!

sweetpie23:
then don't touch her

Abi??

Honestly, it depends on what the money is for. I will only do it to save a life but will not do it for any other reason.

Please get one for her. Maybe you are not readily available when she needs you or just wants to experiment.

Ask the babe now?  I weak for dis guy o!

boobsy:
I want to say thanks for all the advices, i really appreciate it. I already checked my HIV status and it's negative. Though, i've taken series of treatment to get better. It's over 2 years since the relationship ended and i haven't been with another man. I believe two years ought to have been enough to get over it.

I cannot believe you wasted two good years of your life because of a worthless man like your ex bf!     Please forget the loser and move on.  I know there are lot of bad guys out there but there are still some good ones to pick. In your next relationship do not be so  desperate ^{(for lack of a better word).}.      All the best!

It not a big issue. But it is polite to call first or let your host know before you arrive, so you do not rudely distrupt their personal plans.

You really do need help!  Too many angles to your story; bad guy, abortion, masturbation and  now attraction to women!   You need to take time to relax, get over the bad experience and re-evaluate your needs.  Do not rush into anything yet! All the best!  
Get closer to God!

@some of the replies

Bad Naija guys!       Not romantic at all!  I fear una!

[quote author=,amebo no1 link=topic=309066.msg4344852#msg4344852 date=1250165669]@topic
seriously i call women like you ' suffocating wives'[/quote]lol!
'Suffocating wives' also sniff their husband's clothes, check his pockets for receipt and things, check shirts for lipstick stains etc.

TheSeeker:
Where are those few women who are entrepreneurial and have great business ideas? What happened to them? Must every woman dig men's pockets and bank accounts?

Most women make their own money. We just to ensure that we are not tying ourselves down to a guy who is not ready to pull his end of the rope. That is the reason most ladies go for rich guys or guys with prospects. No one wants to be pulled down. Even you have to admit that there are some people (ladies and guys) who do not have much ambition.

She is not too young if she is ready for it. As the much older partner you have to let her know the pros and cons of marrying early. My only advise to you is that you should encourage her and ensure she gets good education/develop her self to be financially indepedent.

He can write love notes if he is literate!

You have a 'STABLE AND SMOOTH' relationship of about 2 years  Then concentrate on that and your studies.  Forget about this old gf and her virginity or lack of it. 

To me trust[b] is not [/b] having access to check one's partner inside out every moment of the day.  Trust[b] is [/b] having confidence in/believing that something/someone is good, honest, sincere and will not try to harm or deceive you and that you can rely on the person. 
If trust exists in a relationship there is no need to have access to all email addresses and text messages.
You just enjoy the relationship and believe that what ever happens your partner will not want to willingly harm or deceive you. 

Please let us remember that 'sh*t' happens though!   

;d

You dated him for over a year and he went with you to your family reunion willingly. His initial attraction could not have for your family wealth. He may really love you and want to marry you, but asking your uncles to help send him abroad is not a wise thing to do! Tell him you cannot ask your uncles to do that. His reaction will confirm his true reasons.

You are making the mistake so many of us make in relationships; taking your partner for granted because he/she cares so much and is willing to make so much sacrifice.
If you really love her as you claim, you have to start making sacrfices to please her as well. So you do not lose her to someone else. You can give up your comfort/hours of rest to visit. All the best.

Girls just need security! A nice guy will good prospects is fine too!

Reward for honesty and integrity!

platinumnk:
he should be looking at her not the camera
oh well. . . i wish them happy marriage

Abeg, allow bros look at the camera. So that they will recognise him at the US embassy when he goes for his papers o!