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Richy4:
I am not a relationship expert OP but I want to know;
<<how was the relationship before it went south?
<< When did you start noticing some changes or is there an event that triggered the changes?

My marriage was peaceful and built on solid love. Just late last year did I started seeing something different.
There's no cause for that.

Goodlady:
A stupid man that ll still die of HBP. Shey metre dey there that's he's checking or reading. This is how some men lose good women cos of their craziness. Infact he should be investigated for fetishism.

You brain has been infected again. Receive barbing to get healings

Some of these commenters are young boys being fed by their parents so you don't need to slide to their level by throwing tantrum with them.

Prettygirl200:
U are not worth arguing with.

There are peeps you should not even waste your time arguing with.

U just like your blunt honesty.

Are you Yoruba?

Eriokanmi:
Guy, please don't listen to all those small buys using their mum's phone.to.type trash. If you believe God. Pray and fast over this. God is lacking in many homes today which is why they divorce anyhow. No marriage without crisis bro. I was once there amd I overcome it. I almost lost my beautiful home I built for over a decade.

Fast and okay for 2 days and see changes. Don't over react. She'd Co.e back to her senses. Good luck

Thank you for these words of encouragement.

I will fast and see how it goes.

OlawaleBammie:
Reason she's holding u ransom...

As a man, even if u re weak or desperate never show it to Ur wife, always act like u dont care so much, act like psychos.. believe me Ur marriage will always go well, just don't maltreat or beat Ur woman, treat her right and give her what u re capable of...then add small small weyreyism to the equation and see how Ur marriage will be balanced.

Thank you so much.

I will try this once my marriage gets on track.

IAMBOSS1990:
Sit her down and talk to her. Get trusted friends to do same too. Pray too.

Although I sat her down and talked to her but seems to yield no fruit.

I'm going on the second idea. Thank you.

silvoclaira:
Female here....

Anyway enjoy these along with your breakfast okay

Is this supposed to be a mockery?

Russia is falling already

silvoclaira:


It's such an terrible emotional experience







A good Marriage counseling will helptremendously.



Best of Luck in recovering your wife/love back

Thank you sir

Moh247:
Check people's comment history before engaging them... This one is a Nairaland lunatic nuisance

Try starve him of attention and continue your thread

I just registered this account few weeks ago and someone is equating me with another account. Is this how this forum works? Are there no admins to take charge? Please who is that Obama abi Messi?

amnesty7:
A terrible fiction.

It is better to remain silent than to say what's not true.

fman:
U r a fooolish SIMP just like moh247

I don't understand the reason behind this misguided comment.

My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Just like that?

That's great.