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Nonesense, she was not wven giving it to her aged parents but an 8 yr old. Crazy world indeed!

wht does d company produce, and where does human power comes in, so we can knw the hazards involved. I hav a lot of able men and women looking for job daily here in my cafe.

PDP loosing in south west does not mean GEJ will loose. Some of those that voted Iyabo Obasanjo and Bankole out will vote Jonathan on non-party ground. I am an ACN fan but I will rather vote GEJ as my PRESIDENT because I knw he is the most viable candidate for now. Dont just doubt it. GEJ will win the presidency.

how authentic is this news pls?

take d money, vote ur conscience.

Whts the nature of ur business.

My qtn is, where is d guarantee dt after increasing the tariff the service will improve as well. We are ready to pay if there is certainty of value for money.

@ekt bear, i dnt think u live in Nigeria, or probably you work with the new PHCN management or you've been hired to promote this attempt to extortion. Please try and be realistic. I am one person that cant run business without power, I burn N2,000 fuel daily and office and N600 daily at home, yet I pay "fixed charges" of N5,000 at office and N3,000 at home, yet i hardly have power supply at office and home. in my office they bring the light by my closing time and switch it off by my opening time; 9pm to 8am their reason is that some Igbo boys dealing with R&A uses the light to test powerful engines which eventually spoils the fuse, but I run a cyber cafe and bar, why should i suffer and still pay?

why cant our people wake up and fight the right course? How many times has these PHCN increased tariff what have they got to show for it? If they are really serious, let them provide constant power supply first them we will see reason for increase tariff, but putting the increment before better service is another way to make us pay even higher for services not rendered. NIGERIANS WAKE UP, STOP BEING FOOLED AND EXTORTED!

these days no lady wants to date a guy dts not comfortable
and levels also matters.

Get and immigration lawyer to educate u

Dt reminds me of d beautiful song dedicated to the President's acceptance speech: Bobo to good oooo, o tun ni luck ooo, jona jona, , jona jona, , lol! Why e no go support Jonathan now, person wey giv am food. Even me wey Jonathan no giv anything i dey support am die! Abeg they are only making Dbanj more popular with the necessity of the sss and police escort, anyway e deserve am, nobi Nigerian ambassador 4 music? E bi lyk say d boy fame no go get limit o, Mr endowed remix with the Mighty Snoopy Dogg and now with the Presido of obodo 9ja for d next 8yrs. Up jona jona, up Dbanj too endowed!

ZIM DRILL:
you might be pushing it for real let it flow without bringing the love thing

you are pushing to hear what you want to hear,

let her settle down while you are there for her remember she was in relationship and they broke up 3 months ago

Yes youre making a point, but at the same time, he should be careful to study her and see if she really wants him or need a companion while she looks for another man. At times a lady will like a guy but not for marriage/love, such instances she will always leave you when she finds some1 she loves and come looking for you whenever she is heart-broken cos she finds solace in you, yet she wont want  you for marriage.

I had a girl like that, we started when we were in secondary school, weve been very good companion but she will never admit  she loves me, neither wld she allow intimacy. I have watched her date several guys and got dumped and she kept coming back to me to tell me wht ensued between her and her last boyfriend. She will start visiting me more frequently and whenever she finds another man, she may just jist me about him and b4 u knw it, she has disappeared again. these has been going on since 1982 and until 2009 i kept welcoming her, but just as a friend nothing more.

yes o!

chaircover:
@Gfhotee, They are both at fault. They are both stubborn people and that is why you (and probably other people) have to keep on getting involved in minor issues with this couple.

Also do you know that during conflict, if the “offended party” does not handle things well, he/she may easily become the “offender?”

You see, even if your friend had a point initially, if he doesn’t handle things maturely, the focus of the matter will shift. Do you know that on the odd occasion, it is not every grievance that you have with your spouse that will end up with an apology and some things you will just have to agree to disagree on and move on in your relationship.

In this case, he would have earned a lot more points in my book if he hadn’t chosen to retaliate by not answering his wife’s call when she was ill, but by actually going to her side. That will make her feel guilty and to help her to understand how he must have felt at the time etc and therefore be able to make amends. The best teacher is by example.

Anyway since he has extracted his pound of flesh, why still the family meetings and grievances? You see what I mean about the offended becoming the offender?

Good talk, I quite agree with you. He shouldnt have retaliated thats what I tld him. But I guess he knows that the wife was lieing when she said she cant breath, according to him, dts her normal gimmick. she was actually not getting comfortable with the husbands change in attitude due to the issue on ground, so she wanted to attract his attention, lol! Would you blieve that she faked fainting? She fell down and the kids were trying to pull her up. The hubby was in the bathroom and when the kids called him, he said call grandma (the wife's mum) cos I have to get to work on time. Immediately the son pick the phone the woman got up, cos she wont like her mum getting worried about her health cos she lives far away and might just jump into the next available bus  , funny but true, I guess these 2 just need to understand each other, they want so much from each other but dont know how to go about it. The wife is very much attached to the mother and the husband is feeling like a second feedle. They both need to sit down and knw how to live with the lapses of the other. There's a deep love between them which has degenerated due to 3rd party involvement in their marriage.  I HOPE I WONT HAVE TO SETTLE DIFFERENCIES BTW THEM ANYMORE. THOUGH THATS WHT THEY PROMISED.

jennykadry:
@Op
I can see you are trying so hard to blame the lady alone aren't you?

Anyways after reading between the lines of your last post I have to say I don't believe your last post and I am beginning to doubt the story

Its unfortunate you think like that, what do I have to gain coming here to lye or taking side. I am very close to this family, I have been the one that has always intervene in their issues because they rely so much on me. I was at their house till 12noon yesterday trying to put a final resolution to the problem as the husband has decided to abandon the woman for her mother. The woman admitted all these that you call lies and her brothers where there and no one spared her the truth. Even her mum said if she has told her she was going with her husband she wouldn't have mind. I posted here not expecting everyone to have a good sense of judgement, but just trying to see the various approach pple will take to it and as well to make others learn about the little problems that occurs in a relationship. I think you need to search the bible if you are a christian and read what the bible says about husband, wife and family members. To me the woman is wrong in everyway, the man was only showing a sense of trust and love to the woman, he was only seeking more of her attention knowing quite well that he was loosing her focus. She actually called her mum that she will be attending a party and she should not bother to come weather you believe it or not. She is aware of this thread because I printed it for her to read, so I can as well give you her number to ask her the details. Everything was resolved yesterday and they are both happy to get it over them. What I see is that the woman doesnt see anything wrong in her actions. Now let me tell you another lie, on Monday she called her husband that she was sick and cant breath well, the husband was at work and he told her to call the mother not him. Now the woman felt angered and when the man came back from work, she accused him of nonchallant attitude and disregard for her health. The man told her, that's exactly how I felt when you told me you cant excuse your mum to accompany me to work. CONTRIBUTING TO A THREAD DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE ALWAYS RIGHT MIND YOU.

Just got a call from the husband that the wife seek permission from him to attend a thanksgiving/promotion party of the man's elder sister office colleague last sunday. He granted her but asked if the mother wont be visiting since she visits every sunday and the wife said she has already informed the mother she wont be at home. Now the man is feeling like if she could excuse the mum to attend the party, why cant she do that for him as well when he needed her.

infidelity

I prefer much much older maybe 50 and above. Hope I didnt scare any1, well am close to dt age myself.

Is the result out? If no, does anyone knows when it will be released?

interesting,

From my own view I dont really think the man has a fault here, as long as he is not faking the illness. If the wife sees her mum every sunday, there's no reason why she can't excuse herself for a sunday to attend to her husband's desire/need especially having to do with his life. In my opinion, I will say the woman does not have feelings of care for the husband for whatever reason.

this post needs rephrasing, dnt u think so?

If you're not a politician dn't try stealing billions o, if a common man shld steal that much in Nigeria, he will go to life imprisonment. THE LAW IS FOR POLITICIANS ONLY.

Now for the woman to have allowed him to go alone, could it mean that the woman believes that the man is faking his sickness. Could the man be actually faking his sickness?

@chaircover, you noted a very good point by saying the man feels well enough to go to work. Now I asked the same qtn, but the response is that the family isnt doing fine business wise, only the man is working as the woman has no job for now, he makes just enough to feed them the next day, so ignoring work means no food tomorrow.

I seek NL opinion on this incidence.

A man drove the family to church, fell sick on the way, sort of heart pull, which has been his usual ailment, though havent came up for years, he managed to drive to the church, kids came down and went into the church. The wife said sorry pls take some medicines and rest when you get home, she came down as well from the car, the husband asked, where can I get the medicine which they both knew well, cos he has been using it for treating the ailment, the wife described where he will get it, the man asked is the place accessible with car? The woman said No! You will have to walk in. She started moving to the church. The man called, pls come, I cant walk much, then the woman asked, should I follow you then, means I wont make the church anymore, the man said pls do follow me.

They went bought the drug and went home, the man ate took his medicine and rested. After a while he felt better, and has to go to work. He now pleaded with the wife to accompany him to work, since he is not feeling fine and he would be alone in office. The woman said, today is sunday, my mum visits every sunday after church. And she suggested that the son follows him to office. The man insisted that he prefers her, she said, "pls be considerate, my mum will be visiting, thats the only time she has to see the kids, she may not like it if she didnt meet me.

The man went to shower got ready for work and told the wife to call her mum and tell her she will be going with her husband to office, meanwhile the kids will be at home. The frowned and said, , "see I dnt really like the way you do things, why not go, so I will come and meet you after my mum came. The man said really, whts wrong if you call her? O.k, never mind I will go to work alone. She said ok, i will be with you soon. The man replied No need, dont bother to come anymore. The woman started pleading, dnt be annoyed, pls u need to understand, let me come please. The man insisted "No" and went to work.

QUESTION IS, , SHOULD THIS MAN FEEL HE IS BEEN UNDER-RATED BY HIS WIFE TO HER MOTHER?
DOES THIS MEAN THE WOMAN PREFER HER MOTHER TO HER HUSBAND?
The man said, but I wan

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